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By *ames_Boldmere OP   Man
over a year ago

Boldmere

I’ve been chatting with a guy who has a huge cock (9 inches plus and thick) who says he enjoys going balls deep. He really wants an anal virgin to fuck which is me but I’m concerned it may be a bit too much to start with. Thoughts?

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By *quekywheelMan
over a year ago

zooport

Ouch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every man to their own obviously but after a painful experience involving an ex and a dildo, I find anal a turn off.

All I’m saying is, think carefully that it’s right for you.

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Is he experienced at anal? If not I would stay clear unless both of you were regular and very comfortable with each other.

As for the virgin thing. I get the fascination. I love finding a guy who has never experienced receiving anal, and showing him how good it can feel. I love the shocked look on their face when they enjoy it...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If he is experienced and you trust him to take it slow, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let him take a run up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't sound sure. This place can be fun but males can be full on with the pressure. I only do anal with someone I know and trust. It's more enjoyable under those circumstances. Good luck

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By *ames_Boldmere OP   Man
over a year ago

Boldmere

he is very experienced and says he has met a few anal virgins but he does seem to take a lot of pride in going balls deep. His verifications all state that he is very large and will go for hours. I really love the idea of being fucked by him though

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Don't let him go in dry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he is experienced and you trust him to take it slow, why not? "

I’m experienced and I do start of slow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a good oppertunitu I reckon .. take it like a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every man to their own obviously but after a painful experience involving an ex and a dildo, I find anal a turn off.

All I’m saying is, think carefully that it’s right for you. "
am the same an ex hurt me so bad I would never let anyone go near my bum again.

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield


"Every man to their own obviously but after a painful experience involving an ex and a dildo, I find anal a turn off.

All I’m saying is, think carefully that it’s right for you. am the same an ex hurt me so bad I would never let anyone go near my bum again. "

He Damage you in some way? Or was it just very sore?

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By *imits2pushMan
over a year ago

lichfield

Well that’s not going to happen without injury and said anal virgin getting scared off anal.

Around 8” in your hit the second sphincter are you move the the sigmoid colon, that’s a very sensitive and extremely intense spot, that’s he plans to burst straight through.

It takes a lot of time and training to be able to pass the sigmoid without injury or pain.

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By *imits2pushMan
over a year ago

lichfield


"he is very experienced and says he has met a few anal virgins but he does seem to take a lot of pride in going balls deep. His verifications all state that he is very large and will go for hours. I really love the idea of being fucked by him though"

There’s experienced as in he has stuck his dick in a lot of arseholes.

And there’s experienced in that he actually understands how the arse works and how to do it properly.

In my time ive meet very few guys that can genuinely claim the second, even when they think they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the thing every one reads porn stories about the Mistress or the guy just bending over the sub or normal guy and fucking him hard fast and no lube.

It can really hurt and do damage. I spent weeks getting used to getting things up my bum. And one day I wasn't relaxing and enjoying the play and the lady just fucked me anyway I ended up bleeding and a tear up my ass.

And the stories you read that they can fuck you all night is all right if you start of small and lube not just spit

And then if it really hurts you stop. And make sure there's no damages. Yes am being scary but as long as you know that there's Risks it can hurt and it's up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been chatting with a guy who has a huge cock (9 inches plus.....

Wait until he wakes up first then chat about it again X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every man to their own obviously but after a painful experience involving an ex and a dildo, I find anal a turn off.

All I’m saying is, think carefully that it’s right for you. am the same an ex hurt me so bad I would never let anyone go near my bum again.

He Damage you in some way? Or was it just very sore?"
she damage me so bad I needed to see a doctor to get cream and pain killers and help to sort out the tear. The main problem was her nails she pushed her fingers right up and didn't stop when she saw blood and pushed the toy up my ass

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By *ames_Boldmere OP   Man
over a year ago

Boldmere

Ok, Based on everything said so far i think I’ll say I need someone smaller for my first then go back to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every man to their own obviously but after a painful experience involving an ex and a dildo, I find anal a turn off.

All I’m saying is, think carefully that it’s right for you. am the same an ex hurt me so bad I would never let anyone go near my bum again.

He Damage you in some way? Or was it just very sore? she damage me so bad I needed to see a doctor to get cream and pain killers and help to sort out the tear. The main problem was her nails she pushed her fingers right up and didn't stop when she saw blood and pushed the toy up my ass"

Eeekkkk enough to put anyone off I think!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP if you've never played anally before in any way then I urge you to be very careful and take it slow and work up to any play with something that size - while anal can be very pleasurable it can also be very painful and leave lasting damage if not done carefully.

Start off by using fingers and toys and lots and lots and lots and lots of lube just to get used to the different sensations - build up to it with this guy - if he's the right sort, he'll understand, if he tries to push things or wants to just go for it, he's not

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

Be very careful, having been a lover of anal for many years it can hurt if not done carefully. The thought of being taken by a big cock gets me excited but if your prospective partner not only has a big cock but is one then it will not be a pleasant experience. All that said you need to discuss it and take it steady with plenty of play in the lead up.

Hope it goes well xx

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

I think I’d start smaller met a guy once and he tried to fuck me he was just too thick and it wasn’t going in. I’m still a virgin in the ass department but would be willing to try again if it was right.

As I always say can’t say you don’t like it until you’ve tried it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Ok, Based on everything said so far i think I’ll say I need someone smaller for my first then go back to him"

You could practise at home with various size butt plugs

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