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ENM Solo poly Dom


Man in Lichfield, West Midlands, UK
Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 57 minutes ago

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Looking For

Not looking for single guys. Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Women aged 18 to 40 only. Won't meet smokers.

Meeting

Can accommodate. Can travel.

Me

41 years old
Straight

5'10"  178cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings

Interests

Threesomes, Toys, Voyeurism, Watersports, Webcams, Taking Photos, Swingers Clubs, Spanking, Soft Swing, SM, Separate Room Swapping, Same Room Swapping, Safe Sex, Role Play, Rimming, Oral, Making Videos, Group Sex, Gangbangs, DP, Dogging, Cybersex, Cuckolding, Blindfolds, Anal, Adult Parties
IG TheFilthEngineer

Ethically poly for as long as I’ve been dating, though I didn’t realise it until discovering the BDSM scene in 2010.

Since then, I’ve embraced a balance of fun, self-discovery, and relationships. I’m all about leaving people better off for having known me, whether that’s good vibes, fun times, or just making life a little brighter. If we have good chemistry, I hope we can have a positive impact on each other’s lives.

As a dom, my play style sometimes surprises people. While I can be strict and sadistic when the dynamic calls for it, it’s always with humour & a smile.

My golden rule?

“BDSM is for fun, if it’s not fun, don’t do it.”

Life is about balance: I love a strong D/s connection but am not looking for a 24/7 dynamic. Day-to-day, I’m laid-back and happy to follow someone else’s lead, though I won’t be controlled. Natural dominance is about mutual choice and trust, dominant not domineering.

I also have my own dungeon (-:

Outside the scene, I’m an engineering consultant, ambitious, & passionate about building my business, cooking adventurous meals, hosting social dinners to BBQs (maybe the odd adult party), and geeking out over martial arts (semi-pro turned casual enthusiast). Life is an adventure, I’m here to share it with people who value independence, positivity, and fun.

Currently exploring solo poly life and open to friendships, both platonic and otherwise, with singles or couples who share similar vibes. Let’s keep it simple, positive and healthy.