FabSwingers.com: TheFilthEngineer (43) , Man in Leek, West Midlands, UK

• IG/FL: TheFilthEngineer

• Events: Riot | KV | TG | Townhouse

• 2025 plans: Club Love | KK | Euro trips (suggestions?)

• Looking for event buddies — London, Bristol, MCR (or elsewhere?)

• New house, new bar, new playroom ?? — parties?

Vanilla me:

Neurospicy but mask (too) well — I love the people I don’t have to.

Very demi and sapio — I need chemistry for there to be passion.

I’m a design engineer and unashamedly geeky.

I build, fix, and create — but it’s way more fun when we’re making something together.

??? What would you like to create?

Big fan of skill-swaps. I love learning new things and sharing what I know.

?? What could you teach me?

I flirt best by making ?? &??. Fancy swapping some recipes?

Adrenaline junkie at heart.

?? Used to compete in karate & semi-pro MMA… now I mostly just say, “I should really start training again.”

Big fan of strong, independent partners who know what they want.

Kinky me:

Golden rule: “BDSM is supposed to be fun — if it’s not fun, don’t do it.”

That’s how we keep it enthusiastic, informed, and ??.

Discovered the scene in 2009.

Dom with a laid-back style — strict when the dynamic calls for it, always with humour and a cheeky smile.

Happy with experienced kinksters or curious explorers, I just ask that you know what you’re looking for.

Poly life:

ENM before I even had the words for it.

Currently solo poly — open to good energy, authentic vibes, and memorable adventures.

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