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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." At least. | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." I agree it becomes a dangerous game | |||
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"The only thing they would lose would be their teeth once fella found out. " What if they were 3 times the size of your fella. Then your fella would lose his teeth,?????? Don’t take me serious, just joking. Truly a despicable act, I agree | |||
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"The only thing they would lose would be their teeth once fella found out. What if they were 3 times the size of your fella. Then your fella would lose his teeth,?????? Don’t take me serious, just joking. Truly a despicable act, I agree" Fella fights professionally and as it pays the mortgage rather well, he’s quite good at it. | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." this | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault. I agree it becomes a dangerous game " It would in all probability be the R word | |||
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex " Nope, and I reckon that I'd notice if they pulled the condom off my knob! | |||
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"The only thing they would lose would be their teeth once fella found out. What if they were 3 times the size of your fella. Then your fella would lose his teeth,?????? Don’t take me serious, just joking. Truly a despicable act, I agree Fella fights professionally and as it pays the mortgage rather well, he’s quite good at it. " Yeah but you wouldn't enjoy visiting him in jail which is what happens when you throw your fists around. Don't throw your man in the ring, it's not very respectful. Mines never lost a fight in 53 years but I don't use him as a weapon | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." And to think in California - it is no longer a crime to knowingly give someone HIV or not tell them before you have sex because of "Muh discrimination" and "stigma" | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." This | |||
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"Ive had it when a man at a club tried to fuck 1 lady then went to try n fuck me and said no way as uve just used that condom and he couldnt see the problem!" "I'M alright, Jack!" | |||
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex " Sadly I've met many guys who have done this and torn the condom on purpose. It's appalling behaviour but these men feel they are entitled to do what they like Stealthing is sexual assult removing or damaging a condom on purpose depending where in the world has different consequences, could be charged with r@pe, or sexual assult. Hopefully UK laws will become tougher. Emotional and physical damage these guys cause just so they can get their dick wet In the UK agreeing to sex with a condom is called conditional consent. You break the conditions you have had sex without consent and thus forth breaking the law. | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." | |||
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex Sadly I've met many guys who have done this and torn the condom on purpose. It's appalling behaviour but these men feel they are entitled to do what they like Stealthing is sexual assult removing or damaging a condom on purpose depending where in the world has different consequences, could be charged with r@pe, or sexual assult. Hopefully UK laws will become tougher. Emotional and physical damage these guys cause just so they can get their dick wet In the UK agreeing to sex with a condom is called conditional consent. You break the conditions you have had sex without consent and thus forth breaking the law. " there are some very disturbing online communities defending this kind of behaviour from a male entitlement standpoint... | |||
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"Just a quick copy and paste from Wikipedia... Non-consensual condom removal, or "stealthing", is the practice of a man covertly removing or damaging a condom during sexual intercourse, when his sex partner has only consented to condom-protected sex.[1][2]Such behaviour may be regarded as sexual assault or r*pe and is a form of reproductive coercion.[3] In UK law, consent to a specific sex act, but not to any sex act without exceptions, is known as conditional consent.[16][17] In 2018, a man was found guilty of sexual assault in Germany's first conviction for stealthing.[18] In 2017, a Swiss court in Lausanne convicted a man for rape for removing a condom during sex against the expectations of the woman he was having sex with,[19][20] but in another case in 2019, the cantonal supreme court of Zürichdisagreed. The cantonal supreme court held that such conduct was not illegal, albeit with regret.[21] A 2014 Supreme Court of Canadaruling upheld a sexual assault conviction of a man who poked holes in his condom. " As I say, the situation in the country isn't clear, but I think it likely that if a case got to court and it it could be proven that a condom was deliberately removed without consent then it would be classed as ra pe. However, there would be huge difficulties proving the deliberate aspect. | |||
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex " what is wrong with you!!! | |||
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk " They was asking a question not saying they had done it, maybe re read? | |||
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"I have had it done once, it is called stealthing, I then said I had chlamydia (to be clear I did not) so he had to tell his wife Shouldnt be a dick" That's a dick move on his part (and anyone who does it...) great revenge though | |||
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk They was asking a question not saying they had done it, maybe re read?" You can’t take chances | |||
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk They was asking a question not saying they had done it, maybe re read? You can’t take chances" Read the whole thread , he clearly says he doesn’t agree with it ! | |||
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk " Yhe only risk here is people like you who do you think you are to assume anything | |||
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk " Who are you no pics no verifications and reporting people for what you guess they might have done i think i shall report you | |||
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk They was asking a question not saying they had done it, maybe re read? You can’t take chances" Username checks out | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." | |||
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"Ive had it when a man at a club tried to fuck 1 lady then went to try n fuck me and said no way as uve just used that condom and he couldnt see the problem!" That's disgusting.... | |||
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk They was asking a question not saying they had done it, maybe re read? You can’t take chances" What? | |||
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex what is wrong with you!!!" I think he was just asking the question. Doesn't necessarily mean he's into it. | |||
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk " Reported you for being an idiot | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." 100% This | |||
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"48 hour ban for defending myself on this thread really i didn't realise i can accuse someone of doing something disgusting to another person but not allowed to stick up for yourself " Well you could of reported that particular post to have it removed... A timeout for two days ain't a big deal, surely you've got a life lol | |||
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex " yes once in a club many many years ago. First time I gave him the benefit of the doubt that it had slipped off. Then I caught him removing it ... so I turned around.. took a good handful of his balls... and dragged him through the club.. down the stairs to the security. | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." | |||
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"48 hour ban for defending myself on this thread really i didn't realise i can accuse someone of doing something disgusting to another person but not allowed to stick up for yourself Well you could of reported that particular post to have it removed... A timeout for two days ain't a big deal, surely you've got a life lol" It's the feeling of being reprimanded for sticking up for yourself but now i know i can accuse and report for what i might suspect changes the game | |||
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk " And this folks goes some way to explaining why it takes so long for reports to be acted on. Can you imagine having to wade through rubbish like this every morning? | |||
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" reported OP as he could be potentially dangerous and pose risk And this folks goes some way to explaining why it takes so long for reports to be acted on. Can you imagine having to wade through rubbish like this every morning?" I agree it's rubbish but when you get accused you have to defend yourself I will let it go and be a big boy lol | |||
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"It's a disgusting thing to do, and sadly on the rise. If you haven't consented to sex without a condom, and someone removes it without telling you, it's sexual assault." As it involves penetration, I think it would class as r a pe. I am at a loss to understand why someone would do such a dumb and shitty thing. Q | |||
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"Just a quick copy and paste from Wikipedia... Non-consensual condom removal, or "stealthing", is the practice of a man covertly removing or damaging a condom during sexual intercourse, when his sex partner has only consented to condom-protected sex.[1][2]Such behaviour may be regarded as sexual assault or r*pe and is a form of reproductive coercion.[3] In UK law, consent to a specific sex act, but not to any sex act without exceptions, is known as conditional consent.[16][17] In 2018, a man was found guilty of sexual assault in Germany's first conviction for stealthing.[18] In 2017, a Swiss court in Lausanne convicted a man for rape for removing a condom during sex against the expectations of the woman he was having sex with,[19][20] but in another case in 2019, the cantonal supreme court of Zürichdisagreed. The cantonal supreme court held that such conduct was not illegal, albeit with regret.[21] A 2014 Supreme Court of Canadaruling upheld a sexual assault conviction of a man who poked holes in his condom. As I say, the situation in the country isn't clear, but I think it likely that if a case got to court and it it could be proven that a condom was deliberately removed without consent then it would be classed as ra pe. However, there would be huge difficulties proving the deliberate aspect. " Sadly the proportion of non stealth prosecutions in the UK is fisgustingly low, meaning that actual convictions represent just a tiny number of the likely real crimes. Whether a stealthing r@,p ever proceeded, due to it being less certain to gain a conviction, is worringly uncertain. Punishments need to be likely to potentially be a deterrent | |||
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"Just a quick copy and paste from Wikipedia... Non-consensual condom removal, or "stealthing", is the practice of a man covertly removing or damaging a condom during sexual intercourse, when his sex partner has only consented to condom-protected sex.[1][2]Such behaviour may be regarded as sexual assault or r*pe and is a form of reproductive coercion.[3] In UK law, consent to a specific sex act, but not to any sex act without exceptions, is known as conditional consent.[16][17] In 2018, a man was found guilty of sexual assault in Germany's first conviction for stealthing.[18] In 2017, a Swiss court in Lausanne convicted a man for rape for removing a condom during sex against the expectations of the woman he was having sex with,[19][20] but in another case in 2019, the cantonal supreme court of Zürichdisagreed. The cantonal supreme court held that such conduct was not illegal, albeit with regret.[21] A 2014 Supreme Court of Canadaruling upheld a sexual assault conviction of a man who poked holes in his condom. " How on earth could it be proved in a court of law though | |||
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex " Yep, seems to be on the increase. Similarly, our profile says we're into safe sex. Their profile says the same. Then, at literally the last minute, they say 'presumanly bareback...?' This is happening quite a bit. | |||
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"But what about using a condom but cuming over my pussy? I like that. P" certainly couldn't be classed as safer sex... | |||
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"Have you ever had anyone try and lose the condom while have sex Yep, seems to be on the increase. Similarly, our profile says we're into safe sex. Their profile says the same. Then, at literally the last minute, they say 'presumanly bareback...?' This is happening quite a bit. " we would stop a meet at exactly that point and leave or ask them to... | |||
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"Just a quick copy and paste from Wikipedia... Non-consensual condom removal, or "stealthing", is the practice of a man covertly removing or damaging a condom during sexual intercourse, when his sex partner has only consented to condom-protected sex.[1][2]Such behaviour may be regarded as sexual assault or r*pe and is a form of reproductive coercion.[3] In UK law, consent to a specific sex act, but not to any sex act without exceptions, is known as conditional consent.[16][17] In 2018, a man was found guilty of sexual assault in Germany's first conviction for stealthing.[18] In 2017, a Swiss court in Lausanne convicted a man for rape for removing a condom during sex against the expectations of the woman he was having sex with,[19][20] but in another case in 2019, the cantonal supreme court of Zürichdisagreed. The cantonal supreme court held that such conduct was not illegal, albeit with regret.[21] A 2014 Supreme Court of Canadaruling upheld a sexual assault conviction of a man who poked holes in his condom. How on earth could it be proved in a court of law though " And therein lies the problem with acquiring conviction for many sexual offences. How do you prove someone did not consent if the sexual activity was at least consensual to start with? It's presumably very difficult and that is very unfortunate. | |||
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"A guy tried it with me at a sauna a few years ago. He got a messy ending, but not the kind he expected." Fair play to you a telling off is nothing compared to a life sentence they could give you | |||
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