FabSwingers.com forum: Bondage

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever done bondage sex (chains,whips,etc.)? If not, would you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I have

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

Yes, both binding/whipping/flogging and have also been tied. I much prefer to bind than be bound though as I thoroughly love edging/tease and denial.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Oh yes!

Not extreme though!

Jo.Xx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Yes

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes but only the mild stuff, nothing extreme.

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By *rumpet and ScouseCouple
over a year ago

Chorley

Crumpet here and yes, I love to be tied and flogged, I do have a habit of ending up in the dungeon at cupids lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yepp, frequently.

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By *juk72Man
over a year ago

Reading

Yep :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

When I first got my boat I got myself all tied up in the ropes and fucked myself

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Yes. From light bondage, to very heavy bondage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, both binding/whipping/flogging and have also been tied. I much prefer to bind than be bound though as I thoroughly love edging/tease and denial. "

So your a giver?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done way more tying than I've been tied. Both are great fun...

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Blindfolds andd handcuffs. But just the once. Always wanted more, but the right mutual mood/moment never came up.

So vanilla I'm almost retching at the mundanity! Defo need educating more on these, and more. Not that I'm lacking lots of ideas though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there, done it, moved on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh yes!

Not extreme though!

Jo.Xx "

Just light then?

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

"Yes, both binding/whipping/flogging and have also been tied. I much prefer to bind than be bound though as I thoroughly love edging/tease and denial.

So your a giver?"

Yes 99.9% of the time. It is a matter of trust and so I normally only play with the bondage element after meeting previously or with the husband present.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Oh yes!

Not extreme though!

Jo.Xx

Just light then?"

Not exactly, more firm and disciplined.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Love a few restraints and implements

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We aren't really into it but sure enough we have a bondage meet at the end of this month! We don't know what to expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blindfold....

Restraints....

Gaffa Tape....

Close van doors quietly

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

"Blindfold....

Restraints....

Gaffa Tape....

Close van doors quietly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the occasional blow out. Often simply dependant on partner.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No and its not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Light stuff.. Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes love it

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Relatively light stuff. Quite partial to the sound of a belt now as well :D

As much as I like the idea of being the receiver, it turns out I like to be the one in control.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I've been on the receiving end of some erotic biting

thoroughly enjoyed it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We aren't really into it but sure enough we have a bondage meet at the end of this month! We don't know what to expect."

if I was you I'd find out what to expect before you meet. Seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Crumpet here and yes, I love to be tied and flogged, I do have a habit of ending up in the dungeon at cupids lol "

Bad girl

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"We aren't really into it but sure enough we have a bondage meet at the end of this month! We don't know what to expect.

if I was you I'd find out what to expect before you meet. Seriously."

We know them from multiple socials. The stated purpose of the evening is to tie and tease the ladies...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We aren't really into it but sure enough we have a bondage meet at the end of this month! We don't know what to expect.

if I was you I'd find out what to expect before you meet. Seriously.

We know them from multiple socials. The stated purpose of the evening is to tie and tease the ladies... "

so you do know sort of what to expect. Good.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Yes, I used to be heavily into D/s at one point. Being tied was infinitely preferable to tying someone else.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Blindfold....

Restraints....

Gaffa Tape....

Close van doors quietly

Does this handkerchief smell like chloroform to you?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yes, I love being tied up, I also enjoy fighting for control, it's hot

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Have you ever done bondage sex (chains,whips,etc.)? If not, would you?

No, neither of as have and we see no appeal in it either. If anybody can help us understand why they like it we'd be interested to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It's been fun

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Have you ever done bondage sex (chains,whips,etc.)? If not, would you?

No, neither of as have and we see no appeal in it either. If anybody can help us understand why they like it we'd be interested to know. "

I love the feeling of being overpowered and at someone's mercy, it's just a huge turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yup

When I first got my boat I got myself all tied up in the ropes and fucked myself

Good man. You done what others can't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it."

Just to find someone

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Always find me in the dungeon at parties.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No and its not for me"

All of it?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Lou is more than happy to take her punishment for being exceptionally naughty

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"We aren't really into it but sure enough we have a bondage meet at the end of this month! We don't know what to expect.

if I was you I'd find out what to expect before you meet. Seriously.

We know them from multiple socials. The stated purpose of the evening is to tie and tease the ladies... "

Sounds like my kind of night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We aren't really into it but sure enough we have a bondage meet at the end of this month! We don't know what to expect.

if I was you I'd find out what to expect before you meet. Seriously."

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm yes, I love it

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"Blindfold....

Restraints....

Gaffa Tape....

Close van doors quietly

Slamming the van doors really rattles in the mind and can quicken the pulse. It's awesome

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes we are sub/dom couple

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Yes please!

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

I love the sensual to firm side but the Mrs not so keen so always great to meet a couple that mirror this

or occasionally a single lady.

Whips, paddles, wax and ice. Glass and metal all combined with silk and feathers.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Bondage is an absolute passion of mine, just love the feeling of being restrained and restricted. I've got some rope bondage pics on my profile and I've even been inside a latex vac bed, that was quite scary until I worked out I was still OK to breathe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub myself. Have done a couple of femdom sessions with a pro. Didn't want to risk myself with a wanna be domme and get damaged

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

Oh yes, love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone like demand me and see me what he want on kik or Skype ? Feel free to pm me

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I've been on the receiving end of some milder stuff previously, hopefully I'll get back into it this year because I love it with someone I trust.

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By *mileysimieMan
over a year ago

tewkesbury

Only light bondage

Would love to try, anybody need a sub straight man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting to be tied up and used.

I'm getting sick of doing the knots!

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Love it...from mild sessions to extreme ones. I used to always be the one getting "punished"/restrained but have switched a couple of times in recent sessions and enjoyed it WAY more than i thought i would. The trick/secret, call it what you will, is to find someone you trust implicitly....then you can let yourself go and it's makes it all so much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever done bondage sex (chains,whips,etc.)? If not, would you?

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no havent but definitely on my to do list

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes, but only with hubby.

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Had the Ms restrained to a cross as I spanked her last night in Jaydees.

We've dabbled a little in private with restraints paddles etc.

With the right dynamic between two people it's a lot of fun!

Mr x

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I love the sensual to firm side but the Mrs not so keen so always great to meet a couple that mirror this

or occasionally a single lady.

Whips, paddles, wax and ice. Glass and metal all combined with silk and feathers."

We experimented with wax recently. Wasnt prepared for how messy it would be afterwards :D . Any tips ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We aren't really into it but sure enough we have a bondage meet at the end of this month! We don't know what to expect.

if I was you I'd find out what to expect before you meet. Seriously.

We know them from multiple socials. The stated purpose of the evening is to tie and tease the ladies... "

That does sound kinda fun.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I love the sensual to firm side but the Mrs not so keen so always great to meet a couple that mirror this

or occasionally a single lady.

Whips, paddles, wax and ice. Glass and metal all combined with silk and feathers.

We experimented with wax recently. Wasnt prepared for how messy it would be afterwards :D . Any tips ?

Shower curtain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have mentioned, try going to some munches and definitely some kink parties. Most of bondage activities like whips, ropes, toys etc involve an element of danger in them. If you already have a partner, take the partner to the kink parties to learn the tricks before actually attempting. If you are looking for a person to try out with, there is no better place than these parties to meer like minded people. There are so many wannabe dominants I have seen who have no clue about BDSM. So watch someone in action before choosing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love the sensual to firm side but the Mrs not so keen so always great to meet a couple that mirror this

or occasionally a single lady.

Whips, paddles, wax and ice. Glass and metal all combined with silk and feathers.

We experimented with wax recently. Wasnt prepared for how messy it would be afterwards :D . Any tips ?

Shower curtain!"

Is it painful?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Really enjoy it. Silk and hemp rope, handcuffs, also every day items like silk ties and leather belts. Bondage tape is great if you lack patience for Shibari but want similar restraint type things. Also like just using the body and clothes to restrain. Just light sexy stuff nothing heavy. Don’t like bed or door restraints

I’m not sure flogging, spanking and biting counts as bondage maybe someone more into BDSM can explain ?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Blindfold....

Restraints....

Gaffa Tape....

Close van doors quietly

No no no , never Gaffe tape! Common newbie error, it bruises and is horrible ...only use electrostatic it sticks to itself but not her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a D/s couple and Mr is a rigger so bondage/shibari and suspension (occasionally) are a bit of a mainstay in our relationship.

Impact play can be used as a form of domination but it is more the DSM of BDSM. The bondage bit is the tying up or down.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I love the sensual to firm side but the Mrs not so keen so always great to meet a couple that mirror this

or occasionally a single lady.

Whips, paddles, wax and ice. Glass and metal all combined with silk and feathers.

We experimented with wax recently. Wasnt prepared for how messy it would be afterwards :D . Any tips ?

Shower curtain!

Is it painful?"

Wax? It depends how close to the body you drop it and the type of candle. You should get candles specific for wax play as normal candles burn too hot.

Start off dripping it from further away then gradually get closer.

It's a very intense experience and getting it off after is fun too

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

"I love the sensual to firm side but the Mrs not so keen so always great to meet a couple that mirror this

or occasionally a single lady.

Whips, paddles, wax and ice. Glass and metal all combined with silk and feathers.

We experimented with wax recently. Wasnt prepared for how messy it would be afterwards :D . Any tips ?

Shower curtain!

Is it painful?

Wax? It depends how close to the body you drop it and the type of candle. You should get candles specific for wax play as normal candles burn too hot.

Start off dripping it from further away then gradually get closer.

It's a very intense experience and getting it off after is fun too

Getting it off is very messy

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone "

That someone might be looking for you too ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Really enjoy it. Silk and hemp rope, handcuffs, also every day items like silk ties and leather belts. Bondage tape is great if you lack patience for Shibari but want similar restraint type things. Also like just using the body and clothes to restrain. Just light sexy stuff nothing heavy. Don’t like bed or door restraints

I’m not sure flogging, spanking and biting counts as bondage maybe someone more into BDSM can explain ? "

Love your description

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Have you ever done bondage sex (chains,whips,etc.)? If not, would you?

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Yes. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chans excite me, etc....

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"Love it...from mild sessions to extreme ones. I used to always be the one getting "punished"/restrained but have switched a couple of times in recent sessions and enjoyed it WAY more than i thought i would. The trick/secret, call it what you will, is to find someone you trust implicitly....then you can let yourself go and it's makes it all so much better.

You don't only let yourself go , you set yourself free too and when the dynamic is switchable you set the other person free too .

Beauty of switching is pushing the limits , what was a limit becomes a starting point of another journey- destination unknown.

Not going to just happen with anyone , relations like that are born , grow and develop only from trust and only with the right person , as few people commented before too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh absolutely!!! Such fun....!! X

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"We are a D/s couple and Mr is a rigger so bondage/shibari and suspension (occasionally) are a bit of a mainstay in our relationship.

Impact play can be used as a form of domination but it is more the DSM of BDSM. The bondage bit is the tying up or down. "

Wow , great pictures on your profile , riggers with shibari, kinbaku , kinbaku-bi and other skill in the art of suspension are my envy , the skill and knowledge ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Yes, I've given and received. I prefer to give.. Although I don't have much experience of receiving.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You don't only let yourself go , you set yourself free too and when the dynamic is switchable you set the other person free too .

Beauty of switching is pushing the limits , what was a limit becomes a starting point of another journey- destination unknown.

Not going to just happen with anyone , relations like that are born , grow and develop only from trust and only with the right person , as few people commented before too."

But you can’t just switch you have to have a preference. Giving and receiving restraint are very, very different kinks. We trust each other with anything and everything , are spiritual soulmates but would never switch

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By *carlett AllureWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Light bondage, but have definitely got a drive to explore and experience more!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

You don't only let yourself go , you set yourself free too and when the dynamic is switchable you set the other person free too .

Beauty of switching is pushing the limits , what was a limit becomes a starting point of another journey- destination unknown.

Not going to just happen with anyone , relations like that are born , grow and develop only from trust and only with the right person , as few people commented before too.

You can like both equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever done bondage sex (chains,whips,etc.)? If not, would you?

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i have rope and cuffs

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

You don't only let yourself go , you set yourself free too and when the dynamic is switchable you set the other person free too .

Beauty of switching is pushing the limits , what was a limit becomes a starting point of another journey- destination unknown.

Not going to just happen with anyone , relations like that are born , grow and develop only from trust and only with the right person , as few people commented before too.

And you don't have to switch .

That's the beauty of diversity of our unique dynamics.

None can or should be even attempted to be defined or labeled by anyone , except of yourself and your partner.

I have a preference, it's dominance ( please don't make false assumptions )

We both gave and recievied from eachother pleasure,pain and stimulation , both physical and beyond .

Kinks turned out to be mutual, restraints we had a problem with because the ones we ordered online didn't fit the bedframe , so bedframe was changed

)

The only thing without restraints was imagination , boundaries yes , but as you said yourself spiritual connection creates a level of trust where a safewords are not required .

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I love the sensual to firm side but the Mrs not so keen so always great to meet a couple that mirror this

or occasionally a single lady.

Whips, paddles, wax and ice. Glass and metal all combined with silk and feathers.

We experimented with wax recently. Wasnt prepared for how messy it would be afterwards :D . Any tips ?

Shower curtain!

Is it painful?"

Shower curtain ! Didnt think of that thanks.

It doesnt hurt as such but it's a nice feeling. I love dipping my finger in melted candle wax anyway though.

Didnt realise you can get specific candles for wax play. Maybe I need to look into it more. Although I enjoyed peeling it off afterwards

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m not sure flogging, spanking and biting counts as bondage maybe someone more into BDSM can explain ?

Love your description

Thanks , it can be ultra sensual and sexy without being weird or heavy. Different people like different sensations, metal chains are cold and heavy , silk is very soft, electrostatic tape is soft, stretchy and a little silky , leather and buckles change the mood a little.

If it’s new the giver needs have really good comms & listening skills because you want to push a little, make the receiver a little bit uncomfortable to get the most out of it but not get carried away and freak them out. Rope can take a while to undo , tape has a super fast exit if needed. I really enjoy restraining and am super empathic but even made a girl cry once

wasn’t nice....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever done bondage sex (chains,whips,etc.)? If not, would you?

Yes. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chans excite me, etc...."

Love it.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

I'm loving this thread btw.

Shame some of you are so far away .

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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OP have a peek in your inbox please Kandi .

Safe to open , just a bit of a read.

Not a one liner with a cock pic .

I'm a man and had my inbox violated with a unsolicited attack , wouldn't subject anyone to that.

Bit of a shock and that was only one , I understand a bit more now how women must feel sometimes in here and I'm not surprised.

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chans excite me, etc...."

Sticks and stones will break my bones, but pain and tears arouse me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever done bondage sex (chains,whips,etc.)? If not, would you?

I have done the tying up and teasing bit of bondage. I haven't done the pain side as I am not into receiving or inflicting pain.

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

I have although I would love to take it a step further x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I have although I would love to take it a step further x"

And that first step would be?

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By *ubynaughtyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

We have, I love to be tied up, spanked and played with.

Ruby X

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"I have although I would love to take it a step further x

And that first step would be?"

A leap of faith .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever done bondage sex (chains,whips,etc.)? If not, would you?

With my ex I did tie her up and used wip on her

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

"I have although I would love to take it a step further x

And that first step would be?"

First step for me is just the general being handcuffed and blindfolded.. I'd love to take the next step of slight pain maybe .x

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

"I have although I would love to take it a step further x

And that first step would be?

A leap of faith .

Absolutely this..trusting your partner in going that bit further x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone "

Easier said than done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I like the bondage with Or without accompanying sex.

I don't do gags or blindfolded with people I don't know / trust though. Feels too unsafe so I can't enjoy it

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By *ane.trefusisMan
over a year ago

london

yes its fun and you can be very inventive,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fair bit and if people who meet us haven't done it but are curious, we're happy to share

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done"

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP have a peek in your inbox please Kandi .

Safe to open , just a bit of a read.

Not a one liner with a cock pic .

I'm a man and had my inbox violated with a unsolicited attack , wouldn't subject anyone to that.

Bit of a shock and that was only one , I understand a bit more now how women must feel sometimes in here and I'm not surprised."

I'll take a look

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

We've booked the Annexe bdsm b&b for Mrs P's Birthday. Two night of kink. Can't wait!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed. "

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

sex and bondage at the same time...

oh my, how un-pc-bdsm that is...

oh no, no, sex is not allowed whilst in the act of bondage.

Oh no no no no no....

Tut tut..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the occasional blow out. Often simply dependant on partner. "

This

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed.

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,"

I just want someone to fuck with added kink

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed.

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,

I just want someone to fuck with added kink

And what are you going to add to this scene... lady?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed.

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,

I just want someone to fuck with added kink

And what are you going to add to this scene... lady?"

It's not a scene, it's my sex life.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed.

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,

I just want someone to fuck with added kink

And what are you going to add to this scene... lady?

It's not a scene, it's my sex life."

Or not.

Okay, I you had three sexual wishes with a wand.... what would be your first? Just the first one, I will ask the rest later.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed.

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,

I just want someone to fuck with added kink

And what are you going to add to this scene... lady?

It's not a scene, it's my sex life.

Or not.

Okay, I you had three sexual wishes with a wand.... what would be your first? Just the first one, I will ask the rest later."

Nope, it definitely is my sex life.

Sexual wishes? Chris Hemsworth and Sebastian Stan forever bound to pleasure me whenever I want.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed.

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,

I just want someone to fuck with added kink

And what are you going to add to this scene... lady?

It's not a scene, it's my sex life.

Or not.

Okay, I you had three sexual wishes with a wand.... what would be your first? Just the first one, I will ask the rest later.

Nope, it definitely is my sex life.

Sexual wishes? Chris Hemsworth and Sebastian Stan forever bound to pleasure me whenever I want. "

Smiles, you need to get back to the wand,

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed.

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,

I just want someone to fuck with added kink

And what are you going to add to this scene... lady?

It's not a scene, it's my sex life.

Or not.

Okay, I you had three sexual wishes with a wand.... what would be your first? Just the first one, I will ask the rest later.

Nope, it definitely is my sex life.

Sexual wishes? Chris Hemsworth and Sebastian Stan forever bound to pleasure me whenever I want.

Smiles, you need to get back to the wand,"

I don't need wishes with my wand, I get what I need with it if I want it.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed.

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,

I just want someone to fuck with added kink

And what are you going to add to this scene... lady?

It's not a scene, it's my sex life.

Or not.

Okay, I you had three sexual wishes with a wand.... what would be your first? Just the first one, I will ask the rest later.

Nope, it definitely is my sex life.

Sexual wishes? Chris Hemsworth and Sebastian Stan forever bound to pleasure me whenever I want.

Smiles, you need to get back to the wand,

I don't need wishes with my wand, I get what I need with it if I want it. "

That’s lucky for Chris and Sebastian

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed.

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,

I just want someone to fuck with added kink

And what are you going to add to this scene... lady?

It's not a scene, it's my sex life.

Or not.

Okay, I you had three sexual wishes with a wand.... what would be your first? Just the first one, I will ask the rest later.

Nope, it definitely is my sex life.

Sexual wishes? Chris Hemsworth and Sebastian Stan forever bound to pleasure me whenever I want.

Smiles, you need to get back to the wand,

I don't need wishes with my wand, I get what I need with it if I want it.

That’s lucky for Chris and Sebastian "

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

If I tell Her that I'm going to tie her up and punish her that night, I could tell her at 8am and she'll be excited/wet all day at the prospect and eager to drag me to the bedroom as soon as she can to keep my promise.

I made our own leg speaders (18 inches, 2ft and 3ft widths), leather cuffs with metal rings, rope ties with fixed rings etc for her, bought the ball gag and neck brace with hook/ring to connect her to the leg spreaders with a chain, a leather flagger and fashioned a blindfold from linen and a chamois leather patch.

We don't do bondage very often because it loses its special appeal if it was every time. A bondage session for us is pure hard fuckery and not something we desire every time.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

All of the above.... Ross makes spreaders, canes, collars etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to tie ladies to the bed naked blindfolded and use my toy's on them but sadly they have not been used for a while

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By *atexpvcTV/TS
over a year ago

chester/Merseyside

I see a lot of videos of people in bondage some in extreme positions some very mild.i myself want someone whom i can trust someone who want to put me in bondage and then build up to more extreme its finding that person though as many szy they are into bondage yet have no rezl idea whats it about.i would like to be in hoods.gas masks and more and in full chastity to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do I like it?

Because it's about more than just sex. In fact you don't have have sex to enjoy it. BDSM in its many strengths and flavours engages the mind more.... and allows us to fulfill some of the fantasies and desires we may have.

There is also a lot scope for imagination and variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have and enjoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my favourite type of play

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

"Why do I like it?

There is also a lot scope for imagination and variety

I agree, for me bdsm is more than kinky sex and in fact does not need sex. However, other people quite validly base their bdsm on sex.

As a lover of Japanese rope I like what you can do to you partner with the rope and other toys. I think something that gets lost with Japanese rope is that it is sensation based with elements of psychology, which makes it fun for both parties.

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By *imits2pushMan
over a year ago

lichfield

I’ve been active in the bdsm scene for other a decade, bondage being a massive part of that.

Over the years I’ve collected a lot of leather and metal restraints.

But mainly I enjoy rope bondage or more precisely Shibari, currently building up my confidence and experience with rope suspensions.

There’s a lot of fun to be had.

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

A plastic dust sheet from BnQ and a supply of cheap cotton sheets from charity shops. Any flooring or bedding underneath protected, just scrunch up old sheet and discard.

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By *ild n NaughtyMan
over a year ago

south Cheshire

Yes I have too

got quite a collection too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, giving and receiving . Love rope play too

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By *ornychickxxxWoman
over a year ago

north east

No but would love to try it

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

(Jess) love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve just had a nice little session just now.

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By *toobguyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Love what I've tried, and keen to try more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not yet done anything beyond under bed restraints and some spanking and sensual use of a paddle and flogger.

I’ve never been restrained or received anything more than a cheeky smack on the bum.

There’s a first time for everything though and I’m more than happy to explore it.

Just to find someone

Easier said than done

Indeed.

Think that depends on if you want to play B/d or D/s.

To me S/m is a total different ball game,

I just want someone to fuck with added kink

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. From light bondage, to very heavy bondage.

Define heavy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been there, done it, moved on."

To what?

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Chains and shackles, for me. I love being suspended upside down. Also love the inverted position on a St. Andrews Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes.. not too heavy tho.

I'm collared but I switch as well..great fun!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Been there, done it, moved on.

To what?"

I would think the logical next thing would be adding skills so Shibari , suspension, edging, denial, breath okay and c*****g but them I don’t have a sadistic or humiliating nature, others might go a different way

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By *ovebug12Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Mild, blindfold head phones restraint not knowing or here what is going to happen mmm

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Answer later a little tied up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Answer later a little tied up "

Literally from what I can see

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By *rumpet and ScouseCouple
over a year ago

Chorley

"Crumpet here and yes, I love to be tied and flogged, I do have a habit of ending up in the dungeon at cupids lol

Bad girl

Only when I dont do as I'm told

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Answer later a little tied up "

Best answer so far

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

There is not much I haven't experienced as a sub/slave.

The bit i normally miss out on is the sex

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Yes. Very frequently

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"Define heavy?"

Off the top of my head, something like... a rubber sleepsack and sensory deprived hood, leather posture collar, laying on a massage plinth and lots of pallet wrap over the top to make sure there is almost zero movement.

Otherwise, leather straightjackets, bondage wheel, heavy metal stocks, caged, isolation box etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a violet wand and a heavy thrashing for a laugh

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Had a violet wand and a heavy thrashing for a laugh

Ooo, I love electrics play

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"Ooo, I love electrics play

Agreed! Love my Erostek Estim boxes and toys

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"I love the sensual to firm side but the Mrs not so keen so always great to meet a couple that mirror this

or occasionally a single lady.

Whips, paddles, wax and ice. Glass and metal all combined with silk and feathers.

We experimented with wax recently. Wasnt prepared for how messy it would be afterwards :D . Any tips ?

Shower curtain!

Is it painful?

Wax? It depends how close to the body you drop it and the type of candle. You should get candles specific for wax play as normal candles burn too hot.

Start off dripping it from further away then gradually get closer.

It's a very intense experience and getting it off after is fun too

Especially if you use the blade of a knife,

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I love the sensual to firm side but the Mrs not so keen so always great to meet a couple that mirror this

or occasionally a single lady.

Whips, paddles, wax and ice. Glass and metal all combined with silk and feathers.

We experimented with wax recently. Wasnt prepared for how messy it would be afterwards :D . Any tips ?

Shower curtain!

Is it painful?

Wax? It depends how close to the body you drop it and the type of candle. You should get candles specific for wax play as normal candles burn too hot.

Start off dripping it from further away then gradually get closer.

It's a very intense experience and getting it off after is fun too

Especially if you use the blade of a knife,"

That's my fave too

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By *abybearandthebossCouple
over a year ago

COLCHESTER

We love bondage. X

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

It's the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just bought a few naughty treats to explore a few things a little more.

Not something I'd do with a random so very thankful to have a trusted person who is just as excited as me

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By *f579Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes we have, and still do occasionally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is not much I haven't experienced as a sub/slave.

The bit i normally miss out on is the sex"

What no sex

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By *miler6969696969Man
over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield

Only done it a couple of times in my private playrooms. Lol.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

If this goes ahead I will definitely be in.

Could be interesting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both being blindfolded and restrained and doing the same to someone else, while teasing them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love both being blindfolded and restrained and doing the same to someone else, while teasing them.

Teasing is always good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only done it a couple of times in my private playrooms. Lol.

Sounds good.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

S loves a bit of light bondage. We've got cuffs and chains at home and she loves being chained up and blindfolded. One of the things we want with our next house is a dedicated 'red room', with bed, chains, cross, swing etc, for our private getaway from real life for an hour or two.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"S loves a bit of light bondage. We've got cuffs and chains at home and she loves being chained up and blindfolded. One of the things we want with our next house is a dedicated 'red room', with bed, chains, cross, swing etc, for our private getaway from real life for an hour or two."

Sounds hot. Do you think you would use it often?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My new FB loves to be restrained while I blindfold her and use a pinwheel on her!

Drives her insane with lust!

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!

I switch, mostly Dom. But however on the bucket list indo want to be stripped naked, restrained and used Abused and Humiliated for other people's Pleasure!

any offers!?

Massive bag of kinky kit as well, bed restraints, magic wand, ball gags, fetish candela, gags, flogger, paddles, nipple clamps ect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i have been doing it for 20 years and absolutely love it - to be tied or to tie that is the question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My new FB loves to be restrained while I blindfold her and use a pinwheel on her!

Drives her insane with lust!

What's a pinwheel?

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Yes we’ve tried a few things, had a lot of fun with it

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

What's a pinwheel?"

https://www.stockroom.com/wartenberg-pinwheel.html

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