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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

A show of bodys..., do you prefer regular or one off meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, regular for exploration and one off's for the thrill

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

One offs mainly but if I meet someone I click with I am happy to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regular for us but one offs are also fun sometimes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mixture of one offs for the thrill & regular meets with those you wish to develop xxx

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By *ntelligent Gent.Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"One offs mainly but if I meet someone I click with I am happy to meet again."

Think that. Regs for only women you connect with.

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

regulars ,

that way after meeting a few times you get more adventurous ,

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

One Offs only for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either/Or......I really don't care.

Both have their merits.

Having said that, I think that I edge towards regular meets. I like to pursue all avenues of pleasure before moving on.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I prefer to think of 'one-offs' as a 'regular' - but with a potentially very long gap in between...

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Regular, but one off's also depending on the occasion i would think ( i know what i mean in my head lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one off, unless they are a bit special, depending how much time you spent with them on a meet and the length of time between meets.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Neither, I like two or three repeats and then move on!

How does the op answer his own question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs - occasionally twice and maybe more in a group scenario

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

regular meets on an irregular basis....

i don't see why if you had a really good time that you wouldn't want to meet them again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, regular for exploration and one off's for the thrill "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any would be a bonus........lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any would be a bonus........lol"
poor lad.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all my meets are one offs, i may change my mind after a meet if i really liked them but as a rule i meet everyone with the understanding its a one off

i do prefer one off but im not apposed to meeting someone again, but not sure whats ment by regular, id never meet anyone on a weekly basis thats to regular, once or twice a month maybe, id get bored of them to quick if i met them to much

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton

Regular if they are good

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

much perfer regular meets . get to learn each others bodies and triggers . also you build up trust over time which may be important when trying some fantasys ect .so i find sex much better when you know the person ,you know youre in for alot of fun rather than be left unstatisfied thinking WTF!! lol!

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Regular would be nice but more than happy to settle for one offs - beggars can't be choosers lol. I'm saying this as a single guy, not because I am horrendously ugly!

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"Both, regular for exploration and one off's for the thrill "

i agree i like the best of both worlds myself, both are great in there own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the people really, we like regulars that we can have a laugh with but we do love our one off threesomes as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like regulars for more sensual meets.. but one off quickies for my sexual fix.

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs for us. Swinging is about variety and adventure for us, I don't want to get to learn other people's bodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. I just like shagin

Regular one offs are ok as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont have either so cant comment

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By *uud 4-funMan
over a year ago

Dartford

Some of my 'One off' experiences have left great memories.

On balance though I would prefer longer term NSA relations.

Happy swinging, whatever your choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Neither, I like two or three repeats and then move on!

How does the op answer his own question?

"

Regular for me anyday, love the initial anticipation, the build up of the first time etc.....

Followed by the build up of trust and wanting for more, to watch, touch, taste and explore boundaries in total safety and relaxation....

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

Regulars...but even they start off as one offs!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regulars...but even they start off as one offs!! "

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"Neither, I like two or three repeats and then move on!

How does the op answer his own question?

Regular for me anyday, love the initial anticipation, the build up of the first time etc.....

Followed by the build up of trust and wanting for more, to watch, touch, taste and explore boundaries in total safety and relaxation...."

Well said that man.

Couldn't have put it better myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love both! Havnt met many more than once

But always find 2nd meets r even better than 1st!!

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Both have their merits...my one offs are usually the further away ones...My regular ones are best kept secret...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle for me..

Ideally I like 3 or 4 meets with the same person at most, after that I get a bit bored and fancy something new

Of course the odd one off has it's benefits too. It depends on my mood at the time and who happens to have wandered into my in box!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Regular as there's so much to learn about each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 for us both are fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50/50 for us both are fun. "

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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At one time it was one offs, but at the moment have a couple of very nice regulars

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By *edicManMan
over a year ago

Travel for work

Both, to be honest... One offs are more of a instant thrill, but regular gives you more chance to explore

I must admit, most of my regulars tend to be with cuckold couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you cant become a regular until you have tried the goods though

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

They all start as one-offs... but people you can bootycall are always handy.

I just like to be sure any callbacks have the right mature attitude to be a repeat..... sadly not all have.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"much perfer regular meets . get to learn each others bodies and triggers . also you build up trust over time which may be important when trying some fantasys ect .so i find sex much better when you know the person ,you know youre in for alot of fun rather than be left unstatisfied thinking WTF!! lol!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have found in the past when meeting guys regular they tend to get a little complacent

I think most people put in their best effort on a first meet in the hope they may get a re meet or so the other person walks away thinking...wow

But once you have met them a few time and they know you like them and will meet again ive found on a few occasions thats when they stop making an effort and sex starts getting like your shagging the old man lol

Which is why i dont like to meet people to regular if i decide to meet them again at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"much perfer regular meets . get to learn each others bodies and triggers . also you build up trust over time which may be important when trying some fantasys ect .so i find sex much better when you know the person ,you know youre in for alot of fun rather than be left unstatisfied thinking WTF!! lol!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"i have found in the past when meeting guys regular they tend to get a little complacent

I think most people put in their best effort on a first meet in the hope they may get a re meet or so the other person walks away thinking...wow

But once you have met them a few time and they know you like them and will meet again ive found on a few occasions thats when they stop making an effort and sex starts getting like your shagging the old man lol

Which is why i dont like to meet people to regular if i decide to meet them again at all "

I agree, which is why the three regulars I do have are very, very special.

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