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What would you prefer someone who makes love to you or someone who just fucks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interested in finding out if women on this site prefer someone you makes love to them or someone who just fucks them? Would like to know your thoughts?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Somewhere inbetween for me.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Just fuck

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Somewhere inbetween for me. "

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

On here. Fuck please.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Fuck.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I prefer a man who can do both, and knows when which is appropriate

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Like to switch between the 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love slow sex but fast n hard is so exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both.. I couldn’t choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely somewhere in between. Just fuck sounds to me too much like they wouldn't care about my pleasure, just their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation. Can't beat a good fuck but also can't beat a good long loving session

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very interesting!

How would you describe the difference between the two. Is one more giving and can you make love without loving the person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fucks...... only Joe makes love to me

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Very interesting!

How would you describe the difference between the two. Is one more giving and can you make love without loving the person?"

Of course you can but making love with a fabber ~ no thanks

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"I prefer a man who can do both, and knows when which is appropriate

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100% THIS ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How would you describe the difference between the two? From the responses It seems the difference is in the speed and time, what do think?

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"I prefer a man who can do both, and knows when which is appropriate

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This

KM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fuck lol make love? Naa that saying should have gone out in the 90s lol

Just my opinion, happy hump day lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always found it to be totally mood driven for ladies. There is no right or wrong answer, it simply depends on the moment, thankfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personally if I am fucking I am giving of myself and want to please my partner,, if I am making love I am doing the same but the connection is deeper and more intense and intimate. Would you agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it all depends on the guy, the spark and the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a place for both depending on partner, mood and situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make lovee and fuck with hubby, just fuck with others

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Make lovee and fuck with hubby, just fuck with others"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who fucks with intimacy and isn’t afraid to show the latter, works for me

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I only fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends on the mood, but love doing both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now tell me is the satisfaction and pleasure you get from a fuck the same as making love. What’s the difference? Is one about the trill and moment, the purely physical satisfaction and the other about a deeper connection, because both involve our deepest soulful desires being satisfied!

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I want someone who loves me completely but fucks me like they hate me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer a man who can do both, and knows when which is appropriate

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This for me.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Can do both

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I make love to my hubby. But fuck other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer a multi skilled man than can do both... Rare find... I'm single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want someone who loves me completely but fucks me like they hate me

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Both doesn't dovetail.... But love always fuck

either life or partner

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"I want someone who loves me completely but fucks me like they hate me

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Can’t help thinking you’re quoting some famous woman there. Did Marilyn Monroe say that? Or Joan Rivers?

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

For me it depends entirely on the woman, situation and mood of the moment! Sometimes it’s clear a straight fuck is exactly what’s appropriate. That’s what the situation demands. I mean, who’d start making lurve in a gangbang! Big no-no! Up-in-down-out-giveheraspunkyface-clotheson! Anything else - get out! But other times, maybe even an mff after a date and her room-mate wants to join in, you’ve got all night, hundreds of condoms you brought in in your rucksack when she only invited you in for a quick nightcap and off you go. Wham bam thank you Maam is not the order of the day here! It’s all about context!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

"How would you describe the difference between the two? From the responses It seems the difference is in the speed and time, what do think?"

I have slow sensual sex not "making love"

And passionate rampant sex not a "fuck"

That's how I define it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you describe the difference between the two? From the responses It seems the difference is in the speed and time, what do think?

I have slow sensual sex not "making love"

And passionate rampant sex not a "fuck"

That's how I define it

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I'd agree with the above definitions

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

I want someone to fuck with passion. I love hubby and for me love and sex are not the same. Love is more of a soul mate thing, we get each other with saying anything. touching me in the smallest way, holding me till I fall asleep and washing my hair is making love for us. But fucking is for fun and want with lots of lust never about love for me.

Molly

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I want someone to fuck with passion. I love hubby and for me love and sex are not the same. Love is more of a soul mate thing, we get each other with saying anything. touching me in the smallest way, holding me till I fall asleep and washing my hair is making love for us. But fucking is for fun and want with lots of lust never about love for me.

Molly

XX"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer a man who can do both, and knows when which is appropriate

100% THIS ..

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Completely agree!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I'm with...

Sometimes I prefer a fuck other times I want tenderness and love making....

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"I want someone to fuck with passion. I love hubby and for me love and sex are not the same. Love is more of a soul mate thing, we get each other with saying anything. touching me in the smallest way, holding me till I fall asleep and washing my hair is making love for us. But fucking is for fun and want with lots of lust never about love for me.

Molly

XX"

Ay, that guy’s one lucky hubby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fuck from here

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I make love with my partner. When we play I just want to be fucked preferably by two or more guys - sensual erotic fucks, but just fucks.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Someone who just fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Make lovee and fuck with hubby, just fuck with others"

This for me too

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By *ux19Man
over a year ago

Essex

Depends on the partner, the moment and their wishes or desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely fuck. I hate phrase " making love " even between me and my hubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it was love it felt different. But not better physically necessary. It just adds another emotional ring to the whole circle. And makes me more agreeable somewhat.

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By *ixfootinthecityMan
over a year ago

South East

One then the other. In which order depends on the person...

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

All depends on my mood and the atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very interesting!

How would you describe the difference between the two. Is one more giving and can you make love without loving the person?"

I think you can make love without loving the person. You love their body and the intimacy in the moment. Not forever (fortunately).... Also I personally think fucking is better when you haven't got an established connection with the person. It becomes love making when you know the person well and you have a connection on an emotional level...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've never really understood the difference.

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By *erseysidemale100Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I've never really understood the difference."
hey how are Lacey have you been Upto much lately ?x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I just want a no nonsense fuck, both get off then do it all again whenever the horn comes back. Love making is completely different x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on how good they are, if someone is passionate then a fuck doesn't feel right but if they're just there to get off then a fuck it is. I just go with the feeling and what's going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making love! If there is connection and chemistry, sex is mindblowing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both lol

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Theres a time for both

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

"Interested in finding out if women on this site prefer someone you makes love to them or someone who just fucks them? Would like to know your thoughts? "

when we are on meets I want to just be pure fucked but when at home some times make slow love to me spending hours on licking and kissing

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

I've only had one meet that I would class as being "made love" it was a bit odd but he was very very good, so many cums I lost count but when we watched the video back he made me cum 27 times in 1.5 hours of sex and that was just with his cock. He was quite well endowed and got to places no one had ever been. Shame he didn't come back for more

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I think there is a big difference in being fucked and some one msking luv . I prefer being made luv to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both definitely. Depending on mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always need a connection!

That's a lie, I'm a man.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Just fuck! My partner and I make love to each other. But there are times we " just fuck" too.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

It depends on the person it depends on my mood but the one definite is there has to be mutual attraction before either happens.

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By *affquestCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Just fuck! My partner and I make love to each other. But there are times we " just fuck" too. "

We were in a club in a packed party room and everything was hot and steamy, then the guy she was sucking said “ can I make love to you”

Wtf- nooo. We were there to shag. We make love to each other.

Completely killed the moment so we went to find another room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just fuck! My partner and I make love to each other. But there are times we " just fuck" too.

We were in a club in a packed party room and everything was hot and steamy, then the guy she was sucking said “ can I make love to you”

Wtf- nooo. We were there to shag. We make love to each other.

Completely killed the moment so we went to find another room. "

Did he elongate the word lurvvvve?

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By *affquestCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Just fuck! My partner and I make love to each other. But there are times we " just fuck" too.

We were in a club in a packed party room and everything was hot and steamy, then the guy she was sucking said “ can I make love to you”

Wtf- nooo. We were there to shag. We make love to each other.

Completely killed the moment so we went to find another room.

Did he elongate the word lurvvvve?"

Do you know , I think he did

He was a definite contender until he said that

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By *affquestCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both depending on my mood,I do like a bit of rough sex though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Partner = make love and occasional just fuck dirty kind of sex

Swinging /meet = just fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but I like to be the one to seduce guys

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I prefer a man who can do both, and knows when which is appropriate

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When you find him please send in my direction.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a fuck

Making love is for me and the hubby

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends what mood I'm in and who I'm with...

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Has to be able to do both!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find the term 'Make love' rather old fashioned, just like 'sleeping with someone'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood..

When I'm in 'sub mode' I do as i'am told

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I have a husband to make love to me, when I'm out on a meet I want to get fucked

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By *illeth666Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"How would you describe the difference between the two? From the responses It seems the difference is in the speed and time, what do think?

I have slow sensual sex not "making love"

And passionate rampant sex not a "fuck"

That's how I define it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not making love during fuck or fuck during love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make love? Nah. Make lust? Oh yeah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer a man who can do both, and knows when which is appropriate

When you find him please send in my direction....."

I'll put my order in now!!

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