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Would you date someone you met at a club or on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you meet someone at a club or on here. He or she is filthy and horny and into all the same kinky stuff as you, whatever that may be. Not in the slightest bit vanilla.

Imagine you're single and and open to meeting someone to 'date'. Would you date them?

Or would you not look at them as 'worthy' of dating, because he or she was somehow 'bad' for being filthy kinky and on here?

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

if the chemistry is right and we have enough in common then why not and at least then you dont need to explain about swinging if you met them off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done.

Anyone that fits your second category of looking down on the people on here sounds like they would be a pretty loathesome hypocrite in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do ....why on earth not ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a peculiar question I'd be delighted to find a kinky filthy fuckah who I 'clicked' with in other ways too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have in fact that is how me and oreo met he was a single guy i was a single girl the rest is history x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a peculiar question I'd be delighted to find a kinky filthy fuckah who I 'clicked' with in other ways too

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Someone on the same kink page is always an advantage

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and Devil met in one of the directing rooms been together 8 wonderfull months. It just keeps getting better in all ways not just sex and swinging

Angel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course cannot imagine being with anyone who believed in monogamy. Swinging is a big part of me and am very happy with other half but if I were single I imagine Fabs would be the perfect place to meet my kind of partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Someone on the same kink page is always an advantage

Wolf

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I know plenty with the 'Kinks', it's the rest of the package that's eluded me so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone like that where we also clicked on other levels, would be the perfect partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Someone on the same kink page is always an advantage

Wolf

I know plenty with the 'Kinks', it's the rest of the package that's eluded me so far "

lol there's deffo someone out there for ya... kinks and all.

We just keep telling each other we got lucky here!

Wolf

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not quite a club but an adult cinema and six years later we are blissfully happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see why not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Someone on the same kink page is always an advantage

Wolf

I know plenty with the 'Kinks', it's the rest of the package that's eluded me so far

lol there's deffo someone out there for ya... kinks and all.

We just keep telling each other we got lucky here!

Wolf

"

Sweet!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If I were single id date about 3 or 4 at a time on a rota basis

With all the gorgeous guys on here I would'nt be able to just have 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was single I'd probably be as desperate as most of the other single guys on here, so yes, I'd take my pleasure however it came.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

A person in the swinging world is the same as any other person. Just less inhibited perhaps..

If you like them and they like you, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without doubt, neither of us would think of dating someone who didn't have the same outlook, what would be the point in that?

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess u`d need to be more than sexually compatible. otherwise what are you other than fcuk buds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have in fact that is how me and oreo met he was a single guy i was a single girl the rest is history x"

We met as singles 5 years ago and are just about to celebrate our first wedding anniversary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you meet someone at a club or on here. He or she is filthy and horny and into all the same kinky stuff as you, whatever that may be. Not in the slightest bit vanilla.

Imagine you're single and and open to meeting someone to 'date'. Would you date them?

Or would you not look at them as 'worthy' of dating, because he or she was somehow 'bad' for being filthy kinky and on here? "

What difference should it make if both of you are on here having the same experiences. You date a person not their past or that is how I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i wouldnt date anyone i met thro swinging

i wouldnt see them as bad, we are all here for the same reason so to call someone unworthy because they swing is calling yourself unworthy surely?

I just wouldnt want to have a relationship with someone i met thro swinging

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I married the man I met at Chams...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I married the man I met at Chams..."

and hes regretted it ever since

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

met my OH at Kestrels this time last year .... now engaged and very happy

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

I married him!

Met at the Notts Social through another site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...just see them semi regularly, as with any good meet

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

no.

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By *onestbabeWoman
over a year ago

canvey

Hey yeah why not it wud be loads of fun to date a guy from fab or club or party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, if i was single yeah i would date someone from fab if we got on and fancied each-other...

Couldn't consider anyone a swinger if they thought that they wouldn't date someone because they have been on a swinging website...

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Had two fab relationships from here just wished one of them would have lasted longer than they did. No problem dating on here. Paul

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Had two fab relationships from here just wished one of them would have lasted longer than they did. No problem dating on here. Paul

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's definitely hope then!

I'm really loving how many people met on here or through 'shared interests'.

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By *ighorn2006Man
over a year ago

Ceredigion / N France

Yes I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i meet a girl at a club and we went out for 4 month, she was the best thing that ever happened to me and the best 4 month of my life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my fella on a sex site, we spoke for 8 months and decided when we met if it was as good as we hoped we would give it a go, we are now together on our 5th week, and very happy. who knows where it will go but he is a filthy fucker and i love every minute of him..

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By *i-fun girlWoman
over a year ago

Charlton

I would absolutely date someone I met through here if we clicked - what a fantastic start - both into the same life style

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"So you meet someone at a club or on here. He or she is filthy and horny and into all the same kinky stuff as you, whatever that may be. Not in the slightest bit vanilla.

Imagine you're single and and open to meeting someone to 'date'. Would you date them?

Or would you not look at them as 'worthy' of dating, because he or she was somehow 'bad' for being filthy kinky and on here? "

what a very strange question...are u being deliberatly insulting to swingers

more and more i wish there were a site for non monogamous people on the web...ones who like the fact their partners enjoy sex and love sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, if we clicked personally and sexually and were both happy with it, sounds lie a way to a very happy partnership

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what a very strange question...are u being deliberatly insulting to swingers

more and more i wish there were a site for non monogamous people on the web...ones who like the fact their partners enjoy sex and love sharing."

No of course I'm not being insulting. My question was to see what people thought, because someone mentioned it and made it sound like they would fuck someone off the site but never date them. Which as someone above said, seems incredibly hypocritical.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

done it before a few times, some of my meets after we started having regular fun shared more than just the bed and had nice nights in together as well, and when things are like that sometimes it just happens !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't consider anyone a swinger if they thought that they wouldn't date someone because they have been on a swinging website... "

yeah thats true, thats why i stuck up for that guy looking for love on here the other day coz you can look anywhere else in the world for a swinger lover, but lets face it most women are going to get offended or not be interested if you early on bring it up thats what you want from the relationship, but on here your going to find people who couple up, and when you do if you spend time together shit happens sometimes before you even know it!n its just what you do about it when you both realise its got that far without you intending it to !

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"what a very strange question...are u being deliberatly insulting to swingers

more and more i wish there were a site for non monogamous people on the web...ones who like the fact their partners enjoy sex and love sharing.

No of course I'm not being insulting. My question was to see what people thought, because someone mentioned it and made it sound like they would fuck someone off the site but never date them. Which as someone above said, seems incredibly hypocritical. "

Your opening post..

"Or would you not look at them as 'worthy' of dating, because he or she was somehow 'bad' for being filthy kinky and on here"

if you see people as being unworthy for being on here why are you here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"what a very strange question...are u being deliberatly insulting to swingers

more and more i wish there were a site for non monogamous people on the web...ones who like the fact their partners enjoy sex and love sharing.

No of course I'm not being insulting. My question was to see what people thought, because someone mentioned it and made it sound like they would fuck someone off the site but never date them. Which as someone above said, seems incredibly hypocritical. "

I understood the question and its context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.... look at them as 'worthy' of dating, because he or she was somehow 'bad' for being filthy kinky and on here? .................

more a case of "lots in common" I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i would if we shared the same interests and i genuinely enjoy her company and she did mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting read.What are peoples opinions on REAL couples who have met on the scene but they never play together?? I'd like to hear particularly womens views on this. Been together over a year now

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"what a very strange question...are u being deliberatly insulting to swingers

more and more i wish there were a site for non monogamous people on the web...ones who like the fact their partners enjoy sex and love sharing.

No of course I'm not being insulting. My question was to see what people thought, because someone mentioned it and made it sound like they would fuck someone off the site but never date them. Which as someone above said, seems incredibly hypocritical. "

I understood it as a question and not an opinion

Just ignore those that can't seem to help themselves from twisting your words into something else

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

yes im sure compatible sexy horny dirty men/women would be a perfect match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through Fab - neither looking - two years on we still 'click' - who knows what the future holds?

What's happened to Soapy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have in fact that is how me and oreo met he was a single guy i was a single girl the rest is history x

We met as singles 5 years ago and are just about to celebrate our first wedding anniversary "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soapy left few weeks back hunny for some time out

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