FabSwingers.com forum: WTF?????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So this is how it goes........

A certain couple, and I use the term couple very loosely, contact us regarding chatting further, etc, etc, etc.

I reply in a very decent and polite manner "going to bed now, definately speak soon"

They then reply, in regards to the fact that we do not full swap "Great pics, but if not full swap not interested, why should Jay get al the fun? Bye"

Then they block us.

Seriously WTF???

Just need to clarify as we are relatively new here!!!

Is this normal behaviour to send someone a message then act in that way?

Because if it is we seriously do not need the bull shit.

Or are we being over sensitive and need to drink less caffein???

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

They are rude...as out there some ppl are...ignore and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not cut for this kind of game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never mind,plenty more suitable sorts out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and yes lol

yes it is normal for some to send out such messages, i get some right abuse from guys i simply say thanks but no thanks to

but also yes your being over sensative, water off a ducks back mate, ignor and move on

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"So this is how it goes........

A certain couple, and I use the term couple very loosely, contact us regarding chatting further, etc, etc, etc.

I reply in a very decent and polite manner "going to bed now, definately speak soon"

They then reply, in regards to the fact that we do not full swap "Great pics, but if not full swap not interested, why should Jay get al the fun? Bye"

Then they block us.

Seriously WTF???

Just need to clarify as we are relatively new here!!!

Is this normal behaviour to send someone a message then act in that way?

Because if it is we seriously do not need the bull shit.

Or are we being over sensitive and need to drink less caffein???

Answers on a postcard to WTF.Com"

Blimey, if everyone I blocked ranted...... we'd be here til 2019.

Grow a thick skin.

If people want to block you, thats their perogative.

If they've skimmed your profile and contacted you and then changed their minds....... thats their perogative.

At least they had the manners to let you know they wouldn't be in contact again.

The usual whinge is .... "read/deleted" or "unread/deleted" or "why don't they reply its rude not to" bollocks.

They've obviously blocked you so they don't see your profile again and contact you by mistake (glass half full and all that)

Whatever their reasons...... it's not rude....... it's their CHOICE.

If you are really that sensitive, this game ain't for you.

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By *eamCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"So this is how it goes........

A certain couple, and I use the term couple very loosely, contact us regarding chatting further, etc, etc, etc.

I reply in a very decent and polite manner "going to bed now, definately speak soon"

They then reply, in regards to the fact that we do not full swap "Great pics, but if not full swap not interested, why should Jay get al the fun? Bye"

Then they block us.

Seriously WTF???

Just need to clarify as we are relatively new here!!!

Is this normal behaviour to send someone a message then act in that way?

Because if it is we seriously do not need the bull shit.

Or are we being over sensitive and need to drink less caffein???

Answers on a postcard to WTF.Com

Blimey, if everyone I blocked ranted...... we'd be here til 2019.

Grow a thick skin.

If people want to block you, thats their perogative.

If they've skimmed your profile and contacted you and then changed their minds....... thats their perogative.

At least they had the manners to let you know they wouldn't be in contact again.

The usual whinge is .... "read/deleted" or "unread/deleted" or "why don't they reply its rude not to" bollocks.

They've obviously blocked you so they don't see your profile again and contact you by mistake (glass half full and all that)

Whatever their reasons...... it's not rude....... it's their CHOICE.

If you are really that sensitive, this game ain't for you."

Could have been said in a more polite and positive way... Like they said they are new to this kind words and advice help here!!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"So this is how it goes........

A certain couple, and I use the term couple very loosely, contact us regarding chatting further, etc, etc, etc.

I reply in a very decent and polite manner "going to bed now, definately speak soon"

They then reply, in regards to the fact that we do not full swap "Great pics, but if not full swap not interested, why should Jay get al the fun? Bye"

Then they block us.

Seriously WTF???

Just need to clarify as we are relatively new here!!!

Is this normal behaviour to send someone a message then act in that way?

Because if it is we seriously do not need the bull shit.

Or are we being over sensitive and need to drink less caffein???

Answers on a postcard to WTF.Com"
I think they were probably trying to hedge their bets in regard to the soft swing thing, lots of people try to approach people that are not quite suitable but "maybe just maybe they will make an exception in our case" kind of attitude....best thing to do is concentrate on the people that do have the same interests and do react positively to your requirements and boundaries, better now than at a meet i say....they probably blocked you as its easier all round , i wouldnt take it to heart....good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or the male half simply said

"what no fanny for me!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many people use the block button on profiles they are not going to meet.

This prevents them form contacting the blocked profile and the blocked profile from contacting them, as they have decided 'not for us'

Just the way some run their profile.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

"So this is how it goes........

A certain couple, and I use the term couple very loosely, contact us regarding chatting further, etc, etc, etc.

I reply in a very decent and polite manner "going to bed now, definately speak soon"

They then reply, in regards to the fact that we do not full swap "Great pics, but if not full swap not interested, why should Jay get al the fun? Bye"

We had a couple approach us who were only into soft swap and when we queried exactly what this entailed we were met with a barrage of abuse from someone who then took my OH blackberry pin and messaged him abusing him and having a verbal rant for hours we just laugh it off tho and try to resist the temptation to answer back unfortunately this is too much for him and he had to have the last word. But yes this does seem quite common on here you learn to rise above it and just move on i have had some abuse from people for lots of things on here some of whom i have never met or spoken to on here so you need to just see them for what they are words on a screen and move on to the next person who might be what your looking for. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So this is how it goes........

A certain couple, and I use the term couple very loosely, contact us regarding chatting further, etc, etc, etc.

I reply in a very decent and polite manner "going to bed now, definately speak soon"

They then reply, in regards to the fact that we do not full swap "Great pics, but if not full swap not interested, why should Jay get al the fun? Bye"

How did they get pin number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So this is how it goes........

A certain couple, and I use the term couple very loosely, contact us regarding chatting further, etc, etc, etc.

I reply in a very decent and polite manner "going to bed now, definately speak soon"

They then reply, in regards to the fact that we do not full swap "Great pics, but if not full swap not interested, why should Jay get al the fun? Bye"

Then they block us.

Seriously WTF???

Just need to clarify as we are relatively new here!!!

Is this normal behaviour to send someone a message then act in that way?

Because if it is we seriously do not need the bull shit.

Or are we being over sensitive and need to drink less caffein???

Answers on a postcard to WTF.Com"

I don't find it that rude,just honest. They replied explained why they werent interested. They also complimented you. Why is it bullshit to be honest.

Blocking, lots use it so they don't contact people again .

Just my opinion of course

Angel x

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"So this is how it goes........

A certain couple, and I use the term couple very loosely, contact us regarding chatting further, etc, etc, etc.

I reply in a very decent and polite manner "going to bed now, definately speak soon"

They then reply, in regards to the fact that we do not full swap "Great pics, but if not full swap not interested, why should Jay get al the fun? Bye"

Then they block us.

Seriously WTF???

Just need to clarify as we are relatively new here!!!

Is this normal behaviour to send someone a message then act in that way?

Because if it is we seriously do not need the bull shit.

Or are we being over sensitive and need to drink less caffein???

Answers on a postcard to WTF.Com

Blimey, if everyone I blocked ranted...... we'd be here til 2019.

Grow a thick skin.

If people want to block you, thats their perogative.

If they've skimmed your profile and contacted you and then changed their minds....... thats their perogative.

At least they had the manners to let you know they wouldn't be in contact again.

The usual whinge is .... "read/deleted" or "unread/deleted" or "why don't they reply its rude not to" bollocks.

They've obviously blocked you so they don't see your profile again and contact you by mistake (glass half full and all that)

Whatever their reasons...... it's not rude....... it's their CHOICE.

If you are really that sensitive, this game ain't for you.

Could have been said in a more polite and positive way... Like they said they are new to this kind words and advice help here!!

I don't fanny about with sickly sweet and gooey kerfuffle.

Tell it like it is ......... that way they learn.

Swinging isn't about being airy fairy and all nicey nicey. It is hard, it is tough and it's a game for some and a way of life for others.

So I will carry on telling it like it is. A thick skin is required in swinging...... even newbies need to grow one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So this is how it goes........

A certain couple, and I use the term couple very loosely, contact us regarding chatting further, etc, etc, etc.

I reply in a very decent and polite manner "going to bed now, definately speak soon"

They then reply, in regards to the fact that we do not full swap "Great pics, but if not full swap not interested, why should Jay get al the fun? Bye"

Then they block us.

Seriously WTF???

Just need to clarify as we are relatively new here!!!

Is this normal behaviour to send someone a message then act in that way?

Because if it is we seriously do not need the bull shit.

Or are we being over sensitive and need to drink less caffein???

Answers on a postcard to WTF.Com

Blimey, if everyone I blocked ranted...... we'd be here til 2019.

Grow a thick skin.

If people want to block you, thats their perogative.

If they've skimmed your profile and contacted you and then changed their minds....... thats their perogative.

At least they had the manners to let you know they wouldn't be in contact again.

The usual whinge is .... "read/deleted" or "unread/deleted" or "why don't they reply its rude not to" bollocks.

They've obviously blocked you so they don't see your profile again and contact you by mistake (glass half full and all that)

Whatever their reasons...... it's not rude....... it's their CHOICE.

If you are really that sensitive, this game ain't for you.

Could have been said in a more polite and positive way... Like they said they are new to this kind words and advice help here!!

I don't fanny about with sickly sweet and gooey kerfuffle.

Tell it like it is ......... that way they learn.

Swinging isn't about being airy fairy and all nicey nicey. It is hard, it is tough and it's a game for some and a way of life for others.

So I will carry on telling it like it is. A thick skin is required in swinging...... even newbies need to grow one."

growing one just from that dominant tone _adchick...

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