FabSwingers.com forum: BDSM gear

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys were looking for some pointers and advise on where to get some bdsm gear from, like restraints etc we have seen pics of some we want but carnt really find them about,

Any info much appreciated

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Amazon US

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honour is a good place to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any decent motorcycle shop.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Love honey is a good start. It depends what you want. Don’t get the cheap stuff it can be dangerous!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

If you fancy a trip out and a fun afternoon try the BBB (Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar). Me and my partner love to go when we can. Loads of great traders and manufactures selling their wares. Also normally a good live demonstration and you can buy tickets for the fetish after party if you want to. It's on Sundays (normally 2nd Sunday of the month I think). Anyway just Google it, it has a web site. Plus you can make a nice day of it, it's in Birmingham city centre.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Ours comes from all over the place. Sex shops, on line retailers, home made etc

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"If you fancy a trip out and a fun afternoon try the BBB (Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar). Me and my partner love to go when we can. Loads of great traders and manufactures selling their wares. Also normally a good live demonstration and you can buy tickets for the fetish after party if you want to. It's on Sundays (normally 2nd Sunday of the month I think). Anyway just Google it, it has a web site. Plus you can make a nice day of it, it's in Birmingham city centre.

Correction normally 3rd Sunday of the month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The above mentioned sites, plus BBB are a great start.

I'd also add uberkinky and bondara websites too. Ebay can be good for a few things too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any decent motorcycle shop."

Obviously no motorcycle members or people with a sense of humour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subspaceleathers do quality off the shelf & custom restraints flogger suppliers of choice for me would be Jacks floggers or Daisy’s floggers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have had a look on lovehoney and they dont really have a selection what were looking for if you get me haha

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"We have had a look on lovehoney and they dont really have a selection what were looking for if you get me haha"

No I don’t

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Etsy may be worth a look

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By *otwife for useCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Can always mess around making your own stuff if you got time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have had a look on lovehoney and they dont really have a selection what were looking for if you get me haha

No I don’t "

We do love lovehoney and use alot and have got a few bdsm things from there, we have seen leather restraints and stuff like that but lovehoney is more soft if you get me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Subspaceleathers do quality off the shelf & custom restraints flogger suppliers of choice for me would be Jacks floggers or Daisy’s floggers"

Thanks will have a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and trussed uk have a large range of interesting equipment

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

We got a super heavy flogger from affordable-leather - just gorgeous.

He's got a lot of very interesting kit.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ahh damn. Lamchester market in Manchester was literally yesterday. There is another next month though. They had a really good range of stalls.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Ahh damn. Lamchester market in Manchester was literally yesterday. There is another next month though. They had a really good range of stalls."

I was just about to mention LAMchester. Fantastic new market in the city center... 4th Sunday of the month at revolution deansgate locks

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Ahh damn. Lamchester market in Manchester was literally yesterday. There is another next month though. They had a really good range of stalls.

I was just about to mention LAMchester. Fantastic new market in the city center... 4th Sunday of the month at revolution deansgate locks"

The August one is a different location just for that month though.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

What stuff are you after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ETSY has some amazing BDSM specialist. Mostly overseas but it only takes a couple of weeks for delivery.

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Fetters Leather and Top To Bottom Leathers are my go to places for restraints in the UK.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Any good DIY store

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By *ueenandlittlecuckCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

the pantie purse have some good stuff, i got some really lovely cuffs from their and a great collar or 2

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington

"Etsy may be worth a look"

I thought Etsy was for homeware and children's toys - clearly I'm not keeping up with the times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can always go to the London or Birmingham fetish fair the. You can see it, feel it and talk to like minded people who can advise you.

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

London Alternative Market is on this Sunday, as it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bondara are good x

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

You have a huge range of choice for any budget with places like Uberkinky, Bondara, Latex, Leather & Lace, Fetters, Honour, Etsy and many more. A quick google will bring you loads of results.

We have been lucky to have been able to review BDSM kit from most of those listed above and they have some decent kit.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Start small, you can buy basic cuffs etcfrom places like Anne Summers, Lovehoney etc, and then work your way up from there.

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Try bbb every 3rd Sunday of the month some great stuff and good quality n prices

Could also try a couple on here called venom n vixon they make floggers and leather items all reasonably priced and hand made

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Bought a cheap wooden serving board needs trimming down a bit make it a bit lighter you can buy a set of 3 in a few stores make some different sized paddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call into R.O.B Shop in China Lane,Manchester City Centre, NQ. They have some great quality gear in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can always go to the London or Birmingham fetish fair the. You can see it, feel it and talk to like minded people who can advise you."

They’ve started one in Manchester too.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Search eBay, there are loads of people selling stuff on there. All new floggers, canes, restraints x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys were looking for some pointers and advise on where to get some bdsm gear from, like restraints etc we have seen pics of some we want but carnt really find them about,

Any info much appreciated

Google bondageman for all your rope and candle needs. He actually supplies some online stores with candles, because he is so well known for them. If you can get him by private message, you might be able to talk about custom floggers and paddles.

Trying to think who makes good restraints at a reasonable price, but nobody is coming to mind. If anyone does, I'll come back and give a name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, thinking about it, if you can get to brimingham on the third Sunday of any given month, the Birmingham bizarre bazaar is on. They will have some sellers there that will be able to supply your needs

Bondageman doesn't do stalls anymore, sadly. It's a long story

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Hi guys were looking for some pointers and advise on where to get some bdsm gear from, like restraints etc we have seen pics of some we want but carnt really find them about,

Any info much appreciated

Trying to think who makes good restraints at a reasonable price, but nobody is coming to mind. If anyone does, I'll come back and give a name"

For leather restraints and toys I'm a fan of leather delights. It helps that I enjoy the story behind their family business too.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Etsy may be worth a look

I thought Etsy was for homeware and children's toys - clearly I'm not keeping up with the times."

Haha, was researching a Bondage bed on there which had over a thousand watchers, so definitely not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start small, you can buy basic cuffs etcfrom places like Anne Summers, Lovehoney etc, and then work your way up from there."

I wouldn't go for Ann Summers, personally, especially for floggers and other impact toys. Too many sharp edges and poor finishing.

Jack's and Daisy's floggers, to echo someone above, Kabunza and locally to you Scarlet Leather for a different style of flogger.

Quality Control for the finer items (awesome leather work on their paddles and crops).

BBB, LAM, Lamchester and the like are all great, and most stall holders will advise and guide.

And you have a couple of kink/BDSM events up near you as well where it's worth getting chatting to folks, who can advise as well

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By *inkykitten87Woman
over a year ago

York

Lovehoney or Bondara for no frills, basic stuff.

Etsy is a great place to look for more handmade/bespoke/hard wearing equipment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have A proper St Andrews cross with hooks for restraints. You can have it if you want to pick it up. It's in the way TBH

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington

"We have A proper St Andrews cross with hooks for restraints. You can have it if you want to pick it up. It's in the way TBH "

Maybe fab should have a section like Gumtree for discarded BDSM gear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have A proper St Andrews cross with hooks for restraints. You can have it if you want to pick it up. It's in the way TBH "

Wish i was nearer as love that equipment

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By *ikerswingCouple
over a year ago

mcr

"Ahh damn. Lamchester market in Manchester was literally yesterday. There is another next month though. They had a really good range of stalls."
we have googled lamchester but can find any info.do you know anything about dates etc or a site to visit.thanks

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Ahh damn. Lamchester market in Manchester was literally yesterday. There is another next month though. They had a really good range of stalls.we have googled lamchester but can find any info.do you know anything about dates etc or a site to visit.thanks"

They have a page and event listing on the popular social media site about the fetish life we are not allowed to name.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Anyone know where I could get some latex wear for the fullest figure please??

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

"Fetters Leather and Top To Bottom Leathers are my go to places for restraints in the UK. "

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"Anyone know where I could get some latex wear for the fullest figure please??"

Yes, I do.

Libidex, who are a well known manufacturer do a huge range of styles up to 6XL

https://libidex.com/womens-clothing.html

This is their sizing guide.

https://libidex.com/size-chart/

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By *ikerswingCouple
over a year ago

mcr

They have a page and event listing on the popular social media site about the fetish life we are not allowed to name."
thank you we will check it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love honey and bondara are great places to start.

Etsy is brilliant too for quality handmade stuff!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Anyone know where I could get some latex wear for the fullest figure please??"

Cathouseclothing.com not only do they do amazing clothes, they can do pretty much everything as a custom size for not much more money...

All my stuff has come from them

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By *r Rubba LoverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Honour. Cocoon. Westward bound. Libidex. I get most of my kinkwear from these.

Failing that...google is definitely your friend.

Just include uk supplier in your search terms...although some of the german stuff is ace.

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