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By *ragon007 OP Man
over a year ago

london

So we talk to couplle

Every thing is hunky Dorey

I ask my partner to call the lady to confirm and then they tried to play with her leaving me completely out

How disrespectful is that

People have no manners these shah

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"So we talk to couplle

Every thing is hunky Dorey

I ask my partner to call the lady to confirm and then they tried to play with her leaving me completely out

How disrespectful is that

People have no manners these shah "

You mean they tried to arrange a meet without you?

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By *imits2pushMan
over a year ago

lichfield

"So we talk to couplle

Every thing is hunky Dorey

I ask my partner to call the lady to confirm and then they tried to play with her leaving me completely out

How disrespectful is that

People have no manners these shah "

Yep this happens a lot. So many couples have no intention of playing with the guy, or only play with the guy too get too the girl.

When I’ve been looking as a couple, it’s been a lot harder, as I wouldn’t accept any couple that wasn’t into both of us.

Like with you, some trying to by pass me and then shocked with told that’s not ok. While also saying, they only play together lol

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By *ragon007 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"So we talk to couplle

Every thing is hunky Dorey

I ask my partner to call the lady to confirm and then they tried to play with her leaving me completely out

How disrespectful is that

People have no manners these shah

You mean they tried to arrange a meet without you?"

Yes exactly that and when I said I arrange meets they said or she was a ghost and not exits i am not sure what’s wrong with people

Limited time for fun and have to deal with idiots like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens a lot I am afraid OP. I,'ve chatted to several couples who have asked to meet just me and leave poor Charlie at home with his porny mag. X

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think there is something a bit unethical, deceitful and disrespectful about couples who try and cheery pick one half of a couple when it's fairly obvious the couple intend to play as a couple. Not cool in my book and hurtful. I know it's very hard to find 4 way attraction (as any one in a couple knows). But it's fair to assume that a couple come as a couple unless they state otherwise. The respectful policy to have is if you won't meet with both halfs then you won't meet either of them full stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of the reasons we stopped meeting couples. Got so fed up of poor hubby being ignored. We were always very upfront about what we wanted, but a lot of couples will say they are looking for the same hoping to get you in the bedroom and then they either ignore my hubby completely or the woman would seem to be taking one for the team.

We both decided it wasn't worth it, social side was always fun bur we prefer the fun with single guys much more straight forward and more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play as a couple or as individuals but the ones that get me is when s couple talks to us on the couple account and we look at arranging a meet all four of us.

Then boo saying she has got a messaged from him on his own asking to play without his partner knowing.

It's an instant end of possible meeting with them at that point.

And I have I explained why if they have asked

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