FabSwingers.com forum: Age gap

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What sort of age gap are you comfortable with?

Out is interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t have a number that I’d stop at. I’ve been with older women (one was 56 when I was 27), if there’s an attraction I really don’t dare about age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sex, or for a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hubby is 52 so no issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 20 and the guy I have regular meets with is 41....I guess it's about being on the same level mentally....If it works for you then age shouldn't matter

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

For us there is no issue around age other than the fact that we must be attracted to them and be able to have a good intelligent conversation.

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

I have no issues with age. As long as the woman is over 18 then it's all good.

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

Got to draw the line as it creeps into the 60s. Too close to my mum's age and that's just weird.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

I'm 38 so don't rule out age. I have experienced ladies from late twenties to late fifties.

It's quite an exciting time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my age, there is always going to be a gap!!

I'm 14 years older than the Mrs.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

For us, age is just a number (just as well really)and the only thing we go on is.. Do we fancy him/her/them?

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't go too low,ie under 30

Men my age and a few years older is my preference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s when I’m old enough to be their mum!

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By *TkitkatWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I don't really have limits if I like someone then I like someone. You get people who simply turn you off or aren't your thing who happen to be "in the bracket" as much as you do people who are "out of the bracket" so sometimes its best not to have a bracket, or have a fluid flexible bracket.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Depends on the person, age can be a number we have met people a lot younger than ourselves but not many older but maybe that’s to do with our age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel the same. .if I like someone I like them..been with 15 years older and 20 under xx

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By *ritishDom1962Man
over a year ago

London

Age is just a number for me but no under aged.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

No one old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my son for playmates.

For a relationship, someone my own age(ish).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger, I am good down to, possibly, 20...older,possibly a year or two, maybe, but more likely rarely above 40 tbh

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

As someone else has said its your outlook & how your personality that signify your age, not the number of candles on your cake.

H has always said If I'd acted my age or had an older outlook when we met then maybe nothing would ever have happened.

We've been together seventeen years now & nothing has really changed, except the two kids are trying their best to age me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have a limit, that changed when I started to get close to someone a few years ago. I used to see her merely as an older woman, no sexual attraction at all. When I got closer to her, our personalities sort of clicked and, I became incredibly infatuated with her. (mentally and physically)

Thus, I think it's hard to say. I guess 70 wouldbe too old. The women I spoke of above, I would have loved until death though, as there was more than a physical bond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No age limit. Younger (20ish) is hot for obvious reasons however older is also hot because of the experience - can't teach experience. As long as there is an attractions - and I'm talking about sex here not relationship. That's completely different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is having a detrimental effect on me. My playmates seem to be getting younger and younger. No complaints from them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What sort of age gap are you comfortable with?

Out is interest "

personally I try to keep within my age preferences (65 upper limit)

however I have (and sometimes still do) make exceptions and go older. This just depends on if I find the person/people attractive or not and whether we have similar interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like younger. My current fwb is in his 20's

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"What sort of age gap are you comfortable with?

Out is interest "

If I am old enough to have fathered them I am uncomfortable. I have a 35 year old women in work interested in dating me. I can't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number really but i'm not a cradle snatcher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a older woman! To bad can’t seem to find any in to me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner is 10 years older then me, so I think also for me it is not a matter

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

It’s just a number

if I like you it’s good

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I have no age issues at all, its about the person not their age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was 10 year older, i prefer mature woman.

I seem to connect better

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By *plbnorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

My wife now she has tried younger has a glint in her eye for mid 20s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only age limit is nobody younger than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My only age limit is nobody younger than me!"

Phew

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Have a thing for much younger and much older men no complaints from them and certainly I've had great sex. I don't think age will ever be a barrier for me as long as I'm attracted. That said, I really do enjoy quite young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 years between me and the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do confess to a fondness for the younger guy. But not too young. Mid twenties and up. Not 18-20 ish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how good they look for their age

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By *LxxxhMan
over a year ago

Rochdale

I love an older woman, don’t know how far I’d go though haha, oldest is 50 so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years for me and my wife.. I'm a toy boy at 46 still...

As long as the chat, play is interesting and fun, then age is not important to me.

Connection, chemistry and flirty fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"4 years for me and my wife.. I'm a toy boy at 46 still...

As long as the chat, play is interesting and fun, then age is not important to me.

Connection, chemistry and flirty fun... "

But I do like older fun couples...

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By *imits2pushMan
over a year ago

lichfield

For me age is technically just a number.

For most attraction is attraction, i am primarily attracted to mid to late 20’s. But have played with 18-40 and my most recent gf was 10 years older than me.

It’s important to bare in mind age does have differences. I am more careful when playing with younger girls upto mid 20’s.

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By *imits2pushMan
over a year ago

lichfield

"I'm 20 and the guy I have regular meets with is 41....I guess it's about being on the same level mentally....If it works for you then age shouldn't matter

You’re just down the road from me

. You know, just saying haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sex, I'd go a few years younger, and upto 35 years older. I fancy much older women.

For a relationship, well, I'm not into relationships, but if I was, I'd prefer as close to my age as possible.

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