FabSwingers.com forum: Block list

By *innamon! OP Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Do you have huge numbers on your block list.. This is prompted by a status today..Which seems to have blocked half the site and is always moaning on... I have 22 just people who wont stop contacting when asked..Just curious really

Grins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have, but the introduction of the 'private notes' tab has made it much easier to remember who chuffed me off and how

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I only have 3 now....

It use to be lots more but I know use the private notes function to write some rather rude things about them instead... Very therapeutic

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By *innamon! OP Woman
over a year ago

no matter

ohh yes the private notes liist is great isnt it

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I am quite surprised... mines actually gone into double figures with a total of 11.

For me personally, I don't see the point in blocking for the sake of it willy*snigger*nilly.

You have to be a very special kind of twunt to get on my list.

But if people want to block, hey ho, it's a function there to be used just like any other.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Just counted and it's 137

Not cos anyone's pissed me off but I do say in my profile that if you don't send me a joke, I'll delete message and block so have to keep my word....it's about 98% single guys btw....

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

far too many for IE to count when asked to search "last logged on" on the page (just says more than 100)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

36 but it goes up and down with people deleting profiles. Usually used when someone asks why after a polite no thanks because i know its going to go on but if I dont want people contacting me then its a suitable option. I see it as a tool the same as the message filters and not something you should be ashamed to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am quite surprised... mines actually gone into double figures with a total of 11.

For me personally, I don't see the point in blocking for the sake of it willy*snigger*nilly.

You have to be a very special kind of twunt to get on my list.

But if people want to block, hey ho, it's a function

there to be used just like any other."
Excellent use of the the word 'twunt'

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Not that many considering we have been on here over 3 years

Ive just had a look and some of them I can't remembered why I blocked,and then some of them I know exactly why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have quite a few on our list.

The only people we block are the disrespectful ones that send the usual tripe when messaging us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who deletes a message from me gets blocked, that way I wont send them another by mistake... I can't trust my memory!

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

just a few .

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By *innamon! OP Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I was just wondering why anyone would want to count 460 people

on a block list . Far too much time on hands I imagine. giggles .. gonna knock all mine off and see what happens

Its spring lets be nice to people ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few maybe about 25ish. I tend to block people if they are not interested. Saves me the trouble of mailing again in a few weeks time if I come across the profile and forget I have tried to mail before.

Theres a few on there also who are just rude and nasty in replies so they get blocked on general principle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12. I only block people if they get abusive or just don't stop contacting me even though I said no 10 times.

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By *azmalcCouple
over a year ago

derby

we have a few its the foul mouth idiots who show no respect its a good thing stops all the agro they give when you turn them down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it as a filter. If I find profiles with in my area, that are not looking for single blokes, don't meet people who are Bi (Doesn't mean always) those I have emailed twice (First is a hello, second will be a joking comment about their status or new pic) with no reply, or those who I simply don't like.

Love to all x

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I use mine to block those that won't get an invite to a Posse Party....

If I've blocked them or any reason, there is NO WAY on god's earth I'm going to be responsible for them at a party.

I've got over 200 on mine and a fairly mixed collection.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

OH MY GOD!!!!

Cant count how many, but by doing a count per page (screen), then a rough page count, I think we have somewhere approaching 800!!!

In our defence, we had a couple of bad experiences when we turned down single guys, so for a while we ended up blocking any single males who looked at us..... really did think that most people had lots on theirs too....... oh my, we are naughty!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe about 40

Is that a lot for almost 3yrs ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Mine gets longer by the day, think i blocked about six people just from reading one thread yesterday lol. Depends what kind of mood in as to how many get blocked. I block anyone i dont want to have an association with of any kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that many considering we have been on here over 3 years

Ive just had a look and some of them I can't remembered why I blocked,and then some of them I know exactly why

Likewise.

I have 30 on mine...20 of those are under 25 and five couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine gets longer by the day, think i blocked about six people just from reading one thread yesterday lol. Depends what kind of mood in as to how many get blocked. I block anyone i dont want to have an association with of any kind"

Oooh you're harsh!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Only have 1 on my list

Not bad considering I've been on here since 2008

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I had quite a few on mine, used it as an admin tool to avoid contacting/bothering people again once I had established there's was no interest in messaging/meeting.

I hid my account because I've been working abroad for 3 months. Now I'm back I find my block list has been set to zero for some reason, wasn't me!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Just over 40, mainly single men who have trouble with the word 'no', either from messaging me or during a social meet, or who stood me up. The rest are people who haven't replied to messages, or people who have ticked me off on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol got a couple mostly single guys (surprise surprise) get some rather random mails sometimes that don't seem to let up so its all you can really do i guess

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By *nIMidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Rugeley

we got to say we been on fab for i would say 3yr now and it got to be around the 2,000 but have had lots of fun from of fab too so not all bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have not yet blocked anyone :- am i a pushover,just laidback or just a slapper I wonder???? lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

loads, but 99% from chat, if ppl are twunts, direct ect its easier to block than get wound up about it, after reporting them of course,

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

Quite a few on ours also, mainly guys who have been told no, more than once that we don't wish to meet them.

So to save hassle we block, but also use the private note thingy now too..

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I have a handful on my list - mainly to stop me contacting people who have said 'no'.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

About 40 on mine but thats in about 3 years.

Cant remember the reason for most of them, but I tend to block people who have the sort of profile that I would normally go for, but then I see something on their status that would make them a no-no....

Abusive gets a block but thats probably only a handful. And hasslers I just ignore.

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By *ondafirestormMan
over a year ago

heckington

No one as im very easy going and will chat to anyone lol

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By *rs L and Mr DCouple
over a year ago

helensburgh

lots ... mostly those in chat room that have nothing to say other than nice tits ... to everyone .... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only 3. 2 x timewasters, 1 bad meet,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's it. Everyone's blocked. Bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have none.... cause we like to peeps slagging us off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have none.... cause we like to peeps slagging us off lol

blocked ya c*nt's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oi paddy m8 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahaha even looked to see if ya did ya fud lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hahaha even looked to see if ya did ya fud lol

my block buttons got a bad lag!

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over a year ago

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

8 profiles on our block list.

3 because they keep emailing us despite being told we were not interested.

2 because they gave me the creeps with thheir messages.

3 from the forums (for various reasons)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just one , lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use mine to block those that won't get an invite to a Posse Party....

If I've blocked them or any reason, there is NO WAY on god's earth I'm going to be responsible for them at a party.

I've got over 200 on mine and a fairly mixed collection."

I'm not sure what this means. If say the pussy posse party was held at Chams, and people were members of Chams and just happened to be in that club on the day, then you couldn't stop them going in could you?

I doubt whether the proprietor would withdraw membership because someone was on your block list.

But yes I agree that you don't have to let them on your guest list so for non members they wouldn't be able to attend, but regular members at that club would be able to walk in at any time surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our blocked list is huge. The most recent addition was someone whose response to our polite rejection was a message saying 'your loss'.

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By *nvyCouple
over a year ago

Waltham Cross

Our block list is tiny we feel left out

To be honest the last couple of people we blocked consisted of one person who said they had seen me shopping with my kids (freaked me out) and a guy who sent the same copy and paste message every four days after being already told he wasn't our type

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

no idea how meny on blocked list . if ive blocked them its for a reason , why would i then give them any further thought ? concentrate on the folks i do want to talk to no the ones o obviously dont want to lol !

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

trolls, lunatics, the needy, howlers on the night of the full moon, people who appear with new profiles to mischief make, the nosey fuckers, the clingy....

and they are more than welcome to return the favour, I almost insist they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm yeah it grows by about 3 a week for me , half the time i cant remember why though , but they must have done something so leave them on there .

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I haven't blocked anyone since finishing my international bestseller (to be) horror novel 'Dead Block'.

A brief synopsis:

This pompous self obsessed forum member (with an awesome arse) keeps adding people to his block list and in real life each person blocked dies one by one in horrendous ways. He can't understand why it's happening and tries to find out who is doing it but he himself becomes the chief suspect in a multiple murder enquiry.

Will he be arrested for murder?

Does the real murderer hate him or love him?

Who hacked his account and visits it each day... To check who is the next...

DEAD BLOCK!!!

Coming to the iBook store very soon. Movie rights available for negotiation.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I haven't blocked anyone since finishing my international bestseller (to be) horror novel 'Dead Block'.

A brief synopsis:

Will he be arrested for murder?

Does the real murderer hate him or love him?

Who hacked his account and visits it each day... To check who is the next...

DEAD BLOCK!!!

Coming to the iBook store very soon. Movie rights available for negotiation."

That made me chuckle

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I haven't blocked anyone since finishing my international bestseller (to be) horror novel 'Dead Block'.

A brief synopsis:

Will he be arrested for murder?

Does the real murderer hate him or love him?

Who hacked his account and visits it each day... To check who is the next...

DEAD BLOCK!!!

Coming to the iBook store very soon. Movie rights available for negotiation.

That made me chuckle"

Ah ffs! It's supposed to frighten you!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Peeps out from behind cushion and prays we aren't on funkys block list.

Is that better?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Peeps out from behind cushion and prays we aren't on funkys block list.

Is that better?

That's the spirit!!! Thank you

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By *venturusoMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Is there any way of filtering out of your search those you have blocked or have blocked you, just seems daft to have their profile appearing in your search

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Is there any way of filtering out of your search those you have blocked or have blocked you, just seems daft to have their profile appearing in your search"

Just kill them. See above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any way of filtering out of your search those you have blocked or have blocked you, just seems daft to have their profile appearing in your search"

If you've blocked them or they've blocked you, you can't _iew their profiles anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years since we joined Fab we have been inundated with messages from all over the globe in spite of our profile stating we are only interested in meeting people who live locally.

Eventually we were forced to recognise that it was pointless saying this (regardless of the bluntness) as it was being completely ignored.

In desperation we resorted to threats to block every single guy who ignored our stated preference in "locals only".

The MANY hundreds of single guys now occupying our block list are proof of how much notice the threat has made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm..... That made us wonder so we had a count up.....327 on our block list.... No wonder we don't get many messages! That's not even counting single men who we have put the filter on due to been inundated with messages!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was suggested to us that we should use the filter to stop single guys contacting us but we rather like being joined by single guys except when they promise to travel from Latvia (etc) for a meet!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Is there any way of filtering out of your search those you have blocked or have blocked you, just seems daft to have their profile appearing in your search

Just kill them. See above."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have loads.

Just find it stops us wasting time _iewing profiles that aren't right for us or us for them.

You _iew a profile, find you aren't compatible so you block. Saves everyone time & hassle.

Love the block button, it is your friend

Him

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

2 from a couple, that have a single fem profile and get very insistant.

1 single guy

and 1 single fem we arent sure of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot to be fair, too many to count. I block for all sorts of reasons - if someone sends a message that turns my stomach or is abusive, if they say something on the forum that really really turns me off. Or if they can't take no for an answer.

This thread has made me curious about unblocking the lot just to see what happens - I guess I can always reblock if they become a problem again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havnt looked but just added to it , I mean how can someone love my profile when its hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have about 60.... i block guys who look at my profile as i can never understand y they look 4... how did u get here...

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By *mma peelWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I prob have hundreds....if not suitable or sends me a 'fancy a fuck?'message, I just block....life's too short to waste my time messaging undesirables.....

PS if I didn't fancy a fuck, I wouldn't be here....

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"i have about 60.... i block guys who look at my profile as i can never understand y they look 4... how did u get here..."

They're looking to check out the competition or because they want your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Havnt looked but just added to it , I mean how can someone love my profile when its hidden

I adore secretive people ....a massive

's up to yer profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a lot to be fair, too many to count. I block for all sorts of reasons - if someone sends a message that turns my stomach or is abusive, if they say something on the forum that really really turns me off. Or if they can't take no for an answer.

This thread has made me curious about unblocking the lot just to see what happens - I guess I can always reblock if they become a problem again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have about 60.... i block guys who look at my profile as i can never understand y they look 4... how did u get here...

They're looking to check out the competition or because they want your body

Oh no... stop it you'll scare me off lol

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over a year ago

"i have about 60.... i block guys who look at my profile as i can never understand y they look 4... how did u get here...

They're looking to check out the competition or because they want your body

Oh no... stop it you'll scare me off lol

Im not that scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have about 60.... i block guys who look at my profile as i can never understand y they look 4... how did u get here...

They're looking to check out the competition or because they want your body

Oh no... stop it you'll scare me off lol

blocking just for looking???....seems bizarre to me lol- if not for anything I love ppl checking my profile lol..its there to show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see why there is a need for a block list however in my opinion just a polite thanks but no thanks is usually suffice! Nothing more irritating than chatting to someone, tehn next mesage you try to send you're blocked!

What's that all about then????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have about 60.... i block guys who look at my profile as i can never understand y they look 4... how did u get here...

They're looking to check out the competition or because they want your body

Oh no... stop it you'll scare me off lol

blocking just for looking???....seems bizarre to me lol- if not for anything I love ppl checking my profile lol..its there to show off"

About as bizarre as being a single guy checking out other guys profile...

I can't entertain that kind of attention... Guess I'm bizarre yay

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

I block those people that block me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have about 60.... i block guys who look at my profile as i can never understand y they look 4... how did u get here...

They're looking to check out the competition or because they want your body

Oh no... stop it you'll scare me off lol

blocking just for looking???....seems bizarre to me lol- if not for anything I love ppl checking my profile lol..its there to show off

About as bizarre as being a single guy checking out other guys profile...

I can't entertain that kind of attention... Guess I'm bizarre yay

well i have many male friends...some i attend gangbangs,parties etc...we dont have any sexual contact with eachother and we see the scene as a friendly place.If i blocked a 'looker' of the male sex verytime...thatd just defeat my purpose on the scene.anyway i havent checked ur profile,anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Havnt looked but just added to it , I mean how can someone love my profile when its hidden

I adore secretive people ....a massive

's up to yer profile

Aww thank you took me ages to get it right it's all my own work you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Havnt looked but just added to it , I mean how can someone love my profile when its hidden

I adore secretive people ....a massive

's up to yer profile

Aww thank you took me ages to get it right it's all my own work you know

It's so good ....I've had to nick it

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