FabSwingers.com forum: Bigger girls/BBW

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just out of curiosity - I've found since being on here that I get a LOT of attention from guys saying my body is perfect, sexy etc etc but not so much in person - is it because the dudes on here are lying cos they want an easy shag or is it that guys in real life situations are embarrassed to admit they like a bigger girl??

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By *eekibooMan
over a year ago

Northwest

Nothing wrong with a bigger girl in fact there's everything right with them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't talk for others but I luv big girls but yes some are a little ashamed in real life and then you got some who are genuine.

You got to try work out who's real and just trying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get looked at when out yet on here i get loads of messages saying they want ti meet

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’m not afraid to admit that I like a bigger girl. Just took a peek at your pics and fabbed every one. And it wasn’t a sympathy fab either x

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

i think for me size isnt a issue, a confident woman is a sexy woman in my eyes

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think there is few different answers. They might have bbw on their sex bucket list, they might be genuine and attracted to bbw (I like dad bods and muscly man-you see them and you know if you are attracted) or they might think you are easy pray. I think after deeper conversations it’s quite easy to tell these apart

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By *harismatic EnigmaMan
over a year ago

leeds

I think there some truth to that, but I honestly think a lot of them will be genuine because I sensed from other profiles that guys don’t take rejection well from bbws. Also when you refer to in person could you be specific about the situations you would expect to get attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get looked at when out yet on here i get loads of messages saying they want ti meet"

Speaking personally I'd happily give you attention in public, how anyone would not want to I don't get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re gorgeous and I’d definite admit I like bigger girls

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By *ussexboxMan
over a year ago

Ferring

I love women of all different denominations.

As long as they dig me then happy days

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"i think for me size isnt a issue, a confident woman is a sexy woman in my eyes

This

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I had a guy message us last week saying he liked bigger girls as they were more up for it as they find it harder to get it else where

& guys wonder why messages don’t get replies

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I think some guys do like fat girls. I am married to a man who has always had chubby girlfriends before he met me and I have never struggled to get a boyfriend. It may be confidence but even on a vanilla night out I will get approached

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Some just see it as am easy lay option.. ( ha so they think) and others will genuinely like bigger girls... but it's amazing how often I go from someone with a perfect amazing figure... to a fat desperate slapper in the time it takes me to say no thank you x

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

"i think for me size isnt a issue, a confident woman is a sexy woman in my eyes

Couldn't have put it better myself. There are plenty of genuine guys who love the curvier figure. But I think you're right OP, not all men who do, actually admit it. Maybe something to do with observing flawed societal norms about "perfect" figures. All a load of nonsense really, sexual attraction depends on so many factors apart from body shape/size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get looked at when out yet on here i get loads of messages saying they want ti meet

Speaking personally I'd happily give you attention in public, how anyone would not want to I don't get. "
aww thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there is few different answers. They might have bbw on their sex bucket list, they might be genuine and attracted to bbw (I like dad bods and muscly man-you see them and you know if you are attracted) or they might think you are easy pray. I think after deeper conversations it’s quite easy to tell these apart

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Totally! Some see them as easy prey and some wouldn’t be seen with one in public but online and behind doors they cannot get enough. The size of someone doesn’t change who they are, you could have the best body in the world but if you have a bad personality that rarely changes. Curves and extra weight do really suit some girls, yes to some degree it’s not healthy that’s totally understood. You could be any size and unhealthy, me (mr) I’m attracted to different women for different reasons and my last 2 partners are bbws and really pretty and I had full blown relationships with them so it’s not a bucket list or fetish etc it’s about the person with many forms of attraction x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a problem getting a boyfriend, all of them(only 4 lol) have given me confidence in myself. Love my curves and wobbly bits, I have had a huge amount of interest on here but in real life none.... Never had a guy approach me on a night out or even so much as get looked at... Strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get approached on a night out but have tons of men messaging on here.

If they’re young and muscley I delete them straight away cos I just look at their pics and wonder why in the hell they're messaging someone that looks like me.

I’m very negative about myself and can never understand why people like bbw’s.

I’ve met a few people on here over the years on my old profile yet still get really shy about meeting new people in case they think I’m exaggerating when I say I’m fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are and some telling the truth x we love a cute BBW xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a bigger girl

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

"I never get approached on a night out but have tons of men messaging on here.

If they’re young and muscley I delete them straight away cos I just look at their pics and wonder why in the hell they're messaging someone that looks like me.

I’m very negative about myself and can never understand why people like bbw’s.

I’ve met a few people on here over the years on my old profile yet still get really shy about meeting new people in case they think I’m exaggerating when I say I’m fat "

I am exactly the same, I won't meet anyone If I think they are too 'gym fit'- attractive, as I wouldn't feel comfortable or understand why they would want me..

L x

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

In real life, I've never had a problem attracting people, even on Facebook where they may only be going off your pics & a limited insight into your personality. It's different in here though, I still imagine it to be very in favour of "gym fit" bodies & shy away from those who have them (In the expectation of being negatively judged). Tbh for me though, I really do like a fuller figure. A nice face and a lovely personality is what really does it for me

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get looked at when out yet on here i get loads of messages saying they want ti meet"

Same I think most guys seem to be embarrassed about being seen with a big girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get looked at when out yet on here i get loads of messages saying they want ti meet"

Do you have your boobs on show when you go out? Men just see sex when they look at naked pics on here. Going out fully dressed and face on show and having naked pics on here will get very different reactions. They are two very different environments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely get looked at when out yet on here i get loads of messages saying they want ti meet

Same I think most guys seem to be embarrassed about being seen with a big girl"

I personally think you are stunning, you are far from big (not saying big is a problem) you would be the kind of lady I'd go for looks wise 100%

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I got lots of attention in real life prior to Fab, and I've been much bigger than I am now.

Some people like big women , some don't.

I won't be boo-hooing over the ones who don't.

Too busy with the ones who do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can keep your size zero stick insects- give me a lady (with a capital L) whose not afraid to show off her charms. The sight of a lovely booty or bust straining under a size too small pair of knickers or bra is SO sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get any different attention from here than I get from going out tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can keep your size zero stick insects- give me a lady (with a capital L) whose not afraid to show off her charms. The sight of a lovely booty or bust straining under a size too small pair of knickers or bra is SO sexy.

Xx"

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I got lots of attention in real life prior to Fab, and I've been much bigger than I am now.

Some people like big women , some don't.

I won't be boo-hooing over the ones who don't.

Too busy with the ones who do

Thank goodness you showed up - I was getting worried that I was the only girl who got attention in the real world

It’s concerning just how many big or fat girls think that guys would feel embarrassed to be seen with them

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Some just see it as am easy lay option.. ( ha so they think) and others will genuinely like bigger girls... but it's amazing how often I go from someone with a perfect amazing figure... to a fat desperate slapper in the time it takes me to say no thank you x "

Had this happen a few times too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got lots of attention in real life prior to Fab, and I've been much bigger than I am now.

Some people like big women , some don't.

I won't be boo-hooing over the ones who don't.

Too busy with the ones who do

Thank goodness you showed up - I was getting worried that I was the only girl who got attention in the real world

It’s concerning just how many big or fat girls think that guys would feel embarrassed to be seen with them

Agreed ive had ex gf's that were and wasnt ever ashamed to be seen out in public with them if anything we would mostly catch guys checking their boobs out than making any comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with what a lot have said, some want an easy lay others genuinely are attracted to bigger women. What I will say though is ladies don’t run from the gym fit muscle boys I’ve had a lot of fun with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most on here see my tits and want them but then not so sure on the rest of my body but would try anyway just to get to my tits.

I never get this when i have a night out.

This is why i feel more comfortable at a nude club as men and women actually talk to my face and not my assets

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

"I had a guy message us last week saying he liked bigger girls as they were more up for it as they find it harder to get it else where

& guys wonder why messages don’t get replies "

That is fucking rude! I hope you sent a scathing message back cheeky sod!

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By *ED00Woman
over a year ago

South Devon... Torbaydos

I've found the same. Guy do seem to like a curvy larger girl. Odd cause on dating sites I've had very little attention.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Welcome to the complicated mind of men, one minute petite the next big women.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We’re always searching for that ‘mirror couple’, just so we’re all playing on an even playing field. Body confidence can be such a drag sometimes. However, the most erotic and sexual organ is the brain ultimately. Seduce the mind and the body will follow. Brain dead narcissists need not apply

Ed x

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Totally! Some see them as easy prey and some wouldn’t be seen with one in public but online and behind doors they cannot get enough. The size of someone doesn’t change who they are, you could have the best body in the world but if you have a bad personality that rarely changes. Curves and extra weight do really suit some girls, yes to some degree it’s not healthy that’s totally understood. You could be any size and unhealthy, me (mr) I’m attracted to different women for different reasons and my last 2 partners are bbws and really pretty and I had full blown relationships with them so it’s not a bucket list or fetish etc it’s about the person with many forms of attraction x "

I do get attracted to a person as whole. Personality and looks are important for me and if there is that attraction why not to go for it

I feel sad only for those who feel embarrassed to be in public with BBWs as they are missing out on being true to themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bigger women. Love being seen in public with a beautiful woman if she is a curvier woman so what. And an added bonus if her being comfortable and confident in her own body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get attracted to a person as whole. Personality and looks are important for me and if there is that attraction why not to go for it

I feel sad only for those who feel embarrassed to be in public with BBWs as they are missing out on being true to themselves

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There’s lots that go into attraction and chemistry is a big factor and exactly why miss out on something that could be awesome

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do get attracted to a person as whole. Personality and looks are important for me and if there is that attraction why not to go for it

I feel sad only for those who feel embarrassed to be in public with BBWs as they are missing out on being true to themselves

There’s lots that go into attraction and chemistry is a big factor and exactly why miss out on something that could be awesome

True that and I want to mentioned that I never had a disappointed man for whatever reason they wanted me

There could always be a first one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only do I tell them, I show them too. I’ve never been interested in skinny women, curves are way more interesting and appetising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy message us last week saying he liked bigger girls as they were more up for it as they find it harder to get it else where

& guys wonder why messages don’t get replies "

Oh dear god that is awful

Makes me feel very uneasy

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm not sure if I'd be classed as a BBW (size 14-16). But we find we get a huge amount of views from couples but very few messages. But lots of men respond but in clubs they don't speak. Hmmm it's a difficult one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience men give me attention on here but would never give me the same attention elsewhere. I do believe men think I should because I'm fat i should be grateful for their offers of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only do I tell them, I show them too. I’ve never been interested in skinny women, curves are way more interesting and appetising "

Hmmm this makes you sound very appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only do I tell them, I show them too. I’ve never been interested in skinny women, curves are way more interesting and appetising

Hmmm this makes you sound very appealing

Oh shucks

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not sure if I'd be classed as a BBW (size 14-16). But we find we get a huge amount of views from couples but very few messages. But lots of men respond but in clubs they don't speak. Hmmm it's a difficult one"

I would say you are just BW- beautiful woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say you are just BW- beautiful woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get attracted to a person as whole. Personality and looks are important for me and if there is that attraction why not to go for it

I feel sad only for those who feel embarrassed to be in public with BBWs as they are missing out on being true to themselves

There’s lots that go into attraction and chemistry is a big factor and exactly why miss out on something that could be awesome

True that and I want to mentioned that I never had a disappointed man for whatever reason they wanted me

There could always be a first one

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Well you must be doing something right

some men are very demanding in different departments

what will be will be and just enjoy the ride

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By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I won’t meet a guy if he’s only got veri’s from slim girls, I would just be comparing how huge I am compared to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both prefer bigger girls but attractive is attractive no matter what size.

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By *ohnnw1Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Tbh for me though, I really do like a fuller figure. A nice face and a lovely personality is what really does it for me

THIS

The sight of a lovely booty or bust straining under a size too small pair of knickers or bra is SO sexy.

AND THIS

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

"I think some guys do like fat girls. I am married to a man who has always had chubby girlfriends before he met me and I have never struggled to get a boyfriend. It may be confidence but even on a vanilla night out I will get approached

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think everyone who knows me, knows I adore bigger women. To be fair I adore all kinds of women but my attraction tends to be for bigger women and chunky legs. As some one has said to me before you can tell when your with a man if they genuinely adore a bigger woman or their not really that into it. I guess like most things the proof of the pudding is in the eating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a curvy lady, they look and feel womanly and love a big pair of tits bouncing in my face...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say both. :-!

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By *av6969Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Big is beautiful x

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

I've sent many guys away thinking they are too attractive for me, but found my regular who loves me as big as I am, even tho he is hot af.

There is no rule, trust your guts when you meet.

Fab is amazing, I don't have even one guy on the street who would look at me, and here I get all needed attention from bbw lovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, attraction starts with a woman who is comfortable and confident in her body. I also prefer a woman who has soft curves and skin.

Often the gym bunnies are often less secure in their bodies as they are constantly fighting to improve and as a result are a little narcissistic

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

I'm what it says in name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won’t meet a guy if he’s only got veri’s from slim girls, I would just be comparing how huge I am compared to them!"

I’m the same lol. Always check out the veri’s to see who they’ve met with beforehand. If it’s only skinny people, I won’t meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy/BBW my thing on here and in real life, I just love it!

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

It's nice to see so many men appreciate a curvier woman/bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no definitely not the case !...many of us very genuine guys really do prefer a shapely " REAL " woman !!...as opposed to a stereotyped " stick insect ..

Be proud of the body and shape you are !!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won’t meet a guy if he’s only got veri’s from slim girls, I would just be comparing how huge I am compared to them!

I’m the same lol. Always check out the veri’s to see who they’ve met with beforehand. If it’s only skinny people, I won’t meet them "

Really? What if he has met other bigger girls but not verified by them?. A man’s taste can change all the time. Last guy I met had women much bigger than me on his veris, should I have not met him as he probably likes very large women or actually get to know him first and forget about who else he has met and let chemistry and connection take its place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh no definitely not the case !...many of us very genuine guys really do prefer a shapely " REAL " woman !!...as opposed to a stereotyped " stick insect ..

Be proud of the body and shape you are !!."

All women are ‘real’ women. Body shaming is not cool. Your last sentence doesn’t really make sense.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Why does another body type have to be referred to in a derogatory way on these type of threads?

Can’t you just say the positives about what you prefer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does another body type have to be referred to in a derogatory way on these type of threads?

Can’t you just say the positives about what you prefer? "

I agree. It’s always the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met quite a few ladies over the years who have been very body conscious , ie holding there hands over there stomach etc when getting undressed I guess assuming a guy southeast to see stretch marks or a sagging stomach ...and my point is that personally I'd rather see what I rightly or wrongly term a " real woman " as opposed to the type of girl you see in an advert ...skipping down the beach ,size 6 in a tight bikini..

Hope this makes sense ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Oh no definitely not the case !...many of us very genuine guys really do prefer a shapely " REAL " woman !!...as opposed to a stereotyped " stick insect ..

Be proud of the body and shape you are !!."

Unless you're a size 6?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"For me, attraction starts with a woman who is comfortable and confident in her body. I also prefer a woman who has soft curves and skin.

Often the gym bunnies are often less secure in their bodies as they are constantly fighting to improve and as a result are a little narcissistic "

Do you genuinely believe this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely believe that there a lot of ladies out there who are more body conscious than they should be and guys too I guess ...

I've had ladies tell me that they see themselves as " FAT " not my terminology !!.

When to be honest they look amazing ..!!

I'm not for one second saying there's anything wrong with a size 6 lady either I'm merely expressing a personal opinion that sadly there are far too many ladies who are made to feel overweight by ridiculous advertising pressure etc ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I genuinely believe that there a lot of ladies out there who are more body conscious than they should be and guys too I guess ...

I've had ladies tell me that they see themselves as " FAT " not my terminology !!.

When to be honest they look amazing ..!!

Your use of the term stick insect hardly encourages body confidence in petite women.

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By *igg13Man
over a year ago

This!!

Its definitely a mix. Personally I love a larger lady.

But as the above some guys will just say it to try and get laid.

Lots of sexy ladies on this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the larger ladies. Something more alluring about them. They might not all like me. But I can dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hhhiiii

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By *on3y_1Woman
over a year ago

Oldbury

it's not about the size you wear, it's how you wear your size. BBW'S ROCK xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's not about the size you wear, it's how you wear your size. BBW'S ROCK xx"

Well said that sexy lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow ...gorgeous breasts and a beautiful smooth inviting pussy !!!.

Please keep posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never thought that because a woman was bigger she would be easy, it's pretty offensive really to think that way but yeah some people probably do. I don't have any embarrassment to admit I like bigger women, to only reason I wouldn't approach a woman in public is I'm horrendous at it

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"it's not about the size you wear, it's how you wear your size. BBW'S ROCK xx"

True.

When I was out clubbing in my 20s and 30s I was never short of attention. At my biggest I was around a uk22 and my little clubbing mate was around the same.

Everywhere we went the men loved us. Probably because we were confident and looked like we were having fun.

The stares and glares we got were unfortunately off other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's not about the size you wear, it's how you wear your size. BBW'S ROCK xx

True.

When I was out clubbing in my 20s and 30s I was never short of attention. At my biggest I was around a uk22 and my little clubbing mate was around the same.

Everywhere we went the men loved us. Probably because we were confident and looked like we were having fun.

The stares and glares we got were unfortunately off other women.

It’s most probably they were jealous of the attention you and your friend were getting. As the silly diets and going to gym 7 days a week didn’t pay off. You are gorgeous xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"it's not about the size you wear, it's how you wear your size. BBW'S ROCK xx

True.

When I was out clubbing in my 20s and 30s I was never short of attention. At my biggest I was around a uk22 and my little clubbing mate was around the same.

Everywhere we went the men loved us. Probably because we were confident and looked like we were having fun.

The stares and glares we got were unfortunately off other women.

It’s most probably they were jealous of the attention you and your friend were getting. As the silly diets and going to gym 7 days a week didn’t pay off. You are gorgeous xx"

Where did she say that the women glaring at them were on diets or going to the gym 7 days a week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's not about the size you wear, it's how you wear your size. BBW'S ROCK xx

True.

When I was out clubbing in my 20s and 30s I was never short of attention. At my biggest I was around a uk22 and my little clubbing mate was around the same.

Everywhere we went the men loved us. Probably because we were confident and looked like we were having fun.

The stares and glares we got were unfortunately off other women.

It’s most probably they were jealous of the attention you and your friend were getting. As the silly diets and going to gym 7 days a week didn’t pay off. You are gorgeous xx

Where did she say that the women glaring at them were on diets or going to the gym 7 days a week?

I’m glad you said it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"it's not about the size you wear, it's how you wear your size. BBW'S ROCK xx

True.

When I was out clubbing in my 20s and 30s I was never short of attention. At my biggest I was around a uk22 and my little clubbing mate was around the same.

Everywhere we went the men loved us. Probably because we were confident and looked like we were having fun.

The stares and glares we got were unfortunately off other women.

It’s most probably they were jealous of the attention you and your friend were getting. As the silly diets and going to gym 7 days a week didn’t pay off. You are gorgeous xx

Where did she say that the women glaring at them were on diets or going to the gym 7 days a week?

I’m glad you said it. "

I'm all for celebrating body positivity but not building one type up at the expense of another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's not about the size you wear, it's how you wear your size. BBW'S ROCK xx

True.

When I was out clubbing in my 20s and 30s I was never short of attention. At my biggest I was around a uk22 and my little clubbing mate was around the same.

Everywhere we went the men loved us. Probably because we were confident and looked like we were having fun.

The stares and glares we got were unfortunately off other women.

It’s most probably they were jealous of the attention you and your friend were getting. As the silly diets and going to gym 7 days a week didn’t pay off. You are gorgeous xx

Where did she say that the women glaring at them were on diets or going to the gym 7 days a week?

I’m glad you said it.

I'm all for celebrating body positivity but not building one type up at the expense of another.

I agree. It’s not on. I’m a bigger girl but I don’t like some of the things being said on here. There would be uproar if it was celebrating slimmer girls and shaming the larger sizes.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"it's not about the size you wear, it's how you wear your size. BBW'S ROCK xx

True.

When I was out clubbing in my 20s and 30s I was never short of attention. At my biggest I was around a uk22 and my little clubbing mate was around the same.

Everywhere we went the men loved us. Probably because we were confident and looked like we were having fun.

The stares and glares we got were unfortunately off other women.

It’s most probably they were jealous of the attention you and your friend were getting. As the silly diets and going to gym 7 days a week didn’t pay off. You are gorgeous xx

Where did she say that the women glaring at them were on diets or going to the gym 7 days a week?

I’m glad you said it.

I'm all for celebrating body positivity but not building one type up at the expense of another.

I agree. It’s not on. I’m a bigger girl but I don’t like some of the things being said on here. There would be uproar if it was celebrating slimmer girls and shaming the larger sizes. "

Agreed.

I wasn't shaming anyone.

I was stating my experience at the time.

It got to the point where my friend and I had to go to the club toilets in twos for protection from the jealous girls who didn't like the attention we got from "their" men.

Ah memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ur spot on hunny

Society makes having a big girl preference harder to be open about. As some men are worried about how they mates react etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds like you may have had guys that have said what they think you want to here maybe to get a meet, but most people who like fuller figures are more than happy to admit it myself being one

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By *heekyweebissimWoman
over a year ago

fife,

that made me giggle, heard it so many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a shame some men don't have the balls to admit they like a bigger girl.

Someone was body shaming in the forum about big girls needing to get healthy then the same guy messaged Boo asking to meet her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many responses!!

I think the reason i asked is because I’m quite insecure about myself and I guess I just assumed the guys that were complimenting me (and wanting to have sex with me) were taking the piss lol!

Glad to see there’s appreciation for bigger girls too, however pleaseee stop referring to us as “real women” because there’s no such thing, we’re all different!

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"I never get approached on a night out but have tons of men messaging on here.

If they’re young and muscley I delete them straight away cos I just look at their pics and wonder why in the hell they're messaging someone that looks like me.

I’m very negative about myself and can never understand why people like bbw’s.

I’ve met a few people on here over the years on my old profile yet still get really shy about meeting new people in case they think I’m exaggerating when I say I’m fat

I am exactly the same, I won't meet anyone If I think they are too 'gym fit'- attractive, as I wouldn't feel comfortable or understand why they would want me..

L x"

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also just in relation to my earlier point about guys being embarrassed - I met someone on here that I went to school with years ago & he’d said that he “absolutely loved my curves” but then asked if we could keep it on the low because he didn’t want his mates (again from our old school) to know he’d slept with me lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many responses!!

I think the reason i asked is because I’m quite insecure about myself and I guess I just assumed the guys that were complimenting me (and wanting to have sex with me) were taking the piss lol!

Glad to see there’s appreciation for bigger girls too, however pleaseee stop referring to us as “real women” because there’s no such thing, we’re all different!

I can tell you if i was complimenting you and wanting sex im defo NOT taking the piss and i agree a woman is a woman regardless of size big or small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many responses!!

I think the reason i asked is because I’m quite insecure about myself and I guess I just assumed the guys that were complimenting me (and wanting to have sex with me) were taking the piss lol!

Glad to see there’s appreciation for bigger girls too, however pleaseee stop referring to us as “real women” because there’s no such thing, we’re all different!

that last line

I like curves but I also like women who aren't curvy. Honestly it depends on their face and personality more than their body

But if we're just talking about bodies then yes, I love dem curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also just in relation to my earlier point about guys being embarrassed - I met someone on here that I went to school with years ago & he’d said that he “absolutely loved my curves” but then asked if we could keep it on the low because he didn’t want his mates (again from our old school) to know he’d slept with me lmao "

Any you didn't sleep with him? I wonder why

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By *ristolcouple21Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Being fat and somewhat self conscious means I’m really cautious around messages such as ‘cor you’re gorgeous’ they never get a response.. how does someone know? I’m gorgeous? My left tit might be gorgeous but my face might be pig like..

(it’s not btw

) my right tit might be lush but I could have the personality of a wet gold fish.. messages like that just tell me that you’d say anything for a fuck..

. To be honest though I’d probably feel the same way if I wasn’t overweight..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hes a total muppet so he is i wouldnt be keeping on the low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of messages I get telling me I'm sexy... For a big girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of messages I get telling me I'm sexy... For a big girl"

After having a nose at your profile your sexy period! Regardless of "size"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love some messages of local bbws..

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By *ossauMan
over a year ago

Perth

"I rarely get looked at when out yet on here i get loads of messages saying they want ti meet"

Well, I'd certainly look at you if I saw you out and about!! And if together, I'd tell you how gorgeous & sexy you were too.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

I would say it is both.

If they say online they like bigger women then they sould have no problem offline.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Sadly some men think bigger girls are depserate and therefore an easier way to get a meet.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"So many responses!!

I think the reason i asked is because I’m quite insecure about myself and I guess I just assumed the guys that were complimenting me (and wanting to have sex with me) were taking the piss lol!

Glad to see there’s appreciation for bigger girls too, however pleaseee stop referring to us as “real women” because there’s no such thing, we’re all different!

Some men do genuinely like bigger women. Sadly some men think bigger women are desperate for sex. You need to find out if somebody likes you for who you are or if he sees you as desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a curvy woman and not ashamed to say it in public x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bigger girls and bigger curves, incredibly sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m nearly always taken aback by the amount of attention I get on here, however despite meeting some lovely, very attractive guys, who seem to be very appreciative of all my lumps and bumps, I’m not convinced that they’d have given me the time of the day outside or fab.

Although I have no doubt some men really do find larger ladies attractive, I know some who would hate to even be seen with a bigger girl. Wouldn’t it just be nice if we were all judged on our personalities rather than our physicalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your body is extremely sexy. Each to there own we all have our types but I wouldn’t say no to you

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

Big girls yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the same messages and I feel like saying, have you read my profile and how I describe myself?!!! I don't reply to messages with compliments it usually means

they are lying and are trying to shmooze their way into my bed

Or they haven't read my profile and will be disapointed by the reality

Would much rather get a message that says they like bigger women so I know their type, rather than a message saying they love my body. Does that make sense to anyone?

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Wow there's a fuck load of bbw on here insulting both themselves and other bbws!

Firstly - get a grip and stop insulting yourselves.

Who defines what is "attractive"? Every single person does. Not just a select group of people. What I mean is beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds attractive another doesn't.

You obviously only look surface level. Because you're saying you wouldn't sleep with men who are gym fit because why would they find you attractive. So you're saying that those people are really attractive and guys with a bit of podge aren't? Maybe you should learn to love who you are and who others are and then you wouldn't be so unhappy!

Secondly. I find larger ladies attractive. But larger ladies who aren't confident and have a shit personality or are judgemental or stuck up I don't find attractive. Same as I don't find thin women attractive but with the right personality I would. Personality is 100 percent key! Sorry to go on a rant but it's people like you who make larger people insecure! And why the hell are you on here if you can't take criticism?

In answer to your question OP. No...

No one goes up to someone in the street any more. It's not the done thing! It's much easier online, it's got nothing to do with size.. More that people feel like they can be open online. Or dicks.. Depending on who you're talking about. Keyboard warriors as they are known. I go to a lot of clubs and get loads of attention. I get attention (ie people looking at me and checking me out or asking for my number) out and about but that's because I carry myself with pride. I love how I look and I don't mean in a full of myself way.. Just I am who I am and if you don't like it there's the door. Never put yourself down because of size. Why would that make a difference? I've also found that skinny people tend to be more insecure. I'd rather be fat and eat a burger and be happy than skinny and miserable.

Unless you're going to go drop 5 dress sizes learn to love and enhance who you are.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Hand on heart i love curves. If you give me a choice between a sassy, fun to be with woman who is happy with herself I'm as happy as a pig in poo! I'm generalising (and mean no offence to slimmer ladies in general), but it's unusual to see self-obsession, vanity and self-importance in what some might consider 'bigger' girls. Having an approachable and fun to be with demeanour is an incredibly beautiful and sexy thing. Someone who may be what some consider to be a 'perfect' size ten who has model looks rarely interests me (not that I'd necessarily be of interest to them either). I like to think I'm easy to speak to as a single male and find it incrediy attractive when a woman is too. Girls with curves often seem to have the most interesting personality too. Vive la difference!

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By *espectconsentandfilthMan
over a year ago

Coatbridge

In general and purely physical terms, men who are physically attracted to women are attracted women's bits.

The bits that men don't have.

Very (VERY) generally speaking, men love the curves that they don't have.

They've paid tribute in a multitude of ways.

The shape of a guitar,

The curves of an E-type.

Ruben's nudes.

Marilyn Monroe was no stick insect and she's still an icon.

The undernourished and often under age girls used as catwalk coathangers are foisted upon us by the media and fashion houses.

However, each to their own and there are no rules.

What goes on inside heart and head has just as much to do with attraction as what's on the outside.

Says he, stating the obvious lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow there's a fuck load of bbw on here insulting both themselves and other bbws!

Firstly - get a grip and stop insulting yourselves.

Who defines what is "attractive"? Every single person does. Not just a select group of people. What I mean is beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds attractive another doesn't.

In answer to your question OP. No...

Unless you're going to go drop 5 dress sizes learn to love and enhance who you are. "

Geez for someone who says personality is key you sound a bit angry

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

For us it's very genuine. We love curvy women. There's no looking for an easy shag about it.

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

I've always loved the 3 B

Boobs

Belly

Bum

Nothing sexier than a woman with curves imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will find on here the men will say anything to get a fuck. You ask one to taken you out with his friends and see what they say.

They are very shallow and i think most of us can read them like a book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow there's a fuck load of bbw on here insulting both themselves and other bbws!

Firstly - get a grip and stop insulting yourselves.

Who defines what is "attractive"? Every single person does. Not just a select group of people. What I mean is beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one person finds attractive another doesn't.

In answer to your question OP. No...

Unless you're going to go drop 5 dress sizes learn to love and enhance who you are. "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any bi bbw unicorns floating around?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a BBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't say I was BBW, big or fat or whatever. I'm a size 14, maybe a bit chubby but my body is pretty in proportion.

I get loads of attention here, dating sites and online in general but virtually none in real life. Baffles the mind to be honest.

~Mia

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By *P4SEXMan
over a year ago

preston

The sheer volume of interest in this thread tells you men find all sizes and shapes of women sexy. I agree that its the total package. How you dress abd your sense of self worth.

Personally i get very turned on by a lady with curves. Especially a lady with a dirty mind and a wicked sense if humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won’t meet a guy if he’s only got veri’s from slim girls, I would just be comparing how huge I am compared to them!"

It puts me off so much! It just makes me wonder if there is a genuine attraction or it's on his to-do list etc...

Many times I haven't met with someone because of this

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

We think you look very sexy and mr likes your profile pics very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally i think fab gives a guy more confidence to approach a woman and admit that he likes her u have that invisible online spaceso no one see's if u get rejected, in a real life situation i would be nervous about approaching a woman especially if i think she is really hot but thats down to my body issues being a bigger chubby guy

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"I won’t meet a guy if he’s only got veri’s from slim girls, I would just be comparing how huge I am compared to them!

It puts me off so much! It just makes me wonder if there is a genuine attraction or it's on his to-do list etc...

Many times I haven't met with someone because of this

As I'm out of your age range I can speak without fear of having alterior motives. Having looked at your photos it's no surprise you get plenty of attention - you look gorgeous. In terms of how men think it's true to say some will lack class and say what they think will get what they want, rather than be honest, but having been to socials and clubs I know there are some tremendous guys out there who will say it and mean it. Don't rush into meeting and you out the fakes. A decent guy will wait if he really is being honest. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of beautiful women on this thread

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Lots of beautiful women on this thread

Y'all got that right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't say I was BBW, big or fat or whatever. I'm a size 14, maybe a bit chubby but my body is pretty in proportion.

I get loads of attention here, dating sites and online in general but virtually none in real life. Baffles the mind to be honest.

Body looks amazing in pics, you'd get lots of attention here I'll tell ya..

~Mia"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW couple here....had many varied responses to our profile...from complimentary, to cheeky/funny, to the downright rude and abusive.

Bubbles has no issue with BBW’s....I have no issues. If we all get on, fine.

Some men put they are into BBW on their profile, but, when you actually meet, decide I am ‘too big’....despite all my info being on my profile....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't say I was BBW, big or fat or whatever. I'm a size 14, maybe a bit chubby but my body is pretty in proportion.

I get loads of attention here, dating sites and online in general but virtually none in real life. Baffles the mind to be honest.

Body looks amazing in pics, you'd get lots of attention here I'll tell ya..

~Mia"

Aye been on and off here a while and get loads haha

But none in real life.

~Mia

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

I get the same messages and I feel like saying, have you read my profile and how I describe myself?!!! I don't reply to messages with compliments it usually means

they are lying and are trying to shmooze their way into my bed

Or they haven't read my profile and will be disapointed by the reality

Would much rather get a message that says they like bigger women so I know their type, rather than a message saying they love my body. Does that make sense to anyone? "

Not really to me. Isn't saying they like your body the same as saying they like bigger women.

I know some idiots will say I am being the white night. However, some women on here who call themselves BBW are not to me. They are just sexily curvy. To me a BBW is size 20+. Size 14 to 18 is very sexy to me.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Personally I wouldn't say I was BBW, big or fat or whatever. I'm a size 14, maybe a bit chubby but my body is pretty in proportion.

I get loads of attention here, dating sites and online in general but virtually none in real life. Baffles the mind to be honest.

~Mia"

To me 14 is average/slim,.

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By *mmaAndDavidHornyFuckersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Confidence and personality is amazing but we both love a bigger girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m honest, I don’t truly have a “type” I like people who are easy going and I. General easy to get on with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curves is the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't say I was BBW, big or fat or whatever. I'm a size 14, maybe a bit chubby but my body is pretty in proportion.

I get loads of attention here, dating sites and online in general but virtually none in real life. Baffles the mind to be honest.

~Mia

To me 14 is average/slim,. "

I'm definitely not slim or average. But then I'm short so carry weight a bit differently.

~Mia

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By *riskyfillyCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

I feel completely the same op.

Guys try to charm you but don’t like to admit in the flesh you float their boat ..

I am a bigger girl, my profile says so.

If curves is not want they’re looking for I let them pass me by

it can knock you but there are bbw lovers out there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big clue would be looking at their verifications of who they have played with before hand and see the body types and what they have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MrD

I have a different take on this.

Nearly all my past girlfriends have been bigger women.

Would I or have I ever told any of them I like bigger women? No

When out chatting up or pulled women did I tell them I liked bigger women? No

Why? Because it's just a rude + insulting thing to say!

I have told Daisy I like bigger women but that's only because we were actually having a conversation about it.

Op A lot of women would take it as "I am attracted to you because you're a fat bird". Isn't that a bit insulting? and probably the reason guys don't say it to you in "real life"

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

For me it just depends from a women, its not just about body size, I'm more of a personality over body guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think for me size isnt a issue, a confident woman is a sexy woman in my eyes

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full figures are so sexy

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By *urveykittyWoman
over a year ago

west sussex area

"Just out of curiosity - I've found since being on here that I get a LOT of attention from guys saying my body is perfect, sexy etc etc but not so much in person - is it because the dudes on here are lying cos they want an easy shag or is it that guys in real life situations are embarrassed to admit they like a bigger girl?? "
I find the same thing generally too. At clubs is different, but in regular situations like drinks out, I generally get overlooked by most guys. Apart from in particular Jamaican and African men who can't get enough and are very very amarous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually love bigger ladies I find them so beautiful and would not be embarrassed to ask you out at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I get as much "attention" in the real world as I get on fab.

I find I get more over the top compliments here though. "You're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen" here, as opposed to "you're pretty hot" irl.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I get as much "attention" in the real world as I get on fab.

I find I get more over the top compliments here though. "You're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen" here, as opposed to "you're pretty hot" irl."
well you look freaking stunning to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I get as much "attention" in the real world as I get on fab.

I find I get more over the top compliments here though. "You're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen" here, as opposed to "you're pretty hot" irl. well you look freaking stunning to me "

Fanks very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all part of the process lol but some genuinely do and will tell you so if they are sincere x

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Low self esteem or view of your own body can often blind you to attention IRL

I know as a BBW I’m not everyone’s cup of tea but you have to remember this is a concentrated place where people are looking for sex so you’ll proportionally get more attention here than IRL.

Be you, love being you and go get those complimenting lovers between your thighs girrrrl!

(if you want em!)

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Yep! I get what your saying!

It does cross my mind that people only meet as they think they are on a swinging site that I’ll be ‘easy’.

I always meet for a social, and if they try to push their luck then I never meet them again.

But that’s not the point. This is one reason why I don’t do vanilla nights out anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the attention I get outside of fab as a marker for the type of people I meet on here..

Why on earth would anybody want to meet somebody who wouldn't look twice at them in the street ..

Contrary to popular belief maybe , it cannot be a confidence boost.

What big entails is subjective .. people carry themselves in different ways and I know of some 'bigger' women who are drop dead and shapely. Each to their own , but in answer to the OP - fab is rife with those who just want to get their dick wet - no standards required

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

On here there are fewer females to go around. There are also it would appear, women with confidence issues. I cringe at some of the posts I read from women, basically inviting ne'er-do-wells to take the piss.

Some men will say anything to get their dick wet or say you're perfect so as not to alienate their target market.

Look around your supermarket any given Saturday and you'll see men happily pushing the trolley beside their not size 10 partners.

For some hearing "you're gorgeous" from a total stranger is an ego boost. I'd take it with a pinch of salt...but hey...that's just cynical old me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole Bbw label is part of the problem .Nobody says skinny beautiful woman or average beautiful woman.Beauty is just beauty whatever size it comes in.Also some men buy into the stereotype that a curvier woman is more joly or less choosy.I think any woman shoul try to see if a person is interested in them not the label

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will be saying it to get a lay, because they haven't had Any interest in more average sized people and think bigger means less fussy (wrongly as they soon found out) and some will genuinely love a bigger woman and see their body as perfect. The problem is, trying to figure out the ones who are blowing smoke up your arse to get a shag. The joys of fab eh?

I'll never forget a message I had off someone a few years ago, who said along the lines of "I never go for fatties normally, but I'd shag you". I was a size 12 at the time. Cheeky fecker

. I'm a size 16 now, I'm sure he'd think I needed a crane to get downstairs

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is to do with less women, it's not even necessarily that they aren't attracted to you, it's that that they go for what they find hotter. So with less women + more rejections, they move onto the next one down the list (like you always see on TV, guy gets rejected + hits in her friend second. Doesn't mean he isn't attracted to both).

I also think when people are saying they don't really like bbw just trying to get their dick wet + they would never look at you in real life.

Well why not let them?

This is a sex site, so you are after sex + if you can get a hotter guy here than in real life then why not? You are only playing them at their own game.

Its different if you are looking for fwb etc but if you just fancy a bit of fun sometimes then you are actually looking for the same as them. As long as they are not arrogant or a t@@t then enjoy the hotter guy you wouldn't usually get in real life, that's what you're here for

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By *uv2lick2018Man
over a year ago

Windsor

Some men like skinny ladies and some men like curvy ladies everyone has there own preferences. Me personally I love curvy ladies I find curves a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don’t have a problem with size. A bigger girl means more to grab too!

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

"So many responses!!

I think the reason i asked is because I’m quite insecure about myself and I guess I just assumed the guys that were complimenting me (and wanting to have sex with me) were taking the piss lol!

Glad to see there’s appreciation for bigger girls too, however pleaseee stop referring to us as “real women” because there’s no such thing, we’re all different!

I'm totally the same..slowly learning that it's not always the case.

All it takes is the right person to help you believe in yourself sometimes.

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By *ornyhotcouple696969Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

I love a BBW, but......she's got to have the big boobs to go with the bigger frame.

A BBW with small boobs does nothing for me.

It's about the full package, as you can see with my BBW fb on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to talk to and meet any BBW, I was married to one and with her for 30 years and we played with several other BBWs. Thats said I am haopy with all sizes, personality counts just as much as sexy looks. No personality, no meet. Big girls - come on down and be pampered!

They do bounce better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everything, some will find larger ladies attractive, some not. I’ve met guys who genuinely like a lot of flesh. I would say they are In a minority, but they do exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xx"

Always a first ... how rude! There are lady stick insects too

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By *igg13Man
over a year ago

It's great to see the majority of people talking sense in this thread.

Like with any preferences, it's personal to the beholder.

I must say there are dozens of beautiful women commenting on here!

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By *aughty Dad69Man
over a year ago

kent

I have always gone for the curvy fuller figured girl, from my first to my ex... but sadly on here you get what i believe are trophy hunters. Only after another one to fuck, not interested in what tbey are like, same as the guy in the nightclub at 2am.. always pick up a bigger girl as they tend to get less attention and in their tiny mind think they will have more chance. Sadly these types ruin it for any genuine guy who likes a curvy girl. Personally go for personality as well body type but curvy always gets my attention...

I can assure you that curvy guys certainly dont get overwhelmed with messages from females..... says it all really...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I have always gone for the curvy fuller figured girl, from my first to my ex... but sadly on here you get what i believe are trophy hunters. Only after another one to fuck, not interested in what tbey are like, same as the guy in the nightclub at 2am.. always pick up a bigger girl as they tend to get less attention and in their tiny mind think they will have more chance. Sadly these types ruin it for any genuine guy who likes a curvy girl. Personally go for personality as well body type but curvy always gets my attention...

I can assure you that curvy guys certainly dont get overwhelmed with messages from females..... says it all really..."

Trophy hunters?

Not everyone is looking for "the one" or anything more than a casual hook up now and then. We all have various criteria for meeting. I think it rude and disparaging to dismiss how others meet because it differs from your own.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Blimey is this still going?

Some like us, some don't.

I'm not interested in the ones that don't.

The ones that do aren't in a minority tho, that's not proven to be my experience.

Tally ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet bigger size females, just my kink, nobody questions those that like slim blonde swedes xx

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"So many responses!!

I think the reason i asked is because I’m quite insecure about myself and I guess I just assumed the guys that were complimenting me (and wanting to have sex with me) were taking the piss lol!

Glad to see there’s appreciation for bigger girls too, however pleaseee stop referring to us as “real women” because there’s no such thing, we’re all different!

I'm totally the same..slowly learning that it's not always the case.

All it takes is the right person to help you believe in yourself sometimes. "

Yep, totally!

I can say (without fear of being accused of saying so just to try to get into your knickers as I'm outside your preferences) that you're gorgeous based on your photos. If I think so many others would too, so you've every reason to be confident in yourself, so please do believe).

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