FabSwingers.com: Sam (36) , Woman in Barnsley, East Midlands, UK

I'm Sam, I've been swinging for what seems like forever (almost 19 years) and most of my experience has been as a single woman. I am in a relationship and we have a couples profile (dead by daylight). If you'd like to meet me as a couple please message the couples profile.

I am plus size (dress size 22), I have curves, tattoos, piercings and multi coloured hair. I do smoke cigarettes so if any of these things are on your no list then I'm not the right person for you! I am confident with my body. I'd categorise myself as a goth or "alternative". I am heavily tattooed and have tattoos which are visible (including my neck).

At the moment I'm only looking to meet at clubs. I can be quite reserved and spend most of my time listening, I do get anxious in very busy places and struggle to be chatty in groups. I am open to talking to anyone though and do better in 121 social situations. I am wanting to make new friendships and even though I have a resting B*tch face I can assure you I'm a down to earth, friendly person. I am confident in myself, my body and I'm really rubbish at small talk. I am happy to lead a conversation but when in a group dynamic I can be quiet. This is nothing to do with other people and is probably part of my neuro divergence. :)

I am looking for primarily MMF meets. I am happy to meet single males or the right couple. I love a beard and alt guys. When I say beard - I don't mean a bit of stubble or a short groomed beard, I love a wild bushy beard. Bigger guys with a beard is my "type", preferably someone with tattoos and piercings. Someone who would be up for DVP would be amazing! I am a no pressure type of person and want it to be about others who join me as well.

I have lots of different sexual likes, I'm pretty open to what others want. I am fully bi-sexual (not fake bi or doing it to please a man) and I require a connection with women to play with them. My ideal type in a woman varies but I do like alternative, plus size women with a nice butt. If you like sitting on a woman's face then we'd be a match :). I would be open to playing with a couple however I'd prefer it to be about the female interaction but I'm open to joining a couple where the female is the main focus. I've had lots of experience with women and don't mind taking the lead. I would say though, and I like to make it clear, I am very respectful of people's relationships and if the female part of the couple is not happy or interested then I wouldn't be interested in playing.

Not saying this to offend anyone, because I appreciate all different body types, but I like women with curves. I am not interested in playing with anyone under a dress size 18. This is just my preference and what I find attractive!

I'm not here to just meet and play with anyone. I have a great sex life in my relationship but it is about enhancing my experiences. I won't play with anyone who doesn't make an effort or anyone I don't have a connection with. This is just my preference. I would say I find women more attractive than males but I don't like anyone who wants to play games or compete. We're all here to have fun and I won't tolerate stupid behaviour.

I've been in the bdsm scene for 18+ years. I have lots of different interests - primarily impact and I enjoy teaching people who are entering the scene safe practice. I am not submissive so please don't message telling me how you're going to Dom me. :) I have a lot of experience in the BDSM scene, lots of different kinks and nothing really shocks me. My primary likes are impact, safe practice and consent, ethical non monogamy, psychological domination and wax.

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