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"I would assume each story would be different, but they all have their reasons. Some probably don’t have to and just can, others may have reasons which mean something to them but might not to others. Huge range of reasons to do it, many don’t actually act on it and this site is just fantasy, self-esteem boasting and/or wank fodder. " *boosting* not boasting | |||
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"Cheating partners I don’t get why they have to cheat " have you asked your partner his reasons? xx | |||
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"I don’t get why people start half the posts they do..." some people like speaking about their own life experiences... | |||
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"I don’t get why people start half the posts they do... some people like speaking about their own life experiences... Exactly this. Sometimes people don't have others around them to talk too about what they are going through. Especially this lifestyle, it can be very lonely when you have no one who understands Hope you are ok OP, some just like having their cake and eating it x" | |||
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"I don’t get why people start half the posts they do... some people like speaking about their own life experiences... Exactly this. Sometimes people don't have others around them to talk too about what they are going through. Especially this lifestyle, it can be very lonely when you have no one who understands Hope you are ok OP, some just like having their cake and eating it x" Well she’s one half of a couple on here so if she’s talking through life experiences is it the here and now? | |||
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"I don’t get why people start half the posts they do... some people like speaking about their own life experiences... Exactly this. Sometimes people don't have others around them to talk too about what they are going through. Especially this lifestyle, it can be very lonely when you have no one who understands Hope you are ok OP, some just like having their cake and eating it x Well she’s one half of a couple on here so if she’s talking through life experiences is it the here and now?" Don't you be getting all "entitled" now | |||
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"Cheating partners I don’t get why they have to cheat " Because they would rather not deal with life, it’s an easier option to cheat isn’t it? Human nature is a fairly valid argument, for some more so than others. Because people want their life to be for them, not others. There’s three reasons, I respect anyone who does what they want if it’s legal and doesn’t fuck others over. And if the truth hurts others, it’s not a great way to live I imagine, for anyone involved. | |||
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"I don’t get why people start half the posts they do... some people like speaking about their own life experiences... Exactly this. Sometimes people don't have others around them to talk too about what they are going through. Especially this lifestyle, it can be very lonely when you have no one who understands Hope you are ok OP, some just like having their cake and eating it x Well she’s one half of a couple on here so if she’s talking through life experiences is it the here and now?" She's not though is she? She has removed his details, which infers that she is talking in the present. Anyway, she is obviously looking for support, personally I'd rather contribute to a thread of substance over the endless hot or nots/rate the user above. | |||
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"Basically my husband tells me he loves me as a wife and a parent- but he doesn’t desire me. We’ve had sex twice this year. I’m at the stage where I feel like a sexual deviant for even suggesting it. It fucking hurts. We live like room mates who share a bed. In order for me to tolerate the lack of passion in our marriage I look elsewhere so I can be his wife for every other part of our marriage. " Ever sat down and asked why he doesn’t desire you like he used to? People change for reasons mostly. What was his reason for changing his feelings towards you? If you don’t mind me asking | |||
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"Cheating partners I don’t get why they have to cheat " Remember that it is the cheater that has the problem... not the betrayed. Treat yourself well.... Xxxxx | |||
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" Don't you be getting all "entitled" now " Shall I define entitled for you or maybe I can use it in a sentence so you better understand why I defend people on the forum who are coming for advice and closed minded individuals *cough* have to ruin it for others. | |||
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"I would assume each story would be different, but they all have their reasons. Some probably don’t have to and just can, others may have reasons which mean something to them but might not to others. Huge range of reasons to do it, many don’t actually act on it and this site is just fantasy, self-esteem boasting and/or wank fodder. " . I told him we can fuck ppl together but he went behind my back on to a gay chat site and cheated on me and lied to me about it | |||
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"Cheating partners I don’t get why they have to cheat have you asked your partner his reasons? xx" he said he doesn’t know | |||
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"I don’t get why people start half the posts they do..." PMSL. | |||
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"It's the old adage, if you're not sucking your husband's dick, you can bet someone else is. " trust me he gets more of me then I get of him | |||
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"The only person who can tell you why they cheated is that person. They rarely do though. I had a friend whose husband serially cheated. He found her profound distress to be proof that she loved him. She left him eventually, to his profound distress." yea he did it 5 times I took him back every time till now | |||
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"I don’t get why people start half the posts they do... some people like speaking about their own life experiences... Exactly this. Sometimes people don't have others around them to talk too about what they are going through. Especially this lifestyle, it can be very lonely when you have no one who understands Hope you are ok OP, some just like having their cake and eating it x Well she’s one half of a couple on here so if she’s talking through life experiences is it the here and now?" yes it is here and now he cheated 5 times even tho I told him we as we both on here we can fuck people together and he can fuck who he wants as long as he doesn’t do it behind my back and lie to me and delete texts and calls | |||
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"Basically my husband tells me he loves me as a wife and a parent- but he doesn’t desire me. We’ve had sex twice this year. I’m at the stage where I feel like a sexual deviant for even suggesting it. It fucking hurts. We live like room mates who share a bed. In order for me to tolerate the lack of passion in our marriage I look elsewhere so I can be his wife for every other part of our marriage. Ever sat down and asked why he doesn’t desire you like he used to? People change for reasons mostly. What was his reason for changing his feelings towards you? If you don’t mind me asking " he said his feelings hasn’t changed for me | |||
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"Cheating partners I don’t get why they have to cheat " I don't know why people whinge | |||
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"Cheating partners I don’t get why they have to cheat I don't know why people whinge" not whinging am asking. Guess u never been cheated on god forbid u do | |||
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"He just said after 15 years the spark is gone and he doesn’t look at me that way anymore and hasn’t for a while. It’s difficult to accept because we are amazing in every other aspect of our lives. He said he would be quite happy for us to stay together in a sexless marriage as I make him happy. I just don’t turn him on. And I know it’s not his lack of actual sex drive as he frequently watches porn. " we was only together 10 months we fuck almost every day apart from when iam with my terminally ill mother so it’s not that | |||
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" Don't you be getting all "entitled" now Shall I define entitled for you or maybe I can use it in a sentence so you better understand why I defend people on the forum who are coming for advice and closed minded individuals *cough* have to ruin it for others. " Yes please. If you could. | |||
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"I would assume each story would be different, but they all have their reasons. Some probably don’t have to and just can, others may have reasons which mean something to them but might not to others. Huge range of reasons to do it, many don’t actually act on it and this site is just fantasy, self-esteem boasting and/or wank fodder. . I told him we can fuck ppl together but he went behind my back on to a gay chat site and cheated on me and lied to me about it " Some people will cheat no matter how good they have it, Some would never cheat no matter how hard things are . Sadly some people (men and women) get off on deceit and sneaking around. Don't take him back again OP,you will only be hurting yourself. | |||
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"Probably because they don't get deeothroat at home and have to get it else where?! " oh no he got it every day apart from wen iam with my sick mum | |||
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"I would assume each story would be different, but they all have their reasons. Some probably don’t have to and just can, others may have reasons which mean something to them but might not to others. Huge range of reasons to do it, many don’t actually act on it and this site is just fantasy, self-esteem boasting and/or wank fodder. . I told him we can fuck ppl together but he went behind my back on to a gay chat site and cheated on me and lied to me about it Some people will cheat no matter how good they have it, Some would never cheat no matter how hard things are . Sadly some people (men and women) get off on deceit and sneaking around. Don't take him back again OP,you will only be hurting yourself." I won’t be | |||
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"Tend to rip their heads off if I FIND out they are cheating and stop the relationship there and then" I have | |||
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"Other women probably sexier & better in bed" What if they're not cheating with women though? Heard a few stories about married men cheating on their wives with other men. | |||
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"You don’t get why? I don’t think there is one answer. In fact I know there isn’t. You would have ask each individual person who does if you want an answer to that. Alternatively you could follow the fab crowd with the “all cheaters are scum” opinion. " Go on girl, you tell them ! | |||
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"You don’t get why? I don’t think there is one answer. In fact I know there isn’t. You would have ask each individual person who does if you want an answer to that. Alternatively you could follow the fab crowd with the “all cheaters are scum” opinion. Go on girl, you tell them ! " I’m not being antagonistic. It’s true | |||
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"Other women probably sexier & better in bed" it was with men actually | |||
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"You don’t get why? I don’t think there is one answer. In fact I know there isn’t. You would have ask each individual person who does if you want an answer to that. Alternatively you could follow the fab crowd with the “all cheaters are scum” opinion. Go on girl, you tell them ! I’m not being antagonistic. It’s true " I'm the antagonistic one... I like to go fishing and see what bottom feeder I hook | |||
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"Other women probably sexier & better in bed it was with men actually " That must be hard to take ? He preferred a man to you ? Now thats harsh | |||
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"You don’t get why? I don’t think there is one answer. In fact I know there isn’t. You would have ask each individual person who does if you want an answer to that. Alternatively you could follow the fab crowd with the “all cheaters are scum” opinion. Go on girl, you tell them ! I’m not being antagonistic. It’s true I'm the antagonistic one... I like to go fishing and see what bottom feeder I hook " Yes I know darling | |||
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"I've just had abusive messages sent to my inbox from this. Apparently I'm a tosser... True But to mention my daughter is not on... Shame on you " Idiots. Ignore. Sad people | |||
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"I've just had abusive messages sent to my inbox from this. Apparently I'm a tosser... True But to mention my daughter is not on... Shame on you " not by me u didn’t | |||
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"I've just had abusive messages sent to my inbox from this. Apparently I'm a tosser... True But to mention my daughter is not on... Shame on you Idiots. Ignore. Sad people " Yes from a woman... I bet if I did that I'd get a full permanent ban. | |||
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"I've just had abusive messages sent to my inbox from this. Apparently I'm a tosser... True But to mention my daughter is not on... Shame on you " Happened to us all buddy, like you should care about text on a screen. | |||
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"I've just had abusive messages sent to my inbox from this. Apparently I'm a tosser... True But to mention my daughter is not on... Shame on you Happened to us all buddy, like you should care about text on a screen. " I'm a sensitive soul... I'll need counselling | |||
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"I've just had abusive messages sent to my inbox from this. Apparently I'm a tosser... True But to mention my daughter is not on... Shame on you Happened to us all buddy, like you should care about text on a screen. I'm a sensitive soul... I'll need counselling " The only counselling you need is to push that tab, with the word 'block' written on it. Bollox to 'em | |||
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"I've just had abusive messages sent to my inbox from this. Apparently I'm a tosser... True But to mention my daughter is not on... Shame on you Happened to us all buddy, like you should care about text on a screen. I'm a sensitive soul... I'll need counselling " | |||
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"Other women probably sexier & better in bed it was with men actually " You still going to Rios tomorrow then ? To help with the break up ????? If so what time ???? | |||
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"I don’t get why people start half the posts they do... some people like speaking about their own life experiences... Exactly this. Sometimes people don't have others around them to talk too about what they are going through. Especially this lifestyle, it can be very lonely when you have no one who understands Hope you are ok OP, some just like having their cake and eating it x Well she’s one half of a couple on here so if she’s talking through life experiences is it the here and now? She's not though is she? She has removed his details, which infers that she is talking in the present. Anyway, she is obviously looking for support, personally I'd rather contribute to a thread of substance over the endless hot or nots/rate the user above. " I don’t look at people’s profiles when I reply, as far as I was concerned it was a couple posting a very open ended question. | |||
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"Other women probably sexier & better in bed it was with men actually You still going to Rios tomorrow then ? To help with the break up ????? If so what time ????" I always go Rios | |||
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"The only person who can tell you why they cheated is that person. They rarely do though. I had a friend whose husband serially cheated. He found her profound distress to be proof that she loved him. She left him eventually, to his profound distress." Awesome!!!! | |||
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"I don't understand it either. Every partner I've had has cheated on me, for different reasons. One ex had a hall pass to sleep with someone else, and he still cheated " yep hun he had a pass to fuck who he wanted as long as he told me first and not being my back x | |||
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"Other women probably sexier & better in bed it was with men actually You still going to Rios tomorrow then ? To help with the break up ????? If so what time ???? I always go Rios " What time you going tomorrow might see you there | |||
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"Other women probably sexier & better in bed it was with men actually You still going to Rios tomorrow then ? To help with the break up ????? If so what time ???? I always go Rios What time you going tomorrow might see you there " don’t know yet keep a eye on my status I always put when iam there | |||
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"Basically my husband tells me he loves me as a wife and a parent- but he doesn’t desire me. We’ve had sex twice this year. I’m at the stage where I feel like a sexual deviant for even suggesting it. It fucking hurts. We live like room mates who share a bed. In order for me to tolerate the lack of passion in our marriage I look elsewhere so I can be his wife for every other part of our marriage. " We are in the same situation. | |||
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"Other women probably sexier & better in bed" | |||
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"I don’t get why people start half the posts they do..." Its a forum duh | |||
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"I caught my Mrs in act and didn't tell her for a week..I loved it,now were on here!" | |||
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"I don’t get why people start half the posts they do... Its a forum duh" As in content, duh. | |||
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"I caught my Mrs in act and didn't tell her for a week..I loved it,now were on here! " Now we're talking!! | |||
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" I don’t look at people’s profiles when I reply, as far as I was concerned it was a couple posting a very open ended question." Neither do I usually, but a look at the profile gives an insight, which can influence how I respond. | |||
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