FabSwingers.com forum: Jealousy in the club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you're at the club and have played with two or three partners in the past but decide to play with someone new. Then one of the previous partners get jealous and you can feel a bad vibe from them as because you chose not to play with them....

This has happened to me a few times and it can dampen the fun that should be had at the club's.

There's no place for jealousy (in my humble opinion) when it comes to swinging.

Has anyone else experienced this and what are your thoughts???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I guess it's only a natural reaction to be disappointed one hasn't been "selected" if you know you have had good fun previously...

But there's different forms of jealousy I guess...

Envious jealousy...

Or "daggers" jealousy...

They are all standard human behaviours...

Ha - I've always been envious to jealous of the amount of sex and attention my Hotwife can have and get...

But to emanate such vibes as to throw you off the game... not cool!

Flames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, a little green eyed envy with a sidebar of cheeky grinning can be fun. All consuming angst doesn't have a place in the swing scene and if it's there then maybe time to bow out.

"I guess it's only a natural reaction to be disappointed one hasn't been "selected" if you know you have had good fun previously...

But there's different forms of jealousy I guess...

Envious jealousy...

Or "daggers" jealousy...

They are all standard human behaviours...

Ha - I've always been envious to jealous of the amount of sex and attention my Hotwife can have and get...

But to emanate such vibes as to throw you off the game... not cool!

Flames"

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I/We have seen it a few times in clubs people watching. Mainly between singles. I think it's all a part of it. It's all good saying jealousy has no place in swinging but in reality were all human and thus it's very much a factor of the scene. Jealousy (to varying degrees) is normal. Some people manage it better than others. Surely we should be more understanding of it and try to manage it rather than criticising people for just being human?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I/We have seen it a few times in clubs people watching. Mainly between singles. I think it's all a part of it. It's all good saying jealousy has no place in swinging but in reality were all human and thus it's very much a factor of the scene. Jealousy (to varying degrees) is normal. Some people manage it better than others. Surely we should be more understanding of it and try to manage it rather than criticising people for just being human?"

I agree

Somepeople can't disconnect but will never blame them as we are all human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy is rife on (fab) in any capacity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!"

There's a way to solve that

You dont tell the world who you've had sex with

Simple, see?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"When you're at the club and have played with two or three partners in the past but decide to play with someone new. Then one of the previous partners get jealous and you can feel a bad vibe from them as because you chose not to play with them....

This has happened to me a few times and it can dampen the fun that should be had at the club's.

There's no place for jealousy (in my humble opinion) when it comes to swinging.

Has anyone else experienced this and what are your thoughts???

Yep, worse in small clubs with the same old faces. Seem to think that you're their "sure thing".

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!

There's a way to solve that

You dont tell the world who you've had sex with

Simple, see?"

Exactly. Once you're verified, do you really need to publish every meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I totally agree, maybe "Jealousy" was the wrong choice of word but glad people are generally understanding what I mean.

I'm fairly laid back and don't take things too serious, so the few times it's happened was much of an issue and I get the "being human" aspect too.

Great response...

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Seen some proper meltdowns in clubs. Par for the course.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My first visit to a club, when I was very popular as I was "fresh meat", it obviously put some noses out of joint and they felt the need to stand round commenting.

Bit daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes there’s a thing about being someone’s priority more than jealousy. If I’ve been meeting someone regularly and it’s good, then someone new and shiny comes along and I get shoved down the priority order that’s not a good feeling. I’m not jealous of whoever it is, but I might be jealous of the time they’re getting.

Same in clubs, if a regular meet rocked up unexpectedly then didn’t give me the time of day I’d be pretty hacked off. I don’t think that’s jealousy either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were hoping to get their pussy filled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think sometimes there’s a thing about being someone’s priority more than jealousy. If I’ve been meeting someone regularly and it’s good, then someone new and shiny comes along and I get shoved down the priority order that’s not a good feeling. I’m not jealous of whoever it is, but I might be jealous of the time they’re getting.

Same in clubs, if a regular meet rocked up unexpectedly then didn’t give me the time of day I’d be pretty hacked off. I don’t think that’s jealousy either."

I expect that to happen. When I'm seeing someone regularly I expect them to meet new people and if I went to clubs I wouldn't expect to be their priority. If I found someone new shiny they wouldn't be my priority either, as I'm single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!

There's a way to solve that

You dont tell the world who you've had sex with

Simple, see?

Exactly. Once you're verified, do you really need to publish every meet?"

If someone is pissed that I met someone else they aren't welcome in my sex life. Can't be doing with that drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same in clubs, if a regular meet rocked up unexpectedly then didn’t give me the time of day I’d be pretty hacked off. I don’t think that’s jealousy either.

It’s not about exclusivity. It’s more about what you have with them not being compromised. And everyone is different in their approach to fab.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Same in clubs, if a regular meet rocked up unexpectedly then didn’t give me the time of day I’d be pretty hacked off. I don’t think that’s jealousy either."
it is always a balance between good manners and courtesy on one hand; and your erotic desires on the other

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I guess the ideal would be to be clear about your intentions from the outset and not countenance the possibility of jealousy being being an issue before it could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!

There's a way to solve that

You dont tell the world who you've had sex with

Simple, see?

Exactly. Once you're verified, do you really need to publish every meet?"

No. Stopped doing that mainly because of stalkers which I have had my fair share of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same in clubs, if a regular meet rocked up unexpectedly then didn’t give me the time of day I’d be pretty hacked off. I don’t think that’s jealousy either.

It’s not about exclusivity. It’s more about what you have with them not being compromised. And everyone is different in their approach to fab."

What I have with them wouldn't be compromised if they met knew women, unless they kept me waiting for months to focus on someone new. If that happened I would get bored, move on and only fuck them if no one else was available.

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By *hamCouple30Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

As humans we're creatures of habit. We enjoy going to the same places to eat and sleep, as long as it was a good experience.

The same applies to sexual partners.

I think there should be a club that follows a bingo theme. If a number is called that's on your card, you should be able to to spend 30 mins with them....

What goes on is up to you both...

Helen and Leo x

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I don't believe that I have ever experienced jealousy but I do hear about the situation OP describes. I agree, there's no place for jealousy in swinging. A bit of disappointment if a regular chooses to play with someone else seems fair enough... But jealousy is surely misplaced. Swinging is about fun with a variety of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it on here with verifications regular partner's become obsessive even though they have fun with other's fab is here for me to have fun with like minded people not to find a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!

There's a way to solve that

You dont tell the world who you've had sex with

Simple, see?"

See, alas it’s not that simple for guys. Maybe women and couples can sit back and get meets with no veris. But guys- ?.. not much chance. How many guys say verified women only ?. And how many women / couples say not verified ; no meet, no chance . So you have to put some veris up as a guy otherwise the pool of possible meet opportunities becomes very very small. See

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It happens in here for just chatting, never mind fucking in a club

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've not experienced jealousy as such in a club but I have come across plenty of expectation from men. Just because I played with someone previously in a club doesn’t mean I want to the next time I see them. Far too many assume that I do want to and some have been a little pushy about it. I try not to be rude to anyone but sometimes it's the only way to get through to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!

There's a way to solve that

You dont tell the world who you've had sex with

Simple, see?

So you have to tell the rest of Fab who you fucked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!

There's a way to solve that

You dont tell the world who you've had sex with

Simple, see?

So you have to tell the rest of Fab who you fucked?

Ok"

Yes. You do. Can you not read?. That’s what veris are there for. Duh

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Veris aren't there to broadcast who you've fucked... They provide some evidence that you are who you say you are, that you turn up to meets and aren't an axe murderer. Some do contain sexual information but again that's there to say "hey, meet this person. They're good at what they do"

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

This has happened to me a few times and it can dampen the fun that should be had at the club's.

There's no place for jealousy (in my humble opinion) when it comes to swinging.

Has anyone else experienced this and what are your thoughts???

Many times, but often not from the people you'd think!! #UnexpectedCrapSwingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another reason not to go in my eyes.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Veris aren't there to broadcast who you've fucked... They provide some evidence that you are who you say you are, that you turn up to meets and aren't an axe murderer. Some do contain sexual information but again that's there to say "hey, meet this person. They're good at what they do" "

I've got veris that I don't display and I've had meets in the past that I've not had veris from. You don't have to display them, the green tick is sufficient and maybe the summary.

Far too many people like to play the veri trail game and it can elicit negative reactions. Ultimately its no one's business who I meet other than my own (and my girlfriends).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!"

This! Met a guy, good meet, we veried each other..then two weeks later he messaged me kicking off as I had a veri from another meet. What did he think I was on here for?! X

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!

There's a way to solve that

You dont tell the world who you've had sex with

Simple, see?

So you have to tell the rest of Fab who you fucked?

Yes. You do. Can you not read?. That’s what veris are there for. Duh"

Could you not put your point of view across without being rude?

Ah jealousy is not just confinded to clubs. See it on here too often. Have found it is usually from singles looking for something more than just NSA or couples who have not discussed boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a guy once who asked us not to leave him a verification because his FWB on fab would get really jealous if she saw it and looked at our profile.. Very odd behaviour if you ask me, we dont get jealous and we have seen each other do pretty much all that can be done

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"We met a guy once who asked us not to leave him a verification because his FWB on fab would get really jealous if she saw it and looked at our profile.. Very odd behaviour if you ask me, we dont get jealous and we have seen each other do pretty much all that can be done

Mr"

My ex used to do this..... Sadly it was actually really cause we were still seeing each other in a so called 'exclusive' relationship and supposed to only be swinging together. Sadly he had other ideas. Ho-hum.

Funny thing is we could have happily played separately as I am not overly jealous but he didn't like it when I did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us any sign of jealousy or possessiveness would be an instant red flag whether it’s in a club or on a private meet.

We don’t do drama on any level in everyday life so sure as hell not going to tolerate it from something that’s supposed to be pleasurable escapism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr"

That was because he was not telling her the truth. I met and verified a man who did not display it, although he had his previous ones. Also he didn't return one despite saying on a few occasions he was going to. It was undoubtedly because he was seeing somone and she didn't know, even though he had told me he hadn't been with or spoken to her, lies of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people confuse being jealous with a person not being happy about how they are being treated, no respect. For example if I was at a club and a guy I had invested time with previously ignored me, as in, did not speak because he had other company it wouldn't be jealously at all but annoyance at how disrespectful he had been.

A lot on here have the been there done that mentality hence the rudeness, why should that not cause the person to be annoyed.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I’ve experienced similar - people who have got the hump because I’ve gone to a club with someone else or had a veri from someone.

Only time I’ve been irritated with someone was when they dropped me last minute for a new meet despite long standing plans to attend a club with a group of friends - but I see that as a different thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've hidden my veris for the exact reason .... people are strange creatures ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a woman who's part of a couple throw a hissy fit as trim decided to play with someone else, she was getting jelous of my live in boyfriend playing with someone else... I didn't bad an eyelid over him playing. She is However now on the veto list

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Don't think we have had issues like this in clubs yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but it’s only because I’ve never experienced a club environment though..... hopefully very soon! G xx

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Jealousy is rife on (fab) in any capacity."
this. But sometimes things aren't handled well and it happens

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

It happened once to us...we were spontaneously playing with a couple and within a few minutes of me (sassy) giving the Male half a blow job his partner promptly got up and stormed out of the room.... I felt a bit bad about it at first but then thought they clearly aren’t secure enough, or at least she wasn’t, to be playing with others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no place for jealousy in this life style. If you are then I’ve found it’s probably not the life for you.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Sometimes people lie to their partners, portray that their relationship is one thing, they play like this and it's all a sham. If the deceived party is jealous or pissed off then thats justified. Being a lying twat dressed up as 'swinging'...

Just ain't swinging.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Sometimes people lie to their partners, portray that their relationship is one thing, they play like this and it's all a sham. If the deceived party is jealous or pissed off then thats justified. Being a lying twat dressed up as 'swinging'...

Just ain't swinging."

I think there is sometimes an element of giving the impression that something is more than it is to get into someone's pants or securing repeat visits when convinent. I heard a fair few stories of guys getting a woman to take them to a club as a couple and then disappearing to try and score with others. So that would be perfectly understandable.

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

Jealousy is a human condition it will and does happen no matter how we may try to avoid it

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I have experienced it in the past, when I go to a club with someone and they then disappear and I catch up with them fucking someone else. I wasn't jealous, just pissed off that they didn't check with me , before going after some other lady.

The same if I see a regular that I have had great sex with previously and we talk about meeting up later in the evening and then they couple up with someone else . It's not jealousy, more a bit disappointed that I will miss out on the fun on that occasion.

Different people deal with these situations in a variety of ways. But there shouldn't be any need to cause a scene !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab in general that’s why I don’t ask for veris lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

This thread has made me smile. Ironical humour isn’t dead.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!"

Haha that’s all too common on here

The amount of times women have gone crazy at a guy if they met me after them

What are they expecting ? A proposal ?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP I think it’s just disappointment not jealousy. I find that I only really clicked with a few people. Had fun with lots, but had amazing sex with just a few. I would be disappointed if I didn’t get to play with them again only.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Of course, it's human nature. People actually have come up to me and admitted their jealousy of the person/s playing with me, but no hard anymosity.

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By *reenEyesScotlandWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

There is a ton of jealousy on here but in my personal experience it has mostly came from single people. I've had messages from other women after I've met someone (from the verification I left the other party) a couple of times now, big red flags.

Only experienced it once at a club, where a single guy I had played with a couple of times was offended I wasn't giving him enough attention during a gangbang

um, a bit difficult there! He got blacklisted after that.

It is human nature to feel emotions about the whole thing, I think because I'm married it's nowhere as personal, and I try to remember that new people are exciting for everyone, it's no indictment on me. But yeah jealousy is rife on fab and in the scene I think.

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"I've not experienced jealousy as such in a club but I have come across plenty of expectation from men. Just because I played with someone previously in a club doesn’t mean I want to the next time I see them. Far too many assume that I do want to and some have been a little pushy about it. I try not to be rude to anyone but sometimes it's the only way to get through to them. "

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"It happened once to us...we were spontaneously playing with a couple and within a few minutes of me (sassy) giving the Male half a blow job his partner promptly got up and stormed out of the room.... I felt a bit bad about it at first but then thought they clearly aren’t secure enough, or at least she wasn’t, to be playing with others?

Yeah this is awkward

That’s why we rarely ever play with couples because it’s too tricky and too much drama and usually one more attracted than the other .

And tbh anyone can all have ‘a moment’ but be fine and fun 99.9% the rest of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen this a few times between couples

also find if a guys been messaging me on here and we jus happen to go to the same club they expect a play/fuck jus because weve been chattin, then spend the night glaring over... the world of fab

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I've seen it in clubs, and it can ruin a good night. I admit I sometimes get envious if a women I've had some fun with moves on to another guy. But, I get over it. Swings and roundabouts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen it in clubs, and it can ruin a good night. I admit I sometimes get envious if a women I've had some fun with moves on to another guy. But, I get over it. Swings and roundabouts. "

Really? You see I (Mr) find that odd. Whenever we play with someone else, after it’s over it’s over. We don’t even feel like we’ve screwed anyone else let alone have any kind of connection with them. Perhaps singles on the scene are more likely to feel this way? Having said that we’ve seen some pretty unstable couples in clubs

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"There is a ton of jealousy on here but in my personal experience it has mostly came from single people. I've had messages from other women after I've met someone (from the verification I left the other party) a couple of times now, big red flags.

Only experienced it once at a club, where a single guy I had played with a couple of times was offended I wasn't giving him enough attention during a gangbang

um, a bit difficult there! He got blacklisted after that.

I think alot of the time it comes from singles who are looking for relationships in the scene. Now each to their own, use fab how you like, just don't drag us into your drama. Too many drama llamas about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!

There's a way to solve that

You dont tell the world who you've had sex with

Simple, see?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!"
lol hey these are the pitfalls of veris and status updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup had it on here a few times.

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Omg some swingers think they're the centre of the universe. But then they all only play together, bitch about each other behind their backs and then get funny with you when you don't conform to their rules.

No one tells me who I play with, when, how many people and how I do it. My body, my rules. I'm just about to drop a whole group of people for this exact reason. I'd rather just not go to any events involving them and their drama.

When did swinging become a job and not fun?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I think there is a difference between jealousy and hoping for a repeat encounter.

We have played with couples and singles before and then approached hopeful of a repeat experience.

But at that particular time we were not what they were looking for.

I think it's fair to say hi and chat without that being deemed as being possessive.

Sometimes they want you other times they want someone else.

You just accept it and move on with your night.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Strangely, we were only talking about this last night.

I (Him) don't get jealous in clubs/parties but outside, I'm a little green eyed monster. Whereas Her can and has got jealous at clubs/parties but not outside. Odd that isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had to have a reality check and breather due to this.

It’s a natural reaction as long as you breathe and move on.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

This has happened to me a few times and it can dampen the fun that should be had at the club's.

There's no place for jealousy (in my humble opinion) when it comes to swinging.

Has anyone else experienced this and what are your thoughts???

Many times, but often not from the people you'd think!! #UnexpectedCrapSwingers"

I've not signed up for that website

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I don’t see the need to show verifications myself..

I show the summary to prove I am verified by meeting,

But why show who you’ve met ?

Sometimes who people have previously met has put me off meeting them ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!"
yes but how did they know you met with said women......... Did you brag I wonder or did she brag, it's this desire to let it be known who you played with and when that irks people

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I think a lot of this is just human nature, we all like to feel special and swinging, especially in clubs, can be rather brutal lol. I love to meet new people when at a club, but I know quite a few guys and would not have time to make new acquaintances if I had to do replays with them all. So I always make sure to be polite and speak to all of my friends . I dont suffer from jealousy as such, but would hate to be blanked by a playmate socially and so in the end, it comes down to manners and being sensitive to others feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never mind clubs. Have it in fab ALL the time. Had a great meet etc sndvin the weeks following get blanked or blocked for having the temerity to meet with another woman !!yes but how did they know you met with said women......... Did you brag I wonder or did she brag, it's this desire to let it be known who you played with and when that irks people

Verifications lol

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