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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all! Couples: Do you find it hard finding the right girl for you and vice versa do you girlies find it tough to find a couple you like? There’s a lot that goes into it and takes planning and it’s all about click and chemistry, aswell as what you all want out of it and boundaries etc....thoughts? Could be a match making thread too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it tough when looking for couples. The chances of me finding both parties attractive enough to want to have sex with them are usually fairly slim.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Not personally but some will be you just have to search for them with the filters.

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By *ambon2015Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Absolute nightmare, when we came into this we had no idea how hard it would be to find someone to have fun with. Lots of headaches & blind alleys we’ve had & been up. Holy grail springs to mind. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really struggling to find right couple that we both fancy. It's not easy at all.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Love to find the right girl to have a laugh with and some proper fun... not so easy though.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think finding single bi fems is hard, try finding straight women who are into playing in a cuckcake scenario.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We have no problem as we've made amazing friends in clubs & Blackpool stay n play, now it's like a big reunion. We don't do hook up meets, it's arranged weekends where we socialise parties etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I tend to talk meet and if both people fancy me i fancy them yay

Clubs are the same.

But I rarely meet couples at present

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

It is difficult to find the right people to play with.... may it be a unicorn or another cpl! We just tend to go with the flow and it seems to work for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it tough when looking for couples. The chances of me finding both parties attractive enough to want to have sex with them are usually fairly slim. "
yes totally we have this with couples too mostly it’s the male part which isn’t appealing sadly x

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We find it hard to find a spark when it’s not face to face - we obviously need to be attracted to all involved but how we get a long with others more determines if or how we play.

We love chatting to others so all is not lost

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is always difficult to find people. Gave up looking for single females and mainly focus on couples now.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Clubs are the place, we have been approached by a number of single ladies, suspect that it may be they didn’t feel hunted by us, it also helps having a very playful wife.

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

We are finding this hard too, it’s finding the bi fem that wants to play with women for them not for hubby/partners.

Molly

XX

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By *urvy_bi_honeyWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"We are finding this hard too, it’s finding the bi fem that wants to play with women for them not for hubby/partners.

Molly

XX"

I’m a single female, and more often than not I find the woman is ‘doing it for her man’ which is a huge no-no. Do it for yourself because you want to, or not at all!

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon


"We are finding this hard too, it’s finding the bi fem that wants to play with women for them not for hubby/partners.

Molly

XX

I’m a single female, and more often than not I find the woman is ‘doing it for her man’ which is a huge no-no. Do it for yourself because you want to, or not at all! "

Shame your so far away

Molly

XX

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We struggle finding a couple who don"t want a bi fem firstly ,then getting four way attraction is not easy.

Hence why we use our single profiles too.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are finding this hard too, it’s finding the bi fem that wants to play with women for them not for hubby/partners.

Molly

XX

I’m a single female, and more often than not I find the woman is ‘doing it for her man’ which is a huge no-no. Do it for yourself because you want to, or not at all! "
Totally it’s a case of doing it because you want to do it and not for someone’s entertainment and there is so many unicorn hunters here and that includes couples too who want a single female as fantasy for them rather than what you can all offer each other

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By *iBBW and hubbyCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We’ve not been on fabs long so are also looking for couples/fems happy to take things slowly whilst we begin to explore, which adds a further degree of trickiness. B x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We’ve not been on fabs long so are also looking for couples/fems happy to take things slowly whilst we begin to explore, which adds a further degree of trickiness. B x "
well yes the physical attraction has to be allround and 3 / 4 ways that can be tricky and it’s good to be fussy and do things the right way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it quite hard, there are so many couples who have a large age difference where the lady tends to be younger. We both tend to fancy the lady but the Male is beyond our age range and Sasha doesn't find that attractive so we politely have to decline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have made a few really good friends who are attractive I guess females who are bi need to find them both appealing the Male needs to find the lady attractive and the Male someone he likes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We find it quite hard, there are so many couples who have a large age difference where the lady tends to be younger. We both tend to fancy the lady but the Male is beyond our age range and Sasha doesn't find that attractive so we politely have to decline."
we’re very similar and their is some great looking older females and we totally understand they are a couple but if the first instant attraction isn’t there it won’t work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it tough when looking for couples. The chances of me finding both parties attractive enough to want to have sex with them are usually fairly slim. "

Love how direct to the point your profile reads

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage


"Hello all! Couples: Do you find it hard finding the right girl for you and vice versa do you girlies find it tough to find a couple you like? There’s a lot that goes into it and takes planning and it’s all about click and chemistry, aswell as what you all want out of it and boundaries etc....thoughts? Could be a match making thread too! "

We find it massively hard on fab to actually find couples that we have a mutual attraction with (only happened once and that was our first meet) most of are meets have been club lead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly believe that people online are alot more selective then at a club. But in 3 years we have have had 3 meets (1 female 2 couples) thru sites. Our club visits are much more eventful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all! Couples: Do you find it hard finding the right girl for you and vice versa do you girlies find it tough to find a couple you like? There’s a lot that goes into it and takes planning and it’s all about click and chemistry, aswell as what you all want out of it and boundaries etc....thoughts? Could be a match making thread too! "

Well only been here a month but yes isn't the easiest thing in the world. Keep getting messaged by unverified accounts that send full portrait photos but never any selfies which seems to be a bit of an alert for us as a fake account. Made 2 arrangements with 2 women who we were trusting with just communicating on here and then they let us down being no shows. Just don't see what people get out of joining sites like this if they aren't genuinely interested in meeting or talking at all.

It's a learning curb and we are sure that in time we will find a lovely genuine lady or women who want to have mindblowing orgasms with us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolute nightmare, when we came into this we had no idea how hard it would be to find someone to have fun with. Lots of headaches & blind alleys we’ve had & been up. Holy grail springs to mind. lol. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it hard to find a spark when it’s not face to face - we obviously need to be attracted to all involved but how we get a long with others more determines if or how we play.

We love chatting to others so all is not lost

xx"

Same as us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are finding this hard too, it’s finding the bi fem that wants to play with women for them not for hubby/partners.

Molly

XX

I’m a single female, and more often than not I find the woman is ‘doing it for her man’ which is a huge no-no. Do it for yourself because you want to, or not at all! "

Completely agree. I would never do it if I didn't see the sexiness and attraction of another woman.

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Couples are almost impossible to meet unless you want a threesome and then it's pretty easy imo. But it's very rare a couple will genuinely want to have fun in a group situation. Well in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it quite hard, there are so many couples who have a large age difference where the lady tends to be younger. We both tend to fancy the lady but the Male is beyond our age range and Sasha doesn't find that attractive so we politely have to decline."

We thought this would be an issue however very lucky AfroDelight looks nearly 20 years younger than he is. I find a lot of people have more of an issue with me being under 30 to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How so? "

Noticed a lot of single women searching for couples usually have from 30 upwards as their age limit.

We aren't in a rush or anything but unfortunately we aren't in a position to be able to attend club events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not able to do club events at present but expect this to change in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples are almost impossible to meet unless you want a threesome and then it's pretty easy imo. But it's very rare a couple will genuinely want to have fun in a group situation. Well in my experience "

What do you mean by that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How so?

Noticed a lot of single women searching for couples usually have from 30 upwards as their age limit.

We aren't in a rush or anything but unfortunately we aren't in a position to be able to attend club events "

We must be unusual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't even looking for a couple but now we're a threesome for a few years! For me it would be about three people thinking the same way about each other equally and most importantly not just sex but socially too!!

I don't like two scenarios firstly when the wife is just playing along for the husband and secondly when it's for the husband's entertainment even when the wife is enjoying it! I'm selfishly here for me not them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How so?

Noticed a lot of single women searching for couples usually have from 30 upwards as their age limit.

We aren't in a rush or anything but unfortunately we aren't in a position to be able to attend club events

We must be unusual"

Rarity is great

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Couples are almost impossible to meet unless you want a threesome and then it's pretty easy imo. But it's very rare a couple will genuinely want to have fun in a group situation. Well in my experience "
Think it’s how you all get along that counts and respect each other’s wishes and just have a laugh and enjoy yourself, make it fun and if you share normal common interests anything is possible and laughter is great thing and happiness has a big place to play in sex

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We've found it hard to meet a female for a MFF threesome. Hasn't stopped us from looking though.

If any of you ladies would like to get to know us more feel free to message us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've found it hard to meet a female for a MFF threesome. Hasn't stopped us from looking though.

If any of you ladies would like to get to know us more feel free to message us.

"
I think it’s what you all want which is important and we’ve spoken to a few single females and sadly just time wasters majority but hey it happens and it’s just a added extra being on here so taking it with a pinch of salt. It’s hard to find a couple we like equally as much as a single female but we would want her not as a fantasy or just to please mr but to benefit us as we would do like wise for her

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend

We managed it. But maybe we were lucky. We'd been here quite some time before we found our Unicorn. Now we can't get enough of eachother.

You have to all feel an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are finding this hard too, it’s finding the bi fem that wants to play with women for them not for hubby/partners.

Molly

XX"

We have found the same thing. Bisexual or bicurious women are not really bi at all they are doing it simply for their partners because they once kissed a girl in their teens.

Daisy has still yet to be with a woman but is more than simply curious. One thing we have found quite telling is if you say to a couple you would like it to be just woman on woman with no male involvement and especially without the guys being there watching, just the ladies together by themselves. It ranges from insisting the guy has to at least be there watching to the guy having to also take part as a threesome.

This is coming from the man of the couple. Of course I would love to watch two women together

But it is something Daisy wants to explore and I feel they should be left to experience this on their own if they would feel more comfortable doing so.

MrD

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Just let them approach you,

‘‘Tis simple

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

It's been undoubtedly tough for us on here and we've often thought is it us? Without taking things too seriously.

We understand, people like who and what they're familiar with and since we don't fit in the BBC fetish lifestyle, it has made finding play even more difficult.

We have experienced going to particular parties had created much interest, but it's been more intrigue of our attendance than anything else.

There are avenues we've yet to explore, and so we keep positively moving forward.

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We find it hard and when we have found someon, then trying to get diaries to align (usually mine) is a nightmare. But when the stars and moon do align... oh my!

More please!

(Patient ladies and couples , please feel free to msg us! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t find it difficult to find ladies to play with as it’s obvious I’m bisexual if they read the profile and that our play is equal way dynamics ie in FFM everyone is involved.

Don’t find it difficult finding couples to play with just go with our gut instinct and if there is a spark we know it’s likely to be fun.

Don’t have any problem getting involved in group play either

So many people make assumptions about couples, just don’t assume we are all the same. Xx

Coco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it hard and when we have found someon, then trying to get diaries to align (usually mine) is a nightmare. But when the stars and moon do align... oh my!

More please!

(Patient ladies and couples , please feel free to msg us! )"

This patience is key

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fun is in the chase ......

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London


"I honestly believe that people online are alot more selective then at a club. But in 3 years we have have had 3 meets (1 female 2 couples) thru sites. Our club visits are much more eventful."

Completely agree with this and would include ourselves in this too. A club allows you to interact so much more and a spark can form when online you may have thought nothing would happen

xx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"I honestly believe that people online are alot more selective then at a club. But in 3 years we have have had 3 meets (1 female 2 couples) thru sites. Our club visits are much more eventful.

Completely agree with this and would include ourselves in this too. A club allows you to interact so much more and a spark can form when online you may have thought nothing would happen

xx"

I think this is well, and I trust a lot more in person because online anybody can be anything, and be showing any ones photos.

I don't look for a couples it's so hard to find a three-way attraction, but on occasion it has happened at clubs.

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