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By *irandAngel OP   Couple
over a year ago

York

I’m a sub and when serving my Dom we regularly incorporate anal sex into our play

I’m curious to hear from other subs whether you prefer it with or without lube ?

Angel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just love to have anal sex

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Not in a sub relationship but when it comes to anal play it really depended on the circumstances, if it was spur of the moment there wouldn't usually be lube involved where as if it had been in the planning then lube would be. Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As H has threatened to use a horse sized strap on me and i am an anal virgin!!

I certainly hope she uses lube if i ever piss her off enough to carry out her threat!!!!

LJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have to be with for me I think. Dry anal is not a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of times a regular partner has penetrated without lube. It's only the dry skin around the anus that causes friction-and the slight burning. Once that is surpassed the rectum produces enough lubricant itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of times a regular partner has penetrated without lube. It's only the dry skin around the anus that causes friction-and the slight burning. Once that is surpassed the rectum produces enough lubricant itself.

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This, and any play will spread and make it easier

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I would always recommend lube, especially for beginners.

There are times when I've had an extended session that I can have anal with just my pussy juice as lube. No way to going in dry though!

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By *ow ability pornstarMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Give it a nice rimming first

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Why would you ever do dry anal? Your bum does not create lubricating liquids like a vagina does. You're just asking for a prolapse or some other damage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you ever do dry anal? Your bum does not create lubricating liquids like a vagina does. You're just asking for a prolapse or some other damage"

This

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Love anal, always use lube

k

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford


"I’m a sub and when serving my Dom we regularly incorporate anal sex into our play

I’m curious to hear from other subs whether you prefer it with or without lube ?

Angel x"

Deffo lube for me. It adds to the sensuality. I've had amazing excessive baby lotion and fruity lube sessions, love this.

Delays the sensation and prolonges the fucking, excellent. I recommend it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried it so I'm just a virgin on this side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without lube?.... WTF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never tried it so I'm just a virgin on this side"

Wanna try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never tried it so I'm just a virgin on this side

Wanna try it "
if I had the chance... But I must be wined and dined first

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No lube ~ no entry!!!!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Totally depends on situation and mood. Right situation and no lube is needed at all. In fact with one of my partners, a lasting memory is our first time of anal.

I was on top (not something I'm a huge fan of) and I decided anal reverse cowgirl was a thing I should try. No lube, just a lot of arousal. Fucking hot as hell...

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By *essle_guyMan
over a year ago

hull


"I’m a sub and when serving my Dom we regularly incorporate anal sex into our play

I’m curious to hear from other subs whether you prefer it with or without lube ?

Angel x"

I have always used lube. I start by lubricating a gloved finger that I insert into her anus, then I apply more lube to my cock and slowly enter until it's fully inside. I allow her a little time to get used the sensations before slowly withdrawing but not fully and repeating gradually increasing the speed of thrusting.

As a second question, do many do anal without a condom and if so, do they cum inside the anus? I have thought about doing this so the lady can feel my cum coming out, but I'm concerned about the risks of infection.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Same as any good blowjob sweetie, wetter the better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best lube is the tongue

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By *bandAbCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire.


"I’m a sub and when serving my Dom we regularly incorporate anal sex into our play

I’m curious to hear from other subs whether you prefer it with or without lube ?

Angel x"

We often incorporate anal into our play. 99% of the time my dom hubby uses his tongue and spit to lube me up sometimes im just dripping and he doesnt need anything but still wants to use his tongue anyway.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Lube, every time.

Not only does this reduce the risk of damage/ injury to the recipient, but also the giver, too...

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

why would anyone go in dry?? snapped banjo string anyone

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"A couple of times a regular partner has penetrated without lube. It's only the dry skin around the anus that causes friction-and the slight burning. Once that is surpassed the rectum produces enough lubricant itself.

This, and any play will spread and make it easier "

Bend over, my strap on is approaching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would anyone go in dry?? snapped banjo string anyone "

or anal tears and abrasions leading to infection or abscesses...

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Ouch, LOADS of lube, it aint going in dry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube always xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tired anal, no one lets me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lube for my wife and I everytime.. I need for her strapon for sure..no question about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For both of us lube is a must some of her toys she has used on me are quite big and I would never go in dry on her

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Lube of course is a help but I’ve also tried a mix of lemon and ginger juice and good ole spit ya can’t beat it. If your really adventurous try piccalilli that will blow your mind

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Respect the anus; always use lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube of course is a help but I’ve also tried a mix of lemon and ginger juice and good ole spit ya can’t beat it. If your really adventurous try piccalilli that will blow your mind "

Prefer Branston pickle

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By *irandAngel OP   Couple
over a year ago

York

To be honest I love it either way, I enjoy surprising my Dom by just putting it in there hes normally soaked from my squirting anyway. I like the animalistic side of not preparing for it and just being horny enough to to want it x Angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

KY-Jelly available in the discount/retail stores, e.g. the Wilko-sounding one (other stores are available). 50ml was under £3 so worth having in the bag with condoms, wipes, towels, blue pills, and massage oils. You could say, fail to prepare, prepare to fail (did someone say Brexit ha).

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Definitely lube. Needs to glide in gently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No lube needed

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not something I would want to try. Either way.

XX

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By *essyphilMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"A couple of times a regular partner has penetrated without lube. It's only the dry skin around the anus that causes friction-and the slight burning. Once that is surpassed the rectum produces enough lubricant itself.

This, and any play will spread and make it easier

Bend over, my strap on is approaching "

Now things are exciting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always been a definite lube man . But recently had the usual extensive foreplay and lots of rimming and then mounted her pussy from behind and was circling her ass with my thumb and slipped inside and thought; hmm that was easy , slippy and might not need lube . Sure enough she told me to fuck her ass so I slid it on slowly and after a bit of gentle back and forth, was soon banging away to completion with no lube other than spit and her slippy fingers reaching under to touch herself and caress my cock as it sank in and out. And she came to orgasm which was a first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo lube. Can’t imagine taking it without yet alone trying to get my cock in dry....would rip my beautiful foreskin off!

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford


"I’m a sub and when serving my Dom we regularly incorporate anal sex into our play

I’m curious to hear from other subs whether you prefer it with or without lube ?

Angel x"

Personally I like to be lubed wether giving or receiving anal

If you're going for a full Dom sub scenario and you want the spontaneous rough anal, lubing up can be a distraction. Had that done to me, pain at first, but once it faded it was good. Preferred lube, acts as a barrier too.

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By *uriouscouple38Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

I like lube when my dom fucks me,I can take the whole 8 inches lubed

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By *illiam101000Man
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

Definitely lube. Love taking a good fucking but always a bit of lube required for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal virgin when it comes to cock so my dom would have to use lube and lots of it lol

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Wouldn't even contemplate anal without lube

We always have some handy and it's part of the overall enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube for sure, I would worry about damaging my condom, or the damn thing being pulled of exposing me to any germs that the woman might be carrying.

Plus I don’t receive or inflict pain, not my thing.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Lube for sure, I would worry about damaging my condom, or the damn thing being pulled of exposing me to any germs that the woman might be carrying.

Plus I don’t receive or inflict pain, not my thing."

Or even exposing her to any germs that you might be carrying??

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

lub is the best to start with but ones I get used to it I love the pain side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube for sure, I would worry about damaging my condom, or the damn thing being pulled of exposing me to any germs that the woman might be carrying.

Plus I don’t receive or inflict pain, not my thing.

Or even exposing her to any germs that you might be carrying?? "

Of course, she has no way of knowing where I have been either.

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By *irandAngel OP   Couple
over a year ago

York

I do prefer it without lube if I'm honest x im normally wet enough from squirting anyway so I dont really need to use lube. I was just curious to know if it's normal to love anal without. Angel x

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

Just throw some sand in for good measure lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Has to be lube !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you're double dipping from cunt to ass, or you're still wet from douching, it's not enough lubrication. You'll sometimes get little tears internally. Not great.

Here's an sti newsflash....fucking without lube can also irritate the cock enough to activate previously invisible genital herpes or random spotting!!

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By *opsy71Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Even if you're double dipping from cunt to ass, or you're still wet from douching, it's not enough lubrication. You'll sometimes get little tears internally. Not great.

Here's an sti newsflash....fucking without lube can also irritate the cock enough to activate previously invisible genital herpes or random spotting!! "

Well that's something to be cheerful about

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

We always carry and use silicon lube as we often have rough anal in pools and jacuzzis... but having said that, one of our more memorable anal fucks was in a field of long grass in Hampshire, S on her face and just spit for lube x

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By *imandHer69rCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

We always prefer lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lubrication is key! I often produce my own though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t use lube and never had any problems , we love anal .

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

I love anal and always use lube. I love the slippery ness of it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have to use lube when you get his cock soaking wet with your drool, besides, who doesn’t enjoy a little bit of pain hehe

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

We use lube to avoid any tearing, even though we had had anal for about 15 years it can still happen and whilst we probably could do it without lube it feels better with too.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube,lube and more lube

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By *eanne n AliCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We always use lube xx

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By *ngelfireWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Lube for sure! Have done it without but prefer it with. Less risk of any tearing or other complications and who would want to be out of action while you heal?!

Also love the sensual slipperiness and softness afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube every time especially for virgin or tight people, dry can result in small injuries which can promote infections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always lube oucchhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody enjoys friction burn surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have liquid silk, will travel

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I have done it a couple of times without lube when doing a CNC scenario. Hurts but in a good way (for me) and I don't do that much anal I'd recommend it if you like a bit of pain or a lot depending how fast they force it in. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube lube lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liquid silk turns an ass into a smooth pussy

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Lube. Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo needs lube! Just doesn’t sound good without, can’t say I’ve ever tried dry anal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone wants to stick something large up your bum with no lube then do them 1st let them know that it hurts. And it's dangerous you can tear yourself and why are fools saying I want to try this I love to do it. I want someone to do this to me. Post your own posts. It's a good question being asked not a post for fools jumping on the post because they think someone will want then.

Take it slowly add lube start small. Getting started can hurt a lot it's not for everyone I hate it so don't do it. And simple fact a lot of people have piles and other bum problems. So 1 finger then two. A small toy make sure nails are sort and round. And every thing is clean. And there's a big risk of poo. So clean everything well afterwards. And guys if you are getting fucked by a guy use a condom.you health and safety comes 1st

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I've had a finger inserted without lube but I prefer with.. And fucked definitely with lube for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am an occasional sub to a Dom (we do anal obviously) and the lube is always up to him, it’s a treat, he lubes me as and when he sees fit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube..always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never used lube ever. Planned or unplanned. Never needed it.

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley


"If someone wants to stick something large up your bum with no lube then do them 1st let them know that it hurts. And it's dangerous you can tear yourself and why are fools saying I want to try this I love to do it. I want someone to do this to me. Post your own posts. It's a good question being asked not a post for fools jumping on the post because they think someone will want then.

Take it slowly add lube start small. Getting started can hurt a lot it's not for everyone I hate it so don't do it. And simple fact a lot of people have piles and other bum problems. So 1 finger then two. A small toy make sure nails are sort and round. And every thing is clean. And there's a big risk of poo. So clean everything well afterwards. And guys if you are getting fucked by a guy use a condom.you health and safety comes 1st"

To be fair I am not saying I like it dry because I want people to message me. I don't have a problem in getting people to fuck and I certainly don't need to post on a forum for attention... Cough cough.

As for dry anal they asked for an opinion. If I'm doing a CNC scenario why would I want them to lube up first? If we're talking about anal from a gentle lover of course lube but sometimes you just want to be fucked and for it to hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a sub and when serving my Dom we regularly incorporate anal sex into our play

I’m curious to hear from other subs whether you prefer it with or without lube ?

Angel x"

When I’m doing anal with Fire I like just spit - I love the little bit of pain that goes with it with him.

With other people it’s lubed - definitely need it with the condoms and also if the guy is VWE

Smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely has to be lubed up for anal for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind either. Had lube once and other times dry

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