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"Honestly? Yes. I don't care what language is used or how graphic described but if somebody shows a pattern of behavior willing to partake in unsafe sex by going with playmates that do so it's a big red flag for me. " | |||
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"I judge people all the time, I can't help it I'm human but I do like to form my own opinions on people, can't always believe what you hear and read about someone can you" This is very true.... | |||
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"Fabsteroos Musing again. You are chatting to someone but do you then ook at their veri’s and judge them by who they have met and by what kind of comments you read? Would it put you off them? Bhubaysi x " Or do you judge them by there profile and photos and never return an offer to meet when they send them ? | |||
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"The thing is what are we supposed to judge on? Lots of people claim they don't judge and I find that difficult to understand. How do they decide who to meet on here or be friends with in life? " Judgement is inevitable, it's just people think it means prejudice rather than analysing available information. (it can mean both!) So they say they don't judge (aren't prejudiced) when in reality they of course judge (analyse the information they have). | |||
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"Subconsciously we all judge it’s what makes us human " I don't even judge subconsciously. I make snap decisions about people all the time. Humans are wired to do that instinctively its what enabled our ancestors to run away from dangerous people and what stops me from walking down a dark alley if I've just seen a really dodgy looking guy loitering there. | |||
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"The thing is what are we supposed to judge on? Lots of people claim they don't judge and I find that difficult to understand. How do they decide who to meet on here or be friends with in life? Judgement is inevitable, it's just people think it means prejudice rather than analysing available information. (it can mean both!) So they say they don't judge (aren't prejudiced) when in reality they of course judge (analyse the information they have). " I think is down to semantics as we all judge, but its when people are judgemental that it changes. | |||
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"Subconsciously we all judge it’s what makes us human I don't even judge subconsciously. I make snap decisions about people all the time. Humans are wired to do that instinctively its what enabled our ancestors to run away from dangerous people and what stops me from walking down a dark alley if I've just seen a really dodgy looking guy loitering there." Better to be safe than sorry. | |||
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"Subconsciously we all judge it’s what makes us human I don't even judge subconsciously. I make snap decisions about people all the time. Humans are wired to do that instinctively its what enabled our ancestors to run away from dangerous people and what stops me from walking down a dark alley if I've just seen a really dodgy looking guy loitering there. Better to be safe than sorry. " Exactly! | |||
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"The thing is what are we supposed to judge on? Lots of people claim they don't judge and I find that difficult to understand. How do they decide who to meet on here or be friends with in life? Judgement is inevitable, it's just people think it means prejudice rather than analysing available information. (it can mean both!) So they say they don't judge (aren't prejudiced) when in reality they of course judge (analyse the information they have). I think is down to semantics as we all judge, but its when people are judgemental that it changes." Well, exactly. But I think when people say they don't judge, they mean they aren't judgemental. | |||
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"I make judgements based on what people do. I don't judge them for doing them. " I do. I judged the fuck out of the people who stabbed that young girl in the back in a park. On fab which I suspect is what you refer to I'm the same as you. | |||
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"Judgement is inevitable, it's just people think it means prejudice rather than analysing available information. (it can mean both!) So they say they don't judge (aren't prejudiced) when in reality they of course judge (analyse the information they have). " Yes, it happens a lot in the forum - I'm not quite sure if it's virtue signalling or something else. I do judge. I think it's how you act and share those judgements that's important. | |||
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"Yes thats why they are there, i made the mistake of meeting someone once a long time ago mainly because they said he was nice and gave them food, well he wasnt nice to me at all and i didnt get any food so it was a waste of time." Wtaf did I just read ... loooooooooool. | |||
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"I make judgements based on what people do. I don't judge them for doing them. I do. I judged the fuck out of the people who stabbed that young girl in the back in a park. On fab which I suspect is what you refer to I'm the same as you." What do you mean stabbed her ? | |||
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"I make judgements based on what people do. I don't judge them for doing them. I do. I judged the fuck out of the people who stabbed that young girl in the back in a park. On fab which I suspect is what you refer to I'm the same as you. What do you mean stabbed her ? " I'm referring to Jodie Chesney who was murdered at the beginning of March. | |||
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"Fabsteroos Musing again. You are chatting to someone but do you then ook at their veri’s and judge them by who they have met and by what kind of comments you read? Would it put you off them? Bhubaysi x " Yes People that see people who do bareback I won't see. | |||
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"Yes, really graphic veris that indicate that the women they've been with are quite outgoing and have voracious appetites I know I'm not going to be their cup of lapsang souchong. I'm not saying that those women are wrong or bad just that I'm different" This for me too. | |||
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"Nope .... not at all ... too busy leading my life to be following up on previous meets " Okay, we will leave them up. | |||
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"Nope .... not at all ... too busy leading my life to be following up on previous meets Okay, we will leave them up." Good. You will attract people who like the same things. You don't want to meet someone like me, so your veris will put me/ them off. It's a good thing. | |||
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"So how many sex veri’s on a profile is your limit?" I am more bothered about who they have met than how many... | |||
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"So how many sex veri’s on a profile is your limit?" 4 max | |||
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"Fabsteroos Musing again. You are chatting to someone but do you then ook at their veri’s and judge them by who they have met and by what kind of comments you read? Would it put you off them? Bhubaysi x " Of course. Thats what they are available for. Was contacted a while back by "straight" guy who had 16 verifications from tvs. Not one from a female or couple. It gave us a faint suspicion he might not actually be straight. Or truthful. | |||
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"I make judgements based on what people do. I don't judge them for doing them. I do. I judged the fuck out of the people who stabbed that young girl in the back in a park. On fab which I suspect is what you refer to I'm the same as you. What do you mean stabbed her ? I'm referring to Jodie Chesney who was murdered at the beginning of March." Just looked that up that's so sad poor girl | |||
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"Fabsteroos Musing again. You are chatting to someone but do you then ook at their veri’s and judge them by who they have met and by what kind of comments you read? Would it put you off them? Bhubaysi x " Yes it DOES put me off and I block too. Some people really do shag anything. | |||
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"Snobbishly, I tend to judge more on the quality of their verifiers’ English than how graphic the content is. If they’re meeting men who can barely string a sentence together I can’t imagine the pillow talk was up to much. I’m far more attracted to a sense of humour than how quickly she gets “on her knes”. On a side note, I do find verifications purely written by men as an excuse to brag about how good they are in bed and how big they’re willy is hilarious. There are so many that read like “She was able to take a pounding all night from my massive cock, and was even able to get her lips around the huge girth. I made her cum so many times the bed was absolutely soaked.” Are you reviewing yourself or just a fleshlight?" Their not ‘they’re’....! | |||
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"Snobbishly, I tend to judge more on the quality of their verifiers’ English than how graphic the content is. If they’re meeting men who can barely string a sentence together I can’t imagine the pillow talk was up to much. I’m far more attracted to a sense of humour than how quickly she gets “on her knes”. On a side note, I do find verifications purely written by men as an excuse to brag about how good they are in bed and how big they’re willy is hilarious. There are so many that read like “She was able to take a pounding all night from my massive cock, and was even able to get her lips around the huge girth. I made her cum so many times the bed was absolutely soaked.” Are you reviewing yourself or just a fleshlight?" | |||
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"We absolutely judge who and what is right for US, it's surely a fundamental part of being human as opposed to being a robot!" | |||
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"I don't necessarily judge by how graphic or the language, although I might if I see a pattern in the kind of people they seem to meet. I look for judgement of character first and foremost. Basically, this business has risks, and I use any evidence at my disposal to mitigate them. " So how would my veris sum me up, most say about me being a friendly chatty respectful guy, but then go into some detail, mainly due to me being a heavy cummer, so ive got a bit of both ends of the spectrum within most of mine | |||
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"Snobbishly, I tend to judge more on the quality of their verifiers’ English than how graphic the content is. If they’re meeting men who can barely string a sentence together I can’t imagine the pillow talk was up to much. I’m far more attracted to a sense of humour than how quickly she gets “on her knes”. On a side note, I do find verifications purely written by men as an excuse to brag about how good they are in bed and how big they’re willy is hilarious. There are so many that read like “She was able to take a pounding all night from my massive cock, and was even able to get her lips around the huge girth. I made her cum so many times the bed was absolutely soaked.” Are you reviewing yourself or just a fleshlight? Their not ‘they’re’....! " Haha! You know, I bashed that out just before rushing into the shower before work and immediately thought “I really should have proof read that.” It’s guaranteed that when you rant against sloppy literacy you’ll make a primary school grammar mistake. | |||
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"It's just human nature to do so isn't it,judging or an opinion." This, yes | |||
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"I don't necessarily judge by how graphic or the language, although I might if I see a pattern in the kind of people they seem to meet. I look for judgement of character first and foremost. Basically, this business has risks, and I use any evidence at my disposal to mitigate them. " bloody hell your not a magistrate are you lol | |||
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