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Best lube for first time anal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was just going to use Durex Play, but is there anything you know of that is better for doing anal?

My partner hasn't done it before and is nervous about me hurting her.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit

Any lube and be very generous.

Start with a finger and make sure she's relaxed before you start anywhere near the bum.

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By *exyEggsCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Liquid Silk.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Silicone based lube is great (safe with latex condoms) and oil based ones even better (but don't use with latex!)

Water based, in my opinion, are not ideal. But, better than nothing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, I'll look for that one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right, I was thinking that she is likely to be tense; would be better to go there later than straight to it.

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

Buy yourself a douche...

Plan ahead, on the day douche 2 hours after her last poo, have a bath and relax, pop a butt plug in and again relax, have a couple glasses of wine.

Start with kissing, then oral and make her cum, using plenty of lube (liquid silk) from love honey. Rim her, use fingers etc and make sure shes relaxed, then while shes lying on her back, pull her legs up and gently enter a little at a time, talk to her the whole time xxx

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

If you rim them for long enough you'll hardly need any at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liquid silk

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I’ll also vouch for liquid silk

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Whenever you think you’ve applied enough lube, apply some more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or as Jimmy Carr would say...... Tears

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

Manbutter

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't under any circumstances use anything that numbs.

If she isn't relaxed and receptive naturally, take your time. If the first time ends up being the first attempt, there is always next time. Go in too hard or enthusiastically it will end up being the last time

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sliquid is always good. Although, genuinely, have never needed any. My wife has always just needed spit. She really really loves receiving anal though, even from day one. I'm a very lucky guy, especially since I love giving.

X

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By *jEuphoriaCouple
over a year ago

north kent

Silicon Lube. Simple.

You only need a small amount, add a little water and it can last longer.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Go for 0w30, better value in the 4ltr container.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Liquid Silk. "

+1 lots of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve recently managed anal after a few weeks “training”. I actually found the thicker KY type lube better than the silicon one. Started with a finger and different sized butt plugs and made sure that I’d cum a few times already so was properly relaxed. Went from “no, not a chance that is going in without causing serious discomfort” to slipping it in easily. Now building up to DP...

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"I was just going to use Durex Play, but is there anything you know of that is better for doing anal?

My partner hasn't done it before and is nervous about me hurting her."

WD40 or GT86 are both good. Failing those try and get hold of some swarfega, that would work very nicely and remove any piles or nasty clingons the taker might have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid the temptation to buy anything that numbs her.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Liquid silk

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By *eloveitsosexyCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Olive oil is very good. And is good on condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Olive oil is very good. And is good on condom."

IGNORE THIS!!! Olive oil is not safe with latex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Vixey and Copper, thank you, that's very helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gun oil never let me down... failing that there's always gentleman's lube

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice;it's very much appreciated.

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By *henightstagMan
over a year ago

London

System JO H2O Water-Based Lubricant

Best Anal lube I've found, has become the staple for me and not sticky at all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just going to use Durex Play, but is there anything you know of that is better for doing anal?

My partner hasn't done it before and is nervous about me hurting her."

My wife doesn’t need any she just loves spunk but go gentle

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Buy yourself a douche...

Plan ahead, on the day douche 2 hours after her last poo, have a bath and relax, pop a butt plug in and again relax, have a couple glasses of wine.

Start with kissing, then oral and make her cum, using plenty of lube (liquid silk) from love honey. Rim her, use fingers etc and make sure shes relaxed, then while shes lying on her back, pull her legs up and gently enter a little at a time, talk to her the whole time xxx"
go to her clit and ravished it , make her cum and the juice will flow to her sexy bottom and get her to welcome your cock by the lady wiggle her but , lube not always needed , but handyman always has some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I D milenium silicone based.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you op for asking this question I'm anal virgin and same as your wife apprehensive some good advice on here thanks

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By *erfectlyPervertedCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

You could try the infamous 'stick of butter' as demonstrated by Marlon Brando in Last Tango in Paris.

But not Deep Heat.

TG

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