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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, BBC or ITV etc decide to do an in-depth documentary on The Swinging Scene in Britain and they contact you. They ask if you would be willing to participate and share one bit of advice or share a swinging experience with the nation.

Would you say yes to appear in the documentary briefly or would you say no? Also, if yes....can we hear what you'd share? Xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No from me...

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

big fat no !

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

How would they contact any one unless you openly advertised being a swinger? We wouldn;t be contactable and I'm sure most swingers would say the same. Wouldn't get involved at any rate - too much stigma and misunderstanding about the lifestyle. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought but maybe they'd do some research and join sites like this one to contact people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would they contact any one unless you openly advertised being a swinger? We wouldn;t be contactable and I'm sure most swingers would say the same. Wouldn't get involved at any rate - too much stigma and misunderstanding about the lifestyle. Z"

It's not for real Z, just a little fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't appear, wouldn't want to encourage those thinking it's simply an easy shag, jeez there'd be even more complaining threads here then.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"How would they contact any one unless you openly advertised being a swinger? We wouldn;t be contactable and I'm sure most swingers would say the same. Wouldn't get involved at any rate - too much stigma and misunderstanding about the lifestyle. Z

It's not for real Z, just a little fantasy. "

ah lol - ok i get it - ............................................................................................................................ no Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I doubt I'd have anything to offer them anyway! Nor would I want to go on telly and broadcast myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much would they be theoretically offering?

XXXX

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Do you know, thinking about this, if i could remain anonymous i think i would - there have been programmes that have not been open and honest so i think an honest account of real life swinging might be good! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you know, thinking about this, if i could remain anonymous i think i would - there have been programmes that have not been open and honest so i think an honest account of real life swinging might be good! Z"

Hence why I would still have nothing to offer, lol

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By *exytwo_xCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Am currently working on a documentary on swinging. Though it candifficult to find , There are swingers

that want to speak on camera. (face can be blurred, actors voice etc.) still looking for a lot more so I'll be reading this thread...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I have decided I would say yes, I would be willing to share all our experiences....IF they got one of you lot to read them out mwhahaha xx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Not a hope in hell.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"Do you know, thinking about this, if i could remain anonymous i think i would - there have been programmes that have not been open and honest so i think an honest account of real life swinging might be good! Z"

for kids sake i wouldn't appear on the show but if possible contribute about how it isn't all about sex and that it has a social side and often social events benefit charities

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Do you know, thinking about this, if i could remain anonymous i think i would - there have been programmes that have not been open and honest so i think an honest account of real life swinging might be good! Z

for kids sake i wouldn't appear on the show but if possible contribute about how it isn't all about sex and that it has a social side and often social events benefit charities"

Totally agree with you Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my daughter was older and not at school still id jump at it

Cause everyone i know knows anyway

Ive already contributed ta two magazine spreads on swinging anonymously xx

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

not a snowballs chance in hell

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford


"So, BBC or ITV etc decide to do an in-depth documentary on The Swinging Scene in Britain and they contact you. They ask if you would be willing to participate and share one bit of advice or share a swinging experience with the nation.

Would you say yes to appear in the documentary briefly or would you say no? Also, if yes....can we hear what you'd share? Xx"

no this part of my life is compartmentalised and no one elses business.

be aware i have been getting messages from people i think may be reporters cant prove it but they ask questions that lean me to think they are researching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone remember a few months back the swinging cpl who went on This Morning and had their wedding at a swingers club?

(For those of us who have the luxury of being able to watch it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes id tell them all about one of my meets who had a bed full of cat biscuits

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We would only do it anonymously - we have chosen to be anonymous here so wouldn't be seen on national TV!

The two bits of advice that we would give in respect of couples:

1)It has to be completely mutual.

2)Don't do it if there are problems in your relationship.

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By *exyswingersCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

it defenitly a no xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes id tell them all about one of my meets who had a bed full of cat biscuits "

Gives a whole new meaning ta feeding pussy xxx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I would have to be sure what sort of spin they were putting on the whole thing and how they were going to make people look after editing (and I don't mean the make-up).

And as I couldn't be sure of that..... the answer is no.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Would be tempted...

Would like people to see some of us "normal" swingers as opposed to the fuk muppets that I have seen before on such programmes!!!

I have only seen 2 programmes and I cringed at both!

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

My advice to _iewers?

Believe whatever the hell you want

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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be aware i have been getting messages from people i think may be reporters cant prove it but they ask questions that lean me to think they are researching"

ooooo I wonder if they would have Aussie accents if you spoke to them on the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone remember a few months back the swinging cpl who went on This Morning and had their wedding at a swingers club?

(For those of us who have the luxury of being able to watch it "

Yes I remember them, a lovely couple from fab who really had healthy refreshing approach to swinging and gave a great account of themselves and the scene ......... I still think Eamonn fancied trying it himself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would. All my friends and family know about my lifestyle so that wouldn't be a problem.

I think it would be nice to put across a sophisticated _iew of swinging from a single female angle. Show that we are not all slappers and make informed choices as to who to have fun with,

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

part of the reason i blog is to try to explain to the outside world that we are not a bunch of deviants, peadoes or nutters. One of my proudest moments was when a Guardian journalist commented that something i had written was excellent, and put up the link...

but and it is a big but, any kind of documentary would attract the attention of the tabloids, from a purely personal _iew, especially cos of my bdsm side.

So much as i would love to destroy a few myths, it would hurt my parents too much. So a big no from me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone remember a few months back the swinging cpl who went on This Morning and had their wedding at a swingers club?"

Honestly? Wow that's mega!! Had Kate Garroway still been on morning tv I think red would be up for that!!

That's awesome Jemima, I think giving info and experiences out is a great thing for newer people to the special activities, we have seen a fair few couples plunge in with both feet, only to then be back on as singles with bad feelings towards each other xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be happy to. I am what I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top tip from me would be, know the difference between NSA, friendship and relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no from me!!

but it would be good to get swingers lifestyle/perspective out there and quash some stero-types about swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No from us, but then if any TV companies asked me to help with a documentry on flower arranging it would be a no as well

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

No but I would give them a free copy of our book to read which would hopefully and helpfully address some of the myths and stigmas attached to us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would say no, but it would be good to watch prefere to watch normal random people than any porn film.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good friend of ours appeared on a swinging docu' turns she thought it had went well. She had put her point across in a sensible and detailed manner. Turns out it was to be shown on ch5 whole thing was cut to shreds and edited to an inch of its life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, BBC or ITV etc decide to do an in-depth documentary on The Swinging Scene in Britain."

I am picturing the differing kind of programme that would be made by:

BBC 1

BBC 3

ITV

Sky

Sky Sports

Dave

Quest

QVC

Babestation

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By *exytwo_xCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Does anyone remember a few months back the swinging cpl who went on This Morning and had their wedding at a swingers club?

(For those of us who have the luxury of being able to watch it

Yes I remember them, a lovely couple from fab who really had healthy refreshing approach to swinging and gave a great account of themselves and the scene ......... I still think Eamonn fancied trying it himself! "

Thanks!

And for the reasons named above I am producing a documentary myself to have a more balanced and honest _iew on swingers. Though there is interest from several networks I will not sell my documentary to a channel that will cut and edit it to pieces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would not appear of television for any programme anyway, as we belive that it should be professionals that entertain us not unpaid public

But that aside a friend of ours was inter_iewed for a tv documentary, they were most upset that he had a camera set up filming the mirror immage i.e. from behind him filming the inter_iewer as they were then unable to change the questions and cut the answers to fit their agenda... strangly enough the inter_iew was never broadcast, and others on the programme complained about the edits making them look foolish. The camera ALWAYS lies.. especially when someone has a minority to pick on...

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

I would heed this as a warning.

At least you've had someone that has approached you identifying themselves as a reporter.

Unfortunately, there are a lot of undercover reporters out there. That would join sites like these, pretend they're a swinger. Exchange their fake photos with your photos, ask you questions. Then next thing you know you're in the next issue of some glossy magazine with "Sex scandal" on the title, and one of your photos (either in full, or with your face blurred out. - a half-arsed attempt at concealing your identity, but really all your close friends recognise it's you, since it's a fully clothed photo from a wedding photo-shoot).

I'd say just be cautious if any members start asking you fishy questions like "Why do you swing? What motivates you to do this? How many people have you met up with? etc.".

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By *exytwo_xCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

What if they have been on national television talking about their swinger wedding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone remember a few months back the swinging cpl who went on This Morning and had their wedding at a swingers club?

(For those of us who have the luxury of being able to watch it

Yes I remember them, a lovely couple from fab who really had healthy refreshing approach to swinging and gave a great account of themselves and the scene ......... I still think Eamonn fancied trying it himself!

Thanks!

"

Bugger me!!! wasn't expecting that

Yes well done guys for your piece and I think Eamon's wife was not too impressed hahahaha Congrats on the wedding x

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