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By *un-Of-Aylesbury OP   Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

Who enjoys kissing during a meet? I do but I know some people don't...

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By *ivelaughlove16Couple
over a year ago

norfolk/Suffolk border

Kissing is a must for us ,helps break the ice and leads on nicely to other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is a must for us ,helps break the ice and leads on nicely to other things "
definitely kissing is a must for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I gather, not kissing on a meet is a couples thing. They want to keep it between themselves. I personally wouldn't be able to move forward without kissing

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We had this on our profile when we first come on but when we had our first play meet it felt weird not to so wechanged our preferences

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Oh god. I love kissing. Some of the best and most memorable moments of a meet is a kiss or a touch for me. When he grabs me by the hair, pins me up against the wall and kisses me passionately. Makes me weak at the knees...it’s a must do for me...x

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By *bwitchedWoman
over a year ago

Batley, West Yorkshire


"From what I gather, not kissing on a meet is a couples thing. They want to keep it between themselves. I personally wouldn't be able to move forward without kissing "

Not all couples. Kissing is an integral part of any meet for us x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not us, we don't kiss on meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best things always start with a kiss....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh kissing is a must, if there’s a connection when you kiss, can’t beat that feeling of anticipation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we do

Depends on the situation

x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It’s a must with me, actually proves to me the guy is actually Bi and not using me as second best to a Woman. No kiss no meet

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By *owhard007Man
over a year ago

leeds

Must have a kiss on a meet. To me it's a part of the foreplay

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"From what I gather, not kissing on a meet is a couples thing. They want to keep it between themselves. I personally wouldn't be able to move forward without kissing

Not all couples. Kissing is an integral part of any meet for us x "

I meet on my own as well as with my husband. We both love kissing and he especially loves seeing me kiss others! What a lucky woman I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who enjoys kissing during a meet? I do but I know some people don't..."

With men? No. With women? Most definately. Don't ask me why, I dunno, I must be bi, because I have sex with both sexes. I just can't be passionate with men Kissing is something I find passionate and intimate, almost romantic. I don't get those feelings for guys, dunno why. Don't care why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a passionate snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is my biggest turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a meet with kissing.... how can it be !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A must for me. Wouldn't go further without.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It is a shame we can’t get snog only sessions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't meet without kissing. A definite must for the both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather not meet than meet without kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a shame we can’t get snog only sessions "

Oh god yes , heaven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a shame we can’t get snog only sessions "

Why not? I’ve done it plenty of times (male).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From what I gather, not kissing on a meet is a couples thing. They want to keep it between themselves. I personally wouldn't be able to move forward without kissing "

It’s just meaningless sexercise without it. So, no! Kissing is essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a shame we can’t get snog only sessions "

I’ve had a snogging only meet. Was meant to be a social but we couldn’t resist snogging for an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a shame we can’t get snog only sessions "

I've had quite a lot of those

Love kissing. It's my personal favourite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a shame we can’t get snog only sessions "

I kind of had a snog only meet recently . Situation meant it couldn't go further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't go through with it without kissing. It would feel too clinical, too arranged, too distant.

I would definitely like/need lip and tongue contact. And lots of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a must for us. Couldn’t have a meet without it. Only things that are off the table for us as a couple are bareback and anal ...only trust hubby to slide his shaft in my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who enjoys kissing during a meet? I do but I know some people don't..."

It's a very important part of getting to know someone for me. No kiss, no meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep we both love kissing and licking oh and fooking hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the woman, on the state of her mouth and how we get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep we both love kissing and licking oh and fooking hehe "

It adds to the moment. And a wee spark between swapping couples we think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally only meet people the once, as with meeting anyone new the kissing is pretty awful normally ends up with them trying to bore the back of my throat out, so do not look to kiss/snog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is a must for us ,helps break the ice and leads on nicely to other things "

Best way to start off... kissing is a must for me. If things start off with a realy good long kissing session what follows is amazing..

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I prefer it, its quite a buzz openly kissing another guy's wife/gf in front of him and certainly adds to the arousal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anybody think shit kissers normally turn out to be crap in bed ?

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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Love kissing we find it a massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had meets without kissing and i've alway felt that i was purely there for my meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please! I love kissing, can’t get enough of it. Tried something new recently - had a snog with a guy and really liked it....might have to do that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the single guys saying no kiss no meet. Yeah right

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"All the single guys saying no kiss no meet. Yeah right "
as a general thing I never have. And have been refused for a meet twice because of it... but as my mouth is normally busy anyway no one seems to notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, to kissing HERE

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By *issitCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

Definitely kissing- that’s the start.

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We love kissing and wouldn't meet if kissing wasn't allowed, have tried it once with a couple and the meet wasn't the best

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We both love kissing. It puts us off of meets when people say no kissing, I have no problem with peoples boundaries as we’re a none pushy couple that go with the flow but I personally hate lists of rules it kinda puts you off, but not sure if that’s just because I hate to be told I can’t do something or not!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Does anybody think shit kissers normally turn out to be crap in bed ? "

Absolutely a warm and passionate kiss certainly indicates a warm and passionate lover, the best sex I’ve ever had started with a great snog

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By *ouplekandtCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We never kiss others, we leave that to when we make love together. Others is Sex xx

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By *reshcplCouple
over a year ago

pembs

When we started we didn’t kiss others, then we realised how much it added. It’s passionate and helps the mood, and we are both ok with it. Now find it a massive turn on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing as my verts say I ain't to bad lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than a passionate kissing session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is an absolute must for us on meets

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By *arah_tv999TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxford


"Kissing is an absolute must for us on meets "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect those that don’t kiss but it’s the most important thing for me

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Omg just got to kiss!!! It's the start to everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met a women who started off saying strictly no kissing at all. Absolutely through me big time, didn’t know what the hell to do , wasn’t a pleasant experience.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

It's something that I'd thought about being a no and keeping just between us but the more I thought on it the more it made the whole thing seem too impersonal. Plus, I love a good kiss

V x

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Respect others ,,,, but no kissing means no meet ..... Just far too clinical and business like

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Kissing is a good part of a meet respect people that don't as it's not everyone thing

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Kissing heightens the excitement for me especially when done well couldn't have a play meet without kissing

C

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp. "

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned.

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp. "

Don’t read it then

Not seen anyone bashing anybody else .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

Don’t read it then

Not seen anyone bashing anybody else ."

If you read the op you will see it asks a question. I'd assume they aren't after just affirmative answers.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

Don’t read it then

Not seen anyone bashing anybody else ."

Because your not looking very hard....and i will read what i wish to read, thanks all the same

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned."

Have you been here that long that you have an intolerance to people posting what they like ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned.

Have you been here that long that you have an intolerance to people posting what they like ? "

No, have you? You seem to be questioning me posting my observations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there’s no kissing then the meet is pointless for me,am a very passionate guy and kissing is a must but everyone is different I understand that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the single guys saying no kiss no meet. Yeah right "

I refused a meet just before Christmas because she was quizzing what I have done with TV/TS!(not in a good way) Some of us have principles.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned.

Have you been here that long that you have an intolerance to people posting what they like ?

No, have you? You seem to be questioning me posting my observations."

I didn’t question your post . I questioned your cynicism and condescending lack of tolerance to others views .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A must for me. Wouldn't go further without. "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anybody think shit kissers normally turn out to be crap in bed ? "

Shit kissers don't get as far as my bed so I wouldn't know. If they fail at that it's a big NO for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anybody think shit kissers normally turn out to be crap in bed ?

Shit kissers don't get as far as my bed so I wouldn't know. If they fail at that it's a big NO for me."

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned.

Have you been here that long that you have an intolerance to people posting what they like ?

No, have you? You seem to be questioning me posting my observations.

I didn’t question your post . I questioned your cynicism and condescending lack of tolerance to others views . "

"....cynicism an lack of tolerance to others views" People in glass houses...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned.

Have you been here that long that you have an intolerance to people posting what they like ?

No, have you? You seem to be questioning me posting my observations.

I didn’t question your post . I questioned your cynicism and condescending lack of tolerance to others views . "

I see. Ok, in what way do you consider my post condescending and lacking in tolerance?

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned.

Have you been here that long that you have an intolerance to people posting what they like ?

No, have you? You seem to be questioning me posting my observations.

I didn’t question your post . I questioned your cynicism and condescending lack of tolerance to others views .

"....cynicism an lack of tolerance to others views" People in glass houses... "

SAYS YOU

"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

Just because you have read before doesn’t mean others have does it ? I know it must be so tedious for you !!

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned.

Have you been here that long that you have an intolerance to people posting what they like ?

No, have you? You seem to be questioning me posting my observations.

I didn’t question your post . I questioned your cynicism and condescending lack of tolerance to others views .

I see. Ok, in what way do you consider my post condescending and lacking in tolerance?"

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

Isn’t that cynicism and intolerance to the OP and his post ? Perhaps everyone else should not bother posting because , YOU have told everyone what will be said !

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned.

Have you been here that long that you have an intolerance to people posting what they like ?

No, have you? You seem to be questioning me posting my observations.

I didn’t question your post . I questioned your cynicism and condescending lack of tolerance to others views .

"....cynicism an lack of tolerance to others views" People in glass houses...

SAYS YOU

"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

Just because you have read before doesn’t mean others have does it ? I know it must be so tedious for you !!"

Yep, your right. My tolerance for others taking digs at peoples preferences isn't high. The thing is i am not even sure you realise your are guilty of this, or do you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned.

Have you been here that long that you have an intolerance to people posting what they like ?

No, have you? You seem to be questioning me posting my observations.

I didn’t question your post . I questioned your cynicism and condescending lack of tolerance to others views .

I see. Ok, in what way do you consider my post condescending and lacking in tolerance?

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

Isn’t that cynicism and intolerance to the OP and his post ? Perhaps everyone else should not bother posting because , YOU have told everyone what will be said !"

I respect your opinion but don't agree with it

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

you KNOW it's going to be 170 posts saying basically "no kissing, no meet" and 4 saying "nah, not bothered".

It is what it is.

You also know that lack of intimacy, impersonal, cold and clinical will be mentioned.

Have you been here that long that you have an intolerance to people posting what they like ?

No, have you? You seem to be questioning me posting my observations.

I didn’t question your post . I questioned your cynicism and condescending lack of tolerance to others views .

"....cynicism an lack of tolerance to others views" People in glass houses...

SAYS YOU

"Really? This again. Has been done to death on the forums and just seems to be taken as an opportunity by some of the "yes" brigade to bash the "no" camp.

Just because you have read before doesn’t mean others have does it ? I know it must be so tedious for you !!

Yep, your right. My tolerance for others taking digs at peoples preferences isn't high. The thing is i am not even sure you realise your are guilty of this, or do you? "

We can all wax lyrical . But I merely pointed out that wether it’s been done to death or not in your eyes it obviously hasn’t for others who have bothered to comment . One dig in my eyes deserves another

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Respect others ,,,, but no kissing means no meet ..... Just far too clinical and business like "

Your original post on this thread. "Respect others".....good start. "..but no kissing means no meet"....fair enough, everyone's choice should be respected. BUT then "Just far too clinical and business like". You are insinuating that anyone who wishes not to kiss on a meet is just "clinical" or "business like"...both of which are insulting in my book. Is this your way of showing the said "respect" you mentioned?

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Respect others ,,,, but no kissing means no meet ..... Just far too clinical and business like

Your original post on this thread. "Respect others".....good start. "..but no kissing means no meet"....fair enough, everyone's choice should be respected. BUT then "Just far too clinical and business like". You are insinuating that anyone who wishes not to kiss on a meet is just "clinical" or "business like"...both of which are insulting in my book. Is this your way of showing the said "respect" you mentioned? "

Ahhh ok I see the angle you are coming from and can see how some might take that . I should’ve said for those people that might feel insulted , that a meeting without kisses would feel clinical and business like to me

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By *orthern DelightsCouple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire/fife

We love kissing. Most erotic part of the meet for us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who enjoys kissing during a meet? I do but I know some people don't..."

Didn't used to really care either way...but recently met a great kisser and it's back on my list of favourite things to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a meet with some passionate kissing... it’s a must

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I have never been called cold or clinical despite mostly not kissing... I have also never really found it a hurdle to how I meet. But I can see how if I was meeting intimately instead of club meets that it maybe. Perhaps it's the biggest reason I avoid 121 except with a select few I really trust.

In a group situation it's easy to not kiss and there is no build up etc.

I have my reasons for not doing so as well be stems from trauma in my early years

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have never been called cold or clinical despite mostly not kissing... I have also never really found it a hurdle to how I meet. But I can see how if I was meeting intimately instead of club meets that it maybe. Perhaps it's the biggest reason I avoid 121 except with a select few I really trust.

In a group situation it's easy to not kiss and there is no build up etc.

I have my reasons for not doing so as well be stems from trauma in my early years "

We've been called everything from prostitutes to robots due to this one preference

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Not a fan of kissing on meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone likes different things so if you don’t like kissing that’s your choice and should be respected.

As for me I love being kissed - turns me on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the single guys saying no kiss no meet. Yeah right "

I’ve had a meet in the past without kissing but I didn’t know kissing wasn’t allowed before the meet and once that became knowledge the meet didn’t last much longer. The couple weren’t happy with me but I wasn’t into it once I was told no kissing. I should have asked before we met but you live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn’t be the same without it but I would respect someone’s wishes if they didn’t want any kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing you may aswell fuck with all your clothes on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought and worth considering... Would you guys kiss your female partner or wife after she had been sucking on a guys cock..? Just curious...

Or would you insist that she visits the bathroom to use the mouth wash...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing its so sensual when the passion is there it's amazing

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Just a thought and worth considering... Would you guys kiss your female partner or wife after she had been sucking on a guys cock..? Just curious...

Or would you insist that she visits the bathroom to use the mouth wash...?"

I find it sexy and so has every man including my husband I’ve been with so far in that particular situation - they all find it pretty sexy and yummy that I’ve just been sucking cock and now I’m kissing them...

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

Kissing is a vital part of sensual fun, I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a completely natural thing to do! Your going to fuck each other so why not kiss??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing.

Can not beat a long session of passionate snogging, leading to great foreplay and sex

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

I love it.

Meets are not the same with out it

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

I would definitely meet with a couple who won’t kiss and anyone on this thread single or otherwise that say wouldn’t meet couple if kissing was off , Bullshit lol xx

Love couples who stand there ground on what is for or not for them and anyone who questions them has no real understanding of swinging or why couples do what they do .

“ how can a couple no kiss and Mrs is happy to take a strangers cock in her pussy and how can he possibly enjoy watching!!!

It’s a real pleasure to be included with a couple who are mad for each other but guest is taken in for the experience and if you cant see or understand well your loss

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

I would definitely meet with a couple who won’t kiss and anyone on this thread single or otherwise that say wouldn’t meet couple if kissing was off , Bullshit lol xx

Love couples who stand there ground on what is for or not for them and anyone who questions them has no real understanding of swinging or why couples do what they do .

“ how can a couple no kiss and Mrs is happy to take a strangers cock in her pussy and how can he possibly enjoy watching!!!

It’s a real pleasure to be included with a couple who are mad for each other but will keep within there limits but I will guarantee that couple will begin to add kissing etc with whom it’s felt comfortable and part of the mind and guest is taken in for the experience and if you cant see or understand well your loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if she’s got a mouthful of a another guys load in general yes love a good snog

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By *illycarrolCouple
over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

Thats Hot Chocolates best song knackered then

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Kissing is an absolute must for me during a meet

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

If the guy is a good kisser then yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a big plus for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing!

The most intimate thing between man and woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A must.....feels very odd without!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. It brings passion. I never meet people who don't. I imagine it's like rubbing up against dry wood. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Absolutely. It brings passion. I never meet people who don't. I imagine it's like rubbing up against dry wood. X "

don't meet me then you don't want splinters

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Love kissing!

The most intimate thing between man and woman.

"

I can't agree with that. Intimacy is about much more than locking lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could spend hours kissing! I don't have an issue with people who don't kiss during meets but I would find it incredibly hard and probably keep forgetting as kissing is so natural during play!

Peach x

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By *alaciousCurvesWoman
over a year ago

Gainsborough

Nope, I'm not a massive kisser, even with my husband. I have asthma and can't breathe through my nose so long and passionate kisses are a big no no for me, unless you want me passed out on the floor from lack of oxygen

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife


"Kissing is an absolute must for me during a meet"

The one question over 6/7 years from a single guy we would ask if they wanted to join us at the top of the list is !!!

1 would like to join us for fun and pretty much anything goes for us ?

2 SG eh you don’t kiss ? Na no for me mate sorry ?? so jog on lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love to kiss its such a passionate feeling, but I also accept that within a MF / moresome some do not like that level of intimacy

J xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nowt wrong with kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no intrrest

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester

Kissing does help to break the ice and even more importantly gives that extra oomph right at the moment of climax so Kay loves it.

Mind you she also loves her tits being kissed hard at climax too.....oh decisions...decisions!

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By *r and Mrs PenguinCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

As a couple we thought it would be too much to kiss on a meet, personal.

Turns out, not that way.

Hey, got his cock in my mouth while hubby is behind me so, how personal is kissing really?.

We have found that a lot of our "dont's" seem to be coming "Do's

He he x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell to the yeah for kissing. As it is a ice breaker and it tells you if the person is into the meet in the first place. And I had my share where the kissing literally told me that it isn't going any further ain't heading to the bedroom to have our wicked way,As I didn't feel the spark even given many tries,it was flogging a dead horse.

But I can see where it gets blurred for some.As they feel it is a personal thing between two lovers a couple whatever married or cohabiting.so as they say they just want a wham bam thank you mam service just a straight quick fuck. Get your coat out ya go.

Each to their own.

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By *lackduffyMan
over a year ago

london


"As a couple we thought it would be too much to kiss on a meet, personal.

Turns out, not that way.

Hey, got his cock in my mouth while hubby is behind me so, how personal is kissing really?.

We have found that a lot of our "dont's" seem to be coming "Do's

He he x x"

Lol... It’s safe to say rules are there for checks and balance and should be changed as required. No need to be dogmatic about them

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife


"As a couple we thought it would be too much to kiss on a meet, personal.

Turns out, not that way.

Hey, got his cock in my mouth while hubby is behind me so, how personal is kissing really?.

We have found that a lot of our "dont's" seem to be coming "Do's

He he x x"

It’s the gift that keeps on giving and been debated on here as passionate 6/8 years ago and will continue for many more as to help or hinder meets also ??

Many things will help turn meets up a notch or two

1 back ground porn

2 bareback

3 kissing

4 role play

5 couples choosing you to be there go to and try some of the things they feel ready to try

And I can be in awww of the love and trust couples put into each other and the people they meet as trust goes along way

And the best and remembered meets have to be an achievement of progress ,

Just make sure that no one is pressuring any other person that it’s not normal or a turn off etc as most on the thread have had to face something uncomfortable tk them and fight or flight springs to mind !!!

And wouldn’t like to think this thread is being read by couples and there thinking are we in the wrong with what we’re looking for ? NO there not and maybe they get that meet where games are played like strip poker / dare and why not having spoke with couples etc you can dare Mrs of non kissing couple to kiss a person of there choice for 5 secs and describe feeling to partner and mr will have his go and leave things there for them to decide not fir them or wow ?? good shit there , rather than them reading that there the meet most can’t be arsed with ??

A community within the community always on hand to help and make transition simple and fun with a sense of trust !!!!

So contact them 0800 couples care about you 123 ???????? come suck and fukc.com

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As a couple we thought it would be too much to kiss on a meet, personal.

Turns out, not that way.

Hey, got his cock in my mouth while hubby is behind me so, how personal is kissing really?.

We have found that a lot of our "dont's" seem to be coming "Do's

He he x x

It’s the gift that keeps on giving and been debated on here as passionate 6/8 years ago and will continue for many more as to help or hinder meets also ??

Many things will help turn meets up a notch or two

1 back ground porn

2 bareback

3 kissing

4 role play

5 couples choosing you to be there go to and try some of the things they feel ready to try

And I can be in awww of the love and trust couples put into each other and the people they meet as trust goes along way

And the best and remembered meets have to be an achievement of progress ,

Just make sure that no one is pressuring any other person that it’s not normal or a turn off etc as most on the thread have had to face something uncomfortable tk them and fight or flight springs to mind !!!

And wouldn’t like to think this thread is being read by couples and there thinking are we in the wrong with what we’re looking for ? NO there not and maybe they get that meet where games are played like strip poker / dare and why not having spoke with couples etc you can dare Mrs of non kissing couple to kiss a person of there choice for 5 secs and describe feeling to partner and mr will have his go and leave things there for them to decide not fir them or wow ?? good shit there , rather than them reading that there the meet most can’t be arsed with ??

A community within the community always on hand to help and make transition simple and fun with a sense of trust !!!!

So contact them 0800 couples care about you 123 ???????? come suck and fukc.com "

Most couples who are secure and confident in expressing what they're not preparedto to do with other people aren't influenced by threads like this. We understand that we aren't to everyone's taste and the fact that we don't kiss makes us attractive to even fewer people. It's not something we need help with or significant of any issue either of us have, its just how we do things. We won't meet people who insist on kissing, they won't meet us. That's how things work on here

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Kissing is a fundamental part of it for me and My Girl, it's hot.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Love to kiss, would find a meet without kissing a bit transactional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the way to build passion

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Love to kiss, would find a meet without kissing a bit transactional.

"

In what way? Genuine question

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife


"As a couple we thought it would be too much to kiss on a meet, personal.

Turns out, not that way.

Hey, got his cock in my mouth while hubby is behind me so, how personal is kissing really?.

We have found that a lot of our "dont's" seem to be coming "Do's

He he x x

It’s the gift that keeps on giving and been debated on here as passionate 6/8 years ago and will continue for many more as to help or hinder meets also ??

Many things will help turn meets up a notch or two

1 back ground porn

2 bareback

3 kissing

4 role play

5 couples choosing you to be there go to and try some of the things they feel ready to try

And I can be in awww of the love and trust couples put into each other and the people they meet as trust goes along way

And the best and remembered meets have to be an achievement of progress ,

Just make sure that no one is pressuring any other person that it’s not normal or a turn off etc as most on the thread have had to face something uncomfortable tk them and fight or flight springs to mind !!!

And wouldn’t like to think this thread is being read by couples and there thinking are we in the wrong with what we’re looking for ? NO there not and maybe they get that meet where games are played like strip poker / dare and why not having spoke with couples etc you can dare Mrs of non kissing couple to kiss a person of there choice for 5 secs and describe feeling to partner and mr will have his go and leave things there for them to decide not fir them or wow ?? good shit there , rather than them reading that there the meet most can’t be arsed with ??

A community within the community always on hand to help and make transition simple and fun with a sense of trust !!!!

So contact them 0800 couples care about you 123 ???????? come suck and fukc.com

Most couples who are secure and confident in expressing what they're not preparedto to do with other people aren't influenced by threads like this. We understand that we aren't to everyone's taste and the fact that we don't kiss makes us attractive to even fewer people. It's not something we need help with or significant of any issue either of us have, its just how we do things. We won't meet people who insist on kissing, they won't meet us. That's how things work on here "

We didn’t kiss others for a long time and very very ocasionaly forgot to say and had to stop there and apologise with no problem but I really liked the forums and would chat with Mrs about it and it did change our outlook and tried to introduce it with special meets ,,, and to say that couples who are not comfortable are insucere about things is spot on but not the insucere most think of and we just felt leaving a few things just for us to enjoy knowing this our thing and don’t need to kiss to get turned on as watching each was an amazing thing to do then join in etc ,,, but there are many people single or couple don’t have a clue what swingjng is really about and especially as a single guy myself now it’s embarrassing to here then blurt out pish on here as most just cheating or think that being here will get them a quick fuck as there’s probably more chance on s dating site ... ??

How can a couple do that but not do that and how does he enjoy watching mrs get that done and enjoy it ... other word single on here cheating can stand the thought of there other half having it done and him not being able to watch and feeling sick to stomach at the thought of his Mrs doing it Pmsl .... if carlsberg did revenge on cheats they would have cheating single at meet walk into a room and see their half getting fucked senseless by his worst insecurities a group all wanting three shot and living it ?????? ...

Just saying out loud!!!! ??

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By *arkmanMan
over a year ago

hounslow

I love kissing, it is a fundamental aspect of sex for me. I even enjoy kissing porn, to me it’s as erotic as burying my face in a warm wet vagina (preferably hairy), old school here, lol.

Kissing is horny, full stop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought and worth considering... Would you guys kiss your female partner or wife after she had been sucking on a guys cock..? Just curious...

Or would you insist that she visits the bathroom to use the mouth wash...?"

never bothered me even if she has a mouthful of spunk lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who enjoys kissing during a meet? I do but I know some people don't..."

Yes men or women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing. Nice ice breaker, starts setting the mood but isn't so serious that it would be awkward if nothing more happened.

It's the perfect foreplay before moving on to heavier petting

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