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By *uriousk22 OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

why is it so hard to find a regular f/buddy to have fun with in and out of clubs?

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

It is always hard to find the right person for something like that. Don't give up hope, you look fantastic and I am sure that someone is out there looking for you. When things click you will never look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it so hard to find a regular f/buddy to have fun with in and out of clubs? "

No idea, but when you find out, please let me know

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"why is it so hard to find a regular f/buddy to have fun with in and out of clubs?

No idea, but when you find out, please let me know "

Me too please

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By *mrangerMan
over a year ago

exeter

Op you should have no problems if I was not too far away I would be there

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By *uriousk22 OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

i do struggle tho. Even when guys arrange to meet me they don’t turn up. Losing faith in fab completely.....

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By *r Normally KinkyMan
over a year ago

Somerset

theres enough genuine guys who struggle to get meets. the west country needs you op.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"i do struggle tho. Even when guys arrange to meet me they don’t turn up. Losing faith in fab completely..... "

Fab is just the vehicle, it's the crap men you need to lose faith in

I've found that the FWB is elusive because many men worry that we'll fall for them. So may limit their willingness to see someone regularly.

The ones whop don't turn up were just dreamers anyway

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By *r Normally KinkyMan
over a year ago

Somerset

"theres enough genuine guys who struggle to get meets. the west country needs you op."

but they may have been listening to trading standars telling everyone if it sounds to good to be true it probably is.

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By *uriousk22 OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

"theres enough genuine guys who struggle to get meets. the west country needs you op.

but they may have been listening to trading standars telling everyone if it sounds to good to be true it probably is.

lol i’m a real girl and my veris vouch for me haha

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By *uriousk22 OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

"i do struggle tho. Even when guys arrange to meet me they don’t turn up. Losing faith in fab completely.....

Fab is just the vehicle, it's the crap men you need to lose faith in

I've found that the FWB is elusive because many men worry that we'll fall for them. So may limit their willingness to see someone regularly.

The ones whop don't turn up were just dreamers anyway

Yea i guess that could be a worry for them x

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By *r Normally KinkyMan
over a year ago

Somerset

"theres enough genuine guys who struggle to get meets. the west country needs you op.

but they may have been listening to trading standars telling everyone if it sounds to good to be true it probably is.

lol i’m a real girl and my veris vouch for me haha "

ive no doubt you are Op just move to south of bristol and id be all yours .

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By *uriousk22 OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

"theres enough genuine guys who struggle to get meets. the west country needs you op.

but they may have been listening to trading standars telling everyone if it sounds to good to be true it probably is.

lol i’m a real girl and my veris vouch for me haha

ive no doubt you are Op just move to south of bristol and id be all yours .

hahaha

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By *r Normally KinkyMan
over a year ago

Somerset

"theres enough genuine guys who struggle to get meets. the west country needs you op.

but they may have been listening to trading standars telling everyone if it sounds to good to be true it probably is.

lol i’m a real girl and my veris vouch for me haha

ive no doubt you are Op just move to south of bristol and id be all yours .

hahaha "

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

The fwb relationship isn’t easy to find or maintain. If you find the magic key to happy-fwb-ness then do share it here ... pretty please

V xx

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By *r Normally KinkyMan
over a year ago

Somerset

The fwb relationship isn’t easy to find or maintain. If you find the magic key to happy-fwb-ness then do share it here ... pretty please

V xx

ok ok i get it i need to move up north

what the fuck is wrong with the guys up there

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By *uriousk22 OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

The fwb relationship isn’t easy to find or maintain. If you find the magic key to happy-fwb-ness then do share it here ... pretty please

V xx

oh i will dnt worry. This single malarkey is getting annoying now, nearly 5 years of bein single

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I had one or two partners in crime but fell bye the way side but always looking for a partner to explore with . If I lived near you I would give you a shout .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found a lot of guys that want to go to clubs just want the cheap entrance. I've only risked taking a potential FWB to a club once which was the night I met you. I won't do that again. I find it's easy to find FB - I have a regular one who I see most weeks and it's great fun. But a FWB is really hard to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell OP if you can't find a regular FB then we are all in trouble. You must have plenty of offers!

You are clearly genuine with all the veris you have, can't believe anyone would stand you up.

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By *uriousk22 OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

"I've found a lot of guys that want to go to clubs just want the cheap entrance. I've only risked taking a potential FWB to a club once which was the night I met you. I won't do that again. I find it's easy to find FB - I have a regular one who I see most weeks and it's great fun. But a FWB is really hard to find. "

I can’t even find one out of the club haha. Ah the night i met the beautiful blonde..... hehe. i do hope to see u saturday x

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

The fwb relationship isn’t easy to find or maintain. If you find the magic key to happy-fwb-ness then do share it here ... pretty please

V xx

ok ok i get it i need to move up north

what the fuck is wrong with the guys up there

Erm I’m south-west-ish.

V x

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Apparently all good things come to those who wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done non fab fwb for years and they have very little to do with pure aesthetics which is what fab is more about ... it also takes two people who are pretty much in the same place emotionally in their lives who are looking for the same thing at the same time PLUS have to be capable of the same lack of emotional commitment

It's an amazing thing to have ... I had one for 14 years and another for 8.5 years

Even here on fab I've managed it for most of the time I've been on here with one being almost 2 years

But likewise I'm incapable of the normal life relationships which most people attain... basically it's not having any requirements here and now nor in the future along with the ability to be totally honest with yourself and another person

Good luck to All!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t even find one out of the club haha. Ah the night i met the beautiful blonde..... hehe. i do hope to see u saturday x"

Me too I'm meant to be on a date... But well he's got to pull out all the stops as he's on a last warning

. So if not I'll be there but I'll be driving x

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough

"why is it so hard to find a regular f/buddy to have fun with in and out of clubs? "

I along with plenty of others no doubt are all thinking the same thing

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive

Hope you find someone...and if you do can you ask if they have an older brother...

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"i do struggle tho. Even when guys arrange to meet me they don’t turn up. Losing faith in fab completely..... "

They must be stupid doing a no show on you . You are stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i do struggle tho. Even when guys arrange to meet me they don’t turn up. Losing faith in fab completely.....

They must be stupid doing a no show on you . You are stunning"

She is as stunning in the flesh too- a total beauty

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By *uriousk22 OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

"i do struggle tho. Even when guys arrange to meet me they don’t turn up. Losing faith in fab completely.....

They must be stupid doing a no show on you . You are stunning"

aww thanku x

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By *uriousk22 OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

"i do struggle tho. Even when guys arrange to meet me they don’t turn up. Losing faith in fab completely.....

They must be stupid doing a no show on you . You are stunning

She is as stunning in the flesh too- a total beauty "

Thanku hunni, as is u xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

A genuine FWB is more friend than benefits. If you get a proper one you are very lucky. Xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A genuine FWB is more friend than benefits. If you get a proper one you are very lucky. Xx. "

^^^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i struggle with finding a regular / regular's who wants a married lady for fun whos husband fully knows alot talk the talk but cannot walk the walk .... ive even had some guys say im too good to be regular ??? whatever that means lol

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

"i do struggle tho. Even when guys arrange to meet me they don’t turn up. Losing faith in fab completely..... "

Me too why do we bother

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d say 80% friend at least. The benefit stuff just falls into place.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Stop going to the frog pool and go to clubs?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Stop going to the frog pool and go to clubs?"

She does go to clubs, pay attention

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Stop going to the frog pool and go to clubs?

She does go to clubs, pay attention

Obviously not the right clubs, offer her your flipper.

Smiles) how you doing old friend?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Stop going to the frog pool and go to clubs?

She does go to clubs, pay attention

Obviously not the right clubs, offer her your flipper.

Smiles) how you doing old friend?"

Errm you cant blame the club, its one of the best clubs ever (in my opinion) You know me I'm always good

, how about you? have you managed to get into L's new Lingerie yet

opps sorry I'm crossing threads

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Stop going to the frog pool and go to clubs?

She does go to clubs, pay attention

Obviously not the right clubs, offer her your flipper.

Smiles) how you doing old friend?

Errm you cant blame the club, its one of the best clubs ever (in my opinion) You know me I'm always good

, how about you? have you managed to get into L's new Lingerie yet

opps sorry I'm crossing threads

She hasn’t put them in yet..., oh hum.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Or even on.

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By *uriousk22 OP Couple
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

i do go to clubs, and the 1 i go to mailntnis the best 1 i find. thanks for ur help anyway

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