FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

How to be rougher with a woman

Jump to newest
 

By *cots guy 23 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hey there I'm trying to get some information and tips to try and be rougher and spank my woman and also what do women want and like to be done to them????

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask your woman what she likes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do this amazing thing called communicating with your partner.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, she'd need to tell you. Especially re this subject as everyone's boundaries are going to be so different.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Absolutely, the best person to ask is not us but her. Communicate and talk it through and remember to keep things consensual.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cots guy 23 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah I know we have spoken but I was just wanting some sort of tips so I can surprise her as she's not forthcoming in telling me I just want her to be shocked and happy that I've learnt what she is wanting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Well look into the "Traffic Light Safeword System" and agree to use it so that she can warn you if things are going too far and so that you don't overstep her limits and boundaries.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cots guy 23 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah I will do that I tried spanking her with a ridding crop but she ended up calling me a woose lol cause I couldn't hit her hard enough

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Everyone has different pain thresholds, it isn;t about beating each other black and blue though. Try using a blindfold and some restraints as that can completely alter the perception of the submissive. Stick to fleshy areas with the crop, avoid bony areas or on the spine or over the kidneys. I tend to stick to buttocks and things. Get creative with your fingernails gently scratching her back as well as impact play. Experiment and have fun. But remember consent, trust and communication are paramount.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hey there I'm trying to get some information and tips to try and be rougher and spank my woman and also what do women want and like to be done to them???? "

Treat us as individuals: one size doesn't fit all.

Not all women like to be spanked, so ask!

Start gently. If it's not hard enough or too gentle she'll say.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 12/12/18 04:03:49]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spank her . If she slaps you across the mouth . It was probably too hard

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always play with a safe word (red) he can do what he likes, as soon as I say red everything stops..instantly...does matter who is “close” ....communication is the key, along with trust and time ...the more she says red, the more confident she will be that you’ll stop when she really needs you to. Worked for us anyway. That way I can push my self that little bit more every time, safe in the knowledge that when I need him to stop he will

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Hey there I'm trying to get some information and tips to try and be rougher and spank my woman and also what do women want and like to be done to them????

Treat us as individuals: one size doesn't fit all.

Not all women like to be spanked, so ask!

Start gently. If it's not hard enough or too gentle she'll say."

She did. He's a "woose" apparently.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretend she's a Man Utd fan.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey there I'm trying to get some information and tips to try and be rougher and spank my woman and also what do women want and like to be done to them???? "
they like to be wined and dined and treated like princesses, the odd few like their arses spanked gently and a very small selection like their arse spanked red raw, you have to find the woman first then work on the rules of engagement

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Hey there I'm trying to get some information and tips to try and be rougher and spank my woman and also what do women want and like to be done to them???? they like to be wined and dined and treated like princesses, the odd few like their arses spanked gently and a very small selection like their arse spanked red raw, you have to find the woman first then work on the rules of engagement "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top