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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

To be honest that should be covered by good communication prior to the meet.

For me, I would be happy to just watch. If asked to join in then that would be fine too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m a more intimate setting like a hotel room I’d probably prefer to be invited to join in after a while.

In clubs etc I’m more than happy to watch and just enjoy the show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily come along just to watch and play with myself. An impromptu invite to join in might be a tad awkward though as boundaries won't be discussed beforehand but who knows..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there "
I could do what was required

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By *otnew16Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Voyeurism is something I would very much like to try, with a couple and their rules would be obeyed completely!

I am happy to watch only, and to use their equipment to film and photograph if that’s something they’d want?

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We enjoy watching others. Although are relaxed enough to go with the flow if things felt right

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there "
Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest that should be covered by good communication prior to the meet.

For me, I would be happy to just watch. If asked to join in then that would be fine too."

Absolutely discusssion beforehand yes x

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By *uriousExhibitionistCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We’d happily just watch and listen

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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It I found the Woman attractive then yes, They would have to be a little bit vocal though or it would be like watching a silent movie, I wouldn't wank I would probably have a few beer's and log on fab while watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’m a more intimate setting like a hotel room I’d probably prefer to be invited to join in after a while.

In clubs etc I’m more than happy to watch and just enjoy the show. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It I found the Woman attractive then yes, They would have to be a little bit vocal though or it would be like watching a silent movie, I wouldn't wank I would probably have a few beer's and log on fab while watching "

Get the tax return out the way too

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I'd be happy just to watch particularly if that was what I was invited for. I would also be happy to join in if asked (providing the activities going on don't cross my boundaries)

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Id enjoy being made to watch and teased the whole time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd happily come along just to watch and play with myself. An impromptu invite to join in might be a tad awkward though as boundaries won't be discussed beforehand but who knows.."

Thats the thing isnt it, wouldnt want to out anyone on the spot but then discussing it all beforehand would almost assume play, and would be an anticlimax maybe if there was none

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there "

I've done both.

Love to watch (and direct) but also I've been persuaded (!!) to join in the action too.

Different dynamic on both kind of meets, but both are horny as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I’m a more intimate setting like a hotel room I’d probably prefer to be invited to join in after a while.

In clubs etc I’m more than happy to watch and just enjoy the show. "

I keep imagining if it was me sat on that chair in the hotel room corner, would need a newspaper to hide behind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there

I've done both.

Love to watch (and direct) but also I've been persuaded (!!) to join in the action too.

Different dynamic on both kind of meets, but both are horny as fuck."

Having the watcher direct is interesting thanks, more involvement for them then

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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They would have to put on a decent show, Can you imagine the awkwardness if they turned around and found their guest asleep and snoring

And after being a regular in the chat rooms and seeing the various types of people that go in there, You could end up the silent type of person, The general chit chat and banter type to the get your tits out fuck her from behind type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy to just watch and play with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always wanted to sit in a couples hotel room and simply wank while watching them fuck. Sure if i was invited it would be hard to say no but if I wasn’t there’d be no disappointment my side!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They would have to put on a decent show, Can you imagine the awkwardness if they turned around and found their guest asleep and snoring

And after being a regular in the chat rooms and seeing the various types of people that go in there, You could end up the silent type of person, The general chit chat and banter type to the get your tits out fuck her from behind type "

It sounds less appealing by the minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have watched couples in clubs and enjoyed it but must admit i enjoy it more if invited to join in

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I imagine if it was in a club I'd be up for a quick gander in passing but otherwise it's not something that would particularly interest me or something I'd seek out.

However, if it were two women inviting me along to watch while they were getting it on then I'd quite happily sit in the corner and just watch. And even if say half way through they wanted me to join them, begging and pleading with me almost, I'd be like, 'No way sexy naked ladies, you said it was watching only. This is not what we discussed. I'm out of here.'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine if it was in a club I'd be up for a quick gander in passing but otherwise it's not something that would particularly interest me or something I'd seek out.

However, if it were two women inviting me along to watch while they were getting it on then I'd quite happily sit in the corner and just watch. And even if say half way through they wanted me to join them, begging and pleading with me almost, I'd be like, 'No way sexy naked ladies, you said it was watching only. This is not what we discussed. I'm out of here.' "

Heads off to recruit a lovely lady with excellent persuasive skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They would have to put on a decent show, Can you imagine the awkwardness if they turned around and found their guest asleep and snoring

And after being a regular in the chat rooms and seeing the various types of people that go in there, You could end up the silent type of person, The general chit chat and banter type to the get your tits out fuck her from behind type "

LOL ! Imagine inviting someone who suddenly decided they wanted to be the director and is telling you what to do

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Hmm.

Well if they'd specifically asked me(lucky me eh) then i'd probably only attend as a voyeur if I found them sexually attractive.

So I suppose it follows that if they were to then, in following a sudden urge in the heat of the action, or even foreplay(yum..),to beckon me hither,radiating all lusty eyes, breathlessness and blushing with excitement, then I would of course help out the people in need..

Voyeurism and knowing that they would find it horny for me specifically to watch them is a turn on. For them to then get so turned on they would then want me to, and how, physically join in, would send my horniness level through the bleeding roof.

Cor..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily watch if invited ... and, depending on the couple, to participate if the moment was right ... Definitely a hotel room or other intimate setting sort of guy ...

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By *ikeayrMan
over a year ago

ayr

Love to watch.

Stay in hotels a lot so would happily accommodate

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By *irebrand 1263Man
over a year ago

near you

Would be happy to watch without expectation to join in.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'd watch just out of interest... I'm like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’m a more intimate setting like a hotel room I’d probably prefer to be invited to join in after a while.

In clubs etc I’m more than happy to watch and just enjoy the show. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We enjoy watching others. Although are relaxed enough to go with the flow if things felt right "
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the hotel window ledges are wide enough its always possible to draw an audience

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


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Having the watcher direct is interesting thanks, more involvement for them then "

Give them.a Polaroid camera and they can get closer to the action without necessarily getting involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to watch and wank and not touch.

If I was invited to join in, I would love to, but only if that was what both people in the couple wanted.

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I'm quite surprised a few women have replied to this, we were watched briefly by a woman in a club once (through a glass wall) and I found it such a turn on but I've always thought of voyeurism as mainly a male thing (by the crowd of guys at any door left open in a club) which although E enjoys it does nothing either way for me.

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By *urreynudistMan
over a year ago

staines

have met couples where I have just watch or taken photos for them, never assumed it would lead to anything more, although is an added bonus if asked to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could just watch and comment on what I am watching. A bit like afootball game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy to watch as long as clear boundaries are set before the meet.

Haven't done in a while.

A hotel set up would be great and discrete too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could just watch and comment on what I am watching. A bit like afootball game "

“....and the defender launches it straight up the middle....”

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By *hunkyThighsMan
over a year ago

Gloucester


"If the hotel window ledges are wide enough its always possible to draw an audience "

Must bring paper and pencil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would watch and maybe have a little play with each other while we watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m allowed to wank and I’d definitely be up for it - just watching would be challenging but worth seeing how well I coped - and of asked to join In wouldn’t have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never done it but either scenario would be good for me. There’s something kinky about not being allowed to join in but when presented with a couple having sex temptation always arises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could just watch and comment on what I am watching. A bit like afootball game

“....and the defender launches it straight up the middle....”"

Or horse racing.

“And it’s penis pressing on the vagina with balls moving fast at the rear. But it’s tits out in front. Nope it’s nipples out in front by a nose....”

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I imagine if it was in a club I'd be up for a quick gander in passing but otherwise it's not something that would particularly interest me or something I'd seek out.

However, if it were two women inviting me along to watch while they were getting it on then I'd quite happily sit in the corner and just watch. And even if say half way through they wanted me to join them, begging and pleading with me almost, I'd be like, 'No way sexy naked ladies, you said it was watching only. This is not what we discussed. I'm out of here.' "

“Maybe next time girls”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could just watch and comment on what I am watching. A bit like afootball game

“....and the defender launches it straight up the middle....”

Or horse racing.

“And it’s penis pressing on the vagina with balls moving fast at the rear. But it’s tits out in front. Nope it’s nipples out in front by a nose....”"

Oh lordy just imagine. Would it still be sexy if we wore ear defenders. I cant do serious sex whilst laughing.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Hi op

I love watching. ...we all there for fun ..so id go with the flow..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could just watch and comment on what I am watching. A bit like afootball game

“....and the defender launches it straight up the middle....”

Or horse racing.

“And it’s penis pressing on the vagina with balls moving fast at the rear. But it’s tits out in front. Nope it’s nipples out in front by a nose....”

Oh lordy just imagine. Would it still be sexy if we wore ear defenders. I cant do serious sex whilst laughing. "

Funny sex is great- ear defenders and a dear stalker hat would be de rigeur

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By *an-50Man
over a year ago

Reading

If you didn't know I was watching that would be my ultimate

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I’ve been lucky enough to be invited to just watch couples a few times.

It’s a wonderful experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you didn't know I was watching that would be my ultimate "

I'll pop you in the wardrobe then. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could just watch and comment on what I am watching. A bit like afootball game

“....and the defender launches it straight up the middle....”

Or horse racing.

“And it’s penis pressing on the vagina with balls moving fast at the rear. But it’s tits out in front. Nope it’s nipples out in front by a nose....”

Oh lordy just imagine. Would it still be sexy if we wore ear defenders. I cant do serious sex whilst laughing.

Funny sex is great- ear defenders and a dear stalker hat would be de rigeur"

More original than stockings and suspenders at least

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Have been in a voyeuristic situation a few times - both as viewer and viewee (is that even a word!) - Very erotic.

Photography option is also very horny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could just watch and comment on what I am watching. A bit like afootball game

“....and the defender launches it straight up the middle....”

Or horse racing.

“And it’s penis pressing on the vagina with balls moving fast at the rear. But it’s tits out in front. Nope it’s nipples out in front by a nose....”

Oh lordy just imagine. Would it still be sexy if we wore ear defenders. I cant do serious sex whilst laughing.

Funny sex is great- ear defenders and a dear stalker hat would be de rigeur

More original than stockings and suspenders at least "

Oh I don't know I might look good in a deer stalker, ear defenders, sussies and stocking and a pair of pink fluffy mules with a six inch heel to finish off the look Then just sit and watch with a pair of binoculars

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could just watch and comment on what I am watching. A bit like afootball game

“....and the defender launches it straight up the middle....”

Or horse racing.

“And it’s penis pressing on the vagina with balls moving fast at the rear. But it’s tits out in front. Nope it’s nipples out in front by a nose....”

Oh lordy just imagine. Would it still be sexy if we wore ear defenders. I cant do serious sex whilst laughing.

Funny sex is great- ear defenders and a dear stalker hat would be de rigeur

More original than stockings and suspenders at least

Oh I don't know I might look good in a deer stalker, ear defenders, sussies and stocking and a pair of pink fluffy mules with a six inch heel to finish off the look Then just sit and watch with a pair of binoculars "

You might just find you end up being the watched in all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there "

Genuine voyeur here.

Personally I think a lot of so called voyeurs just see it as a way in, hoping for more. But for me it is purely watching, nothing more. I have been happily married for over 20 years with a great sex life still, but we still have different likes, Mrs is very body conscious and doesn't even like the light on. Where as I love to watch and not touch. Would love to watch her with someone else, but not in a cuck way. Have a look on my profile for a fantasy I have written for my ideal encounter. Let me know if you like it. J XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respect rules so would be happy to watch and wank.

I would also not complain if I was invited to join in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been invited to watch a couple of times . The first time was watch and wank and the second time I was invited to participate during their play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could just watch and comment on what I am watching. A bit like afootball game

“....and the defender launches it straight up the middle....”

Or horse racing.

“And it’s penis pressing on the vagina with balls moving fast at the rear. But it’s tits out in front. Nope it’s nipples out in front by a nose....”

Oh lordy just imagine. Would it still be sexy if we wore ear defenders. I cant do serious sex whilst laughing.

Funny sex is great- ear defenders and a dear stalker hat would be de rigeur

More original than stockings and suspenders at least

Oh I don't know I might look good in a deer stalker, ear defenders, sussies and stocking and a pair of pink fluffy mules with a six inch heel to finish off the look Then just sit and watch with a pair of binoculars

You might just find you end up being the watched in all that "

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

I think i'd quite happily just watch... as long as they weren't put off by the munching of popcorn and occasional heckling

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By *avo_1970Man
over a year ago

Halifax

I have been invited to watch and wank and it was a fantastic experience, no touching or joining in, with the foreplay and full sex it lasted about 2 hours in which I’d cum twice ... then they said thanks it’s time to go.

Would love to take part again in this kind of scenario and the no joining in part is fine as I’m more than happy to voyeur any couples or even a single lady ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be happy both ways just watch and ply with myself or be invited. I would want to know beforehand though if joining is considered.

I also would love to be watched and watched only!

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'd just watch.. and never join in

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By *egWorshipperMan
over a year ago

Gods Country

I'd be happy to just watch if required but happy to join in too if asked. But as discussed all should be agreed before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, part of the excitement of watching is the wondering whether I will be invited to join in. I guess joining in is definitely better but without the occasional "watching only" session, well the excitement couldn't build in the same way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to watch rather than get involved but hey I may change my mind in the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re looking to watch a couple whilst having a little play with ourselves. Even better to have sex in the same room.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

If I was asked along to watch that is what I would be expecting to be doing. I don't cope well with the goal post being changed without warning. Strange I know, but that's me.

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By *ighteningstrikesCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Watching is great, we plan on finding local dogging sites to go a peek.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Funny this post should pop up tonight, the subject was just on my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I’ve always wanted to do but never had the invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching is great, we plan on finding local dogging sites to go a peek....."

We’re tempted by this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there "

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Would be happy just to watch but if asked to join would be no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’m a more intimate setting like a hotel room I’d probably prefer to be invited to join in after a while.

In clubs etc I’m more than happy to watch and just enjoy the show.

I keep imagining if it was me sat on that chair in the hotel room corner, would need a newspaper to hide behind "

Hiding behind a Newspaper is a good idea, then it isn't so pervy when you're watching.

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By *ave HighlandMan
over a year ago

Inverness

I arranged to meet a couple in the woods and they had a doggy style sex against a tree while I directed and winked. Loved it. Quite happy not to join in.

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By *atcher80Man
over a year ago

The

Have had a few voyeur only meets....spontaneous out dogging,

Prearranged dogging meets and also a few house visits. Luckily no bad experiances and each has been amazing. The house visits are naturally more engaging and less nervous and allow for all manner of pic taking and angles. The outdoor ones are exhilirating in their own right. Have simply watched sometimes, to full on toying and wanking, but no actual sex as im a voyeur at heart. The thing is....remember, its all about the lady and couples dynamic...you are simply lucky to be included in that.

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By *hil988Man
over a year ago

lichfield

Would be happy to watch. I think it’s about good communication so as not to overstep. The urge may be there to join in but sometimes it’s good just to watch it all happen and enjoy the view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it’s a big turn on watching and being watched especially in clubs in a group play

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By *ayPantyLoverMan
over a year ago

St Neots

Been watched once

Tent at festival lol

But was exciting to do and would try again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be perfectly happy to watch..just supply me with plenty of tissue as I know if come more than twice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there "

I would definitely be happy to watch, it’s always been something I woul love to do. I think it would be very hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d quite happily sit watch and do a sim

Told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching a couple having sex is highly erotic for everyone concerned,finding the friendly sexy couple is the problem ,Im still looking .

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

As opening post alludes to... If invite extended.. And taken up that viewing only was permissable.. And pre confirmed... Then yes as that was the rules.. However should said couple wish to break prior agreement of viewing only and extend invite to participate... One beliefs that after careful consideration and taking all factors into account.. One would probably more than likely actually except their invite....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve had several private meets where the guy just watched and wanked as agreed no problems

I also enjoy watching and would happily watch and wank without any need to join in but if asked to join I wouldn't have a problem either

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By *eading28Man
over a year ago

Reading

Really love watching, happy to stick to the rules, being invited to join in could also be fun, as long as no pressure. Then that would be cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My FB and I would like an audience but haven’t yet plucked up the courage

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

I'd happily sit watch and wank without joining in it's a fantasy of mine to do so. If asked to join in I would be very happy to just watch

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By *ndy500Man
over a year ago

Canterbury

Love to sit back and watch a couple join in if invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have asked for just that kind of meet in the past and have found it's usually the couple that ends up trying to talk you into joining lol. I'd love a meet where I genuinely get to just watch and take care of myself haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've enjoyed watching in private spaces (ie not in a club or outdoors) on a few occasions. Didn't get involved, didn't want to, just wanted to watch. All the times were amazing experiences.

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By *ony 2016Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield /derby cinemas

I class myself as a voyeur , I love to watch couples (m/f) , but have no wish or desire to join in , just simply to watch , although do enjoy to touch you while watching if that is what you wish but I am not into any other involvement , , I am quite simply a voyeur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr P would happily watch

X

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there "

Op I am both voyeur and exhobionist. So for me I am happy to watch and enjoy watching and wanking. If I get invited that is a bonus

For me I have got turned on watching friends as I use it now as my wank bank material

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"I'd happily come along just to watch and play with myself. An impromptu invite to join in might be a tad awkward though as boundaries won't be discussed beforehand but who knows..

Thats the thing isnt it, wouldnt want to out anyone on the spot but then discussing it all beforehand would almost assume play, and would be an anticlimax maybe if there was none "

I (Mr) think the discussion before is difficult as you say. If you tell the voyeur that play is possible then yes it could be a problem for some if it didn’t happen. So I think let it go with the flow - if you invite the voyeur to join in then they can always shake their head politely with no great drama or not spoiling to mood. It’s a chance you take.

For me personally I wouldn’t have a problem with that. I actually like the idea of just voyeuring a couple, but would want to also know they are watching me watching them with occasional eye contact. To be an impersonal observer would feel a bit like being used.

Not sure if Mrs BL. Would like to watch a couple only - will have to ask her.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I love just to sit watch

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By *andJane17Couple
over a year ago

York


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

We always like to be watched, have put posts out for couples to come to our hotel to watch us but no one to date has taken us up on it.

Hopefully soon though!!!!

If there are any voyeurs out there "

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

I am happy to watch, but more often than not I’m invited to join in.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset


"It I found the Woman attractive then yes, They would have to be a little bit vocal though or it would be like watching a silent movie, I wouldn't wank I would probably have a few beer's and log on fab while watching "

If you did this while watching us, you would be sent packing, sitting using you phone, bye then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there "

I’d love to just watch and not join in. One of my fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ever want a male to watch i would love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd happily come along just to watch and play with myself. An impromptu invite to join in might be a tad awkward though as boundaries won't be discussed beforehand but who knows..

Thats the thing isnt it, wouldnt want to out anyone on the spot but then discussing it all beforehand would almost assume play, and would be an anticlimax maybe if there was none

I (Mr) think the discussion before is difficult as you say. If you tell the voyeur that play is possible then yes it could be a problem for some if it didn’t happen. So I think let it go with the flow - if you invite the voyeur to join in then they can always shake their head politely with no great drama or not spoiling to mood. It’s a chance you take.

For me personally I wouldn’t have a problem with that. I actually like the idea of just voyeuring a couple, but would want to also know they are watching me watching them with occasional eye contact. To be an impersonal observer would feel a bit like being used.

Not sure if Mrs BL. Would like to watch a couple only - will have to ask her."

I wondered about the eye contact for the watcher to, would they want to be seen to be watching too, just as a quick sneaky glance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was invited to watch a couple a few weeks ago (not from fab, a friend and his girlfriend) in their hotel room, I sat fully dressed for a while, then was asked to strip an wank for them while they fucked, and then asked by her to cum over her tits! No touching either way and only a very few words were spoken.

Such a erotic and horny experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching is great, we plan on finding local dogging sites to go a peek.....

We’re tempted by this "

I'll happily watch you both sometime!

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

I love being watched by a lady, who is touching herself, as for me being the voyeur, id have no problem just watching a couple play, but would also be willing to join in if beckoned over by a lady who is so horny she wants an extra guy to help please her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a popular topic ,but im still waiting for my first invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had meets where I have watched my wife (now ex) getting fucked by other men and frankly after the first couple of times it bored me shitless. Once your curiosity is satisfied you realise that nothing else is if you can't join in.

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By *uartz24Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Personally the thrill of watching and not taking part is an incredible turn on, and between both parties different scenarios can be played out to fulfill everyone’s fantasies.

My profile is exactly this & I would welcome any messages to chat with other interested people

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By *ungfunfellaMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Love to watch esp if others don’t know even if it’s just someone having a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watching is great, we plan on finding local dogging sites to go a peek.....

We’re tempted by this "
hi we like to watch and be watched, close up , maybe a little touching, couple s contact us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to watch a couple even if i was not invited to join,,,,

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By *layfulAussieMan
over a year ago

Sydney

Big fan of watching & would be more than happy if that’s were the extent of my involvement. I’d also be happy to play ‘tripod’ & take some intimate shots for the naughty couple....

Equally, I wouldn’t be opposed to joining in invited

Go with the flow.......

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By *omewhatSlightlyDazedMan
over a year ago

Warwick Birmingham & YamYamLand


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there "

Happy just to watch and wank but wouldn't say no if invited in, wouldn't be disappointed if not. Would be very frustrated if I had to watch and not wank tho! That would be fun torture

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By *lasgowguyooMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I think watching is fine with me. It’s enjoyable and I generally take direction from the couple. It’s their invite so get pleasure from making that experience as good as it can be....sit and watch...join in...whatever

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester


"... personally invited along to watch, as opposed to just stumbling upon a happy couple, are you happy enough to just watch (and wank) or would you secretly be hoping to be invited in, and be a bit dissapointed if not. And similarly if you were asked to join in, in a fit of passion from the couple , would that be a problem if you had just assumed it was a watch only? Thinking hotel type meets rather than a club situation.

If there are any voyeurs out there "

I would assume that if I was invited along to watch, that’s all I would expect. Whether being invited to join would be a problem would depend on how the meet had gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can happily sit back and watch the wife play, it's a very erotic experience.

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By *arramandaMan
over a year ago

London

This is actually my ideal scenario. Very up for watching a couple. I'd be respectful but imagine it'd be impossible not to join in if asked. Eye contact would be a real turn on. Very erotic having to hold back, then maybe losing control....Being forbidden from joining in and told when to cum could be pretty hot. Is this an actual possibility? If yes - count me in!

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By *ecret FantasiesCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

As with others couples above we’d be happy to just watch, but we’d be able to play with each other x

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By *ornyal138Man
over a year ago

bromley kent

If any couples in London or south east would like a voyeur then please do get in touch.

Happy to sit there naked watched as you enjoy each other but also happy to get more involved. After all my cum has to land somewhere whether that’s on my chest or hers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with others couples above we’d be happy to just watch, but we’d be able to play with each other x"

This is high on our list. We picture a hotel room with two large beds and each couple staying (mostly) to their win bed and having sex, watching the others over a glass of wine.

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By *awty-discreetMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

To find a single female who is comfortable & exhibitioniist enough to allow me to watch from the corner of the room....would she/could she break the invisible barrier & invite me over???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with others couples above we’d be happy to just watch, but we’d be able to play with each other x

This is high on our list. We picture a hotel room with two large beds and each couple staying (mostly) to their win bed and having sex, watching the others over a glass of wine."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with others couples above we’d be happy to just watch, but we’d be able to play with each other x

This is high on our list. We picture a hotel room with two large beds and each couple staying (mostly) to their win bed and having sex, watching the others over a glass of wine."

That sounds like a fun evening to us

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By *ackD9Man
over a year ago

shropshire

I’ve been actively seeking a couple I can sit and watch while I play with myself, no joining in required... If asked, I would probably join in - but I’d hope we would have discussed that ahead of time!

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