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"im planning on going 16th with a bi fb and we were hoping for lots of fun with bi guys. hope theres some there that day" dont hold ya breath | |||
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"The site actually says you must be bi or bi-friendly." tis true treacle but its not feeling particularly bi friendly anymore its making the guys feel self concious and locking away their play not so much fun for us lady voyeurs maybe they should show them some gay porn on entry and if they can watch without averting their gaze then they can let um in worth a shot | |||
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" Last night i went with some friends and it was noticed a hell of alot single males i spoke to wasn't BI. when i asked them they refused to answer me as i would jepodise the membership if chams found out or they was straight i know i dont always play when i go but last night when i suggested in the swing room that i would love to see a bi mmf they looked disgusted and shyed away. this point there was quite a few in the room? has anyone else saw this on a monday BI night?" yes loads and you can spot the straight men a mile away, a guy that amkes the effort to go on a bi night and comes upto you, as a single woman, and insists you dont play in a open room isnt bi in my opinion, ive tried to play a few times in open rooms with guys ive met there and they end up walking away when i refuse to lock myself away in a room with them Mondays used to be a great night but since the single straight guys cought on its easier and cheaper membership on a monday its gone down hill The biggest problem is because the bi guys who go know most men atnt bi they tend not to play in the open anymore so most bi male action goes on behind locked doors now day I cant remember the last time i saw men playing in the open there and for the last few times ive been any MMf ive had have been in loclable rooms The straight guys going have killed the night in my opinion, its nowhere near as busy as it used to be, i used to go most mondays i got maybe once every 4 to 6 weeks now and its not only single guys theres a lot of couples with bi females but straight men who go and they're the ones who make all the fuss if a guys approches them, dont go on a bi night if you dont want men to make a move on you, or just give a polite no thanks without the big fuss | |||
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"chams said that if u are a single man going in on a Monday you should be bi my friend was told this many times and yet he comes with me who i am bi " i was always told men was supposed to be bi, i have been when they have turned men away at the door before for not being bi, they always ask new men if they're bi, if you didnt have to be bi why would they ask? I think if they regulars or well known to the club they may let it laps if they know the guy well enough to know he not cause a fuss | |||
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"The site actually says you must be bi or bi-friendly." my friend was told under no certain terms he had to be bi to gain entry i was shocked that a member of staff at chams was very arsey and uppty about it. if i didn't care about my membership and like the place allot i would have slapped her face noone makes friends of mine feel scared of going to a club!!!! | |||
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"The site actually says you must be bi or bi-friendly. my friend was told under no certain terms he had to be bi to gain entry i was shocked that a member of staff at chams was very arsey and uppty about it. if i didn't care about my membership and like the place allot i would have slapped her face noone makes friends of mine feel scared of going to a club!!!!" ive seen them turning guys away at the door for not being bi too i was waiting to get in one night and a guy was stood infront of me being told he couldnt come in, he said he had called up and was told bi friendly was ok but on the door was told no he couldnt come in, he was having a right moan cause he had driven over a hour to go because he was told on the phone it was ok | |||
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"The site actually says you must be bi or bi-friendly. my friend was told under no certain terms he had to be bi to gain entry i was shocked that a member of staff at chams was very arsey and uppty about it. if i didn't care about my membership and like the place allot i would have slapped her face noone makes friends of mine feel scared of going to a club!!!! ive seen them turning guys away at the door for not being bi too i was waiting to get in one night and a guy was stood infront of me being told he couldnt come in, he said he had called up and was told bi friendly was ok but on the door was told no he couldnt come in, he was having a right moan cause he had driven over a hour to go because he was told on the phone it was ok" seems its one rule for one one for the others i wish they would decide and get it on the website and stick to it | |||
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"i have been in the middle of some fabulous bi action at chams on monday nights. But as the op stated, last night was not at all promising! Very little play going on at all and practically no bi shows to be seen. A little light sucking, but guys seemed far more interested in me than in my buddy. I also noticed that the single guys seemed to be an older crowd last night. Nothing against the silver foxes, but not what i was hoping for... " the jacuzis the best place i have found for male action, ive had some great session on a monday in jacuzzi, with upto 5 or 6 men and me all sucking each other off......heaven | |||
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"i have been in the middle of some fabulous bi action at chams on monday nights. But as the op stated, last night was not at all promising! Very little play going on at all and practically no bi shows to be seen. A little light sucking, but guys seemed far more interested in me than in my buddy. I also noticed that the single guys seemed to be an older crowd last night. Nothing against the silver foxes, but not what i was hoping for... the jacuzis the best place i have found for male action, ive had some great session on a monday in jacuzzi, with upto 5 or 6 men and me all sucking each other off......heaven " i can't get into the jacuzzis - my skin doesn't like all the chlorine! | |||
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"We were at Chams on a Monday night We have spoken with a few people who we met on the night commenting on the amount of straight guys that evening. Although we didn't notice this at the time and it didn't stop us enjoying bi fun. Although there was definitely a lack of bi play in open rooms " Sorry first line should have said on a Monday night beginning of December Too early in the morning is my excuse | |||
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"Is it the same scenario during the day? Just thinking of heading over in the next couple of Weeks and want to know if its worth it?" Yes it is still bi day as well as bi night. We went this Monday afternoon and it was great, had a lovely time. It was certainly quietish, but enough people to make it a lot of fun, jacuzzis were full, cinema had a fair amount of people in etc. It was our first time at Chams on a weekday and I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of it | |||
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