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"Damn. I'd log off if my fab experience was like that" Yeah , damn right 
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. " You are just not shouting enough on your profile! Shout a lot lot lot more it might help! | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them." Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. " your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. | |||
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"oh im sorry. i didnt see the hrh after your name your majesty did someone forget to walk your corgi's" And idiots like this don't help. I don't believe I suggested I am royalty. Merely that after taking the time to write a profile which clearly identifies my likes and dislikes, it is a shame that people be bothered to read a couple of paragraphs, yet expect a fuck with minimal effort and obviously no respect. Same people probably bleat about how they never get meets. | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters." I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. | |||
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"Just block men and search for yourself, its worked really well for me on my last profile. Just ignore people who haven't read it as they have ignored your profile" Thanks honey. I've been a swinger for 8 years now and although I've thought about doing this, never found it necessary ..... until now! I like the banter and chat of messages. But the number of people who seem to view this site as 'bag a shag - no respect required' has grown. Have to say, I had waaaay more respect when I had a couples profile. Maybe guys aren't so 'brave' when there is another guy on the scene. | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. " yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. " This would never work..... Women would have to be able to take rejection | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. This would never work..... Women would have to be able to take rejection " He's got a point | |||
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. " Anger Management | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. This would never work..... Women would have to be able to take rejection " jesus you fucking cracked it  | |||
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. " so youre like the national newspapers only giving us the doom and gloom, tell us about something good that's happened | |||
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. so youre like the national newspapers only giving us the doom and gloom, tell us about something good that's happened " Why?? This is a forum for people to discuss things. I am not responsible for your good mood or lack thereof. | |||
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. so youre like the national newspapers only giving us the doom and gloom, tell us about something good that's happened Why?? This is a forum for people to discuss things. I am not responsible for your good mood or lack thereof. " we hear about guys that don't read profiles every other minute, it's something women know, it's a given , it's not going to stop just because you've highlighted it here is it? | |||
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. so youre like the national newspapers only giving us the doom and gloom, tell us about something good that's happened Why?? This is a forum for people to discuss things. I am not responsible for your good mood or lack thereof. we hear about guys that don't read profiles every other minute, it's something women know, it's a given , it's not going to stop just because you've highlighted it here is it? " It's good to know, as a woman, that it's a universal problem and not something you personally have done wrong. | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. This would never work..... Women would have to be able to take rejection " Your so right because forum posts are always being started by women complaining that: No one reads messages No one replies to messages Messages are being deleted unopened I have been blocked for just sending a message Why can't they just reply saying no thanks instead of ignore and block Whereas single men.....oh wait that is the single men | |||
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. so youre like the national newspapers only giving us the doom and gloom, tell us about something good that's happened Why?? This is a forum for people to discuss things. I am not responsible for your good mood or lack thereof. we hear about guys that don't read profiles every other minute, it's something women know, it's a given , it's not going to stop just because you've highlighted it here is it? It's good to know, as a woman, that it's a universal problem and not something you personally have done wrong. " we know it, you know it I know it she knows it, we all know it...... Men can't read, they look at pics | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. This would never work..... Women would have to be able to take rejection Your so right because forum posts are always being started by women complaining that: No one reads messages No one replies to messages Messages are being deleted unopened I have been blocked for just sending a message Why can't they just reply saying no thanks instead of ignore and block Whereas single men.....oh wait that is the single men" oh, you dont have a green tick | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. This would never work..... Women would have to be able to take rejection Your so right because forum posts are always being started by women complaining that: No one reads messages No one replies to messages Messages are being deleted unopened I have been blocked for just sending a message Why can't they just reply saying no thanks instead of ignore and block Whereas single men.....oh wait that is the single men" Would you like me to explain what Fab glasses are? | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters." I’ve had men message me that I would never have messaged beforehand, but I’m glad they found me and messaged me. Why should we have to cut off all men because some of them are incapable of reading and not thinking with their dicks for at least two minutes to compose a semi decent message?  | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!!" oh don't get me started, it's nearly frigging Xmas ya know | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!!" site rules mate. females and couples do not have to respond to mail. | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. " Its your profile not your FWB you do as you see fit and make it work the way you want it not someone else, Just saying  | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!!" If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! site rules mate. females and couples do not have to respond to mail." Nobody has to respond to mail | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block "it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not "Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! site rules mate. females and couples do not have to respond to mail. Nobody has to respond to mail "If you read my post it says when ppl state WILL REPLY TO ALL MESSAGES then they should do simple as that. This site just a glorified ego trip my opinion of course  | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! site rules mate. females and couples do not have to respond to mail. Nobody has to respond to mail
If you read my post it says when ppl state WILL REPLY TO ALL MESSAGES then they should do simple as that. This site just a glorified ego trip my opinion of course "Fair enough, you’re entitled to your opinion | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone "yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less "If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them "yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly "I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. " Some profiles are demanding, not approachable and will put the decent ones who read profiles off. The ones who don't read profiles are the only ones left. Maybe that's why you are getting more twatty messages than good ones. | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly
I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine "do you live in Glasgow by any chance because if you do my sympathies go with you | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. Some profiles are demanding, not approachable and will put the decent ones who read profiles off. The ones who don't read profiles are the only ones left. Maybe that's why you are getting more twatty messages than good ones. " thank you. yes some are completely over the top and being a short arse i just cannot jump that high | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly
I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine
do you live in Glasgow by any chance because if you do my sympathies go with you "No. It shouldn’t matter where I live either. | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly
I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine
do you live in Glasgow by any chance because if you do my sympathies go with you
No. It shouldn’t matter where I live either. "Well very few are rude to me on my travels havnt been to Glasgow for a couple of years but it wasn't one of my better experiences | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly
I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine
do you live in Glasgow by any chance because if you do my sympathies go with you
No. It shouldn’t matter where I live either.
Well very few are rude to me on my travels havnt been to Glasgow for a couple of years but it wasn't one of my better experiences "I’m pleased for you | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. Some profiles are demanding, not approachable and will put the decent ones who read profiles off. The ones who don't read profiles are the only ones left. Maybe that's why you are getting more twatty messages than good ones. thank you. yes some are completely over the top and being a short arse i just cannot jump that high "Haha to be fair, neither can most NFL basketball players | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly
I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine
do you live in Glasgow by any chance because if you do my sympathies go with you
No. It shouldn’t matter where I live either.
Well very few are rude to me on my travels havnt been to Glasgow for a couple of years but it wasn't one of my better experiences
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. Some profiles are demanding, not approachable and will put the decent ones who read profiles off. The ones who don't read profiles are the only ones left. Maybe that's why you are getting more twatty messages than good ones. thank you. yes some are completely over the top and being a short arse i just cannot jump that high
Haha to be fair, neither can most NFL basketball players "think im more suited to battleships or connect 4 | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. Some profiles are demanding, not approachable and will put the decent ones who read profiles off. The ones who don't read profiles are the only ones left. Maybe that's why you are getting more twatty messages than good ones. thank you. yes some are completely over the top and being a short arse i just cannot jump that high
Haha to be fair, neither can most NFL basketball players "NBA | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. " try a bit of grammar and a spell check, might make more sense then. Only a suggestion. | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. Some profiles are demanding, not approachable and will put the decent ones who read profiles off. The ones who don't read profiles are the only ones left. Maybe that's why you are getting more twatty messages than good ones. thank you. yes some are completely over the top and being a short arse i just cannot jump that high
Haha to be fair, neither can most NFL basketball players
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. This would never work..... Women would have to be able to take rejection Your so right because forum posts are always being started by women complaining that: No one reads messages No one replies to messages Messages are being deleted unopened I have been blocked for just sending a message Why can't they just reply saying no thanks instead of ignore and block Whereas single men.....oh wait that is the single men oh, you dont have a green tick "Which means I am not insecure enough to need people to verify me in order to prove something to random strangers, like you, who felt the need to look at my profile before he could think of some witty reply..... A reply that was neither witty nor in any way relevant to the OP nor my reply..... | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly
I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine do you live in Glasgow by any chance because if you do my sympathies go with you "What's Glasgow got to do with it? Please feel free not to visit again, I'm sure we glaswegians will survive without you! (Sorry to derail) | |||
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. " Par for the course on Fab I'm afraid. You could put stuff in letters of fire 10feet high along with the Mormon Tabernacle Choir singing the rules and dumshits will still message like your profile was blank. Your only option is to start filling up your block list. | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. This would never work..... Women would have to be able to take rejection Your so right because forum posts are always being started by women complaining that: No one reads messages No one replies to messages Messages are being deleted unopened I have been blocked for just sending a message Why can't they just reply saying no thanks instead of ignore and block Whereas single men.....oh wait that is the single men oh, you dont have a green tick
Which means I am not insecure enough to need people to verify me in order to prove something to random strangers, like you, who felt the need to look at my profile before he could think of some witty reply.....
A reply that was neither witty nor in any way relevant to the OP nor my reply.....
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly
I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine do you live in Glasgow by any chance because if you do my sympathies go with you
What's Glasgow got to do with it? Please feel free not to visit again, I'm sure we glaswegians will survive without you! (Sorry to derail) "I fancy Glaswegians, a lot  | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly
I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine do you live in Glasgow by any chance because if you do my sympathies go with you
What's Glasgow got to do with it? Please feel free not to visit again, I'm sure we glaswegians will survive without you! (Sorry to derail)
I fancy Glaswegians, a lot "Hehe I do too | |||
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"Sorry OP but your profile is negative, smacks of entitlement and frankly is pretty badly written. Try being a 35yo, meet verified, 6”3 single male who has clear face pics, can accommodate and yet still struggles to get conversations going on here with most messages being deleted unread.... " Well maybe they don't care whether your met verified.... I don't care for verifications in fact to many are a turn off....I make my own decisions about people. Maybe women do not care if you can accommodate, is a women really going to come to your home alone, couples, yes. What does being 6" 3 got to do with it.....or being 35.... One could argue you are full of entitlement if you think that being really tall, having your own pad and being verified means your messages should be read.... The recipient decides what gets read no one else. Its the men who expect their messages to get read that are full of entitlement.... ...and your all out in force on this thread... Oh and she never asked for a critique of her profile | |||
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"Sorry OP but your profile is negative, smacks of entitlement and frankly is pretty badly written. Try being a 35yo, meet verified, 6”3 single male who has clear face pics, can accommodate and yet still struggles to get conversations going on here with most messages being deleted unread.... Well maybe they don't care whether your met verified.... I don't care for verifications in fact to many are a turn off....I make my own decisions about people. Maybe women do not care if you can accommodate, is a women really going to come to your home alone, couples, yes. What does being 6" 3 got to do with it.....or being 35.... One could argue you are full of entitlement if you think that being really tall, having your own pad and being verified means your messages should be read.... The recipient decides what gets read no one else. Its the men who expect their messages to get read that are full of entitlement.... ...and your all out in force on this thread... Oh and she never asked for a critique of her profile" | |||
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly
I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine do you live in Glasgow by any chance because if you do my sympathies go with you
What's Glasgow got to do with it? Please feel free not to visit again, I'm sure we glaswegians will survive without you! (Sorry to derail)
I fancy Glaswegians, a lot
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"Even the profiles that say WILL REPLY TO MESSAGES just delete n block you lol where is the decency to reply saying thanks but no thanks etc manners cost nothing ppl!!!! If you read the fab FAQ, it states it isn’t rude not to reply. I used to reply to all messages, even if it was a friendly rejection (if that makes sense). And I’d still get abuse. Less hassle just to delete and block
it is rude, it's just in the rules that it's not
Then I’d rather be rude than receive abuse, and there’s a high chance that I will if I reject someone
yes I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this all I'm saying is in the ice cream world if somebody politely asked you a question and you totally blanked them that's rude but because some guys when they get repelled by women, they think now wait a minute I'm gorgeous why are you not replying and send abuse that's some not all, then they deserve a block no excuse for abuse end of, some women also are so popular because they are gorgeous and constantly put pics up to show us how gorgeous and increase their inbox messages 10 fold so have got no hope of replying anyway so just bulk delete all messages or just let them run off page. The bottom line is guys read the Frickin profile you're gonna get further here if you do and the every other second stock negative threads may get less
If someone in the vanilla world randomly asked me something like I receive in some of the messages I receive, of course I would ignore them
yes but that never happens in the world of ice cream people are lovely mostly
I’m happy that your experience in the vanilla world is different to mine do you live in Glasgow by any chance because if you do my sympathies go with you
What's Glasgow got to do with it? Please feel free not to visit again, I'm sure we glaswegians will survive without you! (Sorry to derail) "as with everything it's about experiences I've not been to Glasgow much but my last visit in terms of friendly wasn't good and I've visited other areas of Scotland many times mainly Dundee, Aberdeen and Edinburgh areas | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. This would never work..... Women would have to be able to take rejection Your so right because forum posts are always being started by women complaining that: No one reads messages No one replies to messages Messages are being deleted unopened I have been blocked for just sending a message Why can't they just reply saying no thanks instead of ignore and block Whereas single men.....oh wait that is the single men oh, you dont have a green tick
Which means I am not insecure enough to need people to verify me in order to prove something to random strangers, like you, who felt the need to look at my profile before he could think of some witty reply.....
A reply that was neither witty nor in any way relevant to the OP nor my reply.....
What does being verified have to do with insecurity? I've not heard that one before. "I have no need of verifications, I have no problem getting men to meet me. I have no need of requiring men to be verified as I will only meet in a club, either they turn up or they don't. This man saw fit to look at my profile and make an issue of me not being met verified when it has nothing to do with him, the post nor the subject matter. I am pointing out to him that I do not need veri's to prove to some random stranger in the forum that I am somehow worthy of being here. I would have to be pretty insecure to get the men I have met via here to verify me, when I don't want Veri's, just so that I can be part of the gang. It's got nothing to do with the forum if I am met verified by another user. Totally inappropriate to have even looked at my profile and make reference to it.... Is that OK with you? | |||
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"Sorry OP but your profile is negative, smacks of entitlement and frankly is pretty badly written. Try being a 35yo, meet verified, 6”3 single male who has clear face pics, can accommodate and yet still struggles to get conversations going on here with most messages being deleted unread.... Well maybe they don't care whether your met verified.... I don't care for verifications in fact to many are a turn off....I make my own decisions about people. Maybe women do not care if you can accommodate, is a women really going to come to your home alone, couples, yes. What does being 6" 3 got to do with it.....or being 35.... One could argue you are full of entitlement if you think that being really tall, having your own pad and being verified means your messages should be read.... The recipient decides what gets read no one else. Its the men who expect their messages to get read that are full of entitlement.... ...and your all out in force on this thread... Oh and she never asked for a critique of her profile" Oh well luckily for her she got one anyway. And excuse me, would it help if I was unverified, 5 foot nothing, unemployed and homeless? Maybe then the 40+yo women on the swingers website would be queueing up .
This site represents a strange microcosm of society where women are inundated with messages and get a grossly overblown sense of their own self worth.
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"Sorry OP but your profile is negative, smacks of entitlement and frankly is pretty badly written. Try being a 35yo, meet verified, 6”3 single male who has clear face pics, can accommodate and yet still struggles to get conversations going on here with most messages being deleted unread.... Well maybe they don't care whether your met verified.... I don't care for verifications in fact to many are a turn off....I make my own decisions about people. Maybe women do not care if you can accommodate, is a women really going to come to your home alone, couples, yes. What does being 6" 3 got to do with it.....or being 35.... One could argue you are full of entitlement if you think that being really tall, having your own pad and being verified means your messages should be read.... The recipient decides what gets read no one else. Its the men who expect their messages to get read that are full of entitlement.... ...and your all out in force on this thread... Oh and she never asked for a critique of her profile Oh well luckily for her she got one anyway. And excuse me, would it help if I was unverified, 5 foot nothing, unemployed and homeless? Maybe then the 40+yo women on the swingers website would be queueing up .
This site represents a strange microcosm of society where women are inundated with messages and get a grossly overblown sense of their own self worth.
It’s also seriously hard work for single men... Even those of us who take the time to compose decent messages and do everything right... "I dont need Fab to confirm my self worth thanks. Really I dont | |||
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"Sorry OP but your profile is negative, smacks of entitlement and frankly is pretty badly written. Try being a 35yo, meet verified, 6”3 single male who has clear face pics, can accommodate and yet still struggles to get conversations going on here with most messages being deleted unread.... Well maybe they don't care whether your met verified.... I don't care for verifications in fact to many are a turn off....I make my own decisions about people. Maybe women do not care if you can accommodate, is a women really going to come to your home alone, couples, yes. What does being 6" 3 got to do with it.....or being 35.... One could argue you are full of entitlement if you think that being really tall, having your own pad and being verified means your messages should be read.... The recipient decides what gets read no one else. Its the men who expect their messages to get read that are full of entitlement.... ...and your all out in force on this thread... Oh and she never asked for a critique of her profile Oh well luckily for her she got one anyway. And excuse me, would it help if I was unverified, 5 foot nothing, unemployed and homeless? Maybe then the 40+yo women on the swingers website would be queueing up .
This site represents a strange microcosm of society where women are inundated with messages and get a grossly overblown sense of their own self worth.
It’s also seriously hard work for single men... Even those of us who take the time to compose decent messages and do everything right...
I dont need Fab to confirm my self worth thanks.
Really I dont"I never said you did. Thankfully it doesn’t confirm my own self worth either. If it did I’d be feeling pretty low about myself... Nonetheless it’s highly amusing at times . | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. your profile titles says i know what i like. so why dont you find what you like and block the rest of the single male using your message filters. I like men. Couples. Sex. Swinging and people who can read. yes i understand that. but you can block all single males from messaging you and then you can message only the ones you like the look of. and if he turns out to be a wanker block him and move on to your next profile you like. This would never work..... Women would have to be able to take rejection "  | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. Some profiles are demanding, not approachable and will put the decent ones who read profiles off. The ones who don't read profiles are the only ones left. Maybe that's why you are getting more twatty messages than good ones. " Perfect! Nail on the head there. Then there’s some where you tick all the boxes, send a non copy and paste message related to their profile with a face pic or two and get blanked. You get it on tinder as well tbh, girls will say pop up, you match and send them a message and boom no reply, purely because getting matches=ego boost | |||
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"Sorry OP but your profile is negative, smacks of entitlement and frankly is pretty badly written. Try being a 35yo, meet verified, 6”3 single male who has clear face pics, can accommodate and yet still struggles to get conversations going on here with most messages being deleted unread.... Well maybe they don't care whether your met verified.... I don't care for verifications in fact to many are a turn off....I make my own decisions about people. Maybe women do not care if you can accommodate, is a women really going to come to your home alone, couples, yes. What does being 6" 3 got to do with it.....or being 35.... One could argue you are full of entitlement if you think that being really tall, having your own pad and being verified means your messages should be read.... The recipient decides what gets read no one else. Its the men who expect their messages to get read that are full of entitlement.... ...and your all out in force on this thread... Oh and she never asked for a critique of her profile Oh well luckily for her she got one anyway. And excuse me, would it help if I was unverified, 5 foot nothing, unemployed and homeless? Maybe then the 40+yo women on the swingers website would be queueing up .
This site represents a strange microcosm of society where women are inundated with messages and get a grossly overblown sense of their own self worth.
It’s also seriously hard work for single men... Even those of us who take the time to compose decent messages and do everything right... "stop the chasing let them chase you, it's a good tip trust me | |||
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"It's good to know, as a woman, that it's a universal problem and not something you personally have done wrong. " Very true! | |||
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"...This site represents a strange microcosm of society where women are inundated with messages and get a grossly overblown sense of their own self worth " Speculation your honour! Bitter speculation too unless I miss my mark. "It’s also seriously hard work for single men... Even those of us who take the time to compose decent messages and do everything right... " Poor bastards having to work to impress a woman enough to put out. 
That's not to say that I've not shared your pain but I don't blame women for it, that's a bit like being cross with gravity.
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"I've deleted 15 messages today with out even opening as I can see in the first line they haven't read profile. The power of the finger I don't feel bad or rude as they didn't read it " Awww girls, girls it a man thing. We never read the instructions first. | |||
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. " Just block everyone and do all the picking yourself? | |||
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. " Its very annoying. If only they bothered taking the time to read it. It would save so many a wasted message and a block. But it really gets to me x | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. Some profiles are demanding, not approachable and will put the decent ones who read profiles off. The ones who don't read profiles are the only ones left. Maybe that's why you are getting more twatty messages than good ones. Perfect! Nail on the head there. Then there’s some where you tick all the boxes, send a non copy and paste message related to their profile with a face pic or two and get blanked. You get it on tinder as well tbh, girls will say pop up, you match and send them a message and boom no reply, purely because getting matches=ego boost" Or, they just don't fancy you? Mrs | |||
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"Is it really that annoying to you? Don't let them get to you. I tell them they aren't what I'm looking for sorry and block them. Yep. I do that and then feel bad as my fwb says I'm not giving them a chance. I thought that having a profile on here and bothering to write a legible profile text was chance enough! Site seems to be going through one of its twat-magnet phases sadly. Some profiles are demanding, not approachable and will put the decent ones who read profiles off. The ones who don't read profiles are the only ones left. Maybe that's why you are getting more twatty messages than good ones. Perfect! Nail on the head there. Then there’s some where you tick all the boxes, send a non copy and paste message related to their profile with a face pic or two and get blanked. You get it on tinder as well tbh, girls will say pop up, you match and send them a message and boom no reply, purely because getting matches=ego boost Or, they just don't fancy you? Mrs" | |||
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"Is it really too much to hope for? So far this week:- numerous 'cannot accommodate' smokers, unverified, newbies. I end up feeling like a free prostitute. Not even worth reading my profile but want sex. " I get quite a few single guys message me who either haven't read my profile or make no effort when messaging. | |||
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