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"Is it just me that doesn’t find other guys attractive but really want to suck so many different cocks I’ve seen in pics on here." Nah, it's fairly common. Probably 80% of "bi" men. | |||
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"Is it just me that doesn’t find other guys attractive but really want to suck so many different cocks I’ve seen in pics on here." Just try it and see! | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out." I don't feel it has anything to with association's I just don't see what difference it makes in defining your personality, its personal tastes. People who like Marmite don't act any differently to those that don't. Look at it like this "I've played football a few times, that doesn't make me a footballer" | |||
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum. I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction" I am this completely. It bugs me when people classify me as bi, or say I'm not straight. | |||
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum. I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction I am this completely. It bugs me when people classify me as bi, or say I'm not straight." I,ll label you You champion Thread killer ....knew you'd steal the title | |||
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum. I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction I am this completely. It bugs me when people classify me as bi, or say I'm not straight. I,ll label you You champion Thread killer ....knew you'd steal the title " I've always been the thread killer but for all the wrong reasons But don't worry it's only a matter of time before someone else posts a very similar point and everyone will have a chance to air their comments all over again | |||
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"Is it just me that doesn’t find other guys attractive but really want to suck so many different cocks I’ve seen in pics on here." You don't need to admit in front of everyone but you should accept your sexuality. Does liking and wsnting to play with cocks makes you bi? Yes. Is it wrong? Absolutely not. If you like or you want to try - go for it and don't care what everyone thinks. You might find a guy you'll find attractive, maybe you're still to discover your type. | |||
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum. I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction I am this completely. It bugs me when people classify me as bi, or say I'm not straight. I,ll label you You champion Thread killer ....knew you'd steal the title I've always been the thread killer but for all the wrong reasons But don't worry it's only a matter of time before someone else posts a very similar point and everyone will have a chance to air their comments all over again" I was talking to the poster above me mate | |||
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum. I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction" This | |||
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"Is it just me that doesn’t find other guys attractive but really want to suck so many different cocks I’ve seen in pics on here." Nope I’m same | |||
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum. I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction I am this completely. It bugs me when people classify me as bi, or say I'm not straight. I,ll label you You champion Thread killer ....knew you'd steal the title I've always been the thread killer but for all the wrong reasons But don't worry it's only a matter of time before someone else posts a very similar point and everyone will have a chance to air their comments all over again" He's actually talking about a specific thread about thread killers. I managed to post the last comment, closing the thread. | |||
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"Is it just me that doesn’t find other guys attractive but really want to suck so many different cocks I’ve seen in pics on here." I can relate to this... I like the fun time of playing with a cock, but I dint want a relationship with a male.... very happy with the relationship with my wife | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out." Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out." | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out." To not limit their potential meets. Disrespectful in my opinion because they aren't just kidding themselves. These types are making straight lose it's meaning. | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. " If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you? Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you. David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil??? | |||
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"Is it just me that doesn’t find other guys attractive but really want to suck so many different cocks I’ve seen in pics on here." Very common story | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you? Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you. David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil??? " Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying. | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. To not limit their potential meets. Disrespectful in my opinion because they aren't just kidding themselves. These types are making straight lose it's meaning." What is Gay now? | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. To not limit their potential meets. Disrespectful in my opinion because they aren't just kidding themselves. These types are making straight lose it's meaning. What is Gay now?" I'm not the person to ask unless you want the thread to end quickly. | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you? Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you. David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil??? Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying." It's not as simple as you think it is. I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future. However, my perception is that I'm straight. I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi. | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you? Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you. David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil??? Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying. It's not as simple as you think it is. I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future. However, my perception is that I'm straight. I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi." Careful with perceptions, they are usually driven by what you want to hear, see or hear and rarely have any grounding in reality. One can perceive almost anything depend on the condition and suceptability of the mind and presumes from outside influences. | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you? Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you. David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil??? Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying. It's not as simple as you think it is. I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future. However, my perception is that I'm straight. I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi." Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you? | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you? Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you. David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil??? Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying. It's not as simple as you think it is. I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future. However, my perception is that I'm straight. I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi. Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you? " It's fairly simple really. I don't fancy women | |||
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"How about if you want to do something then JUST DO IT when the chance comes around, without worrying about all the labels that people who don't know better about yourself try to foist on you? So what if you find yourself liking some cocks and wanting to suck them as a guy? That says NOTHING about a man's masculinity, because if it does then how do you explain those hyper-masculine, gym-going gays who would be happy to suck cock and take it up their rear door? Funny how bisexual men are demonised and mocked so much, but we don't see the same sort of treatment for bisexual ladies. Why, is it because it's seen to be effeminate or undesirably submissive to be the one giving pleasure instead of taking it? " | |||
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"How about if you want to do something then JUST DO IT when the chance comes around, without worrying about all the labels that people who don't know better about yourself try to foist on you? So what if you find yourself liking some cocks and wanting to suck them as a guy? That says NOTHING about a man's masculinity, because if it does then how do you explain those hyper-masculine, gym-going gays who would be happy to suck cock and take it up their rear door? Funny how bisexual men are demonised and mocked so much, but we don't see the same sort of treatment for bisexual ladies. Why, is it because it's seen to be effeminate or undesirably submissive to be the one giving pleasure instead of taking it? " Perception that muscle make the a guy. And definitely . bi or gay has nothing to do with muscle. And no one is demonising that I've seen except possibly, not a mention or hind in here about bi being effeminate but its bi guys who raise the topic, it's asking about definition. I'm a giver predominantly and definitely not effeminate. I'm also an Alpha. So again perceptions need to be checked. | |||
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"I don't find men attractive in the slightest BUT love sucking cock and submitting to Dom men. " And? Is that because you're bi? Least you embrace it and celebrate it. | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you? Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you. David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil??? Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying. It's not as simple as you think it is. I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future. However, my perception is that I'm straight. I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi. Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you? It's fairly simple really. I don't fancy women " and after all, you know you best. | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you? Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you. David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil??? Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying. It's not as simple as you think it is. I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future. However, my perception is that I'm straight. I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi. Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you? It's fairly simple really. I don't fancy women " Exactly and that's the point I'm making. Would have been easier to cut n paste the definition | |||
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"I'm not attracted to men, and rarely play with them in group situations, gang bangs etc. However I am attracted to good looking T-Girls and transexuals and if they are into me doing happily suck there cocks if they are okay with that, (even though I'm top)" I do really love it when they suck my cock though! | |||
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"In general terms, both in the world at large, and to an extent on here, labels are irrelevant. Their purpose on here is to help identify you to others that may be interested in meeting you - personally I identify and label myself as bisexual on here as that is what I am and I am open to meeting guys one on one, and as part of a group situation. If someone chooses to identify differently then that is of course their prerogative, although when it's guys doing so to get round women and couples who won't meet bi men, which more often than not is the case, I personally find it both duplicitous and that they're deluding themselves as they are closing the door on just as many people as they are opening it to. And it's for that reason and the fact that if they are hiding their sexuality what else are they hiding, that I won't meet those that identify as Fab straight. But that's my personal view and each are entitled to their own." They'll accept it from you more than me. (I'm different ) | |||
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"In general terms, both in the world at large, and to an extent on here, labels are irrelevant. Their purpose on here is to help identify you to others that may be interested in meeting you - personally I identify and label myself as bisexual on here as that is what I am and I am open to meeting guys one on one, and as part of a group situation. If someone chooses to identify differently then that is of course their prerogative, although when it's guys doing so to get round women and couples who won't meet bi men, which more often than not is the case, I personally find it both duplicitous and that they're deluding themselves as they are closing the door on just as many people as they are opening it to. And it's for that reason and the fact that if they are hiding their sexuality what else are they hiding, that I won't meet those that identify as Fab straight. But that's my personal view and each are entitled to their own. They'll accept it from you more than me. (I'm different )" and me it was eloquently put. | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you? Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you. David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil??? Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying. It's not as simple as you think it is. I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future. However, my perception is that I'm straight. I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi. Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you? " You do make a lot of valid points I just feel on this occasion you have missed mine. I have bi stated on my profile, I have no issue with people seeing that and forming their own conclusions without any explanation from me. When it comes to my own sexual preferences I don't ever consider a man in those. I am not confused, and there is no confusion created around me I just don't see myself as bi. You might see yourself as bi and that's cool. I don't and neither do many others. It's up to the person to decide what sexuality they are and not others to decide based on what they've done or may do again in future. | |||
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"In general terms, both in the world at large, and to an extent on here, labels are irrelevant. Their purpose on here is to help identify you to others that may be interested in meeting you - personally I identify and label myself as bisexual on here as that is what I am and I am open to meeting guys one on one, and as part of a group situation. If someone chooses to identify differently then that is of course their prerogative, although when it's guys doing so to get round women and couples who won't meet bi men, which more often than not is the case, I personally find it both duplicitous and that they're deluding themselves as they are closing the door on just as many people as they are opening it to. And it's for that reason and the fact that if they are hiding their sexuality what else are they hiding, that I won't meet those that identify as Fab straight. But that's my personal view and each are entitled to their own." That sums us up too. | |||
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"I hate drugs and the people that use them.... But every time I go out and get d*unk..... I will want and use drugs.... I won’t ever buy them nor will use them alone... I will only use them when I go out or if someone offers them to me..... I am classed as a drug user/addict?" A user yes, an addict no - simple as | |||
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"I hate drugs and the people that use them.... But every time I go out and get d*unk..... I will want and use drugs.... I won’t ever buy them nor will use them alone... I will only use them when I go out or if someone offers them to me..... I am classed as a drug user/addict? A user yes, an addict no - simple as " I wish the world was so simple... thank you for a mature reply.... | |||
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum. I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction" Couldn't have said it any better! | |||
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"Is it just me that doesn’t find other guys attractive but really want to suck so many different cocks I’ve seen in pics on here." Exactly the same, no attraction at all. Not into kissing either.. But a good cock is fun to play with.. In both mmf and mm capacities | |||
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum. I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction" I (Mr) can relate to that. The labels on here don't really cover the full spectrum. Am I "Bi Curious"? No I'm not curious about fucking a guy nor am I curious about being fucked by one, I have no interest whatsoever in either. I'm not curious about sucking a cock because I've already done it quite a few times and I'm sure I will do again. Am I fully Bi? No I don't think so. As above I would never fuck or be fucked by a guy. I have no interest in meeting a guy one on one even just for oral or wanking. However when in a MMF with Mrs and another guy I have played with and sucked his cock (quite a few have sucked mine as well) Most of the guys we play with are straight so I would never make the first move but occasionally when the other guy makes it known then I'm quite happy to join in. So until FAB comes up with a label I can feel comfortable with then I will have to stay as FAB straight but happy with (some) other forms of interaction. | |||
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"I consider that bi playful, I know the labels are felt to be to sticky. " Yes. That's a label I could live with. "Bi playful" I like that. | |||
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"I don't find men at all attractive, but in the company of a woman I have no problem with indulging in the sex side, I actually like the taste of cum. I don't class myself as straight or bi- it's just another form of interaction I (Mr) can relate to that. The labels on here don't really cover the full spectrum. Am I "Bi Curious"? No I'm not curious about fucking a guy nor am I curious about being fucked by one, I have no interest whatsoever in either. I'm not curious about sucking a cock because I've already done it quite a few times and I'm sure I will do again. Am I fully Bi? No I don't think so. As above I would never fuck or be fucked by a guy. I have no interest in meeting a guy one on one even just for oral or wanking. However when in a MMF with Mrs and another guy I have played with and sucked his cock (quite a few have sucked mine as well) Most of the guys we play with are straight so I would never make the first move but occasionally when the other guy makes it known then I'm quite happy to join in. So until FAB comes up with a label I can feel comfortable with then I will have to stay as FAB straight but happy with (some) other forms of interaction. " I feel exactly the same. Well put. | |||
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"A lot of men are attracted to cock but not masculinity. It's why tvs are so popular " Yes I think there is a lot of truth in that. | |||
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"A lot of men are attracted to cock but not masculinity. It's why tvs are so popular " Agreed | |||
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"Tastes like chicken" Nah ...needs Garlic ... | |||
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"What is the aversion of being bi that so many guys who apparently aren't bi but like sucking cock and playing with guys if a lady is present don't want to accept it or worse be called bi? Genuine question as I find it very strange they they don't want to be associated with a group whom they seek out. Exactly. The basic definition of bisexual is about sex with both male and female. I'm not attracted to men to have a relationship, but enjoy sex with them as part of 3some. Therefore I identify as bi. If you are happy with that then fair enough, I think the point is how you stated: people's self perception. You see this as classing you as bi, whereas many don't. Like the football analagy i gave earlier- just because you have tried something once or twice does that really define you? Self perception has a lot to do with how others perceive you. David Cameron is alleged to have put his cock in a dead pigs mouth once. Should he now be classed as a beastiophile or a necrophil??? Neither DC nor footballer analogy make sense as they tried but no longer peruse it. I used the word searching* after its been tried. That does make you bi. I'm not concerned for one bit but I think there are a lot of confused people who in turn create much confusion around them. Accept it and be proud rather than hide. That's what I'm saying. It's not as simple as you think it is. I am not bi, however there are people who assume I am because of things I've done and will do in the future. However, my perception is that I'm straight. I'm not "ashamed" of being bi. I'm just not bi. Question. What makes you 'know' you're not bi? Is there a defining action which you identify as bi which deferentiates you? You do make a lot of valid points I just feel on this occasion you have missed mine. I have bi stated on my profile, I have no issue with people seeing that and forming their own conclusions without any explanation from me. When it comes to my own sexual preferences I don't ever consider a man in those. I am not confused, and there is no confusion created around me I just don't see myself as bi. You might see yourself as bi and that's cool. I don't and neither do many others. It's up to the person to decide what sexuality they are and not others to decide based on what they've done or may do again in future. " Those who play bi and have it in profile aren't the issue. It's those who seem confused or not wanting to accept that's what they are which is being discussed from what I've been reading. | |||
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