FabSwingers.com forum: So is a bi couple now the new thing

By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

It seems to us more and more couples are being more open about both being bi and enjoying both playing bi and seeking bi experiences,

Are more and more women liking the idea or bi play with there fella not just bi play with the ladies

Love to here some views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always liked the idea of bi sex involving both partners.

The attitude towards bi men on here is what puts me off of meeting couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we both like the idea of top play, personally I don’t think it deserves a label but I state bi curious on our profile. For us the ideal mmff would be all in together fun as that’s how we see it, just a bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defintely not a new thing, its been happeneing since Roman times.

We find it adds a delicious extra something when everyone plays together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to us more and more couples are being more open about both being bi and enjoying both playing bi and seeking bi experiences,

Are more and more women liking the idea or bi play with there fella not just bi play with the ladies

Love to here some views "

No I don't think so.

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!

A kinky bi Dom Top couple would be cool to find, there that trendynindont think I'll be able.to find one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Bi in my profile, but I don’t meet Guys in there own, I play with a couple though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to us more and more couples are being more open about both being bi and enjoying both playing bi and seeking bi experiences,

Are more and more women liking the idea or bi play with there fella not just bi play with the ladies

Love to here some views "

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Well we’ve been here 7 years. Fully bi couple and enjoy selective fun. Always best to be upfront and honest. Male can And does play very straight. Fem can’t and won’t. Lol.

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I'm still looking for my first bi couple to have fun with. I've had many guys and a few gangbangs but I'd still like to have some relaxed MMF fun with a bi couple.

Maybe one day lol.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"It seems to us more and more couples are being more open about both being bi and enjoying both playing bi and seeking bi experiences,

Are more and more women liking the idea or bi play with there fella not just bi play with the ladies

Love to here some views "
When I started visiting swingers websites the idea of calling myself queer was purely academic. The world is changing around us, and places like this are reflecting that....

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester

"It seems to us more and more couples are being more open about both being bi and enjoying both playing bi and seeking bi experiences,

Are more and more women liking the idea or bi play with there fella not just bi play with the ladies

Love to here some views

No I don't think so. "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some people want it and it works with some but there's a hardcore group who don't want it or promote it.

What's new is that more are open and very clear about enjoying it, as well as many women enjoying watching and joining in with men who enjoy man on man fun. It's a big shift from 10 years ago and reflects some maturity in the scene - through times when clubs banned such sexual contact, unless in a special bi night.

I think more action used to occur separately, where it's now with partners too.

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

We find it’s more common as we get older I think people realise it’s acceptable nowadays and being a bi couple is no longer rare

We love the fact there are now “bi” parties where everyone feels free to play as they want with no worries of offending anyone

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

"It seems to us more and more couples are being more open about both being bi and enjoying both playing bi and seeking bi experiences,

Are more and more women liking the idea or bi play with there fella not just bi play with the ladies

Love to here some views "

I certainly hope it's the case that more couples are being openly bi. It's so good to have fun with couples because there are so many lovely sexy combinations.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

We love Bi play. You are who you are. Nothing to be ashamed of. If people don’t want to meet us then there are plenty who do. No stress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet a bi couple a lone males unicorn

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I think people are less bothered about being labeled gay now, dont forget its not that long since gay sex was decriminalised, and takes time for attitudes to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love meetingbi couples but there does seem to be a stigma around bi or bi curious guys. Seems it’s fine for women in some people’s eyes, but not for guys.

It’s a shame. But then some guys don’t help themselves with a long list of verifications, and unprotected sex pics with both sexes !

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

I doubt that numbers have changed. However if more guys are being open about wanting to express their bi side, as far as I'm concerned that can only be a good thing.

Back when I was on here only as a single male. When I realised I had a bi side I was advised by some to keep my profile straight or risk a backlash........I said "Hell no"

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We are both openly bi on here and in real life. Since we made the decision to tell everyone life has been so much more fun and exciting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love Bi play. You are who you are. Nothing to be ashamed of. If people don’t want to meet us then there are plenty who do. No stress x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been lucky enough to meet one bi couple on here and it was amazing fun! Adds a lot more spice to the mix. Not had much luck finding another couple to meet so the search goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been around for years..not a thing we participate in though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it does seem to be a little more open nowadays, and couples seem to be much happier to explore and indulge in things they li,e to do or try, and its great that sites like Fabs gives them a chance to do exactly that.

Having said that, i just wish a few more couples would up sticks and move to the south!!

I just think there seems to be a geographical north south divide in this area of couples!!!!!

Ever hopeful though.

Good luck everyone, you only live once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are both openly bi on here and in real life. Since we made the decision to tell everyone life has been so much more fun and exciting . "

I think it's still increasing after the big PC push in the 80s and 90s. UK society is still coming to terms with the current acceptability of male homosexuality. Over 1/2 the existing population grew up in a culture in which to be a gay man was not thought to be a good thing and to be nasty or indeed violent towards one was by and large acceptable. Hence why so many weren't open about it and I don't blame them. It'll take another generation for that to completely pass and, sadly, with the current rise in populist politics it's entirely possible that the trend will reverse

So we might be living through the high point of out bi-men for the next couple of generations although I hope I'm wrong about that.

Mike xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love bi fun nothing more hotter than all playing twister pussy and cock in all different positions lol ?? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve definitely seen an increase on couples profiles I have chatted with or hot-listed that have gone from having straight male to bi/curious on profile.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I met a couple about 8 years ago and the guy turned out to be bi even though the profile had them down as straight, on questioning this they said advertising him being bi was likely to put people off, I wonder if this is/was the case for a lot of couples on these types of sites.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

It certainly seems to put some off, but thats their preference.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I met a couple about 8 years ago and the guy turned out to be bi even though the profile had them down as straight, on questioning this they said advertising him being bi was likely to put people off, I wonder if this is/was the case for a lot of couples on these types of sites."

A daft attitude. Yes, being bi puts some people off. Being straight puts some people off who want to meet bi folk. It’s horses for courses....if you try to please everyone, you’ll end up pleasing no one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think society is more acceptable of both sexes being bisexual. Also men no longer view being bi sexual as not being masculine. For us, its just another avenue of enjoyment and also we find we have a similar mindset as other bisexual couples.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

"We think society is more acceptable of both sexes being bisexual. Also men no longer view being bi sexual as not being masculine. For us, its just another avenue of enjoyment and also we find we have a similar mindset as other bisexual couples.

I agree and most bi and gay guys are quite manly, in fact I've been with gay guys who are more masculine than me, the stereotypical camp homosexual of the 60s and 70s doesn't really exist anymore and I doubt it ever really did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems to us more and more couples are being more open about both being bi and enjoying both playing bi and seeking bi experiences,

Are more and more women liking the idea or bi play with there fella not just bi play with the ladies

Love to here some views "

I don’t think couples here are as accepting of bi men as they claim.

Men will let anyone suck their cock if they are horny enough.

They won’t go anywhere near it in a group scenario unless their female SO has expressed a clear interest in seeing 2 men get intimate.

Fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

"We love Bi play. You are who you are. Nothing to be ashamed of. If people don’t want to meet us then there are plenty who do. No stress x"

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

"It seems to us more and more couples are being more open about both being bi and enjoying both playing bi and seeking bi experiences,

Are more and more women liking the idea or bi play with there fella not just bi play with the ladies

Love to here some views

I don’t think couples here are as accepting of bi men as they claim.

Men will let anyone suck their cock if they are horny enough.

They won’t go anywhere near it in a group scenario unless their female SO has expressed a clear interest in seeing 2 men get intimate.

Fact. "

"Fact" Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’d say there are more bi couples now than when I started swinging.

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By *outh Wales HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Hobbiton

"To meet a bi couple a lone males unicorn "

We are a fully bi couple. We are out there.

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

We are both bi. And contrary to a popular myth expressed here, I won't let just anyone suck my cock regardless of how horny I am. If there's no attraction and we don't get on personality wise there won't be anything happening. I also enjoy kissing men I find attractive not doing it for show or "fab bi". We are who we are and enjoy fun with both sexes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been messaged on many occasions by “straight “ couples wanting to meet with us. When we question whether they have read our profile the answer is always the same.

Yes they have.

They are Bi.

They love TV’s.

But they can’t put any of that on their profile as it will put people off.

Even in this day and age and on a swingers site they lie about their sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been messaged on many occasions by “straight “ couples wanting to meet with us. When we question whether they have read our profile the answer is always the same.

Yes they have.

They are Bi.

They love TV’s.

But they can’t put any of that on their profile as it will put people off.

Even in this day and age and on a swingers site they lie about their sexuality.

And to add insult to injury, they want to be invited into Abby’s home, into our bed and share our bodies but they don’t want anyone to know about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fact" Really?"

Maybe it is different in Sheffield.

I am happy to hear / read how your experience negates mine.

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By *exy jaseMan
over a year ago

basildon

I love a good play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally, its a good thing that more and more cpls r coming out.

Hate when some so called prude people despise bi males here.

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We're a bi couple tho do find it difficult to find other bi couples

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

"We love bi fun nothing more hotter than all playing twister pussy and cock in all different positions lol ?? x"

That with everyone covered in oil has been a fantasy of mine for a loooong time. Not very practical with oil I know but a fantasy none the less lol.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

"We are both bi. And contrary to a popular myth expressed here, I won't let just anyone suck my cock regardless of how horny I am. If there's no attraction and we don't get on personality wise there won't be anything happening. I also enjoy kissing men I find attractive not doing it for show or "fab bi". We are who we are and enjoy fun with both sexes

to all that

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"It seems to us more and more couples are being more open about both being bi and enjoying both playing bi and seeking bi experiences,

Are more and more women liking the idea or bi play with there fella not just bi play with the ladies

Love to here some views "

doubt its new, just think people are becoming less bothered about other people's views about it...

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Well we’ve been here 7 years. Fully bi couple and enjoy selective fun. Always best to be upfront and honest. Male can And does play very straight. Fem can’t and won’t. Lol. "

Exactly like us hahaha

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I think only because someone may not want to meet a bi person doesn't necessarily mean they are prudish or despise them, just means that it's not for them. I love to see someone not being afraid to own their sexuality or admitting to being at least curious. What I do despise are the liars and people who intentionally mislead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the more ipenly both bi couples the better... means more lovely people for me to chat to and meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bi, but have wanted to dp for ages, and that will no doubt mean crossing swords with the other male, something that doesn’t put me off one bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be on here with my first wife - both bisexual - and even then we got more "bi couples" wanting to meet who where mainly in fact single / married men lying to try and get in bed with your women

Not sure that has changed much ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ps; or am I being to cynical ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would they do that i just dont get it

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By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

Sorry how many of you are off to va bi night this Friday?

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Wish my ex had been open to my orally bi interests! Hopefully my next partner will be more open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry how many of you are off to va bi night this Friday? "

Thinking about it yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry how many of you are off to va bi night this Friday?

Thinking about it yes "

Feel free to say hi if you are going too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us sorry. Mr is straight so we have no use for a bi guy,neither do i want to watch guys fucking each other. Lexi

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"I think people are less bothered about being labeled gay now, dont forget its not that long since gay sex was decriminalised, and takes time for attitudes to change."
51 years - the majority on here weren't even born when some homosexual acts were decriminalized....

However they probably were born during the era of Section 28, and the ineffective and needlessly scary AIDS awareness campaigns of the 80s and 90s which still seem to fuel a large amount of what some people believe about certain types of sex....

Carter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You two are beautiful

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

"I think people are less bothered about being labeled gay now, dont forget its not that long since gay sex was decriminalised, and takes time for attitudes to change.51 years - the majority on here weren't even born when some homosexual acts were decriminalized....

Carter"
you say needlessly scary, but having had a relative die of aids, maybe not scary enough, still far to many people have not grasped the reality.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

Carteryou say needlessly scary, but having had a relative die of aids, maybe not scary enough, still far to many people have not grasped the reality."
I'm sorry to hear about your relative - I lost several friends at the height of the first wave.

However I'll not back from needlessly scary - especially in the first wave of infection the vectors of transmission were much more complex and much less well understood than they are today. There is little evidence that those ads had any effect other than to scare people who were low risk anyway.

The rising rates of STI infection today suggest that public health education needs more than project fear to get the message through.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Carter"

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What is it that people believe about certain types of sex which, in your opinion, is erroneous?

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By *ark_sentinelCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We started our relationship knowing each other was bi No issues at all she enjoys seeing me with a guy but we seek only couples so she can get her pussy fix too lol

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"It seems to us more and more couples are being more open about both being bi and enjoying both playing bi and seeking bi experiences,

Bloody well hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I don't think society is more acceptable I no loads that find it revaulting but have to accept it other wise they wouldn't be able to work so they accept it but out of work it's different altogether

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

London

My experience is that the more a person resists

the attempt to shame and demean then for being bi (or gay, trans, pansexual...) the more likely s/he is to have a fulfilling sexual (and wider) life. But it’s not always easy and I don’t judge anyone for struggling with it.

I’m optimistic that things are improving but I do read the occasional post in the forums that reads like it’s been written by someone with ideas of sexuality and gender that I thought died out with the dinosaurs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us both being bi is what brought us together 26 years ago

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