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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area

Hi all

What restraints do you use - body/bed etc. And what is your favourite and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t beat some cuffs attached to the bed!

I love forced orgasm and denying someone touching themselves

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Can’t beat some cuffs attached to the bed!

I love forced orgasm and denying someone touching themselves "

So spread eagled?

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise."

That made me laugh. Keep him there 'til he asks you!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise."

I love the idea of leaving him there till he does.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise.

I love the idea of leaving him there till he does. "

Lol, he has to get divorced first.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise.

I love the idea of leaving him there till he does.

Lol, he has to get divorced first."

Yeah, you need to untie him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise.

I love the idea of leaving him there till he does.

Lol, he has to get divorced first.

Yeah, you need to untie him!"

He'll struggle to sign the divorce papers while in restraints lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my under bed restraints wrists and ankles, rope or bondage tape for hog tie or bent over and over the door ones are great for spanking/flogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under the bed ones, i use them because i haven't managed to get my fella to marry me and from past experience they will fuck off and do one otherwise.

I love the idea of leaving him there till he does.

Lol, he has to get divorced first.

Yeah, you need to untie him!

He'll struggle to sign the divorce papers while in restraints lol"

Nah, he only needs one hand free for a few seconds to sign

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms "

Do you have a favourite?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms

Do you have a favourite?"

It entirely depends on the circumstances. Cuffs are nice to keep your arms behind your back when you're giving a blow job, hog ties are nice for rendering you vulnerable and helpless and spreader bar is good for making you feel a bit exposed.

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By *heFilthEngineerMan
over a year ago

lichfield

Im currently at a hotel about to go to torture garden. I have rope, police issue cuffs, spreader bars and leather cuffs with me. (-:

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Im currently at a hotel about to go to torture garden. I have rope, police issue cuffs, spreader bars and leather cuffs with me. (-:"

Would be interested to hear how that goes!

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms

Do you have a favourite?It entirely depends on the circumstances. Cuffs are nice to keep your arms behind your back when you're giving a blow job, hog ties are nice for rendering you vulnerable and helpless and spreader bar is good for making you feel a bit exposed.

"

When you say hog tied, I'm thinking breasts. But that's not what you mean - and that doesn't do anything for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrist restraints when you don’t want them to use their hands.

Spreader bar for when you want them in certain positions.

Wrist restraints and spreader bar for when they want to hand over complete control and allow you to do whatever you want...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms

Do you have a favourite?It entirely depends on the circumstances. Cuffs are nice to keep your arms behind your back when you're giving a blow job, hog ties are nice for rendering you vulnerable and helpless and spreader bar is good for making you feel a bit exposed.

When you say hog tied, I'm thinking breasts. But that's not what you mean - and that doesn't do anything for me."

no it does nothing for either of us. Hogties restrain your wrists and ankles in such a way that your body is arched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite is a set that passes under the bed and connects wrists and ankles together in a spread position.If you try to pull in any direction they pull you the other way. Great fun. Especially leaving you there blindfolded for a while...

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By *annydevonMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I've restrained a few partners. Never been reciprocated

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

A set of beautiful soft leather restraints that I can quickly and easily tie up somebody's hands eith.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms

Do you have a favourite?It entirely depends on the circumstances. Cuffs are nice to keep your arms behind your back when you're giving a blow job, hog ties are nice for rendering you vulnerable and helpless and spreader bar is good for making you feel a bit exposed.

When you say hog tied, I'm thinking breasts. But that's not what you mean - and that doesn't do anything for me.

no it does nothing for either of us. Hogties restrain your wrists and ankles in such a way that your body is arched.

"

If you use rope, you can construct a chest harness or use a TK/box tie (this will then include the breasts) and run the rope from the stem or central point at the back down to the ankles. This has the advantage of taking the stress off the shoulder joints and the wrists.

Ease the bottom onto their side side, lie facing them and looking in their eyes remind them of what you are going to do to them. Then produce toy of your choice.

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

wrist and ankle restraints face down arse up gyeah!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.

I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

What restraints do you use - body/bed etc. And what is your favourite and why? "

sashchord it's cheap long and soft to the touch you can't beat it with a sash hammer

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

I've got too many different types to list!

A leather wrist, ankles, thigh set is great for spread eagled to the bed for play. But for long term or overnight scene a sleepsack is the way to go

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

We have two sets of under the bed restraints xx

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Wrist restraints when you don’t want them to use their hands.

Spreader bar for when you want them in certain positions.

Wrist restraints and spreader bar for when they want to hand over complete control and allow you to do whatever you want... "

Sounds bliss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duct tape

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"we have cuffs, hog ties and spreader bar. They all have their charms

Do you have a favourite?It entirely depends on the circumstances. Cuffs are nice to keep your arms behind your back when you're giving a blow job, hog ties are nice for rendering you vulnerable and helpless and spreader bar is good for making you feel a bit exposed.

When you say hog tied, I'm thinking breasts. But that's not what you mean - and that doesn't do anything for me.

no it does nothing for either of us. Hogties restrain your wrists and ankles in such a way that your body is arched.

"

Ok, interesting. Thanks for the info.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"A set of beautiful soft leather restraints that I can quickly and easily tie up somebody's hands eith. "

Haha. What about your hands?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"A set of beautiful soft leather restraints that I can quickly and easily tie up somebody's hands eith.

Haha. What about your hands? "

I like to be in charge

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.

I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome "

Sounds like it's a hobby.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"We have two sets of under the bed restraints xx"

Why 2?!

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"We have two sets of under the bed restraints xx"

Ooh, swinging suddenly becomes appealing to me...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I've got some thigh/wrist restraints. Used them on Monday and they were great fun except they need something to keep them fastened

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Duct tape "

just be gentle when you remove it!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Hi all

What restraints do you use - body/bed etc. And what is your favourite and why? "

Whatever I can get my hands on, but I always keep a pair of cuffs or a scarf handy. My favourite has to be my belt from my trousers,it just quick and easy.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Hi all

What restraints do you use - body/bed etc. And what is your favourite and why?

Whatever I can get my hands on, but I always keep a pair of cuffs or a scarf handy. My favourite has to be my belt from my trousers,it just quick and easy."

Ooohhhhhhh

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I have a range of bits for self bondage play and my favourite set up is one which holds me on my back with my legs up. This is done using Bondage Corner's "Super heavy duty LEG RAISER bondage harness as a BDSM restraint version 3". I then lock my hands out to the bedframe using an ice lock.

Works really well especially when used in conjunction with either the estim system or vacuum milking machine.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"I have a range of bits for self bondage play and my favourite set up is one which holds me on my back with my legs up. This is done using Bondage Corner's "Super heavy duty LEG RAISER bondage harness as a BDSM restraint version 3". I then lock my hands out to the bedframe using an ice lock.

Works really well especially when used in conjunction with either the estim system or vacuum milking machine."

So you restrain yourself?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"I have a range of bits for self bondage play and my favourite set up is one which holds me on my back with my legs up. This is done using Bondage Corner's "Super heavy duty LEG RAISER bondage harness as a BDSM restraint version 3". I then lock my hands out to the bedframe using an ice lock.

Works really well especially when used in conjunction with either the estim system or vacuum milking machine."

How do you get yourself out of it and do you have any emergency quick release?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under the bed restraints was totally under her control..

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

The hand restraints connect through the ice lock with dyneema rope. I also have a pair of scissors to hand, and tied to the bedframe which will cut the rope if required with a bit of work. The bondage is more symbolic than truely effective in this case. It sometimes takes some considerable willpower not to release early, especially when I have already cum a couple of times and the milker just keeps going but the self control also adds to the fun.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"I have a range of bits for self bondage play and my favourite set up is one which holds me on my back with my legs up. This is done using Bondage Corner's "Super heavy duty LEG RAISER bondage harness as a BDSM restraint version 3". I then lock my hands out to the bedframe using an ice lock.

Works really well especially when used in conjunction with either the estim system or vacuum milking machine.

So you restrain yourself?"

Yes, get into location, fit leg restraints and then complete a loop with a padlock which runs between a pair of wrist restraints, around the bedframe and through the ice lock. As the ice lock melts the wrist restraints release.

The loop between the wrist restraints is made from a rope which can be cut by scissors but would be reasonably hard to do. The scissors are also tied off to the bed frame in a way that they cant be lost and always remain reachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cling film - yes cling film

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Cling film - yes cling film"

Whole body, or just certain parts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a pair of leather cuffs that are lined with fake fur so they don't rub (I have sensitive skin) red silk rope, a tied rope pair of cuffs and a variety of silk scarves and ties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a pair of leather cuffs that are lined with fake fur so they don't rub (I have sensitive skin) red silk rope, a tied rope pair of cuffs and a variety of silk scarves and ties."

And forgot I have some bondage tape and use cling film too - great to bind breasts tight.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"I have a pair of leather cuffs that are lined with fake fur so they don't rub (I have sensitive skin) red silk rope, a tied rope pair of cuffs and a variety of silk scarves and ties."

That sounds very sensual!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.

I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome

Sounds like it's a hobby. "

Fun one

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Depends on the mood we are in...

Soft rope - for shibari and intimate play

Hemp rope - for the more restraint play

Tow rope - for those moments when you want more than just rough rope play

We also have handcuffs, silk ties, velcro restraints so lots of flavours lol

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.

I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome

Sounds like it's a hobby.

Fun one "

Damn, can't message you!

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Depends on the mood we are in...

Soft rope - for shibari and intimate play

Hemp rope - for the more restraint play

Tow rope - for those moments when you want more than just rough rope play

We also have handcuffs, silk ties, velcro restraints so lots of flavours lol "

That is indeed a lot of flavours! Silk ties, sensual yet naughty.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.

I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome "

We’re pretty much the same, I love it!

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh heck. I got way too many to mention but I can say it's 2 cases full of all sorts.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Oh heck. I got way too many to mention but I can say it's 2 cases full of all sorts. "

Just a few things then!

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

4 hanks of 6cm x 8m jute

4 hanks of 6cm x 4m jute

1 hank of 5cm x 2m jute

My travelling expandable bar (used to be part of a lampstand).

I am good to go.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Rope does nothing for me .I prefer good old fashioned chain .it feels good ,its heavy and v restrictive .add a nose restraint and a tongue and lip clamp and hey presto job done

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"Rope does nothing for me .I prefer good old fashioned chain .it feels good ,its heavy and v restrictive .add a nose restraint and a tongue and lip clamp and hey presto job done "

Each to their own, the only missing point is that rope is not heavy.

If you look at the Japanese style they add nose restraints, (and apart from conventional clamps) they use chopsticks for lip and tongue clamps.

But it is about what floats your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.

I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome

Sounds like it's a hobby.

Fun one

Damn, can't message you!"

Nope. MrH doesn’t do singles!

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.

I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome

Sounds like it's a hobby.

Fun one

Damn, can't message you!

Nope. MrH doesn’t do singles!"

That's fair enough!

I didn't see many pictures featuring the above?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"It's in the Way That You Use It" 

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


""It's in the Way That You Use It" 

"

Very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.

I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome

Sounds like it's a hobby.

Fun one

Damn, can't message you!

Nope. MrH doesn’t do singles!

That's fair enough!

I didn't see many pictures featuring the above? "

No. Not really our style of pic tbh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh heck. I got way too many to mention but I can say it's 2 cases full of all sorts.

Just a few things then!"

Just a few

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"We have restraining ties on the bed all the time then metal handcuffs, spreader bars and leather wrist/ankle restraints.

I struggle to choose a favourite and a combination of the above is just awesome

Sounds like it's a hobby.

Fun one

Damn, can't message you!

Nope. MrH doesn’t do singles!

That's fair enough!

I didn't see many pictures featuring the above?

No. Not really our style of pic tbh! "

They are nice photos.

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By *ill74 OP   Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Oh heck. I got way too many to mention but I can say it's 2 cases full of all sorts.

Just a few things then!

Just a few "

Any favourites?

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