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"In truth, no disability should matter although everyone is entitled to be put off by it in the same way as any other physical attribute. I’m missing an eye and, although people don’t notice it face to face, I’m slightly paranoid about straight on photos where the shadow exaggerates it. I just have to put up with the fact that my photos might not be the best..." I have known a few people with only one eye, tbh you dont notice it. Unfortunately in this world some people only want perfection and being totally honest there is no such thing. | |||
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"In truth, no disability should matter although everyone is entitled to be put off by it in the same way as any other physical attribute. I’m missing an eye and, although people don’t notice it face to face, I’m slightly paranoid about straight on photos where the shadow exaggerates it. I just have to put up with the fact that my photos might not be the best... I have known a few people with only one eye, tbh you dont notice it. Unfortunately in this world some people only want perfection and being totally honest there is no such thing." I know. As I say, in person it’s not obvious but photos highlight it. Unfortunately that isn’t good on here hence giving up and just enjoying the chat on the forums | |||
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"It's been 5 years since I ended up in my wheelchair an I am still getting use to it lol" 3 years for me though I don’t have to use mine all the time... | |||
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"If you were closer to me you'd be on my "want to meet" list. It wouldn't bother me one bit" jumping in my car as we speak ha! ![]() | |||
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"Iam in a wheelchair (female) an I find we do get meets but then they treat me like glass it seems they think I might break " It's not the same, but I was on crutches earlier this year and I had this problem too. That and abuse for being on Fab while injured. Different as a woman though. | |||
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"If you were closer to me you'd be on my "want to meet" list. It wouldn't bother me one bit jumping in my car as we speak ha! ![]() Waiting patiently ![]() | |||
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"If I fancy someone then a wheelchair wouldn't change that! ![]() are you saying it's my face that's the problem? ![]() | |||
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"If I fancy someone then a wheelchair wouldn't change that! ![]() ![]() Not for me... I think ya have a rather nice face ![]() | |||
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"If I fancy someone then a wheelchair wouldn't change that! ![]() ![]() ![]() Bless you and thank you xx ![]() | |||
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"I think as long as you are open and honest it shouldn't be a problem. Get chatting to people and take it from there. Most women will want to chat and have a social first anyway. " To be honest that's the way I would and should go about it with or without the wheelchair x | |||
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"Have you noticed as well no wheel chair porn ![]() there's a kink for everything these days....surely there's some out there?? Maybe that could be my next move?? The world's first wheelchair porn star Hahaha!! | |||
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"I think as long as you are open and honest it shouldn't be a problem. Get chatting to people and take it from there. Most women will want to chat and have a social first anyway. To be honest that's the way I would and should go about it with or without the wheelchair x" Exactly. As long as you're not offended by people asking questions, it shouldn't be any different to not being in a chair? | |||
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"I think as long as you are open and honest it shouldn't be a problem. Get chatting to people and take it from there. Most women will want to chat and have a social first anyway. To be honest that's the way I would and should go about it with or without the wheelchair x Exactly. As long as you're not offended by people asking questions, it shouldn't be any different to not being in a chair? " correct!! I'm as open as they come an would be happy to put people's minds at rest. | |||
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"You have a lovely smile. If there’s a connection people will find a way to play with you. Talk about what you can do and what you find difficult. I’m sure there’s nothing wrong with your kissing ability. ![]() I would like to think that's the case and thank you for your kind words xx | |||
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"It's only been a year for me so I'm just getting used to how things have changed. It's a little daunting at the moment but I'm sure I'll get there, not just the meeting on here part but the actual getting back to dating part worries me too. " Bieng in a wheelchair does not define who you are as a person . It doesnt make you any less of a very attractive man at all imho. It would not put me of having a relationship with you at all. Ive been in a wheelchair just over 2 years and im just starting to walk all over again. I felt less of a woman having to ask for help but someone told me this: If i was blindfolded and couldnt see what someone looked like ,would that stop me from bieng a kind person? I answered no, so what makes you think your less of a person because your legs dont work? They were rite my minds over thinking to try and stop any more pain. And in turn im stopping myself from bieng loved because I Am the same person i was when my legs did work. A person worth having in your life only sees You your character and personality . They dont see the chair. They were so rite ![]() | |||
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"It's probably the initial contact that's the hardest and getting someone give you a chance. But maybe that's the same for most single blokes on here? " Seems like the majority of single men struggle on here. It's just one of those things. | |||
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"Still waiting for an understanding female or couple to help me out xx" WAVING FRANTICALLY Mrs MP took a peek at your profile and thought you looked hot, she only winked at you but definitely be interested. | |||
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"Quest in Leeds is 100% wheelchair friendly, " You could play downstairs at Pandora (make a sofa fort) but there are steps up to the entrance door. Quest is a lot better from that POV. | |||
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"I wont meet people in weelchairs" any particular reason?? | |||
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"Still waiting for an understanding female or couple to help me out xx" Oh if only you were closer.... | |||
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"You have a lovely smile. If there’s a connection people will find a way to play with you. Talk about what you can do and what you find difficult. I’m sure there’s nothing wrong with your kissing ability. ![]() OP, drop in to Paisley on way to see NSAchick, or get them to double up. | |||
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"You have a lovely smile. If there’s a connection people will find a way to play with you. Talk about what you can do and what you find difficult. I’m sure there’s nothing wrong with your kissing ability. ![]() now that sounds like a plan ![]() | |||
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"We met a couple years ago where the gent was in a wheelchair, didn’t make the slightest bit of deference to us, we had an amazing time! Hang in there .. not everyone is scared of the unknown honey x ![]() lots of positive comments, I wouldn't say I'm brimming with confidence but things are certainly looking up xx thanks guys xx | |||
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"We met a couple years ago where the gent was in a wheelchair, didn’t make the slightest bit of deference to us, we had an amazing time! Hang in there .. not everyone is scared of the unknown honey x ![]() Like a previous comment, shame you aren't local. I'd happily date a wheelchair user too. Long as attraction is mutual, I wouldn't let a guys disability put me off asking him out. | |||
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"I wouldn't mind... at least you can't escape that easy ![]() presuming I'd want too! ![]() | |||
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"Have you noticed as well no wheel chair porn ![]() We have been asked ourselves why we haven't shot any porn with people in wheelchairs, it's not that we haven't wanted to its just we've never had anyone in a wheelchair ask. | |||
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"Have you noticed as well no wheel chair porn ![]() let's do it ha!!! Xx | |||
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"We met a couple years ago where the gent was in a wheelchair, didn’t make the slightest bit of deference to us, we had an amazing time! Hang in there .. not everyone is scared of the unknown honey x ![]() which one of us is going to move??? ![]() | |||
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"We met a couple years ago where the gent was in a wheelchair, didn’t make the slightest bit of deference to us, we had an amazing time! Hang in there .. not everyone is scared of the unknown honey x ![]() ![]() You! ![]() | |||
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"Quest in Leeds is 100% wheelchair friendly, " I was going to say just that. It’s been built to entirely accommodate wheelchairs the only area I could see there being a problem is the jacuzzi apart from that it’s all on one level, wide doorways and totally accessible ![]() | |||
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"We met a couple years ago where the gent was in a wheelchair, didn’t make the slightest bit of deference to us, we had an amazing time! Hang in there .. not everyone is scared of the unknown honey x ![]() ![]() ![]() I lived in Worthing for a few years and loved it but I'm a northern guy at heart. Thank you x I'm guessing the ones who would have an issue with the chair probably wouldn't be worth knowing anyways. X | |||
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" I lived in Worthing for a few years and loved it but I'm a northern guy at heart. X" . I'd have more of an issue with the "northern thing" rather than the wheelchair ... lmao .."Aye up" .... ......runs off to hide laffin') | |||
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" I lived in Worthing for a few years and loved it but I'm a northern guy at heart. Thank you x I'm guessing the ones who would have an issue with the chair probably wouldn't be worth knowing anyways. X" Shame you don't still live here, I'd definitely have gone for a stroll along the pier with you | |||
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" I lived in Worthing for a few years and loved it but I'm a northern guy at heart. Thank you x I'm guessing the ones who would have an issue with the chair probably wouldn't be worth knowing anyways. X Shame you don't still live here, I'd definitely have gone for a stroll along the pier with you " ![]() | |||
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" I lived in Worthing for a few years and loved it but I'm a northern guy at heart. Thank you x I'm guessing the ones who would have an issue with the chair probably wouldn't be worth knowing anyways. X Shame you don't still live here, I'd definitely have gone for a stroll along the pier with you ![]() Let me know when ![]() | |||
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"Wouldnt bother us would still meet if someone was in a wheelchair if i found them attarative, altho myself sometimes has to use a wheelchair so do wonder myself at times " good to hear, hope your doing ok? Xx | |||
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"I've been on this site for years an love it even if it's so hard for us single blokes but now I'm in a wheelchair it's on a different level completely. What's people thoughts on folk in wheelchairs i.e. meets, clubs anything to do with this way of life??? I'm really struggling to find meets these days xxx Adam " If people are too shallow to see past disabilities, they aren't worth your time, my last partner had a disability, but I saw the person within not the label | |||
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"Just got myself a wheelchair recently tried putting it off for as long as I could (hate it when people stare at you) " then pretend that they wernt starring at all lol | |||
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"Just got myself a wheelchair recently tried putting it off for as long as I could (hate it when people stare at you) then pretend that they wernt starring at all lol " I understand the staring thing... but for me it's for different reasons obviously | |||
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"Just got myself a wheelchair recently tried putting it off for as long as I could (hate it when people stare at you) " They might be staring because they fancy you. ![]() | |||
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"Just got myself a wheelchair recently tried putting it off for as long as I could (hate it when people stare at you) They might be staring because they fancy you. ![]() Haha I wish | |||
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"Just got myself a wheelchair recently tried putting it off for as long as I could (hate it when people stare at you) then pretend that they wernt starring at all lol " Yeah especially when you catch them then they don’t know where to look lol | |||
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"Looks like I might have found what I'm looking for.....I'll keep you posted xx" Aaah that's brilliant news | |||
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"Looks like I might have found what I'm looking for.....I'll keep you posted xx Aaah that's brilliant news " Bless you x | |||
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"Anyone fancy a ride on my electric wheelchair lol" Race?? ![]() | |||
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"Anyone fancy a ride on my electric wheelchair lol Race?? ![]() Let’s go what does the winner get ![]() | |||
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"Anyone fancy a ride on my electric wheelchair lol Race?? ![]() ![]() Glory!! ![]() | |||
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"Anyone fancy a ride on my electric wheelchair lol Race?? ![]() ![]() ![]() Where we racing silverstone or brands hatch? Lol ![]() | |||
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"Hi bill I’m in wheelchair after accident 18 years ago . Been on here about 10 months and there are some terrific ladies on here . It shouldn’t matter that your in chair and does have its benefits . A lot of women are very understanding and don’t even see the chair and just see the person .there is a lot more understanding of disability these days keep positive I’m sure you will be answering messages soon Good luck and happy fabbing " good to hear there's more of us about and that your also being successful. Thanks for the reply. You too hope it's going well. | |||
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