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By *hiteDiamond1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sexy Village

When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your newest photo is bareback and you're intrest say safe sex... save the hassle and just ask yourself

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Damn contradictions always getting in the way

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By *amiee89TV/TS
over a year ago

derry

Boom

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"Your newest photo is bareback and you're intrest say safe sex... save the hassle and just ask yourself"

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By *hiteDiamond1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sexy Village

All my pics are always the man wearing condom! Always. I practice safe sex and actually Carry that out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes they can be posed. I have one on my friends gallery that looks like we’re B.B. it’s posed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure."

i use it as a filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your newest photo is bareback and you're intrest say safe sex... save the hassle and just ask yourself"

looks to me he has a condom on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your newest photo is bareback and you're intrest say safe sex... save the hassle and just ask yourself

looks to me he has a condom on"

Me too

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By *ilancsguyMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Simple... Some folk say what they think other people want to hear to maximise chances of a meet but it doesn't mean 100% of folk practice what they say on their profile.... shock / horror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your newest photo is bareback and you're intrest say safe sex... save the hassle and just ask yourself"

Doesn't look bare to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your newest photo is bareback and you're intrest say safe sex... save the hassle and just ask yourself

looks to me he has a condom on

Me too"

Me three.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Whatever other people do it is their business, just take care of your own sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure."

How do you define an "interest"?

Say someone has ticked: anal, dogging, DP, watersports, and webcams on their profile as "interests". Will you assume they will insist on those activities every single time they have sex or meet someone?

Isn't the purpose of a list of interests to indicate what they are more open to?

Don't you use your list of interests to indicate what you are more open to?

Do you insist on every one of your interests?

If you said no to an offer of group sex can they point out that it's an "interest" on your profile ergo you must do it?

Wouldn't you be hypocritical if you refused one or any of your listed interests?

If people having unprotected sex and taking pics of it then posting those pics offends you. Block them. At the end of the day you don't know them, the people they're with, or the background to why it's unprotected. You're forcing your assumptions and prejudices upon them and proclaiming them guilty of not adhering to your personal morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People here read interest lists as if they were reading a menu in a brothel . Best leave it minimum otherwise you risk an unannounced cock in yer arse for having the nerve to tick anal .

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

When you think the one wrapped up cock signifies safe sex when really you could be just as hypocritical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure."

I ONLY have safe sex listed, and I have a bareback photo on my ‘friends only’. It’s my husband

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I've got 3-somes ticked. Does that mean i ALWAYS have to play as a 3-some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All my pics are always the man wearing condom! Always. I practice safe sex and actually Carry that out. "
so you cant get a STD by giving oral ?

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By *oney_Bee_xTV/TS
over a year ago

Teesside


"When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure."

It looks like you’re giving oral sex without a condom..... that’s not safe sex?

He....hehe....

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

You smell that virtue signaling guys !?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People here read interest lists as if they were reading a menu in a brothel . Best leave it minimum otherwise you risk an unannounced cock in yer arse for having the nerve to tick anal . "

I'll take 4 x three stones, 2 x more some, 1 x anul, 5 x bj and a safe sex to go thanks.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I've got 3-somes ticked. Does that mean i ALWAYS have to play as a 3-some?"

That's a fair point.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

From what I've read (in the forums) on this subject, some of those partcipating in bare-back sex consider it to be 'safe sex' if they and those they play with have a rigorous and regular clinical test regime.

Therefore, for such people having "safe sex" listed on their interests is not being hypercritical.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"When I look at profiles out of interest to see if they have safe sex on their interests and they clearly have bareback photos of different peoples genitals whilst in play poses is that hypocritical or just lying or just trying to justify it as they r close trusted friends. How can that be if u practice safe sex? Go figure."

I would just ignore what is ticked in preferences its more what I want you to think not anything else. If you are thinking of meeting talk to people if alarm bells ring then just avoid them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be pictures of a long term partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they may have or still be part of a couple

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