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By *mushkitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I was recently contacted on here by the son of a good friend of mine who now aged 30 is expanding his horizons and wanting to explore his submisive side.

He asked to book a session with me as he know his dad has used n enjoyed my servises my issue is do i go forward n help him explore this or is it weird n a go as he used to call me aunty helen when he was younger ?????

Genuine replys n thoughts only please guys

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

What I think you need to ask yourself OP is: do I feel comfortable with this? If you have any niggling doubts (which I think you probably have considering you asked on here) then I would say no.

If you've been around the fet scene for a while you probably know a few people who would happily guide him through his explorations instead of you. Maybe you could put him in contact with them.

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By *mushkitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

That was my thoughts hun coz the aunty thing felt a bit odd but that was yrs ago when he was about 6 n havnt seen him in 20 yrs n having no close relationship with him i have no issue as long as he is descrete about it n doesnt broadcast it so what do you think hun x

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By *heFilthEngineerMan
over a year ago

lichfield

I would agree, maybe you can be more a mentor than a Domme.

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By *heFilthEngineerMan
over a year ago

lichfield


"That was my thoughts hun coz the aunty thing felt a bit odd but that was yrs ago when he was about 6 n havnt seen him in 20 yrs n having no close relationship with him i have no issue as long as he is descrete about it n doesnt broadcast it so what do you think hun x "

Is it more fears of what others will think or what you may think afterwards?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't do it.

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds


"I was recently contacted on here by the son of a good friend of mine who now aged 30 is expanding his horizons and wanting to explore his submisive side.

He asked to book a session with me as he know his dad has used n enjoyed my servises my issue is do i go forward n help him explore this or is it weird n a go as he used to call me aunty helen when he was younger ?????

Genuine replys n thoughts only please guys "

It probaly took him a lot of guts to contact you. However youbdo what feels right for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he will feel alot more at ease since he does know you as it takes alot of trust to push the boundaries of a sub.

But do what makes you feel comfortable

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By *mushkitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I am ok with it as all my importants know what i do n accept my lifestyle its more for him n great idea about the mentor ty hun x

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By *heFilthEngineerMan
over a year ago

lichfield


"I am ok with it as all my importants know what i do n accept my lifestyle its more for him n great idea about the mentor ty hun x"

This (as I’m sure you know) is really common on the bdsm scene, mentoring those you want to take under your wing, but not really want to play with. There’s relationship option for mentoring in Fl.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

It’s your values and beliefs, suspect only you can answer the question.

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By *mushkitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Thanks guys food for thought and genuine replys without judgment or silly answers that very refreshing for here xx

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Tell him not to call you aunty.

Or is that just in your head?

He's a man.

Try to ditch the baggage and see him for who he is, not what he might have been.

I've come across a father and son recently.

Down local boozer.

I would not say no to either of them.

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!

I'd go for it, it's always good for a newbie to try BDSM with dominoes they know they can trust! It's been

Nerve racking as it it!

Speaking of which, you fancy helping out a kinky Scouse Submissive? I need to stretch my boundaries in the using abusing and humilating areas

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By *om Bert2020Man
over a year ago

Jersey / Swansea

I would go for it he clearly trusts you which is why he has asked you, and knows you will take care of him.

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