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"It's the best - definitely my main fetish... I just so wish that there were more anal-only people about...! " I’ve had a few anal only sub/dom dynamics. Often they’re arse is for fucking and they’re pussy is a rare reward. | |||
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"It's the best - definitely my main fetish... I just so wish that there were more anal-only people about...! I’ve had a few anal only sub/dom dynamics. Often they’re arse is for fucking and they’re pussy is a rare reward. " a woman took you in the arse? | |||
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"Wish I enjoyed it, I have such an amazing arse " yes yes you do | |||
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"Always hot Unless there is an accident.." true | |||
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"It's the best - definitely my main fetish... I just so wish that there were more anal-only people about...! I’ve had a few anal only sub/dom dynamics. Often they’re arse is for fucking and they’re pussy is a rare reward. a woman took you in the arse? " Many times, if it’s fun do it. I’ve trained anal long term sub playmate to be able to please my arse, why miss out on a whole sexual sensation. | |||
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"dynamics. Often they’re arse is for fucking and they’re pussy is a rare reward. " Their pussy? What part of anal-only does that come into..???? I despair.... | |||
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"dynamics. Often they’re arse is for fucking and they’re pussy is a rare reward. Their pussy? What part of anal-only does that come into..???? I despair.... " I think he's gone from fucking arse to an arse ! | |||
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"Wish I enjoyed it, I have such an amazing arse " It's okay I suppose C | |||
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"dynamics. Often they’re arse is for fucking and they’re pussy is a rare reward. Their pussy? What part of anal-only does that come into..???? I despair.... " The part that worked best for them, they got off on having to earn pussy sex. | |||
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"dynamics. Often they’re arse is for fucking and they’re pussy is a rare reward. Their pussy? What part of anal-only does that come into..???? I despair.... The part that worked best for them, they got off on having to earn pussy sex." For some of us it might work better the other way round... | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .." Is this a major problem for older gay men then? | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .." That’s 100% a myth, do it right and you’ll have zero problems. So have medial issues like that, you need to do it very wrong, repeatedly and for a long time. Even then, it’s a muscle, so you’d be able to train it back, unless you’d completely torn it through. | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .. That’s 100% a myth, do it right and you’ll have zero problems. So have medial issues like that, you need to do it very wrong, repeatedly and for a long time. Even then, it’s a muscle, so you’d be able to train it back, unless you’d completely torn it through." Well as we’re talking about it, if I can get my hand in your arse easily, is continence an issue? Genuine question. | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .. That’s 100% a myth, do it right and you’ll have zero problems. So have medial issues like that, you need to do it very wrong, repeatedly and for a long time. Even then, it’s a muscle, so you’d be able to train it back, unless you’d completely torn it through." I’ve been taking it up the arse for years with no ill effects, only awesome orgasms. | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .. That’s 100% a myth, do it right and you’ll have zero problems. So have medial issues like that, you need to do it very wrong, repeatedly and for a long time. Even then, it’s a muscle, so you’d be able to train it back, unless you’d completely torn it through. I’ve been taking it up the arse for years with no ill effects, only awesome orgasms. " Good. I’d hate to think I was causing someone injury whilst causing them great pleasure. | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .. That’s 100% a myth, do it right and you’ll have zero problems. So have medial issues like that, you need to do it very wrong, repeatedly and for a long time. Even then, it’s a muscle, so you’d be able to train it back, unless you’d completely torn it through. I’ve been taking it up the arse for years with no ill effects, only awesome orgasms. Good. I’d hate to think I was causing someone injury whilst causing them great pleasure." I’ve never been fisted though. Not sure I want to be | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .. Is this a major problem for older gay men then? " According to someone on the forums, back in the 50s/60s loads of women had to have surgery for anal prolapse, because they had been having so much anal instead of vaginal sex. I wondered about gay men myself. | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .. Is this a major problem for older gay men then? According to someone on the forums, back in the 50s/60s loads of women had to have surgery for anal prolapse, because they had been having so much anal instead of vaginal sex. I wondered about gay men myself. " Cheap contraception.. | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .. That’s 100% a myth, do it right and you’ll have zero problems. So have medial issues like that, you need to do it very wrong, repeatedly and for a long time. Even then, it’s a muscle, so you’d be able to train it back, unless you’d completely torn it through. Well as we’re talking about it, if I can get my hand in your arse easily, is continence an issue? Genuine question." It’s all about doing it right. Here’s how I normally explain it. Make the comparison to a gymnast training to do the splits. They train correctly, over how longer time they’re bodies need to progress without injury. Slowly increasing they’re strength and flexibility at they go. Now if they were to just try and force themselves into the splits from day one, no listening to they’re body, just going as far as they’re pain tolerance will allow, well they would be at high risk of an injury. Same with anal, just a different muscle group. I have a saying, enjoy the journey not just the destination. Anal training inniys self is a lot of fun. Just cause you/they might want to be fisted, does mean you/they have to rush to get there. The only partner that I’ve had, that’s had issues. Thought it was really clever to force in anything that would physically fit, despite me telling her otherwise, she thought it was fun and clever. She was a masochist and enjoyed the pain. And yes, she did get a prolaps, but she learnt her lesson, slowed down, trainer her arse and now has zero problems and can still take a fist. | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .. That’s 100% a myth, do it right and you’ll have zero problems. So have medial issues like that, you need to do it very wrong, repeatedly and for a long time. Even then, it’s a muscle, so you’d be able to train it back, unless you’d completely torn it through. Well as we’re talking about it, if I can get my hand in your arse easily, is continence an issue? Genuine question." I've been taking fists (including my own) for about 20years. Never had an issue. But its not something you rush into, takes weeks to get there, months even. And I'm not doing I every day. Once a week maximum. Its my treat. | |||
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"It's the best - definitely my main fetish... I just so wish that there were more anal-only people about...! " heavily into anal here | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .. That’s 100% a myth, do it right and you’ll have zero problems. So have medial issues like that, you need to do it very wrong, repeatedly and for a long time. Even then, it’s a muscle, so you’d be able to train it back, unless you’d completely torn it through. Well as we’re talking about it, if I can get my hand in your arse easily, is continence an issue? Genuine question. It’s all about doing it right. Here’s how I normally explain it. Make the comparison to a gymnast training to do the splits. They train correctly, over how longer time they’re bodies need to progress without injury. Slowly increasing they’re strength and flexibility at they go. Now if they were to just try and force themselves into the splits from day one, no listening to they’re body, just going as far as they’re pain tolerance will allow, well they would be at high risk of an injury. Same with anal, just a different muscle group. I have a saying, enjoy the journey not just the destination. Anal training inniys self is a lot of fun. Just cause you/they might want to be fisted, does mean you/they have to rush to get there. The only partner that I’ve had, that’s had issues. Thought it was really clever to force in anything that would physically fit, despite me telling her otherwise, she thought it was fun and clever. She was a masochist and enjoyed the pain. And yes, she did get a prolaps, but she learnt her lesson, slowed down, trainer her arse and now has zero problems and can still take a fist." Thanks for this. Just want to make it clear, I DO NOT want to be fisted. In any orifice. It’s a fab friend who loves it. I can’t speak to how long it took her to get there. | |||
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"Not for me .....prolapse bowel springs to mind ....colostomy bags are not in fashion .. That’s 100% a myth, do it right and you’ll have zero problems. So have medial issues like that, you need to do it very wrong, repeatedly and for a long time. Even then, it’s a muscle, so you’d be able to train it back, unless you’d completely torn it through. Well as we’re talking about it, if I can get my hand in your arse easily, is continence an issue? Genuine question. It’s all about doing it right. Here’s how I normally explain it. Make the comparison to a gymnast training to do the splits. They train correctly, over how longer time they’re bodies need to progress without injury. Slowly increasing they’re strength and flexibility at they go. Now if they were to just try and force themselves into the splits from day one, no listening to they’re body, just going as far as they’re pain tolerance will allow, well they would be at high risk of an injury. Same with anal, just a different muscle group. I have a saying, enjoy the journey not just the destination. Anal training inniys self is a lot of fun. Just cause you/they might want to be fisted, does mean you/they have to rush to get there. The only partner that I’ve had, that’s had issues. Thought it was really clever to force in anything that would physically fit, despite me telling her otherwise, she thought it was fun and clever. She was a masochist and enjoyed the pain. And yes, she did get a prolaps, but she learnt her lesson, slowed down, trainer her arse and now has zero problems and can still take a fist. Thanks for this. Just want to make it clear, I DO NOT want to be fisted. In any orifice. It’s a fab friend who loves it. I can’t speak to how long it took her to get there." Fab friend that loves anal fisting? Feel free to introduce her lol. | |||
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"It's the best - definitely my main fetish... I just so wish that there were more anal-only people about...! " Would be happy with this! Have had a similar arrangement in the past with a girlfriend, we rarely ever had vaginal sex. After a while she stopped taking the pill and we went anal only. It worked for both of us very well. | |||
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"Wish I enjoyed it, I have such an amazing arse " You sure do | |||
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"I love it, but definitely no fisting as I like it tight and so do the guys. " Very much same here x | |||
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" I’ve been taking it up the arse for years with no ill effects, only awesome orgasms. " Same here! Oh and welcome back! | |||
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"Such a turn on and gives intense orgasms " Oh the orgasms are amazing x | |||
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" I’ve been taking it up the arse for years with no ill effects, only awesome orgasms. Same here! Oh and welcome back!" Thank you. Had to bring this arse back for some more fucking. Seemed rude not to | |||
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"Wish I enjoyed it, I have such an amazing arse " You sure do! | |||
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"What’s best position for receiving anal? " On top is good for the orgasm. On my front, one leg up a bit with his full weight on me feels really good. Oh, and pull my hair a bit too | |||
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"What’s best position for receiving anal? " Personally I prefer to be on my back with my bum at the edge of the bed and my legs over their shoulders although being in a sex sling works pretty well also. | |||
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"I love it, but definitely no fisting as I like it tight and so do the guys. " You can do it and still be tight. I've had guys coming just from the sensations I can give them. Its all about training. Its as close to the gym as I get! | |||
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"It's the best - definitely my main fetish... I just so wish that there were more anal-only people about...! " You don’t have to ask me twice ...women put your lovely ass in front of me & im in there | |||
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"R doesn’t like it I don’t think How do I make him want to fuck my ass? G x" Blindfold, restraints and ride him cowboy. By the time he's in he'll not want to stop. Although you might want to do a little preparation work first | |||
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"R doesn’t like it I don’t think How do I make him want to fuck my ass? G x" Let him see how much you enjoy it when one of us fucks it | |||
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"What’s best position for receiving anal? " Most positions work well - of course plain ol missionary is when I am on my front... I love sitting on him first - especially if he is above average size. I have full control to start with until I loosen up. Then doggy, edge of bed, spoon, side with one of my legs lifted.... the limit is your imagination... But my favourite is on my back... I can frigg myself and watch his cum face as I squeeze my well exercised spincter round his fucking cock... and then he makes me squirt an amazing orgasm... | |||
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"It's the best - definitely my main fetish... I just so wish that there were more anal-only people about...! heavily into anal here " You two look like loads of fun | |||
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