FabSwingers.com forum: On a meet..

By *rs mischief OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Do you get dressed up for the occasion? I love to look nicev as if I was on a night out. Nails hair clothes. Club meets are the same as hotel or home meets. What does everyone else do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should get dressed up. First impressions and all that.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’m usually dressed up although I do like more relaxed meets with people I’ve known a while too.

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

Yes - dress up - make an effort.

I think it also shows how much effort they are likely to put in when in private lol...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Go with the ‘just got off the sofa’ look....as in clean jeans and tee shirt!

Accept me for who I am or beggar off....

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By *rspecs95Man
over a year ago

hayes

Always dress to impress for the first meet then keep to standard the woman sets so she never feels over/under dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like getting dressed up, it's part of the fore play and the enjoyment of meeting new people

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Always make an effort - shower/shave etc - dress smart casual - is as much about me "feeling" my best as looking my best

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By *017chesterladMan
over a year ago

chester

Make an effort. Always makes me feel more confident when I look and smell nice

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By *rs mischief OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"I’m usually dressed up although I do like more relaxed meets with people I’ve known a while too. "

I'm. Hoping mine will lead that way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend 2 hours getting ready for a mwet

Love it ...

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Do you get dressed up for the occasion? I love to look nicev as if I was on a night out. Nails hair clothes. Club meets are the same as hotel or home meets. What does everyone else do?

It's gotta be dress to impress. You obviously get that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always get dressed up

Makes me feel good x

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Come in a black bag.. ur winning x

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I like getting dressed up, it's part of the fore play and the enjoyment of meeting new people "

NUFC kit. Love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wifey will only meet dressed to impress....nothing else will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to spend ages getting ready when they never turn up are you mad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh crap, was wearing my pyjamas for this morning's meet. Oh well, he took them off quite quickly

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Dress to impress, not interested in people at clubs who haven’t made the effort. We do & appreciate others that do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make a effort. Hair, nails, makeup. Freshly washed and bits shaved. Lingerie and a pretty dress

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Always make an effort ... planning tomorrow’s outfit now .... for tomorrow’s meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there lucky I may fabreeze my cock

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Oh crap, was wearing my pyjamas for this morning's meet. Oh well, he took them off quite quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message asking to meet there and then. I said I was going to work, I wouldn't have went any way but surely guys know it takes us at least an hour to get ready

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I make an effort all the time, not just for a meet. I always try to look presentable and well turned out.

My dad always said you never know who you will run into each day, always feel good, and like you made an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like getting dressed up, it's part of the fore play and the enjoyment of meeting new people

NUFC kit. Love it!!"

Ha'way the lads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make an effort all the time, not just for a meet. I always try to look presentable and well turned out.

My dad always said you never know who you will run into each day, always feel good, and like you made an effort.

Always make the effort you never know who and when someone catches the eye

Even a trip to asda can be a flirt fest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, does anyone not make an effort when going to meet a new person?

Actually scrub that, I've been doing this long enough to have met some that don't

Me, I can spend three hours or more getting ready if I have time. Maybe less for an afternoon social meet but luckily I'm effortlessly gorgeous anyway.

#selfdeprecatingsatire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on where we are meeting......

If it’s a regular and I’m going to their home or hotel... I have showed up in pajamas or gym clothes.

If it’s someone new. I will show up in jeans , loafers , dinner jacket with pocket square....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like getting dressed up, it's part of the fore play and the enjoyment of meeting new people

NUFC kit. Love it!!"

Thanks, and I am a long way from home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turning up and smelling like a tramps bollock is a definite no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always make an effort it's rude not to

Remember one of our first visits to a club one guy hadn't even washed his hands and he was a farmer then seemed surprised we weren't interested

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"I make an effort all the time, not just for a meet. I always try to look presentable and well turned out.

My dad always said you never know who you will run into each day, always feel good, and like you made an effort.

Your dad's advice nails it. I always make an effort where ever I go.

Shame some of the guys don't

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

My wife and I always make an effort when meeting for the first time. Even if she is nude apart from stockings and heels. Lol

We went to a club meet a month or so ago and this middle aged guy arrived wearing a pair of saggy jeans and an old tshirt. None too clean.

Wtf?

Why pay £30 or £40 and not bother to make an effort. Needless to say not one female was tempted to speak to him let alone anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make an effort, even if it’s just a social I go all out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear my smart/best clothes. Like to make a good impression

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By *ixfootinthecityMan
over a year ago

South East

What is ‘make an effort’ and ‘dress to impress’ to you guys?

Clean, showered, body/facial hair trimmed or shaved to the way you prefer it, a spritz of scent...these should all be a given surely, but what beyond that?

I think personal dress codes for dates and clubs outside the swinging scene varies pretty wildly between geographical, age and social demographics. It would be interesting to hear what YOU expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't overdo it. Heels cripple me and I look awful in a dress.

I go for bathed and casual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is ‘make an effort’ and ‘dress to impress’ to you guys?

Clean, showered, body/facial hair trimmed or shaved to the way you prefer it, a spritz of scent...these should all be a given surely, but what beyond that?

I think personal dress codes for dates and clubs outside the swinging scene varies pretty wildly between geographical, age and social demographics. It would be interesting to hear what YOU expect. "

I would like the man to not turn up wearing dirty, tatty trainers. Other than that, whatever he feels comfy in that's clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely expect an effort to be made. Turned a chap away at the door before who hadn’t !

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By *rs mischief OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

And then your blocked no reason / excuse..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be so disappointed if in a meet we got the impression somebody hadnt made an adequate effort

Probably a 1st impression game changer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go the whole hog, even for a social. I enjoy the build up to it. Getting ready is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned up once to meet a couple after work in a three piece suit.

They were sitting at the bar in tank top, shorts , sandals and both covered in tattoos and piercings.

I’m sure the people in bar thought I was their lawyer or accountant...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I turned up once to meet a couple after work in a three piece suit.

They were sitting at the bar in tank top, shorts , sandals and both covered in tattoos and piercings.

I’m sure the people in bar thought I was their lawyer or accountant..."

Ha ha !!! Brilliant

My wife will spend hours getting ready , stockings , sexy dress , make up etc..... me ? a pair of joggers and a t shirt and I’m good to go

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