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By *aughtydesires OP Couple
over a year ago

North West

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have done will do...most people can act as grown ups, a fucks a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup, depending on the friends a few of my friends are swinging anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

friends with benefits yes

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No.

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

I would try not to. over the years of been sexually active I have slept with many of my friends. it dosn't always work out that well I have lost many friends because of sleeping with them.

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By *aughtydesires OP Couple
over a year ago

North West

I noticed that many couples here are looking first for a friendship relation and then, and only if ..they will go further having an intimate relationship with the other couple.. Maybe it's just me, but for us FRIEND and FRIENDSHIP it means a lot. Beyond the common interest in different subjects, not only in swinging, it means also trust, to be there for each other when it's necessary, to share the same vision about life and other stuff, to have more or less the same testes, and a lot of other such "little" things, which usually are develop in years. Can be someone named FRIEND without having there also some emotional involvement? And let's say, you will accept to play the game and you are ready to build a friendship relations, how much do you thing it will take until you reach the point when you cand say "We are friends!"? And finally, at that moment when you can describe your relationship with the other couple as being a truly friendship, you will go to fuck them, literally speaking? From our experience we can say that it wouldn't work. For that I ask.. would you fuck your friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed that many couples here are looking first for a friendship relation and then, and only if ..they will go further having an intimate relationship with the other couple.. Maybe it's just me, but for us FRIEND and FRIENDSHIP it means a lot. Beyond the common interest in different subjects, not only in swinging, it means also trust, to be there for each other when it's necessary, to share the same vision about life and other stuff, to have more or less the same testes, and a lot of other such "little" things, which usually are develop in years. Can be someone named FRIEND without having there also some emotional involvement? And let's say, you will accept to play the game and you are ready to build a friendship relations, how much do you thing it will take until you reach the point when you cand say "We are friends!"? And finally, at that moment when you can describe your relationship with the other couple as being a truly friendship, you will go to fuck them, literally speaking? From our experience we can say that it wouldn't work. For that I ask.. would you fuck your friends?"

can we be...well...erm...friends...just cos i wanna fuck ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the situation and people. I've been involved in the BDSM scene for a long time now, most of my friends I have met through BDSM in some form or another, some are best, close friends, who I would trust with my life, know everything about them and vice versa.

Would I fuck them, well I've fucked some of them, others I haven't (my BEST friend for example, that would be like fucking my brother, just too weird)

I prefer to have some form of friendship with people that I am inviting into my home, or who's home I'm visiting. This might just be as an acquaintance, but I do like the social interaction as much as anything, hence the people I get on better with are people who are similar to us in outlook etc..

If we are in a club, totally different matter, I have no need to build any form of relationship with someone to fuck them there.

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I have done in the past but my experience was that it usually complicated things too much and ruined the friendship. Nowadays i keep my sex life strictly seporate from my frendships, seems to work out better in the long run!

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Now have some friends who we met as swingers and now socialise with more than shag, so yes, I suppose so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmm do you mean AGAIN

hey hey xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldnt.. if they are just my friends, then they are just my friends because I dont see them in a sexual way.

Cali

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

No

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By *in4sumMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Yes

and they're still friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn`t fuck with a good friendship..

No way..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we fucked when were both friends at school... we been married 20 years now ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would never fuck friend from my normal life

to be honest its just not worth the hassle and loss of friendship

if i meet someone off here and things dont work out as planned thats ok because i dont have to see them again

if you fuck someone from your everyday life and things dont do as you hoped it could be very awkward

theres enough people on here to meet without risking a friendship

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

no, cos its only sex after all

friendship is more important and not worth risking it going wrong over a fuck

not saying the thought has'nt cropped up though

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By *anderer2018Man
over a year ago

Bangkok

Yes. I have done before and will do again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Done it before and it totally messes things up.

Have made some great friends swinging but I _iew them as very much a different part of my life.

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

No, but swingers have turned into JUST friends after meeting

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester

Well enough booze and enough laughing and it tends to happen if i like it or not

but it's easy to just spend a few days apart and slip back into friendship mose so it's fine with me

Peace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are only interested in playing with folk that we can form a friendship with.

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By *obyorkMan
over a year ago

Keighley

What friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are only interested in playing with folk that we can form a friendship with."

forming a freindship with people you play with isnt the same as playing with friends tho

i just think if you played with a friend and they took it as something else it would be very hard to say to them...look you was just a fuck

i think you'd have to be a very cold person to do that

where as people on here know they are just a fuck so if they fell for me it would be their own fault for over stepping the mark

where as i care more about my friends feeling so think its best to just stay clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have fucked with good friends who have become even better friends.

And fucked with swingers who have become great friends.

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By *on101bristolMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Not with a vanilla friend.

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

Yes! And it hasn't been a problem. It does of course depend on the situation, circumstances, and the person involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

But there again I don't have any vanilla friends lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but swingers have turned into JUST friends after meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends are friends - a fuck is a fuck

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Do all the time, its one of the best things about swinging to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends are friends - a fuck is a fuck

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Sounds about right to me

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We have vanilla friends and swinging friends - people we met through swinging who have become our good friends.

We have only suggested sex to one of our vanilla friends, who we both fancied and was giving signs that she might be interested in a 3some. When it came to it, she didn't want to go through with it. We wouldn't ask a vanilla friend again. Best to keep the categories separate!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Our everyday 'vanilla' friends, no we wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's happened twice - once with a female friend & colleague and once with a male friend

alcohol was involved in both cases and all parties were equally mortified the morning after

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By *G and R18Couple
over a year ago

Retford

our first mmf was with one of kev's friends who we'd shared a house with many moons ago. i found him attractive so we all went for it. result, amazing sex plus kev and him are pals again after drifting apart. answer for us, sure in some circumstances.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Not with a 'vanilla' friend, tried it and it never works out well with me.

Rather meet on here and if friendship follows, that's great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not for me .... been down that road and someone always ends up getting hurt .

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My vanilla friends I dont look at in the same way as my swing friends. Boundaries for me are important

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I happily shagged with most of my male friends when I was 17-23. Have never yet lost a friendship because we had sex. I am still friends with many of them...and over the years have attended most of their weddings, and more recently their kids 18/21st birthday parties and sometimes their kids weddings too.

In recent years the new friends I have made have started off as swinging meets or folks I met at swinging socials, so the sex came first and then friendship developed. Some I continue to have sex with, others have become purely friends. I don't feel the need to keep friends from swinging away from other people in my life. Whilst I wouldn't want to introduce everyone I've played with to my family and non-swinging friends, once a friendship develops with a swinger I am quite happy for them to meet other friends, family and neighbours.

Since first becoming sexually active as a teenager I've never felt the need to discuss my sex life with family/friends and just because I'm now a swinger, that hasn't changed.

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