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"Right I'm gonna bite the bullet and go for it next weekend, been saying I'll go for a while but keep bottling it, just don't know what to expect or what to wear or anything. Can Anyone help? "firstly dont expect anything lol just treat the bar like any other bar, chat to people, i wouldnt recomend you start touching women up at the bar as most dont really like that best thing to do is just go and be yourself, talk to people and see what happens Ive been a few times and not played, it just does not always work out but if you dont dont let that put you off going again its just how some nights go you may find it a little cliquie, tho most dont mean to be its just human nature to talk to 'friends' but if you make the effort to talk most will chat back, but as a new single guy i would say you will have to make the effort, people wont just come over and talk to you | |||
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"Right I'm gonna bite the bullet and go for it next weekend, been saying I'll go for a while but keep bottling it, just don't know what to expect or what to wear or anything. Can Anyone help?
firstly dont expect anything lol
just treat the bar like any other bar, chat to people, i wouldnt recomend you start touching women up at the bar as most dont really like that
best thing to do is just go and be yourself, talk to people and see what happens
Ive been a few times and not played, it just does not always work out but if you dont dont let that put you off going again its just how some nights go
you may find it a little cliquie, tho most dont mean to be its just human nature to talk to 'friends' but if you make the effort to talk most will chat back, but as a new single guy i would say you will have to make the effort, people wont just come over and talk to you"Couldn't have put it any better | |||
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"Right I'm gonna bite the bullet and go for it next weekend, been saying I'll go for a while but keep bottling it, just don't know what to expect or what to wear or anything. Can Anyone help?
firstly dont expect anything lol
just treat the bar like any other bar, chat to people, i wouldnt recomend you start touching women up at the bar as most dont really like that
best thing to do is just go and be yourself, talk to people and see what happens
Ive been a few times and not played, it just does not always work out but if you dont dont let that put you off going again its just how some nights go
you may find it a little cliquie, tho most dont mean to be its just human nature to talk to 'friends' but if you make the effort to talk most will chat back, but as a new single guy i would say you will have to make the effort, people wont just come over and talk to you
Couldn't have put it any better"yep all of the above | |||
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"Yeah I gave them a call and a few friends on here from up north have recommended me do they are happy to take me if you know what I mean. The gave me a membership fee then a visit fee x"Well, on a thread only a couple of weeks ago the Chams Clique were swearing blind that there was a big queue for single guys membership. http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/74188 People didn't believe me when I said that I wasn't told of the waiting list for membership, and poured cold water on the theory that if your face fited you didn't have to worry about the queue. Seems what you have been told over the phone kind of backs up the theory that there isn't really a waiting list, or if there is, and your face fits, you can still jump the queue. | |||
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"Yeah I gave them a call and a few friends on here from up north have recommended me do they are happy to take me if you know what I mean. The gave me a membership fee then a visit fee x
Well, on a thread only a couple of weeks ago the Chams Clique were swearing blind that there was a big queue for single guys membership.
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/74188
People didn't believe me when I said that I wasn't told of the waiting list for membership, and poured cold water on the theory that if your face fited you didn't have to worry about the queue.
Seems what you have been told over the phone kind of backs up the theory that there isn't really a waiting list, or if there is, and your face fits, you can still jump the queue.
"Big difference (over the fact that you are still whinging about it) is that he has been recommended by people (I say people and not person). He will visit the first time as a guest, on their recommendation, only then will he be invited to join as a full member if there is a space available. Big difference here is, he's not whinging about it but asking how he should behave and for advice. Thats goes along way to being given a membership other than just turning up and expecting to get in and then throwing toys out of the proverbial pram. | |||
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"Yeah I gave them a call and a few friends on here from up north have recommended me do they are happy to take me if you know what I mean. The gave me a membership fee then a visit fee x
Well, on a thread only a couple of weeks ago the Chams Clique were swearing blind that there was a big queue for single guys membership.
http://www..com/forum/swingers/74188
People didn't believe me when I said that I wasn't told of the waiting list for membership, and poured cold water on the theory that if your face fited you didn't have to worry about the queue.
Seems what you have been told over the phone kind of backs up the theory that there isn't really a waiting list, or if there is, and your face fits, you can still jump the queue.
Big difference (over the fact that you are still whinging about it) is that he has been recommended by people (I say people and not person).
He will visit the first time as a guest, on their recommendation, only then will he be invited to join as a full member if there is a space available.
Big difference here is, he's not whinging about it but asking how he should behave and for advice.
Thats goes along way to being given a membership other than just turning up and expecting to get in and then throwing toys out of the proverbial pram."i do wonder at how naive ,or entitled some men are...so am going to be blunt for the hard of understanding...... It is an environment with naked women,naked womem with legs open,naked women with cocks in their mouths,naked women being fucked by 3,4,5 men at a time,naked women who when they say no,its no. Can you blame clubs for wanting to know a guy can stop,move away and be polite about it ? Clubf has a policy of only allowing known single men on a saturday night,some men bitch, i say,why have you created a bad impression? Frankly a few men throwing their toys out of the pram in order to protect the women who swing(and i am not saying women dont need to be responsible too)is a reasonable price to pay imo. | |||
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"Right I'm gonna bite the bullet and go for it next weekend, been saying I'll go for a while but keep bottling it, just don't know what to expect or what to wear or anything. Can Anyone help?
firstly dont expect anything lol
just treat the bar like any other bar, chat to people, i wouldnt recomend you start touching women up at the bar as most dont really like that
best thing to do is just go and be yourself, talk to people and see what happens
Ive been a few times and not played, it just does not always work out but if you dont dont let that put you off going again its just how some nights go
you may find it a little cliquie, tho most dont mean to be its just human nature to talk to 'friends' but if you make the effort to talk most will chat back, but as a new single guy i would say you will have to make the effort, people wont just come over and talk to you"this is great advice and i am the same when i go | |||
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"Yeah I gave them a call and a few friends on here from up north have recommended me do they are happy to take me if you know what I mean. The gave me a membership fee then a visit fee x
Well, on a thread only a couple of weeks ago the Chams Clique were swearing blind that there was a big queue for single guys membership.
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/74188
People didn't believe me when I said that I wasn't told of the waiting list for membership, and poured cold water on the theory that if your face fited you didn't have to worry about the queue.
Seems what you have been told over the phone kind of backs up the theory that there isn't really a waiting list, or if there is, and your face fits, you can still jump the queue.
"with the negativity you have shown about chams and guess what people ffrom the site are members from here and do read forums 
i wouldnt let you in as a guest or otherwise with how you are being. after all its their business they dont need more crap | |||
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"Yeah I gave them a call and a few friends on here from up north have recommended me do they are happy to take me if you know what I mean. The gave me a membership fee then a visit fee x
Well, on a thread only a couple of weeks ago the Chams Clique were swearing blind that there was a big queue for single guys membership.
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/74188
People didn't believe me when I said that I wasn't told of the waiting list for membership, and poured cold water on the theory that if your face fited you didn't have to worry about the queue.
Seems what you have been told over the phone kind of backs up the theory that there isn't really a waiting list, or if there is, and your face fits, you can still jump the queue.
Big difference (over the fact that you are still whinging about it) is that he has been recommended by people (I say people and not person).
He will visit the first time as a guest, on their recommendation, only then will he be invited to join as a full member if there is a space available.
Big difference here is, he's not whinging about it but asking how he should behave and for advice.
Thats goes along way to being given a membership other than just turning up and expecting to get in and then throwing toys out of the proverbial pram."Why would the OP say he was "given a membership fee and a visit fee" if he was visiting as a guest and not going to be a member? | |||
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" Why would the OP say he was "given a membership fee and a visit fee" if he was visiting as a guest and not going to be a member?" as they will always tell you the price if you ask x | |||
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" Also is saturday couples only ? sue After 7pm yes." and single women can go | |||
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"Thanks peeps really appreciate ur feedback, Yeah I'm just gonna treat as a social. As I have such a laugh at them" anything else is a bonus
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"Thanks peeps really appreciate ur feedback, Yeah I'm just gonna treat as a social. As I have such a laugh at them anything else is a bonus
let me know when your going and if im going ill make sure im somewhere u can find me "Lol will do n I'll hold u too that  x | |||
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"Thanks peeps really appreciate ur feedback, Yeah I'm just gonna treat as a social. As I have such a laugh at them anything else is a bonus
let me know when your going and if im going ill make sure im somewhere u can find me
Lol will do n I'll hold u too that x"i normally go the odd friday or sunday or socials | |||
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"Yeah I gave them a call and a few friends on here from up north have recommended me do they are happy to take me if you know what I mean. The gave me a membership fee then a visit fee x
Well, on a thread only a couple of weeks ago the Chams Clique were swearing blind that there was a big queue for single guys membership.
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/74188
People didn't believe me when I said that I wasn't told of the waiting list for membership, and poured cold water on the theory that if your face fited you didn't have to worry about the queue.
Seems what you have been told over the phone kind of backs up the theory that there isn't really a waiting list, or if there is, and your face fits, you can still jump the queue.
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