FabSwingers.com forum: will i lose my virginity?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*hope no ones getting annoyed with me posting in the forums*

hi i just wondered if there was much of a chance of me actually losing my virginity on here , i know alot of people are lookinf for experienced males on here so just would like to know .. please be nice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go on then, i'll put ya outta your misery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A virgin on a swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooo virgin

strap on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not a race mate take your time have fun and be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

likelihood of you loosing your virginity on an internet forum.. 0%.. likelihood of you meeting someone on here that might want to have sex with you, significantly higher but no garantee... if u just wanna loose it, go to a club, pick up a d*unk chick and dont tell her your a virgin..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i dont JUST want to lose my virginty no.. im not looking to just pleasure myself im here to also pleasure others... ive always wanted to be a swinger thats why i joined..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont JUST want to lose my virginty no.. im not looking to just pleasure myself im here to also pleasure others... ive always wanted to be a swinger thats why i joined.."

save up some pennies then and get ur bum to a club

be nice to the ladies and respectful to the men and you just might get your wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont JUST want to lose my virginty no.. im not looking to just pleasure myself im here to also pleasure others... ive always wanted to be a swinger thats why i joined.."

i think ur a confused lad mate. no offence

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i dont think the chances are high hun.You say you always wanted to be a swinger...yet you are still a virgin.i know a few people well who have had unconventional sex lives since their teens,including myself.The thing we all have in common is we were out there having unconventional sex lives,not on line.

Another problem is most women on here are looking for better sex than they can get in a d*unken night in a pub...which means they rate experience.You may find someone who has a virgin fantasy...i think thats your best hope.

My advice,think about why you are a virgin...if you are highly sexed (and which swinger isnt)why haven't you lost it already,and what attracts you about swinging?

Also if you want to loose it in a non pressure enviroment consider an escort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can just imagine it

what would u like to do

"ive always wanted to be a swinger"

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"can just imagine it

what would u like to do

"ive always wanted to be a swinger"

i think he needs to unpack what he thinks swinger represents to him.i was writing (frankly appalling)stories at 15 about having 3somes with 2 gay men...so i married a bi man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i wont post on here in future, i wanted advice and it seems to be that i can messages treating me like im a div basically, i know what swinging is about and i am not like a d*unken 1 night stand and im also not just wanting to lose my virginity on here all im saying is will i? i could lose it anywhere im not syaing im going to lose it on here and ive joined just to lose it,, i was just asking that was all..

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By *rummpsMan
over a year ago

thanet

I may be being cynical but I find it difficult to believe that a 23 yr old guy from a big city like Leicester who professes to like giving oral hasn’t actually dipped his wick yet.

I don’t know Leicester but I’m sure that like most cities there would be a fair smattering of clubs and bars. Its an old cliché but you should get out more.

No offence meant by that but seek and ye shall find.

_rummps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll lose your marbles on here before your virginity!

You will probably get more action on facebook as this seems to be the place for the younger generations to connect for sex.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"i wont post on here in future, i wanted advice and it seems to be that i can messages treating me like im a div basically, i know what swinging is about and i am not like a d*unken 1 night stand and im also not just wanting to lose my virginity on here all im saying is will i? i could lose it anywhere im not syaing im going to lose it on here and ive joined just to lose it,, i was just asking that was all.."

Did you read what i wrote?You say you know what swinging is...what attracts you about it...what have you done out there to have sexual adventures...i think you need to consider these issues.

no one has said you are a div,several of us have said you seem confused.

People also answered your question,including me, i just thought you might appreciate some wider advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont want to seem like an old "Ah tells tha now" bloke but wouldnt you be better of going out, getting d*unk, and seeing where you end up?

Its still the easiest way, taht or find a nice local lass, I mean its your virginity afterall.

The way I lost mine still seems magical!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I may be being cynical but I find it difficult to believe that a 23 yr old guy from a big city like Leicester who professes to like giving oral hasn’t actually dipped his wick yet.

I don’t know Leicester but I’m sure that like most cities there would be a fair smattering of clubs and bars. Its an old cliché but you should get out more.

No offence meant by that but seek and ye shall find.

_rummps x

gotta disagree there. i know a 30 yr old lad that is a goodlooking guy and hes still a virgin. it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry man that was properly condecsending!!

Course you could lose your v on here, im sure to some woman it'd be a delight

But like the rest of us dont lose heart at knockbacks, realise that all women are individual in what there needs and wants and have a little patients.

Stay on the forums too bro youll loe it!!

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By *rummpsMan
over a year ago

thanet

"I may be being cynical but I find it difficult to believe that a 23 yr old guy from a big city like Leicester who professes to like giving oral hasn’t actually dipped his wick yet.

I don’t know Leicester but I’m sure that like most cities there would be a fair smattering of clubs and bars. Its an old cliché but you should get out more.

No offence meant by that but seek and ye shall find.

_rummps x

gotta disagree there. i know a 30 yr old lad that is a goodlooking guy and hes still a virgin. it happens"

I did say I was probably being cynical.

Sure there are guys and girls out there that would prefer to save themselves for the ‘right one’ but I’d doubt many of them would join swingers site or would have ever given oral.

_rummps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

again each is an individual case. until you know the back story keep an open mind about things

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"i wont post on here in future,.... "

Just learn to roll with the punches mate.

Good things come to those who wait...... so the seller on ebay keeps telling me.

PS: ppssst... use the forums for a laugh and the profile searches for meeting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I may be being cynical but I find it difficult to believe that a 23 yr old guy from a big city like Leicester who professes to like giving oral hasn’t actually dipped his wick yet.

I don’t know Leicester but I’m sure that like most cities there would be a fair smattering of clubs and bars. Its an old cliché but you should get out more.

No offence meant by that but seek and ye shall find.

_rummps x

gotta disagree there. i know a 30 yr old lad that is a goodlooking guy and hes still a virgin. it happens

I did say I was probably being cynical.

Sure there are guys and girls out there that would prefer to save themselves for the ‘right one’ but I’d doubt many of them would join swingers site or would have ever given oral.

_rummps x"

He may find talking to women in clubs far too daunting. And if you cant do it when your tipsy theres no chance of doing it with a pretty girl at the bus stop or in the chippy. I know a coupe of guys like that.

Your right though he coulda also be an evil genius, cos this would be one hell of a thread for selling a niche.

Benifit of the doubt for me!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"again each is an individual case. until you know the back story keep an open mind about things

This mate of yours... is he one of those "I was asking for a friend" type mates?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"again each is an individual case. until you know the back story keep an open mind about things

This mate of yours... is he one of those "I was asking for a friend" type mates?"

u can make ur own mind up about tht

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"again each is an individual case. until you know the back story keep an open mind about things

This mate of yours... is he one of those "I was asking for a friend" type mates?

u can make ur own mind up about tht"

OK. It was the 'good looking' bit which threw me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"again each is an individual case. until you know the back story keep an open mind about things

This mate of yours... is he one of those "I was asking for a friend" type mates?

u can make ur own mind up about tht

OK. It was the 'good looking' bit which threw me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the op and presumed it was a joke. I did not actually think that he was trying to lose his virginity here, I felt it was a pisstake !

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By *exyasMan
over a year ago

glasgow

just put it on santa list this year he might even send you pack of condoms(flavoured it your luckier) and make your wish come true........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well you might do i have been on this site for over 2 years and i am a virgin and i still am

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"You'll lose your marbles on here before your virginity!

You will probably get more action on facebook as this seems to be the place for the younger generations to connect for sex."

Really?? Facebook.?? So that's where I am going wrong lol.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I may be being cynical but I find it difficult to believe that a 23 yr old guy from a big city like Leicester who professes to like giving oral hasn’t actually dipped his wick yet.

I don’t know Leicester but I’m sure that like most cities there would be a fair smattering of clubs and bars. Its an old cliché but you should get out more.

No offence meant by that but seek and ye shall find.

_rummps x

gotta disagree there. i know a 30 yr old lad that is a goodlooking guy and hes still a virgin. it happens

I did say I was probably being cynical.

Sure there are guys and girls out there that would prefer to save themselves for the ‘right one’ but I’d doubt many of them would join swingers site or would have ever given oral.

_rummps x

Your right though he coulda also be an evil genius, cos this would be one hell of a thread for selling a niche.

Benifit of the doubt for me!

The thing is if you find approaching a girl in a club too daunting then i would consider whether swinging was for you...the point i was trying to make.i think its a general rule of fun that those who are successful out there are sucessful in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol part of me always wonders when i see guys saying they are virgins on here if its just and angle hoping to get laid lol, thats just the cynic in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what advice can we give, its a yes or no question you've asked.

no one can say if anyone will get a meet, its just how you present your profile and messages and who you contact that dictates that.

if you want it to mean something then i dont think swingings the way to make it special, if ur a virgin and like the idea of swinging i guess most guys do to be honest, its probs part of enjoying porno that brings it on, but not many couples are really going to want to swing with someone whos not done it before, and if they did im sure it be a little daunting when you actually came with the reality of what you were doing when its crunch time!

in most cases what you see and fantaise with through porn is quite different in real life as its their jobs to fuck and at least look like they are enjoying it, when your doing it with new people theirs many more elements such as feelings and boundaries and even whos in control of everything that can make or break an expierence, espieacially if your the 3rd wheel

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

So, 23 years old you have always wanted to be a singer and already know you…

“like giving oral, and giving pleasure”

But still a virgin? Nah! It is one of two things: Either you are just saying it for effect and are hoping to get the “sympathy” or the clamor for a virgin vote or… You actually meant you are a “swinging Virgin” which is much more likely and understandable!

If it is the first, go to the pub, get fucked and have a bit of practice first.. The second option? Join what is a very long queue and take a number from the machine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, 23 years old you have always wanted to be a singer and already know you…

“like giving oral, and giving pleasure”

If it is the first, go to the pub, get fucked and have a bit of practice first.. The second option? Join what is a very long queue and take a number from the machine!

why cant you believe what he says...some guys out there are actually virgins...at least he has the balls to say he is..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

thought you had a meet the other week and thats what made you stay last time you threw your dummy out

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

thought you had a meet the other week and thats what made you stay last time you threw your dummy out

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

I am sure someone will come and help you out.

We don't meet single men but if I was a single I would come help you out. I have slept with a number of virgins including my hubby.

you need a confident sexy lady to come and show you how it is done for, the memories make me smile remembering the (I think 7 or 8) men.

I do hope some one comes and helps you out good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am sure someone will come and help you out.

We don't meet single men but if I was a single I would come help you out. I have slept with a number of virgins including my hubby.

you need a confident sexy lady to come and show you how it is done for, the memories make me smile remembering the (I think 7 or 8) men.

I do hope some one comes and helps you out good look

if he were closer to me i would most certainly help him lol .....

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"why cant you believe what he says...some guys out there are actually virgins...at least he has the balls to say he is.."

Why question me? It is my opinion and I stick by it!

I am also a guy and I know that it is a rare guy who can go the oral route with women and stop there, even if he knows that is all there is! If you really believe that there is a pool of virgins out there and the way they want to lose it is to be a swinger.....

The problem as I see it is women think they know guys, but really they never will. What guys will say to get their leg over knows no bounds. Believe me, most guys have done it and those that haven't? Geeks, dorks or religeous and the OP is none of those!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why cant you believe what he says...some guys out there are actually virgins...at least he has the balls to say he is..

Why question me? It is my opinion and I stick by it!

your fully entitled to your opinion,as i am mine....and im pretty good at sussing guys out....trust me...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"why cant you believe what he says...some guys out there are actually virgins...at least he has the balls to say he is..

Why question me? It is my opinion and I stick by it!

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that and the fact it isnt rocket science to read his other threads and that he will say anything to get a shag

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"that and the fact it isnt rocket science to read his other threads and that he will say anything to get a shag"

That is true and also the wording of his profile makes no mention of something that he is later relying on in the forums!

Now where did I read:

"im pretty good at sussing guys out....trust me..."

I still think it is a "swing virgin" he meant...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that and the fact it isnt rocket science to read his other threads and that he will say anything to get a shag

That is true and also the wording of his profile makes no mention of something that he is later relying on in the forums!

Now where did I read:

"im pretty good at sussing guys out....trust me..."

I still think it is a "swing virgin" he meant..."

so no one can disagree with you hey ?..your always right...fair play to you,time will surely tell..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"that and the fact it isnt rocket science to read his other threads and that he will say anything to get a shag

That is true and also the wording of his profile makes no mention of something that he is later relying on in the forums!

Now where did I read:

"im pretty good at sussing guys out....trust me..."

I still think it is a "swing virgin" he meant..."
hes definetly not a swinging virgin. check his halloween thread. he clearly states he met a lovely woman and wants more

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"so no one can disagree with you hey ?..your always right...fair play to you,time will surely tell.."

Oh dear! No need to get all huffy! Of course you can disagree and no, I am a guy so I can't ever be right! I think you missed day 36 of the "How to be a woman" course!

But seriously, please don't take offence at anything I say (type)! These things we put down here are just our opinions and they are like arseholes.. Everyone will have a different one..

But I still don't believe him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so no one can disagree with you hey ?..your always right...fair play to you,time will surely tell..

Oh dear! No need to get all huffy! Of course you can disagree and no, I am a guy so I can't ever be right! I think you missed day 36 of the "How to be a woman" course!

But seriously, please don't take offence at anything I say (type)! These things we put down here are just our opinions and they are like arseholes.. Everyone will have a different one..

But I still don't believe him!

i dont get huffy....unlike some and i dislike those sort of presumptions and sexist remarks..

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"so no one can disagree with you hey ?..your always right...fair play to you,time will surely tell..

Oh dear! No need to get all huffy! Of course you can disagree and no, I am a guy so I can't ever be right! I think you missed day 36 of the "How to be a woman" course!

But seriously, please don't take offence at anything I say (type)! These things we put down here are just our opinions and they are like arseholes.. Everyone will have a different one..

But I still don't believe him!

i dont get huffy....unlike some and i dislike those sort of presumptions and sexist remarks.."

FFS!!! What have I done now???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so no one can disagree with you hey ?..your always right...fair play to you,time will surely tell..

Oh dear! No need to get all huffy! Of course you can disagree and no, I am a guy so I can't ever be right! I think you missed day 36 of the "How to be a woman" course!

But seriously, please don't take offence at anything I say (type)! These things we put down here are just our opinions and they are like arseholes.. Everyone will have a different one..

But I still don't believe him!

i dont get huffy....unlike some and i dislike those sort of presumptions and sexist remarks..

FFS!!! What have I done now???

how to be a woman course comes to mind..

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Suzy, you really do need to stop being defensive when someone posts their opinion. They are not getting at you, they are having an opinion just like you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suzy, you really do need to stop being defensive when someone posts their opinion. They are not getting at you, they are having an opinion just like you are."

ok point taken..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you prove your a virgin or you expecting sympathy fucks , could all be a devious ploy or not

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Obviously I don't know if what the OP is saying is true....but....him giving oral to a woman and not having full sex could well be true if the woman said that was all she wanted?

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"so no one can disagree with you hey ?..your always right...fair play to you,time will surely tell..

Oh dear! No need to get all huffy! Of course you can disagree and no, I am a guy so I can't ever be right! I think you missed day 36 of the "How to be a woman" course!

But seriously, please don't take offence at anything I say (type)! These things we put down here are just our opinions and they are like arseholes.. Everyone will have a different one..

But I still don't believe him!

i dont get huffy....unlike some and i dislike those sort of presumptions and sexist remarks..

FFS!!! What have I done now???

how to be a woman course comes to mind.."

Well, I am sorry if that came over as a serious comment! But I think that says more about you than it does about me!

You obviously don't like my posts (we have crossed keyboards before) and also have us blocked, so hows about we ignore each other in future? Your comments on this thread will be seen for what they are and I will apologise for any upset once more as I walk off into the sunset with my head held high...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so no one can disagree with you hey ?..your always right...fair play to you,time will surely tell..

Oh dear! No need to get all huffy! Of course you can disagree and no, I am a guy so I can't ever be right! I think you missed day 36 of the "How to be a woman" course!

But seriously, please don't take offence at anything I say (type)! These things we put down here are just our opinions and they are like arseholes.. Everyone will have a different one..

But I still don't believe him!

i dont get huffy....unlike some and i dislike those sort of presumptions and sexist remarks..

FFS!!! What have I done now???

how to be a woman course comes to mind..

Well, I am sorry if that came over as a serious comment! But I think that says more about you than it does about me!

your not blocked from me ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chuck a professional a few quid if u wanna lose it sharp`ish

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"chuck a professional a few quid if u wanna lose it sharp`ish

I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE IT "SHARPESH"!!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I've just had a quick look back at the threads that the op has started and I think the guy deserves a medal for his pure tenacity, he seems to have taken advice on board, taken some stick and seems to have remained for the most part, pretty tolerant and laidback. Keep with it and I'm sure you'll get yourself a meet. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate, honestly, if you really want to lose your virginity, this is not the place.

All the people here are experienced and will notice it was your first time!

It will sound like a stereotype but find yourself a girl in a bar or in a club and play the game of seduction : it might end up being a quick shag (and you'll get what you want) or a beautiful relationship...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about getting yourself along to a social? That way you can meet people and you may meet someone there who can help.

Good luck.

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By *rummpsMan
over a year ago

thanet

"chuck a professional a few quid if u wanna lose it sharp`ish

I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE IT "SHARPESH"!!!"

If you put up a thread asking if you will lose it then people are bound to assume you want to! Kapeesh!

_rummps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, the OP wants to pop his cherry but is in no hurry to do so.

What you on here for then?

Wouldn't you better off going to the pub or local youth club and see if you can charm the birds there?

Y'know, you could be on here for years and not get a sniff, but scrub your nuts, hit the town and you just might end up with a chick on your arm and her knickers on your bedroom floor

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By *ickens CiderMan
over a year ago

taunton

Well where to start... virginity isn't a crime... swinging isn't either... wanting to lose one and try the other shouldn't be any great shakes?

Fantastic if you've great pride in your sexual conquests in life and want to tell everybody just how awesome you are and you could shag for Team GB in the 2012 sex olympics and come away with numerous gold medals... we'll all the respect in the world to you one and all...

But some of us in life aren't the fastest out of the starting blocks okay... who honestly gives a fig as to at what point in life or at what age or with whom... everybody or anybody lost their virginity? People just need to respect its different for everyone... swinging isn't a elite club? It caters for all kind of people... some will have meet after meet... others are out on the club scene week in week out... other have a once in a blue moon encounter to spice things up... others can't be out there all the time because of family needs... it's for singles... it's for couples... you can be straight, bi or gay... its for fat, slim, short and tall people... its for young and old... its for the brave and the bold... for nervous and shy people alike... but nobody should stop anyone having a go at it... if they want to try it?

I join fab with my virginity still in place... asked a question along the OP's line too as a newbie... got ripped to bits by some... got support and praise from others... but what the hell is wrong about being open and honest? NOTHING!

I got over the ribbing and I've enjoyed what I get out of fab as a site... I've had social meets... I've gone to a few clubs too and played to a certain level and really enjoyed myself... but guess what... I still had my virginity at that point still?

I lost it earlier this year and it was great fun... the deed was done... but not with anyone from fab... so I'm sorry I got bullied at school and lacked any confidence with the girls that thought I was just a tosser? Then after my school years it was full on Aids awareness and that scared the shit out of me... I'll wait for the right girl, the future Mrs. Me? Then life takes you where it does and what you've never had you'll never miss as they say... then without trying you're at an age where you think you've missed out on something? hum? So for me that was my wake up call and mini quest to lose what I hadn't lost? lol

But sexual I've always been happy and content... I'll be here for the time being... the forums are fun and interesting... yes, you need the thick skin and learn to take some knocks... the club scene and social meets are great fun too...

There is no right or wrong... just them, me, us and you? And none of us are any better than any other... everybody is equal! Some people have had more sex... some have had less and everybody at one point had or has had NONE!?

So forget the hang up over the state of play on your own scoreboard because in this day and age... Virgin was a music store... Virgin is an Airline... Virgin is TV and Media? Its a big business and not a condition to ever worry about... in regards to sex?!

If you drive a car you take lessons... (pre virginity fun and games... touching, feeling, watching, things become more advance...) until you then pass your driving test... (cool! you lose that virginity...) and then its just driving? lol there are good drivers and bad drivers... those that drive very few miles those that thousands of mile... those that hate driving and thoses that love it? But its just driving at the end of the day? (the same rules for sex... for work... for rest... and/or play?)

Sadly where not born with a handbook to figure life out... you learn it the hard way and there are fun ways along that route too... I learnt virginity is not worth worrying about... don't need to tell anyone and everyone... and if you do or did why should anyone have the right to lay into you... and make you feel like a nobody... just leave it to the one you take your test with lets say... you might just find they where surprised at just how good a "driver" you've become from all those driving lessons beforehand...

Good luck to the OP and ignore those here with driver rage lets say its not big and its not needed... drive safe out there boys and girls

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over a year ago

honest answer, most people would probably rather meet someone with a bit more experiance, when i look back to when i lost my virginity, well lets just say it wasnt the best shag of my life.

however i did say most people, there may well be some one who wants to teach and deflower you.

anyway best of british and all that, let us know how it goes, and hats of to you for your honesty

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Op..these forums belong to everyone on fab. Feel free to post away whenever your heart desires. I take each post at face value without research into profiles or previous posts. I will assume you are a virgin as that's what you say...innocent until proven guilty

I do feel a little sad for you that you want recreational sex instead of losing your virginity to someone you have feelings for...so making love rather than sex but ho hum its your dollar I guess. This is a tough way for young single guys to get laid and most probably don't manage it for various reasons. We only meet young singles and know something about it. Also, its more nerve racking this way, even for experienced guys. I do have a theory that some dont meet because in the back of their mind they aren't really up for it. Meeting a couple would probably be too much for you and meeting other singles isn't really swinging is it? Lol at replies......

In any case, I hope you find what it is you are looking for, whatever that is.

Mistress x

Ps personally find the thought of being in charge and instructing a hot virgin pretty horny...and I'm sure I'm not alone in this so you never know....

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