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The gangbang that wasn't!!

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By *oungLady OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outer Leeds

What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sucks, no shows are the worst!

Could you not of had fun with the 2 guys that were still coming?

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By *c4funMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Honestly can't believe anyone cancels on you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe expanding the age range would assist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor 2 guys for being stood up

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Just try a Greedy Girls night at a Swingers Club.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! "

I've organised a few. About 25% of those who say they will come actually turn up, so if you invited 10, you can expect seven or eight to cancel. If you want ten, you need to invite forty!

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By *traightguy101Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Some prefer the fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least they actually cancelled rather than just no showing

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Poor 2 guys for being stood up"

Other side of coin. ...

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Gangbangs are probably the top thing that guys find really hot in theory but bloody terrifying in reality.

Hence the signing up then pulling out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey love's join the club exactly the same with our last gangbang, plus I'd spent 2 day's baking cooking a buffet for the 10 gguy's who were "definitely attending ",,my poor husband had to have the food for almost a week for his pack up, so we're not going to bother again, ,flipping annoying though ,

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Oh thats a shame.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

The idea of a gang bang is sometimes more appealing than actually being involved in one. A load of guys standing around wanking and waiting for their turn isn't a huge turn on when you think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! "

Why did you cancel and let the 2 guys down?

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

May of all had a bbq instead as weather was nice today on Leeds lol.

Agree above maybe increase age range is of come but I'm 1 yr to old lol.

But seriously invite more next time and have a reserve list just incase of cancellations.

Think maybe those who cancelled could not go through with it and just fancied the idea of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes 3 men isn't quite enough

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

Why did you cancel and let the 2 guys down? "

Had to take their dissapointment on someone.....

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

Why did you cancel and let the 2 guys down? "

Because 2 guys is a threesome, not a gangbang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s where the veri’s come in useful, guys who have only one on one meets are more likely to cancel in theory.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"The idea of a gang bang is sometimes more appealing than actually being involved in one. A load of guys standing around wanking and waiting for their turn isn't a huge turn on when you think about it "

Yeah, you feel like you've got limited time with a hole. It's like when you used to put your last 20p in a phonebox and you could see the timer counting down.

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby


"The idea of a gang bang is sometimes more appealing than actually being involved in one. A load of guys standing around wanking and waiting for their turn isn't a huge turn on when you think about it

Yeah, you feel like you've got limited time with a hole. It's like when you used to put your last 20p in a phonebox and you could see the timer counting down. "

Haha that actually made me laugh out loud

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By *edonistic CPLCouple
over a year ago

Love


"The idea of a gang bang is sometimes more appealing than actually being involved in one. A load of guys standing around wanking and waiting for their turn isn't a huge turn on when you think about it "

Haha, totally see where you’re coming from.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

Why did you cancel and let the 2 guys down?

Because 2 guys is a threesome, not a gangbang."

First GB I organised with my FB, invited 12, 1 turned up.

We still had fun and didn't let anyone down.

Sometimes you have to go with the flow and change your plans and hope for better luck next time.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

Why did you cancel and let the 2 guys down? "

Perhaps because they were looking for a gang bang ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

Why did you cancel and let the 2 guys down?

Because 2 guys is a threesome, not a gangbang.

First GB I organised with my FB, invited 12, 1 turned up.

We still had fun and didn't let anyone down.

Sometimes you have to go with the flow and change your plans and hope for better luck next time."

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"2 left + you to? You could of enjoyed a nice spit roast? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always invite at least 50% more than wanted. You’ll always get time wasters.

Maybe these tips may help.

1. Ask to confirm by mobile call. Note number and save.

2. If fail to attend, block them and block number.

3. Book more in than needed, I’ve knly ever organised or attended 2 parties in 10 gets that have been overattended.

4. Try and do a Wednesday/Friday night meet in La Chambre/Quest etc. Put a meet up and ask them to provide names on door. Offer those attending who say they will a verification. The door will check off against a list.

Apart from that, expand your age range.

Have fun. Paul x

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

Why did you cancel and let the 2 guys down?

Because 2 guys is a threesome, not a gangbang.

First GB I organised with my FB, invited 12, 1 turned up.

We still had fun and didn't let anyone down.

Sometimes you have to go with the flow and change your plans and hope for better luck next time."

Well I'm sure your Duke of Edinburgh assessor will appreciate your community spirit, you didn't actually hold a gangbang.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"Gangbangs are probably the top thing that guys find really hot in theory but bloody terrifying in reality.

Hence the signing up then pulling out. "

I saw my fair share of that in my early days on Fabs. Tend to avoid GB’s now for a whole host of differing reasons.

General rule of thumb is to invite 4-5x the amount of guys you want. The vast majority will shoot off somewhere else and not over / in you

It’s a shame when it happens, would a club event / night help OP? Also maybe have online ticket sales say eventbrite? That way people pay a nominal sum to make sure they’re serious and will turn up... Also helps cover room cost if you decide to hold in a hotel etc.

Hope these help and good luck next time xx

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

feel for you

we have managed to set a couple up but failed a few times, the amount of dreamers on here is fucking unreal

no meets up and you get mail asking to meet,as soon as a meet goes up it is all quiet.

its just men living in a horned up fantasy world.

we go to a club now if we want fun. this site is not good for reliable meets

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

Why did you cancel and let the 2 guys down?

Because 2 guys is a threesome, not a gangbang.

First GB I organised with my FB, invited 12, 1 turned up.

We still had fun and didn't let anyone down.

Sometimes you have to go with the flow and change your plans and hope for better luck next time.

Well I'm sure your Duke of Edinburgh assessor will appreciate your community spirit, you didn't actually hold a gangbang."

Correct.

But that wasn't my point.

Never mind, men are a disposable commodity among couples here.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

Why did you cancel and let the 2 guys down?

Because 2 guys is a threesome, not a gangbang.

First GB I organised with my FB, invited 12, 1 turned up.

We still had fun and didn't let anyone down.

Sometimes you have to go with the flow and change your plans and hope for better luck next time.

Well I'm sure your Duke of Edinburgh assessor will appreciate your community spirit, you didn't actually hold a gangbang.

Correct.

But that wasn't my point.

Never mind, men are a disposable commodity among couples here. "

In my opinion, you had the ideal number anyway - MMF (or MMFF)

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"feel for you

we have managed to set a couple up but failed a few times, the amount of dreamers on here is fucking unreal

no meets up and you get mail asking to meet,as soon as a meet goes up it is all quiet.

its just men living in a horned up fantasy world.

we go to a club now if we want fun. this site is not good for reliable meets"

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

Why did you cancel and let the 2 guys down?

Because 2 guys is a threesome, not a gangbang.

First GB I organised with my FB, invited 12, 1 turned up.

We still had fun and didn't let anyone down.

Sometimes you have to go with the flow and change your plans and hope for better luck next time.

Well I'm sure your Duke of Edinburgh assessor will appreciate your community spirit, you didn't actually hold a gangbang.

Correct.

But that wasn't my point.

Never mind, men are a disposable commodity among couples here.

In my opinion, you had the ideal number anyway - MMF (or MMFF)"

It was certainly fun.

We're not against lower numbers.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


" hey love's join the club exactly the same with our last gangbang, plus I'd spent 2 day's baking cooking a buffet for the 10 gguy's who were "definitely attending ",,my poor husband had to have the food for almost a week for his pack up, so we're not going to bother again, ,flipping annoying though ,"

You get buffet at gang bangs? Why did no one tell me this earlier! I just thought it was a load of cocks. Didn't realise you got sausages on sticks too!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"Poor 2 guys for being stood up"

This

2 men and your oh would of still been good fun and you could of been air tight

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


" hey love's join the club exactly the same with our last gangbang, plus I'd spent 2 day's baking cooking a buffet for the 10 gguy's who were "definitely attending ",,my poor husband had to have the food for almost a week for his pack up, so we're not going to bother again, ,flipping annoying though ,

You get buffet at gang bangs? Why did no one tell me this earlier! I just thought it was a load of cocks. Didn't realise you got sausages on sticks too! "

So it was literally going to be a sausage fest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor 2 guys for being stood up

This

2 men and your oh would of still been good fun and you could of been air tight "

Dedinitely. I wouldn't be surprised if those two were more reluctant to respond to gangbang ads in future.

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We havve tried and failed to organise a gangbang on at least 5 or 6 occasions.

And been let down each and every time by the timewasting fantasists that abound on fab.

We are trying again to organise one but this is likely to be the last time.

Frankly i just cannot be bothered with all the time spent corresponding with the idiots who insist they are definitely up for it until they change their mind and suddenly they are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel more sorry for the 2 guys who turned up and then got nothing in return. Poor show!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel more sorry for the 2 guys who turned up and then got nothing in return. Poor show!"

Sadly typical of the single guy experience.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! "

Leeds is shit for single males right now. They all talk the talk but manage nothing else.

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By *iveshowcoupleCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

Leeds is shit for single males right now. They all talk the talk but manage nothing else."

Not just Leeds sadly.

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By *rated-BaconMan
over a year ago

medway

Get used to it, fab is fab like that lol

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! "

We have occasionally enjoyed meeting several guys for J to have fun with.

Having read many of the responses here to the OP I am amazed quite frankly.

The OP had arranged with 10 guys... 8 subsequently cancelled, so they themselves decided to cancel the meet & by implication notified the last 2 guys who may ...or may not have turned up on the night of course, in advance so they didn't make a wasted journey.

Yet the OP is run down here for not going through with the meet for the two remaining guys.

I'm quite frankly amazed ...but sadly not surprised!

Why the heck should they go through with something they were not looking for?

It is truly a nightmare arranging events like this. Just seems so few genuine folk on here who are what they say they are and are actually prepared to follow up on what they promise.

There really needs to be a system of recording here when guys are no shows. Not veris...that's different. We wouldn't mind if someone showed up & then says not for me. At least they've had the decency to follow through and be honest and we'd respect them for that.

Someone will now shout they always turn up. Well given the accepted norm for Fabs is: book 10 to get 2 or 3 shows, at least 70% to 80% of guys here are time wasters.....

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

We have occasionally enjoyed meeting several guys for J to have fun with.

Having read many of the responses here to the OP I am amazed quite frankly.

The OP had arranged with 10 guys... 8 subsequently cancelled, so they themselves decided to cancel the meet & by implication notified the last 2 guys who may ...or may not have turned up on the night of course, in advance so they didn't make a wasted journey.

Yet the OP is run down here for not going through with the meet for the two remaining guys.

I'm quite frankly amazed ...but sadly not surprised!

Why the heck should they go through with something they were not looking for?

It is truly a nightmare arranging events like this. Just seems so few genuine folk on here who are what they say they are and are actually prepared to follow up on what they promise.

There really needs to be a system of recording here when guys are no shows. Not veris...that's different. We wouldn't mind if someone showed up & then says not for me. At least they've had the decency to follow through and be honest and we'd respect them for that.

Someone will now shout they always turn up. Well given the accepted norm for Fabs is: book 10 to get 2 or 3 shows, at least 70% to 80% of guys here are time wasters....."

There is a system. Report.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Somewhere on Fab theres two blokes moaning about timewasting couples.

Wouldnt it be ironic if they reported the op for no-showing.......

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By *heblackmacMan
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.

Just by looking at your pictures,I wouldn't missed such a great meet.

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! "

Wow. The young lady is quite somthing. Sometimes men are just fools. But then i'm safe to say that as i'm outside the required age range

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

We have occasionally enjoyed meeting several guys for J to have fun with.

Having read many of the responses here to the OP I am amazed quite frankly.

The OP had arranged with 10 guys... 8 subsequently cancelled, so they themselves decided to cancel the meet & by implication notified the last 2 guys who may ...or may not have turned up on the night of course, in advance so they didn't make a wasted journey.

Yet the OP is run down here for not going through with the meet for the two remaining guys.

I'm quite frankly amazed ...but sadly not surprised!

Why the heck should they go through with something they were not looking for?

It is truly a nightmare arranging events like this. Just seems so few genuine folk on here who are what they say they are and are actually prepared to follow up on what they promise.

There really needs to be a system of recording here when guys are no shows. Not veris...that's different. We wouldn't mind if someone showed up & then says not for me. At least they've had the decency to follow through and be honest and we'd respect them for that.

Someone will now shout they always turn up. Well given the accepted norm for Fabs is: book 10 to get 2 or 3 shows, at least 70% to 80% of guys here are time wasters.....

There is a system. Report. "

A system that does not work

It needs a system where you can log cancelled in 24 hrs. Turned up not recommended. Recommended. Time waster etc

And no it won't be abused because this system us used on a model photographer page and it works.

Would filter out the 80 percent fuckwits on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hard to organise but as previously said at a club is better so can recruit some random to top up the no shows and only invite guys with a proven track record - showing in their verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done four males plus us and it was an absolute nightmare to arrange. The number who agreed to turn up was six. Once we gave them the address two blocked us and four turned up. All later than the agreed time. Was not enjoyable in truth. Maybe the anticipation is what most lads get off on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have helped organise several in the past. One 10 guys invited, 10 turned up. Other times only one turned up for two girls. We didn't cancel but had fun anyway.

Sometimes I think it can come down to timing. Weekends people are busy with family and vanilla friends which is when many choose to play. All the ones I have been involved with and been successful, apart from two were during the week.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

It isn't just a UK and FAB problem. No shows from single guys is endemic in the modern swinger world. In the past we have had similar situations in Germany and in Spain. It is one of the reasons we now only meet in clubs.

We think that it is down to most "single" guys on here, and other sites, are actually married and looking to sneak away from the Mrs for a quick fuck.

They will talk the talk and fantasise but when it comes down to the actual meet they either fail to find a good enough excuse to sneak off, loose their bottle when they think about the consequences of being caught, or get a pang of conscience.

I would bet that the vast majority of no shows would be covered by one of the above.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! "
By cancelling on the last two guys, made you as bad as the over no show.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Bottom line is I think most random guys who like the idea of a gang bang have no respect for the person/hole they are potentially going to fuck so they have no qualms about being late (like someone said above) or not turning up at all.

Clubs are your best bet for the real deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just by looking at your pictures,I wouldn't missed such a great meet."
lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! By cancelling on the last two guys, made you as bad as the over no show. "
I agree

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! By cancelling on the last two guys, made you as bad as the over no show. I agree"

Why?

They wanted a gangbang and it wasn't going to happen so they cancelled. Perfectly ok to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! "

Organise one in a club setting, more than likely to happen with people familiar with clashing swords

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

A few months ago I went to a bukkake party organised by a couple who are very experienced at setting up such parties.

Around 20 blokes turned up but I was staggered to find that they had 140 confirmed attendees!

Being old hands at this game they had guessed they would end up with around 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned up at a house for what should have been a mmmmf but none of the others turned up . Chatted to the nice couple for a bit then went on my way . Put me off going to any future potential meets of this kind .

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have only ever tried for group play once a d it failed ridiculously. Invited 8 that all confirmed and got 2.... Managed to get another two later but not from the original 8 lol

It makes it too much like hard work, i agree your better just going to clubs x

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By *entcockslutCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

We always have this problem we hate time wasters

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By *enshermanMan
over a year ago

Durham

A lot for men enjoy the fantasy of a gangbang but when it comes to the reality they bottle it. A good idea is to get mobile numbers off the man that say they'll attend. The fake one's wont give their mobile number. X

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! "

We arrange these all the time.. it’s very hard to judge the genuine guys and the ones who talk a good fuck.. my advise to u, go to a club or a party and ask the host to sort it when there.. I do this all the time.. couples come and the guys attending who are normally regulars to my parties are very helpful x win win xx

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By *ush fuckerMan
over a year ago

Wouldn’t You Like To Know

To many time wasters in here, well should I say to many males that think there gods gift to women, they must have 2 inch cocks and should have been called Justin lol ??

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

We have occasionally enjoyed meeting several guys for J to have fun with.

Having read many of the responses here to the OP I am amazed quite frankly.

The OP had arranged with 10 guys... 8 subsequently cancelled, so they themselves decided to cancel the meet & by implication notified the last 2 guys who may ...or may not have turned up on the night of course, in advance so they didn't make a wasted journey.

Yet the OP is run down here for not going through with the meet for the two remaining guys.

I'm quite frankly amazed ...but sadly not surprised!

Why the heck should they go through with something they were not looking for?

It is truly a nightmare arranging events like this. Just seems so few genuine folk on here who are what they say they are and are actually prepared to follow up on what they promise.

There really needs to be a system of recording here when guys are no shows. Not veris...that's different. We wouldn't mind if someone showed up & then says not for me. At least they've had the decency to follow through and be honest and we'd respect them for that.

Someone will now shout they always turn up. Well given the accepted norm for Fabs is: book 10 to get 2 or 3 shows, at least 70% to 80% of guys here are time wasters.....

There is a system. Report.

A system that does not work

It needs a system where you can log cancelled in 24 hrs. Turned up not recommended. Recommended. Time waster etc

And no it won't be abused because this system us used on a model photographer page and it works.

Would filter out the 80 percent fuckwits on here "

It's no more than one persons word against another and proves nothing.

Some people here are vindictive and immature and would use this system for their own twisted fun.

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I think you just have to accept there are time wasters about but over the years you get to know who is reliable. Then it becomes a word of mouth thing rather than checking verifications.

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London

I’ve had the same thing happen to me more than once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! "

So that makes you no better than the guys that let you down, did you concider they might be pissed off too.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

We have occasionally enjoyed meeting several guys for J to have fun with.

Having read many of the responses here to the OP I am amazed quite frankly.

The OP had arranged with 10 guys... 8 subsequently cancelled, so they themselves decided to cancel the meet & by implication notified the last 2 guys who may ...or may not have turned up on the night of course, in advance so they didn't make a wasted journey.

Yet the OP is run down here for not going through with the meet for the two remaining guys.

I'm quite frankly amazed ...but sadly not surprised!

Why the heck should they go through with something they were not looking for?

It is truly a nightmare arranging events like this. Just seems so few genuine folk on here who are what they say they are and are actually prepared to follow up on what they promise.

There really needs to be a system of recording here when guys are no shows. Not veris...that's different. We wouldn't mind if someone showed up & then says not for me. At least they've had the decency to follow through and be honest and we'd respect them for that.

Someone will now shout they always turn up. Well given the accepted norm for Fabs is: book 10 to get 2 or 3 shows, at least 70% to 80% of guys here are time wasters....."

Absolutely spot on .

It staggers me too that the couple should feel obliged to follow through with a meet they don’t want because 2 guys haven’t cancelled out of 10 . It’s like saying at a restaraunt that although you ordered a starter , main course and a dessert , we only have the dessert so you can have that as it’s better than nothing . How many people would be happy with that ?

It’s a sad state of affairs that the site hasn’t found a way to help the people on here who are genuine and looking to meet . It seems that not only the site , but half the forum users too see it as the people who get let downs fault . Look at previous timewaster threads where all and sundry say it’s no ones fault but your own , change your selection criteria , etc..... and in this case the couple who have been let down are being chastised for not having a gang bang with two guys instead of 10. What a joke ....

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"

It staggers me too that the couple should feel obliged to follow through with a meet they don’t want because 2 guys haven’t cancelled out of 10 . It’s like saying at a restaraunt that although you ordered a starter , main course and a dessert , we only have the dessert so you can have that as it’s better than nothing . How many people would be happy with that ?

"

No, but I'd still ask the waitress for hand job

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"

It staggers me too that the couple should feel obliged to follow through with a meet they don’t want because 2 guys haven’t cancelled out of 10 . It’s like saying at a restaraunt that although you ordered a starter , main course and a dessert , we only have the dessert so you can have that as it’s better than nothing . How many people would be happy with that ?

No, but I'd still ask the waitress for hand job"

It would be the least she could offer to placate you I guess

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!!

We have occasionally enjoyed meeting several guys for J to have fun with.

Having read many of the responses here to the OP I am amazed quite frankly.

The OP had arranged with 10 guys... 8 subsequently cancelled, so they themselves decided to cancel the meet & by implication notified the last 2 guys who may ...or may not have turned up on the night of course, in advance so they didn't make a wasted journey.

Yet the OP is run down here for not going through with the meet for the two remaining guys.

I'm quite frankly amazed ...but sadly not surprised!

Why the heck should they go through with something they were not looking for?

It is truly a nightmare arranging events like this. Just seems so few genuine folk on here who are what they say they are and are actually prepared to follow up on what they promise.

There really needs to be a system of recording here when guys are no shows. Not veris...that's different. We wouldn't mind if someone showed up & then says not for me. At least they've had the decency to follow through and be honest and we'd respect them for that.

Someone will now shout they always turn up. Well given the accepted norm for Fabs is: book 10 to get 2 or 3 shows, at least 70% to 80% of guys here are time wasters.....

Absolutely spot on .

It staggers me too that the couple should feel obliged to follow through with a meet they don’t want because 2 guys haven’t cancelled out of 10 . It’s like saying at a restaraunt that although you ordered a starter , main course and a dessert , we only have the dessert so you can have that as it’s better than nothing . How many people would be happy with that ?

It’s a sad state of affairs that the site hasn’t found a way to help the people on here who are genuine and looking to meet . It seems that not only the site , but half the forum users too see it as the people who get let downs fault . Look at previous timewaster threads where all and sundry say it’s no ones fault but your own , change your selection criteria , etc..... and in this case the couple who have been let down are being chastised for not having a gang bang with two guys instead of 10. What a joke ....

"

There seem to be two camps.

Camp 1 being into socials highly organised meets. Failure rate low.

Camp 2 being more into NSA causal encounters : one offs and no names asked.

On threads like this camp 1 will typically patronise camp 2. But some folk just like no name quick meets, I do, what’s wrong with that ?

Oh and I’d have also cancelled the two guys in that scenario and probably have several times in the past come to think of it. It’s a flippin admin job trying to arrange events like that, which I’ve done successfully and unsuccessfully many times. Sadly this site appears to do nothing to discourage the dreamers though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had an impromptu GB one night a few years ago, 6 invited 1 turned up lol However he now a close friend, kinky as fuck, a great part host with loads kinky mates who use the missus

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By *heblackmacMan
over a year ago

Ladywell, Lewisham.


"Just by looking at your pictures,I wouldn't missed such a great meet.lmfao"

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

Tried many times, some guys are good but most are chicken shits.

Shame, all mouth and nothing in the trousers.

Happy Fabbing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We organised a MMMMF last week, leeds as well. All the single guys dropped out in the hours running up to it.

We have another this Wednesday, and we've already got that point of when s**t gets real they disappear. Two guys remain, hoping they will not go awol. Ideally would have liked a couple more though!!

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By *enshermanMan
over a year ago

Durham

Not all men cancel lots of guys like me do show up to a GB meet. But Ill never forget my first gb, I was terrified sat in a room with several other more experienced guys I couldn't preform and lost my hard on everytime I but a condom on.

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By *enshermanMan
over a year ago

Durham

But that was manymoon ago fully confident and hard looking forward to 5th of June my next gb with a sexy blonde with a bubble ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! By cancelling on the last two guys, made you as bad as the over no show. "

Of course it doesn't make them as bad!

Ridiculous comment, if an arranged meet starts to change direction as to what was originally planned then they have every right to cancel. 2 men doesn't make a GB........... I once arranged a meet with 1 male (who I had met previously) at the last minute he announced other people were going to be there so I chose to cancel as it wasn't what was originally planned, I certainly weren't going to go ahead with something different so why should the OP ????

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By *NACONDA1000Man
over a year ago

buncrana


"What is it with single guys? We had 10 confirmed for tonight then one by one they cancelled til there were 2 left. At that point we binned it. So pissed off!! "

That's awful....I can understand how you feel. But at least they had the decency to cancel, plenty of others would just simply not show up! Mannerless gits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cue all the messages from blokes who say THEY WOULD come. its the way of things I'm afraid OP.

You can't believe after all the mail you get from single blokes that once their bluff is called ... nothing

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

Been involved in a few gb my sen but only at clubs n parties. I would never attended a purpose arranged one if probably bottle it so would never agree to attend one. All the ones I've been in were never planned at other events so caught up in the moment sort of thing lol.

I think the OP dud the right thing to be fare

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