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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is for all the women out there.

I (fem) was just wondering what all the women think about men getting erections on a nudist beach.

Do you find it acceptable for a man to have a hard cock. I personally like to know a man likes my body enough to get hard. My hubby gets a hard cock all the time when we are on a nudist beach and he sometimes tries to hide it. He says some women might not like it.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex "
i do agree but its nice to know men like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy could quite innocently fall asleep and wake up with one.

Free the erection and stop the man shaming!

Bit different if he chooses to sit there stroking it lol

Or dig a hole in the sand? Worked for Kevin and Perry and the Inbetweeners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a nudist beach. Think I will put it on the bucket list.

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By *abmummy27Woman
over a year ago

up north

Surely getting a hard on around all those naked women should be accepted tho imagine the pure will power it must take for a man to not get one or at least allow them a semi haha I know I'd be quite turned on with all them willys fortunately for us woman we don't gain a big bulge

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex "

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He's doing the right thing red

There are of course certain areas on some beaches to go to,

maspalomas in gran canaria for instance,

you would love a wee trip into the dunes there lol

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex "

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Surely getting a hard on around all those naked women should be accepted tho imagine the pure will power it must take for a man to not get one or at least allow them a semi haha I know I'd be quite turned on with all them willys fortunately for us woman we don't gain a big bulge "

Unless it is a specially designated swingers or adult only beach then there is very likely children there - walking around with a semi will get you into big trouble. Big big difference between naturist and swinger and the naturist community as a whole would not tolerate swingers - we have to confirm we are naturist if we go to a naturist place and we keep swinging to swinging places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is for all the women out there.

I (fem) was just wondering what all the women think about men getting erections on a nudist beach.

Do you find it acceptable for a man to have a hard cock. I personally like to know a man likes my body enough to get hard. My hubby gets a hard cock all the time when we are on a nudist beach and he sometimes tries to hide it. He says some women might not like it."

There's a serious want with some people x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not sure how you know a guy's erection has neen caused by one specific person if you're on a naturist beach.

Most naturists don't confuse nudity with sexual activity. Personally I think if it happens, it happens just don't go waving it about or strutting up and down the beach with it like a water diviner.

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jump in the sea lay on your back and pretend to be a shark. That will clear the beach quick enough

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

I always have to lay on my front after putting sun cream on Shaz lol

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By *udist2ukMan
over a year ago

chudleigh

who wouldnt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been to a nudist beach,but did go to a naturists swimming session a few years ago. Managed to keep my cock under contol. Might have been different if there had been any really hot women there.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We are nudies in the summer and it's definitely frowned upon and if blatant will add more fuel to the fire of the textiles brigade.

Is it right to get an errection in a public place in full view of everyone potentially kid's and families ?

No it's not be discreet and respectful.

Most guy's tend to have a bit of a lazy lob on most of the time,Mrs is usually very wet as she enjoys being naked.

Full on view hard-on is not a good thing in the UK. Jump into the sea and cool off.

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By *ilthyStrumpetCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

How would you know he's erect because he finds you sexually attractive?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"Surely getting a hard on around all those naked women should be accepted tho imagine the pure will power it must take for a man to not get one or at least allow them a semi haha I know I'd be quite turned on with all them willys fortunately for us woman we don't gain a big bulge "

What about the family beaches, is it still acceptable?

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Having been on a few beaches naked it’s luckily not a common sight!! When you’re in the situation of being aroused, best to be respectful and discreet - roll over or cover up! Since you’re out in the open, I find I don’t get aroused as easily but saying that a trip into the sea can disguise what you’re up - happy memories!!

I can imagine it’s different at adult only ‘play’ beaches!!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I spent five days sunbathing at a naturist hotel in Majorca last year. I can honestly say there wasn’t anything really sexual about it. Just very natural to feel the sun on your skin.

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By *hubnwife_36dd_ukCouple
over a year ago

chester


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex "

Spot on. The press is ready at almost anytime to give swingers a bad name so why help them out by blatantly exhibiting on a naturist beach?

Many naturists will actively work to get the swingers excluded because their activities give the local complainers more ammunition to use against there being a naturist beach at all, as well as said actions bringing the "meerkat" perverts out to play.

The shenanigans at the one by Poole harbour being a good example where it ended up with police patrolling on quad bikes looking for "trouble-makers".

It would pay to remember that the zoom cameras on police helicopters are very, very good so even if it is so high you think they can't see you, they most definitely can.

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By *nicecplCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD


"We are nudies in the summer and it's definitely frowned upon and if blatant will add more fuel to the fire of the textiles brigade.

Is it right to get an errection in a public place in full view of everyone potentially kid's and families ?

No it's not be discreet and respectful.

Most guy's tend to have a bit of a lazy lob on most of the time,Mrs is usually very wet as she enjoys being naked.

Full on view hard-on is not a good thing in the UK. Jump into the sea and cool off."
We agree with all of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is for all the women out there.

I (fem) was just wondering what all the women think about men getting erections on a nudist beach.

Do you find it acceptable for a man to have a hard cock. I personally like to know a man likes my body enough to get hard. My hubby gets a hard cock all the time when we are on a nudist beach and he sometimes tries to hide it. He says some women might not like it."

It happens a lot on the beaches we go to. Its not an issue if a guy gets a hard on, mrs takes it as a compliment. Its a different story if the guy openly stares and makes it too obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like to find naturist beaches but never sure where they are xc

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"We are nudies in the summer and it's definitely frowned upon and if blatant will add more fuel to the fire of the textiles brigade.

Is it right to get an errection in a public place in full view of everyone potentially kid's and families ?

No it's not be discreet and respectful.

Most guy's tend to have a bit of a lazy lob on most of the time,Mrs is usually very wet as she enjoys being naked.

Full on view hard-on is not a good thing in the UK. Jump into the sea and cool off.We agree with all of that"

From my perspective (Mrs of grumpy and happy) it is a compliment when a guy gets a hard on, however when I am alone on a nudist beach surrounded by guys, I would feel a tad uncomfortable...

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

I aspire to have the level of confidence of the women who are assuming they’re the cause for a guys hard on on a naturist beach

Guy could be gay. Just saying

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Come on guys..surely we can control our thoughts and act appropriately.

I have visited many nudist beaches and have never noticed erections..most guys would wander off to the dunes if having thoughts of sex etc .

Why do some swingers assume naked means sex?

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By *ts been emotionalMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I was in a naturist part of a very posh hotel and when a certain woman came over to talk to me l kept getting a ragging hard on,she looked at me said her husband is sun bathing over there and carried on talking to me...which made it worse!!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"This is for all the women out there.

I (fem) was just wondering what all the women think about men getting erections on a nudist beach.

Do you find it acceptable for a man to have a hard cock. I personally like to know a man likes my body enough to get hard. My hubby gets a hard cock all the time when we are on a nudist beach and he sometimes tries to hide it. He says some women might not like it.

It happens a lot on the beaches we go to. Its not an issue if a guy gets a hard on, mrs takes it as a compliment. Its a different story if the guy openly stares and makes it too obvious "

I’m not surprised it happens a lot for you as your Mrs is very attractive .

From my experience of nudist beaches , most women aren’t that fit , so me getting an erection is unlikely .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely getting a hard on around all those naked women should be accepted tho imagine the pure will power it must take for a man to not get one or at least allow them a semi haha I know I'd be quite turned on with all them willys fortunately for us woman we don't gain a big bulge

Unless it is a specially designated swingers or adult only beach then there is very likely children there - walking around with a semi will get you into big trouble. Big big difference between naturist and swinger and the naturist community as a whole would not tolerate swingers - we have to confirm we are naturist if we go to a naturist place and we keep swinging to swinging places "

Kids go to nude beaches? Are they nude too?

My dick gets hard from a breeze through my boxers.

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"Surely getting a hard on around all those naked women should be accepted tho imagine the pure will power it must take for a man to not get one or at least allow them a semi haha I know I'd be quite turned on with all them willys fortunately for us woman we don't gain a big bulge

Unless it is a specially designated swingers or adult only beach then there is very likely children there - walking around with a semi will get you into big trouble. Big big difference between naturist and swinger and the naturist community as a whole would not tolerate swingers - we have to confirm we are naturist if we go to a naturist place and we keep swinging to swinging places

Kids go to nude beaches? Are they nude too?

My dick gets hard from a breeze through my boxers. "

Yes. Because it’s not a sexual thing

And sometimes they’re nude. Sometimes they’ll be clothed.

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By *hris 62Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD

Is it good there thinking about going ,or somewhere like that any other island like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are nudies in the summer and it's definitely frowned upon and if blatant will add more fuel to the fire of the textiles brigade.

Is it right to get an errection in a public place in full view of everyone potentially kid's and families ?

No it's not be discreet and respectful.

Most guy's tend to have a bit of a lazy lob on most of the time,Mrs is usually very wet as she enjoys being naked.

Full on view hard-on is not a good thing in the UK. Jump into the sea and cool off.We agree with all of that

From my perspective (Mrs of grumpy and happy) it is a compliment when a guy gets a hard on, however when I am alone on a nudist beach surrounded by guys, I would feel a tad uncomfortable... "

I can't imagine that being rare to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely getting a hard on around all those naked women should be accepted tho imagine the pure will power it must take for a man to not get one or at least allow them a semi haha I know I'd be quite turned on with all them willys fortunately for us woman we don't gain a big bulge

Unless it is a specially designated swingers or adult only beach then there is very likely children there - walking around with a semi will get you into big trouble. Big big difference between naturist and swinger and the naturist community as a whole would not tolerate swingers - we have to confirm we are naturist if we go to a naturist place and we keep swinging to swinging places

Kids go to nude beaches? Are they nude too?

My dick gets hard from a breeze through my boxers.

Yes. Because it’s not a sexual thing

And sometimes they’re nude. Sometimes they’ll be clothed. "

Why would you take kids to a nude beach?

Don't the parents worry about the kids seeing naked people, or guys accidently hard (like I would probably be.).

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"Surely getting a hard on around all those naked women should be accepted tho imagine the pure will power it must take for a man to not get one or at least allow them a semi haha I know I'd be quite turned on with all them willys fortunately for us woman we don't gain a big bulge

Unless it is a specially designated swingers or adult only beach then there is very likely children there - walking around with a semi will get you into big trouble. Big big difference between naturist and swinger and the naturist community as a whole would not tolerate swingers - we have to confirm we are naturist if we go to a naturist place and we keep swinging to swinging places

Kids go to nude beaches? Are they nude too?

My dick gets hard from a breeze through my boxers.

Yes. Because it’s not a sexual thing

And sometimes they’re nude. Sometimes they’ll be clothed.

Why would you take kids to a nude beach?

Don't the parents worry about the kids seeing naked people, or guys accidently hard (like I would probably be.). "

Because it’s not sexual. Nudists aren’t naked for sexual reasons. Not sure what’s so hard to understand about that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks everybody for all the comments i think what wifey was saying wasthat we often get men come and talk to us (which i dont mind) and while they are sitting with us they get hard so i think its safe to assume they are hard looking at her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we also agree that nudism is not sexual but erections are going to happen from time to time. Its human nature.

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By *abmummy27Woman
over a year ago

up north

I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice "

Agreed. You don't know who might be on the beach that day.

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By *abmummy27Woman
over a year ago

up north


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice

Agreed. You don't know who might be on the beach that day. "

absolutely this.. but each to there own i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice

Agreed. You don't know who might be on the beach that day.

absolutely this.. but each to there own i guess"

Yeah. I'll raise my kids and let others raise theirs how they see fit.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

At Cap d'Agde it's sometimes difficult to find a soft one.

Seriously though, we don't think it is acceptable to flaunt an erection on a family beach.

If the thing has got a mind of its own then either turn over until it's gone down or make a quick dash for the sea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As this thread demonstrates, nudism is deeply asexual. That's why, whilst I respect those who are into it, it holds absolutely no interest to me whatsoever. I'd far rather be at a sunny hippy festy with everyone dancing, flirting, wearing barely nothing, and enjoying their physical being in a more enchanting way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all."

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I agree with many of the comments above. Naturism is as far from swinging as swinging is from vanilla life.

If you are sitting in a pub you can tell whether a guy is interested in you without him having to get his stiffy out. Doing that on a naturist beach is just as unacceptable. Swingers who don't understand this are at best likely to cause great offence to families and at worst to be hounded off the beach.

Studland official naturist beach is under constant threat of closure because of the behaviour of a minority who really don't get that while some swingers are naturists very few naturists are swingers.

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By *elly39devonCouple
over a year ago

tavistock

hi you should go to cap d'agde which is a naturist village but has been invaded by swingers who dont give a """

about anyone. I not saying all of them but a lot og guys dont care if there are children around

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By *rof SalamanderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Well i fo feel a semi at least shows appreciation.....or a stiffy ...but would not wander around rock hard.....the few times i have got aroused its not been a problem

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"I agree with many of the comments above. Naturism is as far from swinging as swinging is from vanilla life.

If you are sitting in a pub you can tell whether a guy is interested in you without him having to get his stiffy out. Doing that on a naturist beach is just as unacceptable. Swingers who don't understand this are at best likely to cause great offence to families and at worst to be hounded off the beach.

Studland official naturist beach is under constant threat of closure because of the behaviour of a minority who really don't get that while some swingers are naturists very few naturists are swingers."
Correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

naturism isnt about being sexual - on the public beaches of course you get the odd hard on strutting about but you also get children there as well - in the club i used to go to anything sexual was almost frowned upon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" .the few times i have got aroused its not been a problem "

How do you know?

How many people do you need to have to actually come up to you and complain to your face before common sense and good judgement kick in...?

It does offend, and it can feel quite threatening - certainly to any women on her own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it’s my age but it takes a bit more than just the sight of a naked woman to get hard!

Now if she was laid there wanking then it might rise to the occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first holiday to south of France I was a young teen and what a tan my back got. Years later I started attending kestrels as I was more desensitised to naked flesh I could control my cock. I sometimes feel that the guys who walk around hard are used to swingers clubs rather than a non sexual naturist beach.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I can control mine too in a naturist setting soft as anything as its not a sexual environment.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice "

Yes I agree totally ... guys hanging around a nudist beach where children are makes me very uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice

Yes I agree totally ... guys hanging around a nudist beach where children are makes me very uncomfortable. "

But nudists don’t think like that, and you can’t ban all guys from the beach

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice

Yes I agree totally ... guys hanging around a nudist beach where children are makes me very uncomfortable. "

Yet women are so innocent!

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By *kbloke_11Man
over a year ago

Hockley

Can any man here control the how, when and why they get an erection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex "

Completely agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any man here control the how, when and why they get an erection?"

Of corse it’s all in the mind

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Can any man here control the how, when and why they get an erection?

Of corse it’s all in the mind "

As I said earlier, of course we can control our thoughts etc

When in Rome etc.If you visit a nudist beach behave appropriately.

Choices ..go to the dunes if you want to think sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice

Yes I agree totally ... guys hanging around a nudist beach where children are makes me very uncomfortable. "

Why just guys?

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I haven't been to a nudist beach before (hardly ever leave UK tbh) but as I understand it, they are populated by people who are comfortable in their own skin, correct?

Surely, part of that comfort has to extend (pardon) to involuntary body functions. If a man is arroused due to what he sees, he doesn't get a choice of an erection, it's happening.

And to add to it, if others show their unhappiness towards said erection then how is that any different from a guy showing his unhappiness towards a ladies e_tra skin?

Both make the other uncomfortable so both should not happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any man here control the how, when and why they get an erection?"

Yeah just think of teresa may being spit roasted by Donald trump and Boris Johnson and bang instant horn killer.

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice

Yes I agree totally ... guys hanging around a nudist beach where children are makes me very uncomfortable. "

Because you see being naked as a sexual thing. We’re the odd ones out in Europe in that regard. Plenty of other countries are perfectly comfortable with nudity at beaches, in saunas etc etc.

Also the whole “when they’re over 18 and it’s their own choice” you can have sex at 16. Or are you thinking they keep their clothes on for sex?! They’ll also be watching porn etc waaay before they’re 18. Acting like being naked is something to be ashamed/hidden of either leads to serious body issues or curiosity to see what the fuss is about.

Don’t like it? Don’t take your kids. But don’t judge the parents that do. You’re making it sexual when it’s not. That’s the issue. Not the nudists.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Yes I agree totally ... guys hanging around a nudist beach where children are makes me very uncomfortable. "

So mum can take her children on a naturist holiday but dads should not?

Also may be worth noting that in the UK children wear clothing on naturist holiday sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to a few naturist holidays and never once have I got an erection. Nearly impossible when there isn’t any sexual tension there. Yes have got erect when a woman showed interest in me and was specifically showing off for me but no one was offended as we left and found a quiet place too enjoy.

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice

Yes I agree totally ... guys hanging around a nudist beach where children are makes me very uncomfortable.

Because you see being naked as a sexual thing. We’re the odd ones out in Europe in that regard. Plenty of other countries are perfectly comfortable with nudity at beaches, in saunas etc etc.

Also the whole “when they’re over 18 and it’s their own choice” you can have sex at 16. Or are you thinking they keep their clothes on for sex?! They’ll also be watching porn etc waaay before they’re 18. Acting like being naked is something to be ashamed/hidden of either leads to serious body issues or curiosity to see what the fuss is about.

Don’t like it? Don’t take your kids. But don’t judge the parents that do. You’re making it sexual when it’s not. That’s the issue. Not the nudists. "

This! It's a little ranty but the point is there. If we make nudity a taboo then either curiosity or confidence will be an issue.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"This is for all the women out there.

I (fem) was just wondering what all the women think about men getting erections on a nudist beach.

Do you find it acceptable for a man to have a hard cock. I personally like to know a man likes my body enough to get hard. My hubby gets a hard cock all the time when we are on a nudist beach and he sometimes tries to hide it. He says some women might not like it."

If your husband is getting an erection everytime he goes on a nudist beach then he shouldn't be going. Nudist beaches and campsites are for naturists and are family orientated.

Do you really think he is getting hard because he is looking at you or the other people on the beach? Hopefully this isn't happening around families as you won't know who he's getting off on.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice

Yes I agree totally ... guys hanging around a nudist beach where children are makes me very uncomfortable. "

why is it just guys seen as the predator

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"why is it just guys seen as the predator "

Getting a little off topic, but the number of male sexual predators is larger than the number of female sexual predators by a few of orders of magnitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably been said already in this thread.......... swinging and naturists are two different things. The only men we'd expect to see with an erection on a nudist beach would be teenage boys....

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"This is for all the women out there.

I (fem) was just wondering what all the women think about men getting erections on a nudist beach.

Do you find it acceptable for a man to have a hard cock. I personally like to know a man likes my body enough to get hard. My hubby gets a hard cock all the time when we are on a nudist beach and he sometimes tries to hide it. He says some women might not like it.

If your husband is getting an erection everytime he goes on a nudist beach then he shouldn't be going. Nudist beaches and campsites are for naturists and are family orientated.

Do you really think he is getting hard because he is looking at you or the other people on the beach? Hopefully this isn't happening around families as you won't know who he's getting off on.

Mr2 "

Jesus that's a strong jump to make. It's one thing to say maybe nudist beaches may not be for him, to pose a question about his sexual motivation seems a little OTT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we go to naturist beaches as we love to be naked outside, we mainly sunbathe in the dunes as we don't like having kids near to us. were not saying they shouldn't be there as they have every right to but it just makes us feel uneasy,also we sometimes enjoy a little fun on beaches too

we don't mind guys walking past us with a hardon as long as they are out of mainstream view, I have never got a hardon on a nude beach unwillingly but have when I wanted to when playing with mildred but never wave it about infront of others

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By *abmummy27Woman
over a year ago

up north

I never judged anyone in my comment.. was just giving my opinion like everyone else has and no its not just guys it's women too but that wasn't my point i simply stated that i personally wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach when there is men and women (strangers) wandering around with there tackle hanging out they do not need to see that even though like I said it is NOT a sexual thing.. would you be happy if your neighbour was wandering around in there garden but naked in front of your kids no I'm sure people would definitely have something to say about it so why should this be acceptable just cause it's on a beach...

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I don’t think you really understand naturists.

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent


"I never judged anyone in my comment.. was just giving my opinion like everyone else has and no its not just guys it's women too but that wasn't my point i simply stated that i personally wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach when there is men and women (strangers) wandering around with there tackle hanging out they do not need to see that even though like I said it is NOT a sexual thing.. would you be happy if your neighbour was wandering around in there garden but naked in front of your kids no I'm sure people would definitely have something to say about it so why should this be acceptable just cause it's on a beach... "

Because that’s what that beach is for. It’s not on every single beach. It’s on midway/naturist beaches, that’s why it’s acceptable. And you are judging. By asking why people think it’s “acceptable” and having an issue with kids being around naked adults. If you don’t make a big deal out of it, they wouldn’t care. If that’s the environment they’re raised in. Plenty of other countries are more than comfortable with nudity around everyone.

Don’t take your kids on holiday abroad. Plenty of topless women on the beaches in most European countries. Heaven help us!!!

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"This is for all the women out there.

I (fem) was just wondering what all the women think about men getting erections on a nudist beach.

Do you find it acceptable for a man to have a hard cock. I personally like to know a man likes my body enough to get hard. My hubby gets a hard cock all the time when we are on a nudist beach and he sometimes tries to hide it. He says some women might not like it.

If your husband is getting an erection everytime he goes on a nudist beach then he shouldn't be going. Nudist beaches and campsites are for naturists and are family orientated.

Do you really think he is getting hard because he is looking at you or the other people on the beach? Hopefully this isn't happening around families as you won't know who he's getting off on.

Mr2

Jesus that's a strong jump to make. It's one thing to say maybe nudist beaches may not be for him, to pose a question about his sexual motivation seems a little OTT. "

Put yourself on the other foot. You're on the beach playing frisbee with your underage teenage girls when some guy walks past you all with an erection. Would it not make you wonder is he turned on from looking at you or your girls.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


".................... OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all."

I`ve seen complaints about swinging activities at Cape D`Agde on naturist forums!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"This is for all the women out there.

I (fem) was just wondering what all the women think about men getting erections on a nudist beach.

Do you find it acceptable for a man to have a hard cock. I personally like to know a man likes my body enough to get hard. My hubby gets a hard cock all the time when we are on a nudist beach and he sometimes tries to hide it. He says some women might not like it.

If your husband is getting an erection everytime he goes on a nudist beach then he shouldn't be going. Nudist beaches and campsites are for naturists and are family orientated.

Do you really think he is getting hard because he is looking at you or the other people on the beach? Hopefully this isn't happening around families as you won't know who he's getting off on.

Mr2

Jesus that's a strong jump to make. It's one thing to say maybe nudist beaches may not be for him, to pose a question about his sexual motivation seems a little OTT.

Put yourself on the other foot. You're on the beach playing frisbee with your underage teenage girls when some guy walks past you all with an erection. Would it not make you wonder is he turned on from looking at you or your girls."

Depends on how far away he was when he first had his erection! If he was some distance away them it would be unlikely the reason for his erection was the youngsters!

I have only ever seen one guy get an erection while half in the surf at Studland. He was getting a bit too close and personal with his femalepartner and had to get into the deeper water a bit smartish!

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By *TRACouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

What about people with genital /boob piercings, is it ok to go on the naturist beaches /dunes, happy to cover up if kids are around

.And no not wanting to flash or walk around with a hard on?

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By *uck69696969Man
over a year ago

Towcester

Staying in an adults only hotel in Plays Blanca and there is a nudist sun deck. Did struggle to keep a hard on under wraps today with pretty naked ladies about. It's all adult .... Not sure if I should need to cover it up xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally we both love body piercings so why should you cover them up ?

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By *ueynteMan
over a year ago

Cowbridge


"Personally we both love body piercings so why should you cover them up ? "

...and it doesnt have to be body piercings. I often wear a cock ring on the beach or naturist site, and anyone-of any age-can see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it not feel awkward if there are kids/teens about?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Personally we both love body piercings so why should you cover them up ?

...and it doesnt have to be body piercings. I often wear a cock ring on the beach or naturist site, and anyone-of any age-can see it."

Do you have kids ?

How would you explain that to them ?

It’s drawing attention to your cock and I don’t know how I’d explain it to my 10 year old .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree kids should be allowed at all even with the fact it's not sexual i wouldn't allow my children to be on a beach with so many naked people on show they don't need to exposed to that sort of thing until there 18 and make there own choice "

Agreed.

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By *reeny777Man
over a year ago

chatham

I spent a week at a nudist resort and beach in France. The erection thing isn’t a problem as it’s non-sexual and you get desensitised when you are around naked bodies of all shapes and sizes all day. The only erection i saw on the beach in the whole week was a teenager, and they can’t help it so no-one got offended.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come on guys..surely we can control our thoughts and act appropriately.

I have visited many nudist beaches and have never noticed erections..most guys would wander off to the dunes if having thoughts of sex etc .

Why do some swingers assume naked means sex? "

If you go to france there lots of naturist beach all very family friendly where you see grand parents. Parents and young kids all together. We british might think its odd but to most from Europe normal. Its never about sex. Cap de agde is very different every one knows that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all."

So how does a normal guy with a reasonable sex drive not get hard when seeing attractive females naked. It is a 100% natural reaction, which could very easily be compared to breast feeding.

Something no amount of will power or desires can have any control over, in fact very often the opposite.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all.

So how does a normal guy with a reasonable sex drive not get hard when seeing attractive females naked. It is a 100% natural reaction, which could very easily be compared to breast feeding.

Something no amount of will power or desires can have any control over, in fact very often the opposite. "

The whole point is that a designated naturist beach is not a sexual environment. A guy who gets erections in a non sexual environment simply because he sees an attractive woman and therefore sexualises the situation has a problem which he should deal with before it becomes a problem for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all.

So how does a normal guy with a reasonable sex drive not get hard when seeing attractive females naked. It is a 100% natural reaction, which could very easily be compared to breast feeding.

Something no amount of will power or desires can have any control over, in fact very often the opposite.

The whole point is that a designated naturist beach is not a sexual environment. A guy who gets erections in a non sexual environment simply because he sees an attractive woman and therefore sexualises the situation has a problem which he should deal with before it becomes a problem for others."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend a lot of time at a naturist beach in the summer and I've had a few times when I've got hard. Sometimes just a semi but a few times hard as a rock. I think as an adult you learn to read your surroundings, if you feel it's inappropriate then hide it. A couple of times I have either turned over or gone in the sea and a other times I've just laid back and relaxed. I've had a few smiles from one or two who were glancing around but I would never walk around like it. I think just act responsible because at the end of the day we are all there to relax. Id hate to feel I offended anyone or made them feel uncomfortable but also id hate to feel self-concious about something I have no control over. So in my opinion it's about reading the surroundings and thinking about others.

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By *loctonflyerMan
over a year ago

swinton mexborough s yorks

I get hard too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all.

So how does a normal guy with a reasonable sex drive not get hard when seeing attractive females naked. It is a 100% natural reaction, which could very easily be compared to breast feeding.

Something no amount of will power or desires can have any control over, in fact very often the opposite.

The whole point is that a designated naturist beach is not a sexual environment. A guy who gets erections in a non sexual environment simply because he sees an attractive woman and therefore sexualises the situation has a problem which he should deal with before it becomes a problem for others."

It isn't sexualising it, it's a natural reaction without any necessary though process. Of course you shouldn't flaunt it but stop shaming people for something natural.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Nothing more natural than a hard on

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By *ooking4othersMan
over a year ago

Here ...

I generally find the little fella shrinks away on the nudist beach ...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all.

So how does a normal guy with a reasonable sex drive not get hard when seeing attractive females naked. It is a 100% natural reaction, which could very easily be compared to breast feeding.

Something no amount of will power or desires can have any control over, in fact very often the opposite.

The whole point is that a designated naturist beach is not a sexual environment. A guy who gets erections in a non sexual environment simply because he sees an attractive woman and therefore sexualises the situation has a problem which he should deal with before it becomes a problem for others.

It isn't sexualising it, it's a natural reaction without any necessary though process. Of course you shouldn't flaunt it but stop shaming people for something natural. "

In my understanding a hard cock is sexual, a flaccid one isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely seems to be a need for erection police to be on patrol ready to hand out the sock of shame to hide any hardened criminals, I mean genitals.

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Went to a few nudist beaches thus summer no one had any erections keep naturist beaches Naturist play afterwards or socialise at your accommodation or caravan tent etc

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

This summer all brilliant and laid back great locations

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Being naked on a naturist beach is a fantastic feeling just enjoying the sun on your body, unfortunately an erection is very natural, hopefully most guys would have enough sense to hide it away until it subsides.Was a time that I seemed to erect 24/7 and would never had been able to strip off. When I first went to a naturist beach if anyone came and talked to me I would get one and would pull a towel over as I felt it starting, its not necessarily sexual but it just happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all.

So how does a normal guy with a reasonable sex drive not get hard when seeing attractive females naked. It is a 100% natural reaction, which could very easily be compared to breast feeding.

Something no amount of will power or desires can have any control over, in fact very often the opposite.

The whole point is that a designated naturist beach is not a sexual environment. A guy who gets erections in a non sexual environment simply because he sees an attractive woman and therefore sexualises the situation has a problem which he should deal with before it becomes a problem for others.

It isn't sexualising it, it's a natural reaction without any necessary though process. Of course you shouldn't flaunt it but stop shaming people for something natural.

In my understanding a hard cock is sexual, a flaccid one isn't. "

And you have complete control over thst I take it from your superior post. Your better than me then, I have no control at all. You must be an amazing show if you g onto clubs making it go up and down on demand. Britain's got talent will come calling.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Never been to a nudist beach. Think I will put it on the bucket list. "

Having an erection is perfectly natural, but don't start waving it on the beach in people's faces or pulling one off. Just relax and blame it on the Sun warming you up! Willies get hard, go soft and get hard again. Stop the man shaming! If anything they tend to shrink more often than not.

Holkham beach in Norfolk is a good start. Loads of room to feel private. I've been there, this year, so ask away.

Typically couples in their 50's, virtually no single females though, so it's all so quite.

Plenty of horse riders, riding past the surf and dunes, so that's not a problem.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Never been to a nudist beach. Think I will put it on the bucket list. "

Having an erection is perfectly natural, but don't start waving it on the beach in people's faces or pulling one off.

Just relax and blame it on the Sun warming you up! Willies get hard, go soft and get hard again. Stop the man shaming! If anything they tend to shrink more often than not. Nipples get hard, too and vaginas get wet. So the question I'd like to ask is this: do you get turned on and would you admit it.

Holkham beach in Norfolk is a good start. Loads of room to feel private. I've been there, this year, so ask away if you have any questions.

Typically couples and males in their 50's, virtually no single females though, so it's all so quiet.

Plenty of horse riders, riding past the surf and dunes, so that's not a problem.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I erected a wind break

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all.

So how does a normal guy with a reasonable sex drive not get hard when seeing attractive females naked. It is a 100% natural reaction, which could very easily be compared to breast feeding.

Something no amount of will power or desires can have any control over, in fact very often the opposite.

The whole point is that a designated naturist beach is not a sexual environment. A guy who gets erections in a non sexual environment simply because he sees an attractive woman and therefore sexualises the situation has a problem which he should deal with before it becomes a problem for others.

It isn't sexualising it, it's a natural reaction without any necessary though process. Of course you shouldn't flaunt it but stop shaming people for something natural.

In my understanding a hard cock is sexual, a flaccid one isn't.

And you have complete control over thst I take it from your superior post. Your better than me then, I have no control at all. You must be an amazing show if you g onto clubs making it go up and down on demand. Britain's got talent will come calling. "

Quite apart from the fact I'm a woman and therefore don't have a cock at all, I have spent enough time on naturist beaches to know the difference between a real naturist and a swinger who is there for a cheap thrill. In my experience only the latter see being naked on a beach as a sexual activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all.

So how does a normal guy with a reasonable sex drive not get hard when seeing attractive females naked. It is a 100% natural reaction, which could very easily be compared to breast feeding.

Something no amount of will power or desires can have any control over, in fact very often the opposite.

The whole point is that a designated naturist beach is not a sexual environment. A guy who gets erections in a non sexual environment simply because he sees an attractive woman and therefore sexualises the situation has a problem which he should deal with before it becomes a problem for others.

It isn't sexualising it, it's a natural reaction without any necessary though process. Of course you shouldn't flaunt it but stop shaming people for something natural.

In my understanding a hard cock is sexual, a flaccid one isn't.

And you have complete control over thst I take it from your superior post. Your better than me then, I have no control at all. You must be an amazing show if you g onto clubs making it go up and down on demand. Britain's got talent will come calling.

Quite apart from the fact I'm a woman and therefore don't have a cock at all, I have spent enough time on naturist beaches to know the difference between a real naturist and a swinger who is there for a cheap thrill. In my experience only the latter see being naked on a beach as a sexual activity. "

Well the I suggest you stop telling men how and why they should get erections and talk about something you know about.

How are you any different from all the men shaming women for feeding in public. Well actually you're worse, that is a free choice. Until you e had a cock and realised it got hard because you need a wee, it's got warm, there's a nice vibration, none of which are sexual then please describe how you trick the part of your brain that controls erections.

Presumably your knowledge is gained from studying neuron transmission in the brain or just knowing that all men are sex pests thst can't control themselves.

Your attitude is quite ludicrous. Shall I tell you how inconvenient periods are and you should time them better so it doesn't interfere with things I want to do?

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By *ooking4othersMan
over a year ago

Here ...

Popcorn time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate the term erection. So clinical. Can we use Stiffy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Popcorn time "

Salted please, as we draw up a chair....

Been to many a nudist beach and not got a stuffy, guess that’s either because P is getting on a bit, or has learnt how to control himself. Been to a couple of Swingers beaches and been up like a cockerel at 5am..... all done to the right place at the right time

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By *reeny777Man
over a year ago

chatham


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all.

So how does a normal guy with a reasonable sex drive not get hard when seeing attractive females naked. It is a 100% natural reaction, which could very easily be compared to breast feeding.

Something no amount of will power or desires can have any control over, in fact very often the opposite.

The whole point is that a designated naturist beach is not a sexual environment. A guy who gets erections in a non sexual environment simply because he sees an attractive woman and therefore sexualises the situation has a problem which he should deal with before it becomes a problem for others.

It isn't sexualising it, it's a natural reaction without any necessary though process. Of course you shouldn't flaunt it but stop shaming people for something natural.

In my understanding a hard cock is sexual, a flaccid one isn't.

And you have complete control over thst I take it from your superior post. Your better than me then, I have no control at all. You must be an amazing show if you g onto clubs making it go up and down on demand. Britain's got talent will come calling.

Quite apart from the fact I'm a woman and therefore don't have a cock at all, I have spent enough time on naturist beaches to know the difference between a real naturist and a swinger who is there for a cheap thrill. In my experience only the latter see being naked on a beach as a sexual activity.

Well the I suggest you stop telling men how and why they should get erections and talk about something you know about.

How are you any different from all the men shaming women for feeding in public. Well actually you're worse, that is a free choice. Until you e had a cock and realised it got hard because you need a wee, it's got warm, there's a nice vibration, none of which are sexual then please describe how you trick the part of your brain that controls erections.

Presumably your knowledge is gained from studying neuron transmission in the brain or just knowing that all men are sex pests thst can't control themselves.

Your attitude is quite ludicrous. Shall I tell you how inconvenient periods are and you should time them better so it doesn't interfere with things I want to do? "

The notion that that men can ‘control’ their erections is as daft as women ‘controlling’ their periods. You just learn methods tof dealing with them when they occur. (Towel, roll over, think of ann widdecombe etc). Erections are a subconscious th8ng, they just happen. Ask any teenager. That doesn’t change when you get older except that age and familiarity make it less likely. Quite often erections happen when men DON’T want them to happen - if they were controllable this wouldn’t happen! You can get hard just by feeling self conscious, or because you suddendly feel the breeze down there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naturist beaches are just that - naturist - not swinger - if a guy is constantly stiff he possibly should reconsider why he is there in the first place....the ethos of naturist is comfortable and happy in your skin it’s not anything to do with sex

We've been keen naturists for many years and visited many naturist beaches in the UK, Europe even U.S.

The occasions we've see men with erections on an open naturist beach is very rare.

The dune areas on some beaches where play goes on is different.

If there is a good family naturist beach and a guy gets a stiffy then he is likely to get a most hostile reaction and rightly so. We almost lost Holkham beach due to inappropriate behaviour so keep your (unlikely) erections hidden please.

Swinging and naturism on beaches should not combine! OK at Cap de Agde but that's about all.

So how does a normal guy with a reasonable sex drive not get hard when seeing attractive females naked. It is a 100% natural reaction, which could very easily be compared to breast feeding.

Something no amount of will power or desires can have any control over, in fact very often the opposite.

The whole point is that a designated naturist beach is not a sexual environment. A guy who gets erections in a non sexual environment simply because he sees an attractive woman and therefore sexualises the situation has a problem which he should deal with before it becomes a problem for others.

It isn't sexualising it, it's a natural reaction without any necessary though process. Of course you shouldn't flaunt it but stop shaming people for something natural.

In my understanding a hard cock is sexual, a flaccid one isn't.

And you have complete control over thst I take it from your superior post. Your better than me then, I have no control at all. You must be an amazing show if you g onto clubs making it go up and down on demand. Britain's got talent will come calling.

Quite apart from the fact I'm a woman and therefore don't have a cock at all, I have spent enough time on naturist beaches to know the difference between a real naturist and a swinger who is there for a cheap thrill. In my experience only the latter see being naked on a beach as a sexual activity.

Well the I suggest you stop telling men how and why they should get erections and talk about something you know about.

How are you any different from all the men shaming women for feeding in public. Well actually you're worse, that is a free choice. Until you e had a cock and realised it got hard because you need a wee, it's got warm, there's a nice vibration, none of which are sexual then please describe how you trick the part of your brain that controls erections.

Presumably your knowledge is gained from studying neuron transmission in the brain or just knowing that all men are sex pests thst can't control themselves.

Your attitude is quite ludicrous. Shall I tell you how inconvenient periods are and you should time them better so it doesn't interfere with things I want to do?

The notion that that men can ‘control’ their erections is as daft as women ‘controlling’ their periods. You just learn methods tof dealing with them when they occur. (Towel, roll over, think of ann widdecombe etc). Erections are a subconscious th8ng, they just happen. Ask any teenager. That doesn’t change when you get older except that age and familiarity make it less likely. Quite often erections happen when men DON’T want them to happen - if they were controllable this wouldn’t happen! You can get hard just by feeling self conscious, or because you suddendly feel the breeze down there."

Lol, so much more concisely put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is for all the women out there.

I (fem) was just wondering what all the women think about men getting erections on a nudist beach.

Do you find it acceptable for a man to have a hard cock. I personally like to know a man likes my body enough to get hard. My hubby gets a hard cock all the time when we are on a nudist beach and he sometimes tries to hide it. He says some women might not like it."

Some may find it offensive but sometimes it can't be helped.. if hevfets an erection u will just have to help him get rid of it

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Its OK for the OP to pontificate I suppose she has never got sexual thoughts or feelings whilst on a naturist beach of course it may not be so obvious, poor hubby, its one of lifes simple treats to take your wife sunbathing for a couple of hours and reap the rewards later lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lock him up in a chastity device, solves all the problems you get with erections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think that might get more attention than required. A bit like wearing a cock ring, which promotes erections?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me. I might even get a bit wet over them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is for all the women out there.

I (fem) was just wondering what all the women think about men getting erections on a nudist beach.

Do you find it acceptable for a man to have a hard cock. I personally like to know a man likes my body enough to get hard. My hubby gets a hard cock all the time when we are on a nudist beach and he sometimes tries to hide it. He says some women might not like it."

It's bad for a man to show an erection on a public beach. Your job as a woman is to hide said erection in a suitably sized orifice

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Personally we both love body piercings so why should you cover them up ?

...and it doesnt have to be body piercings. I often wear a cock ring on the beach or naturist site, and anyone-of any age-can see it."

Why would you wear a cock ring to a naturist beach? Their function is to keep an erection going surely? I have no idea why people confuse naturism with swinging. Personally speaking, I'd love to go to my local naturist beaches but I'm put off by swingers going to them, so textile only beaches for me.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

Don't like to see a full hard on but i must admit i like to see a guy with a semi on the beach turns me on

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Indeed I think a lot of folks who visit _ap adge are into jewellery and cock rings metal ones get too hot to wear on a nudist beach

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Indeed I think a lot of folks who visit _ap adge are into jewellery and cock rings metal ones get too hot to wear on a nudist beach

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By *ixedblkinjectionMan
over a year ago

London

Its why i have never been to one...I have control of myself, but a couple of times I have started getting aroused without even trying, jus happens.....so wouldn't want to be on the beach hard looking like so kind of perv...but on the flip I also think, its natural to get turned on by the body in all its glory!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

There is a difference between an erection and a throbbing hard on.

If you are bouncing up and down that would suggest something is on your mind.

An engorged cock can be caused by lots of different reasons.

Morning glory does not equate to waking up from an erotic dream.

If women's breasts started swelling for the same reasons I doubt there would be the mid-understanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

We are naturists both here and abroad

And encountered this on the naturist beach in Antigua and in the canaries

If your a swinger

excuse the pun

But you know how to handle it !!

At our naturist club

It would be a no no

Even taking pics is frowned upon

Although again if you are on your own then it does occasionally appear!!

And we have some lovely naked shots from there too

N

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Keep it naturist and Relax enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was my first thought when I went to a naturist beach the first time. It was great loved it been to naturist campsites no problem at all just get naked and enjoy wish I had started naturism sooner

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By *havenpussycatsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We went to serignan naturiste beach and I didn’t get hard, it would be inappropriate and despite that it wasn’t the vibe. If it happened I would have covered up.

It’s about sun bathing and enjoying nature. There are children and families about. It wasn’t erotic and nor was it intended to be: naturism isn’t swinging! On a side note. Our first time doing naturism during this year’s holiday to France & we enjoyed it despite previous apprehension.

During same holiday we went to swingers beach at Cap D’agde and I did get a bit hard as the couple next to each other had the woman giving her partner a blow job. Very different. Different place.

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By *ogostick72Man
over a year ago

Scotland

Can't believe people actually take their kids to nudist beaches, kids should not be exposed to naked adults imo, when they are 18 they can make their own choices

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By *reeny777Man
over a year ago

chatham


"Can't believe people actually take their kids to nudist beaches, kids should not be exposed to naked adults imo, when they are 18 they can make their own choices

"

Ridiculous attitude. Why should kids not see what they will grow into? What is wrong with them seeing a naked person? You’ll do more damage by hiding it from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe people actually take their kids to nudist beaches, kids should not be exposed to naked adults imo, when they are 18 they can make their own choices

"

Children brought up in a naturist environment take for granted and see nothing wrong with it.

Much the same as if you was brought up in the environment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a nudist beach and I’ll tell you I never nearly got erect. In fact I think the opposite seemed to be smaller lol. The nerves were mental with all the beautiful body’s on show. I’ll be honest I did have a great wank once I was home lol

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By *unlovinCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Can't believe people actually take their kids to nudist beaches, kids should not be exposed to naked adults imo, when they are 18 they can make their own choices

"

“When they are 18 they can make their own choices “

Does this apply to all the other things adults do like smoking , drinking , pubs etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe people actually take their kids to nudist beaches, kids should not be exposed to naked adults imo, when they are 18 they can make their own choices

“When they are 18 they can make their own choices “

Does this apply to all the other things adults do like smoking , drinking , pubs etc etc "

Great pics guys

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Can't believe people actually take their kids to nudist beaches, kids should not be exposed to naked adults imo, when they are 18 they can make their own choices

Ridiculous attitude. Why should kids not see what they will grow into? What is wrong with them seeing a naked person? You’ll do more damage by hiding it from them"

I was going to give a very similar answer to that one.

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