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By *eppers OP   Couple
over a year ago

telford

Business must be slow if there advertising in the local rag for people to attend, Your thoughts?

or is it a general sign of the times and the leisure industry is being hit the hardest.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think you,ve answered your own question..times are hard just now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They dont have a library, thats why you wont see me in there missus!

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By *eppers OP   Couple
over a year ago

telford

Always had that problem, don't know why I bother asking anything full stop lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every time i have been to that club on a friday been full ...... i bet next weekend be really full of sexy people too x

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"Business must be slow if there advertising in the local rag for people to attend, Your thoughts?

or is it a general sign of the times and the leisure industry is being hit the hardest.!"

Why was I told that the membrship list was full and there are no vacancies if they are advertising in the local rag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"every time i have been to that club on a friday been full ...... i bet next weekend be really full of sexy people too x"

I'll definitely be there next weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went a few fridays ago,its wasn't that busy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Business must be slow if there advertising in the local rag for people to attend, Your thoughts?

or is it a general sign of the times and the leisure industry is being hit the hardest.!

Why was I told that the membrship list was full and there are no vacancies if they are advertising in the local rag?"

Think you should take it up with chams. You obviously have a gripe as you post it on every thread. Ring them and ask they are lovely

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

The local rag eh? From acorns grow oak trees.

The top swingers club in Berlin (Avarus) advertise on the sides of busses, and not just poster ads, the whole bus is a driving advert.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Business must be slow if there advertising in the local rag for people to attend, Your thoughts?

or is it a general sign of the times and the leisure industry is being hit the hardest.!

Why was I told that the membrship list was full and there are no vacancies if they are advertising in the local rag?"

No skin off your nose either way though. You said you wouldn't go anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may have enough single males on their membership lista and are looking to attract more couples and ladies. I gather that a lot of clubs have a waiting list of single men. Just a thought but the best thing is to ask them.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Business must be slow if there advertising in the local rag for people to attend, Your thoughts?

or is it a general sign of the times and the leisure industry is being hit the hardest.!

Why was I told that the membrship list was full and there are no vacancies if they are advertising in the local rag?"

Because they limit the number of single males who can go...which is another thread altogether

Good on the paper for taking the ad though,the ones round here would have a fit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Business must be slow if there advertising in the local rag for people to attend, Your thoughts?

or is it a general sign of the times and the leisure industry is being hit the hardest.!"

You will find all sorts of companies advertise all the time from Tesco's to your local takeaway. People move in and out of areas, people are always leaving swinging and many more starting to swing. Is it that unusual for successful businesses wanting to be even more successful or is it a concept you struggle with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Business must be slow if there advertising in the local rag for people to attend, Your thoughts?

or is it a general sign of the times and the leisure industry is being hit the hardest.!

Why was I told that the membrship list was full and there are no vacancies if they are advertising in the local rag?

Because they limit the number of single males who can go...which is another thread altogether

Good on the paper for taking the ad though,the ones round here would have a fit!"

the single men numbers should be lower

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


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the single men numbers should be lower"

Why?

What about those of us that won't play with couples and go our separate ways in the club?

We went last Sunday and there was no single men who took my fancy..........

It happens. Times are hard and all the clubs are noticing a downturn.

In fact, I know one club that will give you a free visit if you go to one of their evenings and there are less than 20 people there!

It's not just Chams the recession is hitting.

**And as for the griping minnie who couldn't get membership at Chams........ If you whinged this much to the staff........ no wonder they said no**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey our friends _eppers we will let you know if its busy naked tuesday lol x

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"They may have enough single males on their membership lista and are looking to attract more couples and ladies. I gather that a lot of clubs have a waiting list of single men. Just a thought but the best thing is to ask them. "

Then they should put the information on their web pages to save people like me making a long journey and then having to just get back in the car and go home again. It's easy enough to do. Anyway as I said before I will not be going anywhere near Chams ever again. Since I've started having swinging parties at my house for small groups, I've no need to ge there anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because membership is full does not mean every guy on that list goes every week we all have a life outside of swinging.

Must admit I have not been as much this year 5 times thats because life gets in the way. Still love it there though.

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

its called life, take the rough with the smooth, the money just isn't around for all people. we people can't do as much as we would like to do

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"They may have enough single males on their membership lista and are looking to attract more couples and ladies. I gather that a lot of clubs have a waiting list of single men. Just a thought but the best thing is to ask them.

Then they should put the information on their web pages to save people like me making a long journey and then having to just get back in the car and go home again. It's easy enough to do. Anyway as I said before I will not be going anywhere near Chams ever again. Since I've started having swinging parties at my house for small groups, I've no need to ge there anyway"

Stop bloody banging on about it then!!!!!

And it does say on their website to ring prior to visiting if you are a single man and not a member

Think this might be a case of the swinger doth protest too much and he is waiting for members of staff to pm him begging him to give it another chance

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

If he were to be made a member i bet he'd expect all the females to swing with him so best he didn't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Business must be slow if there advertising in the local rag for people to attend, Your thoughts?

or is it a general sign of the times and the leisure industry is being hit the hardest.!

Why was I told that the membrship list was full and there are no vacancies if they are advertising in the local rag?"

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"They may have enough single males on their membership lista and are looking to attract more couples and ladies. I gather that a lot of clubs have a waiting list of single men. Just a thought but the best thing is to ask them.

Then they should put the information on their web pages to save people like me making a long journey and then having to just get back in the car and go home again. It's easy enough to do. Anyway as I said before I will not be going anywhere near Chams ever again. Since I've started having swinging parties at my house for small groups, I've no need to ge there anyway"

And who, be they single or attached, travels hours to a swingers club without checking they will definately gain entrance?

Are these the same people who go to clubs and then expect or demand sex just because they've paid to get in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love chams, let them advertise

Its like every other business, it has to make money, the staff cant live on sex.

To ALL the single men complaining all the time, admitted I havent been on their site in a while, but it used to say ring before going. So complaining about it, just gets your profile blocked. Even if the site has not been updated, there are SOOOO many threads on here, that no one has an excuse not to read up before they head over!

As a single woman, I wouldnt just turn up at a new club without checking first, so as a single male, why would you?

I love going to chams, it gives me a safe place to have fun, that they dont let anyone of the street walk in, in my eyes is a good thing.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"They may have enough single males on their membership lista and are looking to attract more couples and ladies. I gather that a lot of clubs have a waiting list of single men. Just a thought but the best thing is to ask them.

Then they should put the information on their web pages to save people like me making a long journey and then having to just get back in the car and go home again. It's easy enough to do. Anyway as I said before I will not be going anywhere near Chams ever again. Since I've started having swinging parties at my house for small groups, I've no need to ge there anyway"

It does say exactly this on their website!

i wouldnt attend one of your parties if it is a free for all with no concern about ratios of men to women to couples attending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They may have enough single males on their membership lista and are looking to attract more couples and ladies. I gather that a lot of clubs have a waiting list of single men. Just a thought but the best thing is to ask them.

Then they should put the information on their web pages to save people like me making a long journey and then having to just get back in the car and go home again. It's easy enough to do. Anyway as I said before I will not be going anywhere near Chams ever again. Since I've started having swinging parties at my house for small groups, I've no need to ge there anyway"

I would imagine you blew any chance of a membership after the "dummy

spitting" review you left on the club page!!!

Aren't you a little old for sulking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says on website to ring,we did before our 1st visit,spoke to the very nice and ever so slightly camp guy and he told us all about it and then we proceded to drive there.

By the sounds of it a lot of single men think entrance is a ticket to sex

I once told a lad no while another was playing with nik,his face was a picture .what's he going to do,he weighed about 11 stone wet through

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Just an idea, but for the benefit of all those who think that single guys are just like pieces of meat to them, why not Chams do the simple and transparent thing, and have an page on their web site, where, just like at the deli counter at the supermarket, the guys can pick up a ticket, and wait for their number to come up? The web site can show what the next number is that is due to be served, and it will provide a proper queue with an idea of how many are in the queue, and how long people will have to wait before their number is due to be called?

As I say, just an idea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just an idea, but for the benefit of all those who think that single guys are just like pieces of meat to them, why not Chams do the simple and transparent thing, and have an page on their web site, where, just like at the deli counter at the supermarket, the guys can pick up a ticket, and wait for their number to come up? The web site can show what the next number is that is due to be served, and it will provide a proper queue with an idea of how many are in the queue, and how long people will have to wait before their number is due to be called?

As I say, just an idea..."

"how many are in the queue"???

For what?

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"

the single men numbers should be lower

Why?

What about those of us that won't play with couples and go our separate ways in the club?

We went last Sunday and there was no single men who took my fancy..........

It happens. Times are hard and all the clubs are noticing a downturn.

In fact, I know one club that will give you a free visit if you go to one of their evenings and there are less than 20 people there!

It's not just Chams the recession is hitting.

**And as for the griping minnie who couldn't get membership at Chams........ If you whinged this much to the staff........ no wonder they said no**"

There was absolutely no whinging done until after I was refused membrship. My main gripe is that as they have a website, why don't they put a few simple facts on it. Like "Single men ring up and ask about membership before attending" Simples as the meercat would say. If they did something like then I wouldn't have had to waste a day and petrol money.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

It does say on the website that membership cannot be guaranteed at any point

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

not sure i am allowed to do this but....taken from their wesite, under the membership section, seem prett implicit that you cant just rock up and expect membership to me!!

Application Rules:

Single males can enquire at the club Tuesday through to Friday and Sunday also Saturday daytime as it is couples only on Saturday evenings.Please bring two forms of I.D. with you e.g. Driving Licence, Passport or Current Utility Bill.

PLEASE NOTE THAT MEMBERSHIP CANNOT BE GUARANTEED AT ANY POINT.

MEMBERSHIP WILL NEVER BE GUARANTEED OVER THE TELEPHONE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does say on the website that membership cannot be guaranteed at any point "

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Precisely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does say on the website that membership cannot be guaranteed at any point "

As has been said a million times over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure i am allowed to do this but....taken from their wesite, under the membership section, seem prett implicit that you cant just rock up and expect membership to me!!

Application Rules:

Single males can enquire at the club Tuesday through to Friday and Sunday also Saturday daytime as it is couples only on Saturday evenings.Please bring two forms of I.D. with you e.g. Driving Licence, Passport or Current Utility Bill.

PLEASE NOTE THAT MEMBERSHIP CANNOT BE GUARANTEED AT ANY POINT.

MEMBERSHIP WILL NEVER BE GUARANTEED OVER THE TELEPHONE.

"

.

I guess some people cannot read or understand simple English!

Or choose to ignore the information and believe their patron is so desirable that no establishment will dare refuse them!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"not sure i am allowed to do this but....taken from their wesite, under the membership section, seem prett implicit that you cant just rock up and expect membership to me!!

Application Rules:

Single males can enquire at the club Tuesday through to Friday and Sunday also Saturday daytime as it is couples only on Saturday evenings.Please bring two forms of I.D. with you e.g. Driving Licence, Passport or Current Utility Bill.

PLEASE NOTE THAT MEMBERSHIP CANNOT BE GUARANTEED AT ANY POINT.

MEMBERSHIP WILL NEVER BE GUARANTEED OVER THE TELEPHONE.

"

Hmmm, he seems to have gone quiet now. Busted!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come to the conclusion being single male reduces your reading skills by 95 percent.

We put in our profile

Single males only-put nik is hot in subject box.this was last night.we've had 20 odd messages.about 4 or 5 read whole profile.

They put hi in subject box and then start with love your profile

Haha fucking idiots,I even replied saying you didn't read it.I just keep blocking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whilst writing that message I had 2 more,guess what? Deleted and blocked.didn't read profile.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

You'll find that if you phone, you'll be told to turn up at their place, that they can't guarantee a membership over the phone, but just in case, to bring 2 forms of ID.

There is no mention made of a queue for single guy membership. Apparently, it all depends on if there is a vacancy at the moment that you arrive. Judging by the common "knowledge" of the existence of this long queue, I don't think that is a very fair impression to give.

So what's a guy from Nottingham, Manchester, London, or Glasgow supposed to do? If he can read the web site, he'll phone up. If he does what the person he talks to on the phone says, he'll make the journey. Then and only then, he'll either become a member or join this queue that we all hear about.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"

There was absolutely no whinging done until after I was refused membrship. My main gripe is that as they have a website, why don't they put a few simple facts on it. Like "Single men ring up and ask about membership before attending" Simples as the meercat would say. If they did something like then I wouldn't have had to waste a day and petrol money."

Obviously you DIDN'T read the website then, as those above me have pointed out, it says about membership on there.

Now............ do you want to bang on about how Chams has ruined your sex life or do you want to admit that you didn't/can't/couldn't be arsed to read the website and just assumed, that because you are 'single' all the women, including the staff, would be panting with lust for you and that they would never refuse you entrance?

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"You'll find that if you phone, you'll be told to turn up at their place, that they can't guarantee a membership over the phone, but just in case, to bring 2 forms of ID."

I beg to differ. I've answered the phone at Chams many times and the staff, and I for that matter, NEVER tell a single man to turn up UNLESS it is fairly quiet and the club is happy to admit him as a guest for that day.

Everyone who is told to come along is asked to bring 2 forms of ID, but NEVER NEVER NEVER do they tell you to turn up 'just in case'


"There is no mention made of a queue for single guy membership. Apparently, it all depends on if there is a vacancy at the moment that you arrive."

It is ALWAYS mentioned that single men have to join the waiting list, or they are told that entrance will not be allowed that day and to call back another time or, sometimes, they are asked if they are bi and if so, they can 'sometimes' be guaranteed entrance on a Monday.


" Judging by the common "knowledge" of the existence of this long queue, I don't think that is a very fair impression to give."

Most clubs will have a waiting list for single guys. Do you know how many want to join because they see it as an easy route to a shag?

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

If all single men were allowed to just turn up and join, it would be bloody chaos.

100 single men in, 5 couples and 1 single woman.

And then we'd have all the single men moaning that there were TOO MANY single men.


"So what's a guy from Nottingham, Manchester, London, or Glasgow supposed to do? If he can read the web site, he'll phone up. If he does what the person he talks to on the phone says, he'll make the journey. Then and only then, he'll either become a member or join this queue that we all hear about."

A single man from anywhere is supposed to read the website and actually LISTEN to the person on the other end of the phone when they ring Chams.

If one of the staff says they can turn up, it's common sense to take a name and bring two forms of ID. Only then, IF, there is a problem, they have the name of the person who took the call and one of the managers will probably, and I only say probably, allow them in as a day guest.

But...... I've been going to Chams from the day it opened and I've yet to hear of anyone phoning and being told to phone up 'just in case'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll find that if you phone, you'll be told to turn up at their place, that they can't guarantee a membership over the phone, but just in case, to bring 2 forms of ID.

There is no mention made of a queue for single guy membership. Apparently, it all depends on if there is a vacancy at the moment that you arrive. Judging by the common "knowledge" of the existence of this long queue, I don't think that is a very fair impression to give.

So what's a guy from Nottingham, Manchester, London, or Glasgow supposed to do? If he can read the web site, he'll phone up. If he does what the person he talks to on the phone says, he'll make the journey. Then and only then, he'll either become a member or join this queue that we all hear about."

well coming from glasgow it'd be pointless for me to try gettin a membership..despite my love for the club(ok one time visit)- anyway am waiting till tey are wanting staff then i can relocate ad do my dream job lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add as a rule new years eve is strictly for members only no new members will be allowed in on that night so if you wish to attend would suggest becoming a member before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are thinking of going as a couple - yes we read the Rules and bought the book. What is the ratio of single men to women/couples?

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"

There was absolutely no whinging done until after I was refused membrship. My main gripe is that as they have a website, why don't they put a few simple facts on it. Like "Single men ring up and ask about membership before attending" Simples as the meercat would say. If they did something like then I wouldn't have had to waste a day and petrol money.

Obviously you DIDN'T read the website then, as those above me have pointed out, it says about membership on there.

Now............ do you want to bang on about how Chams has ruined your sex life or do you want to admit that you didn't/can't/couldn't be arsed to read the website and just assumed, that because you are 'single' all the women, including the staff, would be panting with lust for you and that they would never refuse you entrance?"

I can assure you that I DID read their web page and fully understand that membership cannot be guaranteed over the phone. A simple message - such as " Single males please telephone before attending to see if there are any vacancies" would prevent unneccessary travel.

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone


"You'll find that if you phone, you'll be told to turn up at their place, that they can't guarantee a membership over the phone, but just in case, to bring 2 forms of ID.

I beg to differ. I've answered the phone at Chams many times and the staff, and I for that matter, NEVER tell a single man to turn up UNLESS it is fairly quiet and the club is happy to admit him as a guest for that day.

Everyone who is told to come along is asked to bring 2 forms of ID, but NEVER NEVER NEVER do they tell you to turn up 'just in case'

There is no mention made of a queue for single guy membership. Apparently, it all depends on if there is a vacancy at the moment that you arrive.

It is ALWAYS mentioned that single men have to join the waiting list, or they are told that entrance will not be allowed that day and to call back another time or, sometimes, they are asked if they are bi and if so, they can 'sometimes' be guaranteed entrance on a Monday.

Judging by the common "knowledge" of the existence of this long queue, I don't think that is a very fair impression to give.

Most clubs will have a waiting list for single guys. Do you know how many want to join because they see it as an easy route to a shag?

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

If all single men were allowed to just turn up and join, it would be bloody chaos.

100 single men in, 5 couples and 1 single woman.

And then we'd have all the single men moaning that there were TOO MANY single men.

So what's a guy from Nottingham, Manchester, London, or Glasgow supposed to do? If he can read the web site, he'll phone up. If he does what the person he talks to on the phone says, he'll make the journey. Then and only then, he'll either become a member or join this queue that we all hear about.

A single man from anywhere is supposed to read the website and actually LISTEN to the person on the other end of the phone when they ring Chams.

If one of the staff says they can turn up, it's common sense to take a name and bring two forms of ID. Only then, IF, there is a problem, they have the name of the person who took the call and one of the managers will probably, and I only say probably, allow them in as a day guest.

But...... I've been going to Chams from the day it opened and I've yet to hear of anyone phoning and being told to phone up 'just in case'"

100 single guys 5 couples and a single woman?. I dont think they have got their ratios right there. Plus as single guys always pay way over the odds for admission, the club must be raking it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not the case have always found the numbers pretty even plus last couple of years have seen increase in single ladies joining it all depends on what night you go or prefer.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


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Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

"

Can me and Cali go that day please?

Sorry to edit your very sensible post.The fact is everyone should phone before they go to a club for the first time...it just seems common sense to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

Can me and Cali go that day please?

Sorry to edit your very sensible post.The fact is everyone should phone before they go to a club for the first time...it just seems common sense to me!"

Fuck add me to the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrrr, if you like it....go.

If you don't.... don't but for goodness sake, stop whining guys its so very unbecoming... and most of those that whine the most, are those that frequent it, the least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it that every thread on here seems to turn into 'bash the single guy" all the time?

I've read one post saying "all the single guys moaning". There is one bloke moaning about one experience he has had. And that's it.

Yes he should really have rung to check but why does that transform into all single guys thinking people are pieces of meat?

Get off your high horses please. It's embarassing and repetitive.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"

100 single guys 5 couples and a single woman?. I dont think they have got their ratios right there. Plus as single guys always pay way over the odds for admission, the club must be raking it in. "

My apologies, I should have stated that that is the ratio of those wanting to join chameleons.

Chams does get it's ratio's right (most of the time) purely by the fact that it limits the amount of single men that can join.

I did state in another paragraph that if all those wanting to join (the ratio of 100 single men, 5 couples, 1 single woman), then the club would be full of single men moaning because it was full of single men.

I hope that has cleared that little misunderstanding up..............

**walks off muttering about checking the typing before posting next time**

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"

I can assure you that I DID read their web page and fully understand that membership cannot be guaranteed over the phone. A simple message - such as " Single males please telephone before attending to see if there are any vacancies" would prevent unneccessary travel."

IF you did read the website, you would have seen this quote (taken directly from the membership page of Chams website)

PLEASE NOTE THAT MEMBERSHIP CANNOT BE GUARANTEED AT ANY POINT.

MEMBERSHIP WILL NEVER BE GUARANTEED OVER THE TELEPHONE.

So.......... Membership canot be guaranteed at any point!!

Surely, any sensible person would have phoned the club first and asked if they would be able to get in for the day/night as they were travelling from a long way....

Or am I too sensible for my own good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after reading the whole thread i really do have to say , after attending this club as a couple a year or so ago , i failed to see why any single guy would bother let alone travel from a distance , the nit was a washout , couples , 20 single guys and two single females .why any guy in his right mind would want to pay an extortionate entrance fee and at the same time be frowned upon for being a single guy is beyond me , you may aswell pool the money your going to spend and go to a knocking shop or take your chance at a good dogging location .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after reading the whole thread i really do have to say , after attending this club as a couple a year or so ago , i failed to see why any single guy would bother let alone travel from a distance , the nit was a washout , couples , 20 single guys and two single females .why any guy in his right mind would want to pay an extortionate entrance fee and at the same time be frowned upon for being a single guy is beyond me , you may aswell pool the money your going to spend and go to a knocking shop or take your chance at a good dogging location ."

You must have been on a very odd night mate

It does happen like that sometimes but it very rare xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i actually spoke to a couple there who use it once a month and it wasnt a rare occurance so they tell me , 5 couples there that night , loads of guys aswell . plus the single guy snobbery , a friend of mine runs another well know club in london , is the same there . the scene has taken a massive hit due to the economy , thing is single guys have never been made to feel as welcome as single females and couples . thats common knowledge and a fact

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

try it again when i'm up there, i am very nice and welcoming to single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just saying it as ive seen it mate

Have been going ta chams regular as a single and couple since it opened

Have only ever had three bad nights in all that time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try it again when i'm up there, i am very nice and welcoming to single guys "

Am I allowed to +1?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"try it again when i'm up there, i am very nice and welcoming to single guys

Am I allowed to +1? "

hell yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it that was not on either a Friday or Saturday fitmale ?

We have been going for just over a year now and it's always been very busy with a great mix of people , we have not been any other nights so cannot comment about those nights

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"...I've answered the phone at Chams many times and the staff, and I for that matter, NEVER tell a single man to turn up UNLESS it is fairly quiet and the club is happy to admit him as a guest for that day...

...Everyone who is told to come along is asked to bring 2 forms of ID, but NEVER NEVER NEVER do they tell you to turn up 'just in case'...

...It is ALWAYS mentioned that single men have to join the waiting list..."

Well I wish you'd answered the phone when I called early this afternoon when I asked about membership at a time when the club was probably not too busy. A bit of staff training may be in order to bring people into line with the good guidance that you refer to.


"...Most clubs will have a waiting list for single guys..."

Really? Which ones? There will be a fair number of guys wo would be grateful to be saved from any more unwanted surprises.


"A single man from anywhere is supposed to read the website and actually LISTEN to the person on the other end of the phone when they ring Chams."

I listened very carefully thank you. I even asked for an explaination of what was meant by "couldn't guarantee a membership" and was told quite simply, that it all depended on if there was a vacancy at the time, and to bring 2 forms of ID just in case.


"I've been going to Chams from the day it opened"

And I bet the petrol companies love you for it. Cheltenham to Darlaston. Plenty of miles there. It must be a good club that it's worth all that investment in fuel. Who says that the blokes have got it expensive eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i went as a couple lol . sounds a bit of a minefield as a single guy although i would love to be welcomed by you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unsure of the night but hey ho , a bit dissapointed must try again and will but only as a couple . im open to invites ladies hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been going the last 4 years and I swear down no such thing as a bad night at chams. If you go with the right attitude. I like it when its busy I also love it when quiet more room to play etc and always buzz of the atmosphere.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

Can me and Cali go that day please?

Sorry to edit your very sensible post.The fact is everyone should phone before they go to a club for the first time...it just seems common sense to me!

Fuck add me to the list "

Woohooo,so thats me jaqs and cali and 100 men...whats the chams number ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

Can me and Cali go that day please?

Sorry to edit your very sensible post.The fact is everyone should phone before they go to a club for the first time...it just seems common sense to me!

Fuck add me to the list

Woohooo,so thats me jaqs and cali and 100 men...whats the chams number ? "

errr........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

Can me and Cali go that day please?

Sorry to edit your very sensible post.The fact is everyone should phone before they go to a club for the first time...it just seems common sense to me!

Fuck add me to the list

Woohooo,so thats me jaqs and cali and 100 men...whats the chams number ? "

100 men??? bugger that count me in too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahem.....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

Can me and Cali go that day please?

Sorry to edit your very sensible post.The fact is everyone should phone before they go to a club for the first time...it just seems common sense to me!

Fuck add me to the list

Woohooo,so thats me jaqs and cali and 100 men...whats the chams number ?

errr........ "

Eves,soapy and Testarossa...but thats it, i refuse to share anymore ,we are down to 20 each now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

Can me and Cali go that day please?

Sorry to edit your very sensible post.The fact is everyone should phone before they go to a club for the first time...it just seems common sense to me!

Fuck add me to the list

Woohooo,so thats me jaqs and cali and 100 men...whats the chams number ?

errr........

Eves,soapy and Testarossa...but thats it, i refuse to share anymore ,we are down to 20 each now! "

Na i aint comin just fa a few xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

Can me and Cali go that day please?

Sorry to edit your very sensible post.The fact is everyone should phone before they go to a club for the first time...it just seems common sense to me!

Fuck add me to the list

Woohooo,so thats me jaqs and cali and 100 men...whats the chams number ?

errr........

Eves,soapy and Testarossa...but thats it, i refuse to share anymore ,we are down to 20 each now!

Na i aint comin just fa a few xx "

Doesn't normally stop ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

Can me and Cali go that day please?

Sorry to edit your very sensible post.The fact is everyone should phone before they go to a club for the first time...it just seems common sense to me!

Fuck add me to the list

Woohooo,so thats me jaqs and cali and 100 men...whats the chams number ?

errr........

Eves,soapy and Testarossa...but thats it, i refuse to share anymore ,we are down to 20 each now!

Na i aint comin just fa a few xx "

Who says your playing...us ladies need someone to fetch drinks and clean up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya thinks im doin womens work??? xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Ya thinks im doin womens work??? xx "

i ve got you a nice maids uniform to wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come to the conclusion being single male reduces your reading skills by 95 percent.

We put in our profile

Single males only-put nik is hot in subject box.this was last night.we've had 20 odd messages.about 4 or 5 read whole profile.

They put hi in subject box and then start with love your profile

Haha fucking idiots,I even replied saying you didn't read it.I just keep blocking them."

Whereas men that get married or are in a relationship suddenly become geniuses......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas is creeping up on us so people are saving the pennies so what a great idea to advertise in the paper. after all some people don't know the place exists. good on you chams love seeing new faces in the club xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I allowed to join the gang as one of the welcoming party please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nor do I but knowing the ratio's at Chameleons, I can tell you it's about 100 single men to 5 couples and 1 single female.

Can me and Cali go that day please?

Sorry to edit your very sensible post.The fact is everyone should phone before they go to a club for the first time...it just seems common sense to me!"

The odds are down a bit now .... Lol.. I'm so greedy I hate sharing...

I know a few single guys on the list... And some do get around it by having a regular lady they attend with.

Cali x

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By *Sensual40Man
over a year ago

South Woodford

Couldn't agree more.

NEXT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"every time i have been to that club on a friday been full ...... i bet next weekend be really full of sexy people too x

I'll definitely be there next weekend "

yes we are there friday will be mad 100s there .. i bet x all them horny devils and gosts coming out to play .

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By *riendlymasseurMan
over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

Everytime I ask they have no male membership places. Shame. I was even told to come down once, but when I got there 45 minutes later they said too many men in. Wasted journeys are frustrating when you are feeling horny .lol. shame I.love the place .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have as a couple had a single man come as a gest and called chams to make sure it was ok .. was alot of fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come to the conclusion being single male reduces your reading skills by 95 percent.

We put in our profile

Single males only-put nik is hot in subject box.this was last night.we've had 20 odd messages.about 4 or 5 read whole profile.

They put hi in subject box and then start with love your profile

Haha fucking idiots,I even replied saying you didn't read it.I just keep blocking them.

Whereas men that get married or are in a relationship suddenly become geniuses......"

Dah! They have a woman! The genius! Honestly!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Everytime I ask they have no male membership places. Shame. I was even told to come down once, but when I got there 45 minutes later they said too many men in. Wasted journeys are frustrating when you are feeling horny .lol. shame I.love the place . "

Right, for all those single men who want to come along but can't because of the waiting list.......

Come to the Pussy Posse Christmas Party. You are guaranteed entrance if you are on MY list (as you will come in as MY guest for the day and you will be answerable to ME if you misbehave)...... for that party only...... but you will at least get to see Chams for yourselves and you may even be able to ask the management, on the day, if there are any spaces that you could fill.

The party is advertised on the Meets and Parties Forum under 3rd Annual Pussy Posse Christmas party.

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford


"Everytime I ask they have no male membership places. Shame. I was even told to come down once, but when I got there 45 minutes later they said too many men in. Wasted journeys are frustrating when you are feeling horny .lol. shame I.love the place .

Right, for all those single men who want to come along but can't because of the waiting list.......

Come to the Pussy Posse Christmas Party. You are guaranteed entrance if you are on MY list (as you will come in as MY guest for the day and you will be answerable to ME if you misbehave)...... for that party only...... but you will at least get to see Chams for yourselves and you may even be able to ask the management, on the day, if there are any spaces that you could fill.

The party is advertised on the Meets and Parties Forum under 3rd Annual Pussy Posse Christmas party.

"

hi what exactly is a pussy posse as opposed to any other night? it sounds intrigueing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

hi what exactly is a pussy posse as opposed to any other night? it sounds intrigueing "

.

A bunch of ladies out to enjoy themselves!

Membership is required for normal nights.

However, at social events hosted by an existing member, his/her guests do not need to be members in order to attend the party.

They just need to pay the entry fee applicable to them.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"Everytime I ask they have no male membership places. Shame. I was even told to come down once, but when I got there 45 minutes later they said too many men in. Wasted journeys are frustrating when you are feeling horny .lol. shame I.love the place .

Right, for all those single men who want to come along but can't because of the waiting list.......

Come to the Pussy Posse Christmas Party. You are guaranteed entrance if you are on MY list (as you will come in as MY guest for the day and you will be answerable to ME if you misbehave)...... for that party only...... but you will at least get to see Chams for yourselves and you may even be able to ask the management, on the day, if there are any spaces that you could fill.

The party is advertised on the Meets and Parties Forum under 3rd Annual Pussy Posse Christmas party.

hi what exactly is a pussy posse as opposed to any other night? it sounds intrigueing "

If you check out the thread in the Meets and Parties Forum, all the information you need/require is on it. Including how to gain entrance, why etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The local rag? Express and star? I wouldn't believe the date on that paper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The local rag? Express and star? I wouldn't believe the date on that paper "

U know that paper well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The local rag? Express and star? I wouldn't believe the date on that paper

U know that paper well "

Made up and stories spring to mind!!! Or as an old work colleague called it the doom and gloom, never a positive story in it lol now the Sunday sport!!! Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was thinking contact mags if they are still about or readers wives could advertise in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was thinking contact mags if they are still about or readers wives could advertise in them."

experience was one years ago lol!!

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