FabSwingers.com forum: Are single guys into "soft" threesomes?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pretty much as the title says..

We're interested in the option of a soft threesome, but I (miss) are not interested in penetration from another guy. Well maybe for DP but not to start with, maybe after gotten to know the guy a bit.

So are single guys into oral/touching soft threesomes?

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By *iggerLuvWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I think this site has a little something for everyone so I'm sure you won't be dissapointed huni and you will find what you want xxx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You might want to not mention the possibility of DP further down the line, I suspect you may attract people for the wrong reasons.

Might be an idea to give a fuller explanation of what you regard as 'soft' in an MMF situation.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"You might want to not mention the possibility of DP further down the line, I suspect you may attract people for the wrong reasons.

Might be an idea to give a fuller explanation of what you regard as 'soft' in an MMF situation."

I totally agree... good luck and sure you will find someone... have fun x

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By *radfordfunguyMan
over a year ago

Heaton, Bradford

I find it great fun watching another couple and then being allowed to play with the girl giving oral satisfaction. But guess you need to agree on the boundaries. Penetration maybe next time hopefully if not on first meet!

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"You might want to not mention the possibility of DP further down the line, I suspect you may attract people for the wrong reasons.

Might be an idea to give a fuller explanation of what you regard as 'soft' in an MMF situation."

Not soft in the Liverpudlian sense neither

Wolf

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You'd need to select your guy with great care.

Many will say they are fine with soft play only, but be hoping that when things heat up one thing leads to another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have no issue with that - comes down to respect for the other people at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You'd need to select your guy with great care.

Many will say they are fine with soft play only, but be hoping that when things heat up one thing leads to another.

Goes without saying.

Bad enough trying to find the right "couples" to play with due to "expectations".

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By *uud 4-funMan
over a year ago

Dartford

There certainly are single guys who would be happy to watch, take photos, operate a camcorder for you. There will even be guys on here who will give you a massage without expectation of sex.

(Dunno about travelling to Virginia though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not this single guy

i dont speak for us all tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally. There are guys out there who understand boundaries and who meet up without expectations of things going further. Find the right guy and you'll do fine.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Think your best be might be to be REALLY specific about what's going to be happening - almost script it like a scene from a movie, each player knows there part, knows when to start, what do to, and importantly, when to 'leave stage left'.

At a guess the way to make the scenario work would be to ensure that 'guest male' is the one who cums first, thus removing him from the scene before he gets all overcome with emotion and tries to mount the leading lady, thus causing an 'out-take'.

On reflection, get me along to be the Director. I'll sit in a tall chair, shout 'action' and then talk the players through the scene, remembering to shout 'cut' if anyone goes off script.

I'm a fucking genius me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as the oral or handyworks good lol....maybe lol

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Why not? Less can be more after all and whether you are with a single partner or a couple you can have a fantastic time without penetration. You just need to be with the right partner or partners.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Having a loaded handgun in full _iew on a bedside table MAY act as a deterrent to SOME.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss Blonde, I don't think you'll have any trouble finding a guy - I would imagine that most guys would be happy to just sit adoringly at your feet.

I have played with single guys where its been soft play only and then they've watched me and the OH, there are guys out there. Admittedly lots of guys will hope for more and you need to be specific about what will take place, but as your part of a couple then no guy is gonna force you to do more if another guy is there.

And let's face it most guys would be happy about the chance to soft play with you rather than nothing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loaded handgun, more like loaded machine gun, no hang on thats Texas isn't it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping something back like this could make the whole situation hotter I reckon, but I agree with making sure the limits are set out clearly before hand.

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By *DSRMan
over a year ago

leicester

yes soft 3 somes sounds nice, i don't think sex is an absolute necessity with a meet, and i know alot of men/girls enjoy orals as much as sex... I guess it's person dependant but i recon most men would really enjoy it, but on multiple meets? Would they start to push for more? i think it would take a rare bread of person to continue in such antics without things going further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was wondering this myself (Hubby), wasn't sure if someone would be prepared to just take part in oral for a mmf.

We are just starting out with this lifestyle and Wifey wants to take small steps....

We've had a couple of meets, but this could be another step.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Was wondering this myself (Hubby), wasn't sure if someone would be prepared to just take part in oral for a mmf.

We are just starting out with this lifestyle and Wifey wants to take small steps....

We've had a couple of meets, but this could be another step.

Looking at the pic of hubby on your profile, if he said "do not fuck my wife", I would not fuck his wife.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Miss Blonde, I don't think you'll have any trouble finding a guy - I would imagine that most guys would be happy to just sit adoringly at your feet.

And let's face it most guys would be happy about the chance to soft play with you rather than nothing at all

Lol "most guys" making me the exception as I'd fall into the "rather nothing at all" category.

I don't mean I'd jump the gum on a pre-arranged soft-swing meet, but after a few years I'm happy to have a sit down coffe/chat/social meet .. or a full play meet. Soft-swing (as a meet) does nothing for me.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Why not? We have done this before more than once and it can be very sensual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was wondering this myself (Hubby), wasn't sure if someone would be prepared to just take part in oral for a mmf.

We are just starting out with this lifestyle and Wifey wants to take small steps....

We've had a couple of meets, but this could be another step.

Looking at the pic of hubby on your profile, if he said "do not fuck my wife", I would not fuck his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking at the pic of hubby on your profile, if he said "do not fuck my wife", I would not fuck his wife.

This really made me chuckle

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By *ighly ProfessionalMan
over a year ago

peterborough

certainly happy for soft play, touching and oral then leave the couple to penetrate , done that a few times not pushy know the rules and be considerate guys

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We had our first single guy meet at the weekend, chatted for a while, met socially, set boundaries, he and I chatted in bar so everyone knew what was happening, even time frame and when to leave etc.

Got upstairs where Sugar was waiting and everything flowed and we all had a fantastic time.

Guy said it was great he knew where he stood beforehand, and could relax and enjoy himself without having to second guess what we were thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, can be done for sure, we have done it

If a 3rd party cannot respect your wishes beforehand, well he obviously has difficulty with grasping "respect", end of the day, the female is in the driving seat and that needs to be made very clear right from the outset, on your profile, messages, phone, social etc and then and only then,if ALL are happy, you move forward

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By *rummpsMan
over a year ago

thanet

Yes of course it can happen and often does.

You just need to pick your prospective “playmates” carefully and be very specific about what will or won’t occur.

I think that most guys practice respect for others. Or I hope they would.

_rummps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prefer to give oral to a woman so I suppose that puts me in the minority on here?

For me I get a bigger buzz having a woman lose herself from my tongue and fingers and hearing/seeing her reactions.

You`d be suprised how many are happily suprised to fing you wanting to carry on after they`ve cum a few times without wanting to penetrate them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is just what I am looking for. I want to meet a couple to watch perhaps touch a little. Please let me know if i can be of any help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not a problem for me. If you join in with someone at their invitation then they set the rules thats comfortable for them. If you want "in" and they don't and you don't like it,move on, gracefully declining their offer.Have had several of these kind of meets in the past and it was fine with me. Hedonistic you have a kindred spirit in Suffolk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be very happy just to watch....nothing more horny then watching a couple have sex....wish there were more couples out there that wanted that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm.. speaking just for myself, ... No

But you're entitled to specify what the boundaries are, and single guys, who respond, should respect them, completely.

Best of luck, and have fun.

"Pretty much as the title says..

We're interested in the option of a soft threesome, but I (miss) are not interested in penetration from another guy. Well maybe for DP but not to start with, maybe after gotten to know the guy a bit.

So are single guys into oral/touching soft threesomes?"

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

So long as this boundary was known before meeting see no issue with it.

Talking about what everyone wants is good, particularly when you really know very little about someone else.

A lot of play at swingers clubs counts as soft play.

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Soft play 3somes are great fun. As long as rules are set beforehand. A couple I see regular (not from site) started as a soft play mmf. We were all happy with it, and it was like that for over 6 months before we progressed to full play. During those 6 months we met most weeks so we played soft plenty of times.

I love soft play as it genrally is a slower more relaxed pace, which suits my play style.

So anybody looking to play this way when you find prospective playmates, just talk and set guidelines for all involved. Then let the good times role.

Good luck and happy swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than happy to just soft swing. For me I would be happy just for a couple to want to meet me as its hard enough to find a couple that are looking for a guy in the first place.

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By *hris StylesMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Soft swing with a female from a couple or just with a woman is fun! Nothing better than feeling her moistness on my fingers, feeling her cherry grow and her body shudder!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course well this guy is I can play all night with just touching licking massaging I think soft swap is so erotic with the right people xxxxx

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