FabSwingers.com forum: Should we name and shame?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Meet should have turned up at 7.30... messaged to say running late.... 9.00.... she's left our kik chat and hidden her profile!!

She approached us.... even video chatted last night!

Fuming, frustrated and incredibly horny.... should we name and shame?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s against the rules, but it’s up to you best thing to do is block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could but it's against the rules. You're a couple so at least you've got each other to be horny with. Just enjoy each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, report, block, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As annoying as it is her loss just concentrate on fun things and not the negatives ... ps have a fun Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet should have turned up at 7.30... messaged to say running late.... 9.00.... she's left our kik chat and hidden her profile!!

She approached us.... even video chatted last night!

Fuming, frustrated and incredibly horny.... should we name and shame?"
hey I had same Friday it happens a lot ,its made you frustrated but nothing lost so just forget about it ,its extremely rude not even saying sorry can't make it but you'll never no why

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"No, report, block, move on."

Agree with the ‘report’ and ‘block’

How frustrating and very annoying for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and delete OP. You never really know what is going on in other people’s lives. I mean sh#t happens, not too long ago I was on my way to a meet and I was in a car crash. I was ok, a little shaken up ....... however I still made it to the meet..... I was horny as hell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ambition exceeding abilities strikes again !

had my fair share of no shows ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ambition exceeding abilities strikes again !

had my fair share of no shows , "
ambition on the couples side ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great, I ca finally tell Fab how you let me down and didn't turn up. You promised me a weekend of fun, and were going to pick me up from the train station. You left me standing.

True ? Of course not. But that's how easy it is to name and shame. Only my word for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on.

Had that happen when i was part of a couple profile.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Meet should have turned up at 7.30... messaged to say running late.... 9.00.... she's left our kik chat and hidden her profile!!

She approached us.... even video chatted last night!

Fuming, frustrated and incredibly horny.... should we name and shame?"

Have a wank. Then go to the pub.

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By *rated-BaconMan
over a year ago

medway

I would name and shame. Who cares if I get in trouble. Better to save others the aggro in real life than to abide by rules.. on a website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ambition exceeding abilities strikes again !

had my fair share of no shows , ambition on the couples side ?

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no , how can it be the couple , they was all set for meeting

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I would name and shame. Who cares if I get in trouble. Better to save others the aggro in real life than to abide by rules.. on a website"

In reality no-one will notice. If you tell the forum it will be irrelevant. If you put it on your status who will see? No-one.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

In reality no-one will notice. If you tell the forum it will be irrelevant. If you put it on your status who will see? No-one."

You put it the status..then you moan in forum..people will notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would name and shame. Who cares if I get in trouble. Better to save others the aggro in real life than to abide by rules.. on a website"

If you care about being on this website then certain rules neeecro be adhered to. It's also about respect for others.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Naming and shaming just makes you seem bitter and twisted - use the system and report them.

Personally, I'd just let it go, she obviously had a change of heart; apparently that happens a lot on Fab - disappointing and frustrating for you guys but it's a facet of this life style; put it down to experiance and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would name and shame. Who cares if I get in trouble. Better to save others the aggro in real life than to abide by rules.. on a website

If you care about being on this website then certain rules neeecro be adhered to. It's also about respect for others. "

*need to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ambition exceeding abilities strikes again !

had my fair share of no shows , ambition on the couples side ?

no , how can it be the couple , they was all set for meeting "
yes but how many couples get to meet the elusive unicorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would name and shame. Who cares if I get in trouble. Better to save others the aggro in real life than to abide by rules.. on a website"

I could be a bitch and name and shame you, and say we arranged to meet and you didn’t turn up.

It wouldn’t be true but who would know?

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By *rated-BaconMan
over a year ago

medway

"I would name and shame. Who cares if I get in trouble. Better to save others the aggro in real life than to abide by rules.. on a website

If you care about being on this website then certain rules neeecro be adhered to. It's also about respect for others. "

If i was the OP i would say like the respect shown to us?

Ive seen peoples status's about wasters many times.. sometimes i play along and end up blocking because the person was right... 100% of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would name and shame. Who cares if I get in trouble. Better to save others the aggro in real life than to abide by rules.. on a website

If you care about being on this website then certain rules neeecro be adhered to. It's also about respect for others.

If i was the OP i would say like the respect shown to us?

Ive seen peoples status's about wasters many times.. sometimes i play along and end up blocking because the person was right... 100% of the time"

Like others have said, who is to know the OP is telling the truth?

Rise above it all and move on.

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By *rated-BaconMan
over a year ago

medway

"I would name and shame. Who cares if I get in trouble. Better to save others the aggro in real life than to abide by rules.. on a website

I could be a bitch and name and shame you, and say we arranged to meet and you didn’t turn up.

It wouldn’t be true but who would know?"

Only us.. But what you chose to do never was and never will be any of my business. I'd like to think (most humans) wouldn't lie like that but then again.. I've met some and people are very strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ambition exceeding abilities strikes again !

had my fair share of no shows , ambition on the couples side ?

no , how can it be the couple , they was all set for meeting yes but how many couples get to meet the elusive unicorn

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who said she was an elusive unicorn tho ? might have been arranged to fuck the fella while she watched lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, report, block, move on."
report them for what for not meeting lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

In reality no-one will notice. If you tell the forum it will be irrelevant. If you put it on your status who will see? No-one.

You put it the status..then you moan in forum..people will notice.

But will they be people who might have met her? Probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would name and shame. Who cares if I get in trouble. Better to save others the aggro in real life than to abide by rules.. on a website

I could be a bitch and name and shame you, and say we arranged to meet and you didn’t turn up.

It wouldn’t be true but who would know?

Only us.. But what you chose to do never was and never will be any of my business. I'd like to think (most humans) wouldn't lie like that but then again.. I've met some and people are very strange"

On here where people lie about so many things from their height, age and marital status, I really don’t think some would think twice about naming and shaming someone they took offence to for whatever reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, report, block, move on.report them for what for not meeting lol"
actually arranging to meet and not turning up is one of the tick box choices in the report section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would name and shame. Who cares if I get in trouble. Better to save others the aggro in real life than to abide by rules.. on a website"
go on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, report, block, move on.report them for what for not meeting lolactually arranging to meet and not turning up is one of the tick box choices in the report section "
but they won't do anything tho for not meeting

so no point reporting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You can report a no show.

Naming and shaming is against site rules and will earn a ban us post or status removed so also pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, report, block, move on.report them for what for not meeting lolactually arranging to meet and not turning up is one of the tick box choices in the report section but they won't do anything tho for not meeting

so no point reporting "
maybe if people did report more things may be done , what ? I don't know but then I'm not a website owner so don't know what can be done

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