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What’s Kinky?

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Someone asked me today, I didn’t know what to say, other than it’s a process of sexual behaviour that has been nominalised.

Don’t think it was the answer they were looking for personality...

What’s kinky mean to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone asked me today, I didn’t know what to say, other than it’s a process of sexual behaviour that has been nominalised.

Don’t think it was the answer they were looking for personality...

What’s kinky mean to you?"

Something wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WELL iam very open minded what’s kinky to me is damn right dirty to others

Some people think a quick shag before kids get in from school is kinky I think it just a quick shag

Some think tied up spanking blindfold is

Some it’s role play

Some it’s swinging

It’s depends mine is watching others and joining in that to me is kinky

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"WELL iam very open minded what’s kinky to me is damn right dirty to others

Some people think a quick shag before kids get in from school is kinky I think it just a quick shag

Some think tied up spanking blindfold is

Some it’s role play

Some it’s swinging

It’s depends mine is watching others and joining in that to me is kinky "

So if someone say “I’m kinky”, the answer isn’t what are the other six Dwarfs called, it’s whar is your kink?

I know I am a stickler for semantics, why do people give themselves these types of titles and not explain the process they are into?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

“Using the whole chicken” is the official answer

V x

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"“Using the whole chicken” is the official answer

V x

"

Like you use a condom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok put it this way my kinks change

I like lots of stuff and depending on my mood I’ll either want a Dom lass to strap on me or I’ll want to dp her ,

People need to ask what kink your into iam sure others have kinks that change

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

I think what I’m into is normal. Most don’t but I mean it’s normal for me. Maybe people see kinky as anything the majority don’t do because it’s deemed ‘ab’ normal. I don’t know, I just know what I like and do it with those who meet my mind. Fuck the label.

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Ok put it this way my kinks change

I like lots of stuff and depending on my mood I’ll either want a Dom lass to strap on me or I’ll want to dp her ,

People need to ask what kink your into iam sure others have kinks that change "

Totally agree, however people give themselves titles such as Dom like it’s fixed in stone, then semantics kick in and there is total breakdown.

Could it be time to stand on the rostrum and state your kink!

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Ok put it this way my kinks change

I like lots of stuff and depending on my mood I’ll either want a Dom lass to strap on me or I’ll want to dp her ,

People need to ask what kink your into iam sure others have kinks that change

Totally agree, however people give themselves titles such as Dom like it’s fixed in stone, then semantics kick in and there is total breakdown.

Could it be time to stand on the rostrum and state your kink!"

Well as a process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe best to say in messages early on what your looking for and if kink comes up then depending on the mood iam in ide tell them but again it changes

Hate the word Dom and sub

If people are that way is that the only way ?

I prefer to be versatile just because I am greedy lol

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Maybe best to say in messages early on what your looking for and if kink comes up then depending on the mood iam in ide tell them but again it changes

Hate the word Dom and sub

If people are that way is that the only way ?

I prefer to be versatile just because I am greedy lol

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So jealous, I couldn’t bottom, just not in my nature. L can switch in an instant, as soon as she senses a weakness, bang, she flips into top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy on here told me he was kinky. I asked what he thought was kinky. Answer ‘I love giving a woman oral’??

We all think very differently

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"A guy on here told me he was kinky. I asked what he thought was kinky. Answer ‘I love giving a woman oral’??

We all think very differently "

You made me spill my drink lady....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe best to say in messages early on what your looking for and if kink comes up then depending on the mood iam in ide tell them but again it changes

Hate the word Dom and sub

If people are that way is that the only way ?

I prefer to be versatile just because I am greedy lol

So jealous, I couldn’t bottom, just not in my nature. L can switch in an instant, as soon as she senses a weakness, bang, she flips into top."

Hell no I can’t bottom to a guy but a lass with strap on he’ll yes

And I can when get into it turn much worse but it’s only with trust

Trust =more kink more pleasure

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

louth

Just remmeber fabsters whatever you are into its only kinky the first time

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

something different from the standard nom which the majority play by - missionary not kinky - c hoke kinky.

what are the words you can't post on fab. c.h.o.ke is one of them.

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West


"something different from the standard nom which the majority play by - missionary not kinky - c hoke kinky.

what are the words you can't post on fab. c.h.o.ke is one of them."

Eek you said the C word!!! It’ll be the B word next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy on here told me he was kinky. I asked what he thought was kinky. Answer ‘I love giving a woman oral’??

We all think very differently "

This made us chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely difficult to describe, as one persons kink is normal to another.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I guess a kink, in the literal sense, is something that deviates from the norm. In terms of sex, the norm keeps shifting. It used to be missionary and a handshake goodnight. Now..... Take your pick!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Always bemuses me that 'kinky' is nearly always related to BDSM when people use the term, whereas to my mind a kink can take on any number of forms that are nothing to do with BDSM at all - for instance sploshing is a kink and therefore kinky to some, likewise some people have a kink for balloons and the list goes on.

As others have said what is 'kinky' to one person will be 'normal' to another, in fact I'd go as far as to say there's no such thing as 'kinky' as a generic catch all term - however just about all of us have 'kinks' i.e. things we like or fantasise about as part of our sexual activities - for some that might be something generally considered 'normal' such as stockings and suspenders - for others it might be being tied up and spanked.

Sexuality is such an individual thing that I keep coming back to their being no such thing as 'kinky'.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I think what I’m into is normal. Most don’t but I mean it’s normal for me. Maybe people see kinky as anything the majority don’t do because it’s deemed ‘ab’ normal. I don’t know, I just know what I like and do it with those who meet my mind. Fuck the label. "

This is another very good way of looking at it

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"Someone asked me today, I didn’t know what to say, other than it’s a process of sexual behaviour that has been nominalised.

Don’t think it was the answer they were looking for personality...

What’s kinky mean to you?"

Damn good fun - that's what it is; and hanks to tonight's wonderful (and kinky ha ha) meet - yes my first; I can now post on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always bemuses me that 'kinky' is nearly always related to BDSM when people use the term, whereas to my mind a kink can take on any number of forms that are nothing to do with BDSM at all - for instance sploshing is a kink and therefore kinky to some, likewise some people have a kink for balloons and the list goes on.

As others have said what is 'kinky' to one person will be 'normal' to another, in fact I'd go as far as to say there's no such thing as 'kinky' as a generic catch all term - however just about all of us have 'kinks' i.e. things we like or fantasise about as part of our sexual activities - for some that might be something generally considered 'normal' such as stockings and suspenders - for others it might be being tied up and spanked.

Sexuality is such an individual thing that I keep coming back to their being no such thing as 'kinky'."

Very well said. There is more to kink than D/S relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone asked me today, I didn’t know what to say, other than it’s a process of sexual behaviour that has been nominalised.

Don’t think it was the answer they were looking for personality...

What’s kinky mean to you?"

To me Kinky is experiencing or exposing to vulnerability. It is going to what scares most people and make it fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smearing Nuttela on a ladies butthole and licking it off

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

I thought i was kinky

A girl i was seeing asked me to lance the boil

Up her back passage with my teeth & to suck & spit out the gunk .

The 5th time she farted made me stop

Im no longer as kinky as i thought !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights left on during sex.

Or, on the balcony of the hotel room over looking the city.

One of them sounds kinkiest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"WELL iam very open minded what’s kinky to me is damn right dirty to others

Some people think a quick shag before kids get in from school is kinky I think it just a quick shag

Some think tied up spanking blindfold is

Some it’s role play

Some it’s swinging

It’s depends mine is watching others and joining in that to me is kinky "

Depends on the person...

Just like everything else ...

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By *mallcock43Man
over a year ago

blackpool

For me kinky is when the strap on come out of the kinky box. Water sports and the pin wheel. A shag is just a shag nothing kinky in that.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

For me kinky is deviating (in it's true sense) from the "norm", doing things that others wouldn't dream of or even be capable of thinking of!

My kinks constantly fluctuate, but remain on the whole shocking and really not what good girls do

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"For me kinky is deviating (in it's true sense) from the "norm", doing things that others wouldn't dream of or even be capable of thinking of!

My kinks constantly fluctuate, but remain on the whole shocking and really not what good girls do "

This

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