FabSwingers.com forum: Young Male Seeks Chance

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey Everyone, I am a 20 Year Old single male from Chepstow, and everytime I message a couple or female, I always get the same answer, and that is "too young"... I just want to know if there is anyone out there who would actually give me a chance.? Show me the ropes a bit. I have a fair bit of experience with couples and females, not from this site though, because i;ve never been given the oppurtunity.. so if there is anyone out there, please could you message me.

Take Care all.

Jay x x x

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

You've got 5 cpls on your friends list already and you've only been here a week. Thats not bad going. Chat to them and get to know them. Take it from there....

If you have a fair bit of experience with females and couples already you'll know how it works....

Good luck

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Feck I sound like an agony aunt....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i have been doing so, they are friends yes, but i am too young in there eyes to "swing" with them, just friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be patient honey - you will get meets. Many of us were on here for months before we met anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok slap me later . but

what the feck is a single nice looking guy doing on a swing site ?

At your age i was out and about and meeting , partying and doing all sorts.

Swinging never entered my mind or my social circle .

Now you strike me as a nice polite guy who is bound to have loads of mates who you can go party with and meet gals around the same age as yourself.

Have fun and play the field. etc

This life style is by no way easy. believe me and ive been in the scene around ten years.

Im not saying dont try but also be aware that alot of people wont play with people younger than their own kids etc. something incestuous about it.

And also want to meet those experienced in the etiquette of swinging.

I do wish you well hun but still reckon you should be off having fun with ya mates etc.

no you can slap me for saying all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no you can slap me for saying all that

He would, but you've just said he's too young to be playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oiiiii

didnt mean on the ass ya know

cuz i likes that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*makes mental note*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs is full of good looking single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh i know...........slurp

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"Ok slap me later . but

what the feck is a single nice looking guy doing on a swing site ?

..............."

Looking, like most of us, for a wee bit extra. Nobody uses Fab, or any other meet site, to supply their entire sex life - just to provide that little bit extra.

His profile could do with a bit of work and, as always, the 'cannot accommodate' is a bit of problem but, that aside, good luck to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh i wish all well with what they hope for .

probably cant accomodate as he still lives at home etc.

But jesus jim....

Would you have been on here at 20 ? i doubt it.

should be off sowing his wild oats etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be patient honey - you will get meets. Many of us were on here for months before we met anyone

Yeah.... Months

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

If you are desperate to find a chance as fast as possible, we seem to remember there is one between Park Lane and Liverpool Street Station.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"oh i wish all well with what they hope for .

probably cant accomodate as he still lives at home etc.

But jesus jim....

Would you have been on here at 20 ? i doubt it.

should be off sowing his wild oats etc "

Had Fab been around I don't see any reason why not. Like I said Fab isn't about providing anyone's entire sex life - it's about finding a wee bit extra from within a group of like-minded individuals (and couples). I'm sure 20 year olds still go to the pub or the jigging but that's a kinda hit and miss business. Everyone here (apart from the wind-up merchants) knows why we're here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why isnt he going out partying getting laid etc and on here instead? Because most single guys think its an easy way to get laid with minimal effort or usually no effort.

Having friends on your list means nothing, look at those women or couples with nearly a hundred on their list and tell me they are not simply collecting them?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What, just because I have an account on fabswingers doesn't mean that im not going out. Maybe you don't have a social life outside of your computers, but many people on here do, like myself. I use this site to meet people from all over, not just from my area, and I do go out on the weekends and enjoy myself. Doesn't mean I can't be a member does it. Or do we all have to be computer nerds with no life?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I have resisted asking how the sheep are.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep ur hair on young man..peaches was being nice ffs

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

You could have phrased that a bit more diplomatically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WELL

I was trying to be pleasant about all this and i can assure you im not a nerd and have a healthy social life apart from here.

I was just curious about bieng 20 and bieng a "swinger"

thats all....

I couldnt ever imagine myself at that age bieng on a site like this even if they existed then.

But if its your choice to be so then good luck with it.

Tho chip on shoulder or taking offence where none was meant , wont bide you well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's the be nice day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What, just because I have an account on fabswingers doesn't mean that im not going out. Maybe you don't have a social life outside of your computers, but many people on here do, like myself. I use this site to meet people from all over, not just from my area, and I do go out on the weekends and enjoy myself. Doesn't mean I can't be a member does it. Or do we all have to be computer nerds with no life?"
I totally agree with you - and I think it's a good idea for you to meet people from further afield, also the girls you go out with on the town are probably around your own age - you may want to meet older ladies and couples as well and you can do that on this site. Good luck to you I say - you're doing ok xx

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

WELL

I was trying to be pleasant about all this and i can assure you im not a nerd and have a healthy social life apart from here.

I was just curious about bieng 20 and bieng a "swinger"

thats all....

I couldnt ever imagine myself at that age bieng on a site like this even if they existed then.

But if its your choice to be so then good luck with it.

Tho chip on shoulder or taking offence where none was meant , wont bide you well.

In fairness it's more 'aspiring swinger' than swinger and it's a lot easier for a 20 year old lassie to get a shag than for a 20 year old guy -especially a 20 year old guy who can't accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from what i read, he's response wasnt aimed at one person, but collectively when people start jumping on the bandwagon.

now, i have never been one to moan about getting meets myself so i dont particularly agree with commenting about it in the forums. however, i don find it a tad patronising that a few of you are questioning the motives and the lifestyle.

i started fairly young too, and i was mature about the whole process and lifestyle so why cant he be?

like most of us, i suspect he is merely suplimenting he's own good social life with people looking for similar things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what if he can't accom? there are still lots of people on here who can and are looking for a nice young man to join them for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear ya but was just shocked thats all.

But i feel i wasnt slating him, merely asking .

If thats what he wants then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you were asking, but sadly others were a bit judgemental i think, which is strange on a swingers site i feel.

dianew- spot on with your replies, wish there were more like you.... and damn hot too

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"So what if he can't accom? there are still lots of people on here who can and are looking for a nice young man to join them for fun.

There's nothing intrinsically wrong with being unable to accommodate but 1) it does reduce the odds of finding fun and 2) attracts suspicion in some quarters. Fair? Probably not - but that's just how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks Chiperlo - nice bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry - Chopperlo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few women on here of a similar age, quite often with guys 30 years older. Saw one 20 year old who "had been swinging for 3 years now" which raised an eyebrow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry - Chopperlo

you can call me whatever you like xx

and thanks, quite a body you have too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Everyone, I am a 20 Year Old single male from Chepstow, and everytime I message a couple or female, I always get the same answer, and that is "too young"... I just want to know if there is anyone out there who would actually give me a chance.? Show me the ropes a bit. I have a fair bit of experience with couples and females, not from this site though, because i;ve never been given the oppurtunity.. so if there is anyone out there, please could you message me.

Take Care all.

Jay x x x"

id go back to the other site where u do get to meet people then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take Care all.

Jay x x x"

No age limit on feeling kinky Jay and wanting to indulge in your fantasies, some find it a little shocking that the young share the same feelings and thoughts as the older types is all.

Take no notice be honest and sincere and you will eventually find success

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

There's an awful lot of women/couples on here and any other site who won't swing with people who are around the same age or even younger than their own children.

We won't.

Some parents look at their own children and having brought them up, and knowing their foibles and their own immaturities....... they can still compare them to very young swingers and feel a pile of maternalism/paternalism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fully understand your points and partially agree with you but:

There seems to be a number of women able to ignore their mothering instincts at the moment, I'm certain you have seen the response tiger is enjoying at present - he is 24.

Makes one wonder how many would have a sudden change of mind given the opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take Care all.

Jay x x x"

Matey i have been swinging on and off since i was 17 (44 now)

Load easier now than back then persever and good luck too you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh i wish all well with what they hope for .

probably cant accomodate as he still lives at home etc.

But jesus jim....

Would you have been on here at 20 ? i doubt it.

should be off sowing his wild oats etc

Oh hell i feel like a right loser now because at present Fab IS supplying all the sex in my life!

I wont meet anyone around the age of my own son , it would feel wrong, plus it would make me feel old. I doubt there are many young women on here and maybe alot of peeps around my age feel the same about shagging younger guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he im a young guy 23 here and love to meet and i do have my own house, and i do go for a drink with mates and out round the clubs and that but fab is a much better place if u could sort a meet out it would be much better and ill be on here for a long time i think, alot of nice people just a shame wont give us younger guys a chance.

im sure if u give me a chance ud have a great time im mature for my age i get told but i donno im just a guy who likes sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mate even when you are in your 30s you will be still too young for some reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always preferred chat rooms etc as a way of meeting people from further afield, when I was younger too, mainly because in your local area you tend to be stuck with the same bunch of folks, either from work, or you have to go to a 'meat market' nightclub to meet anyone for sex -- that's straight forward sex with NSA. That's why I liked this sort of thing, not swingers sites per se but similar idea and I had tons of fun at 20 as will you if you give it a chance. Don't be impatient and you'll get plenty offers, there's loads of folks who like em younger. What's good about these kinds of sites is that (for the most part) people are less inhibited and much less judgmental, I find, anyway, and that's one of the biggest reasons I like them. I totally understand why you wanna swing, and good luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always preferred chat rooms etc as a way of meeting people from further afield, when I was younger too, mainly because in your local area you tend to be stuck with the same bunch of folks, either from work, or you have to go to a 'meat market' nightclub to meet anyone for sex -- that's straight forward sex with NSA. That's why I liked this sort of thing, not swingers sites per se but similar idea and I had tons of fun at 20 as will you if you give it a chance. Don't be impatient and you'll get plenty offers, there's loads of folks who like em younger. What's good about these kinds of sites is that (for the most part) people are less inhibited and much less judgmental, I find, anyway, and that's one of the biggest reasons I like them. I totally understand why you wanna swing, and good luck with it.

that was far too sensible for you, you must have been in work when posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

"Too young" doesn't always mean "too young"...:D

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