FabSwingers.com forum: Men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow, some men on here really are stupid/can't read what ever etc.

Now don't get me wrong i do meet men and have a few buddies on here and a few i wanna meet but the others well are just rude.

I was being hassled by a guy cause he didn't like my profile, so why is it that so many others do like my profile.

Well i can only think of insecurities on their behalf and that by hassling me they think they will make me change my profile and meet them, HOW SAD!

I am happy with my profile and the way it sounds, if someone doesn't like it then why do they have to waste my time and theirs in sending stupid messages.

I have the right to pick and choose what is on my profile and who i meet.

I have a loving fiancee that respects me and only wants me to be happy.

So to sum it up if you don't like my profile then move on and find someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nout wrong with your profile

if u get hassle from users

just block them

end of

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By *ocalMan
over a year ago

Manchester

nothing wrong with your profile at all, it doesn't tell a reader much about yourself, but i find it hard describing myself, but it does tell a reader the type of partner you are on the look out for, so nowt wrong with it.

if i person doesn't like your profile, then why would they waste there time responding to it? i don't get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is as rude as the people you condemn, you shout for most of it, I for one do not wish to be shouted at when I read someone's profile, it is bad manners and presumptive.

You say you want to meet specific people but also say that you won't meet anyone who messages you.

Your profile is for a single female yet you say you have a fiance, if you wish to gain respect lying is not a way to go about it, if you want people to respect what your profile says don't you think people want the truth, the people you seek may not want to meet someone who is in a relationship, especially women looking for a girlfriend like you are.

Your profile is confusing, at one point you say "NO MEN TO BE INVOLVED WHAT SO EVER." yet in the next paragraph you say "I WILL MEET MEN BUT I WILL LOOK AND ONLY WANT MESSAGES FROM MEN THAT I CONTACT" no wonder your getting messages from people who do not understand what your criteria is.

In a paragraph you are telling men what girth you want and that without that your not interested yet your also saying that you will block any men that contact you, how do you expect to find out thier girth if they will be blocked for messaging you.

Telling people they should not be fat and should go to the gym is rude.

It is obvious the only reason you get any mail at all is because some people are as rude as you are and don't read profiles.

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

SimplyJed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone seen my Bingo Dobber???

Mmm Mm Anyone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance... Its Sooooooo Ugly!

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

It's a bit blunt.

Very confusing.

You are yelling for most of it.

And it's very confusing (did I say that)

If you have a fiance, why are you wearing a wedding ring?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a bit blunt.

Very confusing.

You are yelling for most of it.

And it's very confusing (did I say that)

If you have a fiance, why are you wearing a wedding ring?

Maybe she's confused, lol hehehehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is rather annoying getting unwanted mail i agree with that but your prifle is rather confusing and i dont think its clear atall what you are looking for.....one one hand you say one thing then on the other hand you say something different. perhaps you need to reword the profile again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't it just be simpler to say what you want or are looking for. Rather than adding to this list of I don't wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really have to ask you a question - "Who do you think you are ?" Your profile comes over as arrogant and obnoxious - half of it being in block capitals which in itself it bad ettiquette and you have the nerve to condemn others.

Move on and stop moaning !!!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

To be honest it makes you seem confused and miserable ...i would of got to line 5 and eliminated you for all that confused shouting ......pics are ok tho

change your profile do yourself a favour ...

MR X

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Ive taken some stuff out of my profile as it made me look like a whinger and made no difference to messages anyway....but blimey girl yours takes the biscuit! if you read a profile like yours what would you think? and would you contact them at all?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

well I guess it worked because we all went and read the profile...hmmm

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Very negative profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone seen my Bingo Dobber???

Mmm Mm Anyone??."

Fussierpussy has just lost control of her bladder laughing !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well I guess it worked because we all went and read the profile...hmmm"

We did,.. but I would hate to have this many people read the profile and give such bad press to it,...we also agree, that it is a bad profile, and needs a lot of work to it to make it not only read well, but to also add a bit of warmth to it, make it less confusing, and make it so that people might want to meet the authors

S&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me me me lol....

Soooooooo Unattractive....

And as for the gym... feck me lol.. Hardly Perfection herself eh.. Cheeky or what lol... Pot and Kettle!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone seen my Bingo Dobber???

Mmm Mm Anyone??.

Fussierpussy has just lost control of her bladder laughing !!!!"

Ohhh you got it... Pmsl..

Sorry xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that just shagged look though...

Must be the rage when your dead fit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its called a FFG...freshly fucked glow lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the Wig??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its called a FFG...freshly fucked glow lol"

No ... not the fresh shaved with a breadknife thing.. The whole look..

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"And the Wig??"

Ouch miaow pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

top half has been worked well...needs more leg work

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the Wig??

Ouch miaow pmsl x"

Sorry... I'm only jealous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"top half has been worked well...needs more leg work

lol"

I'm sure she is just lovely to talk to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the Wig??

Ouch miaow pmsl x

Sorry... I'm only jealous x"

Nah your not, perfection has no need to be....god im a creep-arse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimy... No ones perfect.. and neither of us are lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am hahahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am hahahahahahahaha"

Yes but your a woman... your allowed to be xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct answer xxxxxx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't bothered to read the profile but trust esteemed colleagues especially those with sexy bingo wings lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still can't find My Bingo Dobber....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok got our rubber gloves on - prepare for your full cavity search young lady!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hidden well ....

Very well... could take some seeking out lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok just snapped our goggles on - as captain oates said "we may be some time"

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"Ok just snapped our goggles on - as captain oates said "we may be some time""

Don't forget ya snorkel........

Could be wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pleasantly moist..

Thats proper posh for mildly damp lol..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

have changed the way my profile is, not very hopeful of people reading it though and just messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's looking a lot better except for this bit .....

"If you do not meet my requirements then i will just delete any messages and will block you"

Why do you feel the need to be so stroppy - You're a young girl with a bad attiude !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

because if people can't be bothered to read my profile and still decided to message me then why should i have to put up with it. Fed up of the "hi sexy" or "the pics look nice" messages. sorry if you don't like it but thats the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so simple - you just ignore the message(s) ..... No need to make threats in your profile that you'll do this or do that - simply take a breath and ignore it, what on earth is the point of getting all wound up over what is nothing more than a few lines of text on a computer screen - ? As you get older (and hopefully wiser) you'll find out that there are far more important things in life to get all steamed up about ....

Take a tip from an old fart who knows a thing or 2

and who was even more hot headed than you are at 24 years of age.

Chill Out !!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

WOW, the first message i got since chaning my profile was from somebody who is 48, just proves why i changed my profile in the first places.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok that is simple but why should i waste my time in having to delete and block people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone gonna lock this thread then cos its not going anywhere..we all get ppl messaging us that atent suitable/not read our profiles but hey just ignore them ffs n CHILLLLLL! LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

will a mod please get rid of this thread seeing as though i am not supposed to have my own profile that sets out what i want and what i don't want. wow amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that not exactly what you say you are going to do in your profile ?????

Delete and Block ??

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"Ok that is simple but why should i waste my time in having to delete and block people."

We all get the single "I'm a halfwit so I'll do what I want" idiot male contacting us........

Are we moaning.........well..... yes, sometimes but we just get on with it.

You can block single males from contacting you...... do that.

If you get a straight couple contact you, just delete the sodding message.

If you get a bi fem couple contact you, have a look at the woman...... the bloke can be a munter and a half but you ain't gotta play with him.

We all go through periods of twats contacting us, so what, thats life.

Chill out, stop being so bleeding stroppy and get on with the issue in hand...... swinging.

Go to clubs and pick your prey.

FFS..... tis not worth raising your blood pressure over.

**And for my 2p worth......... your profile comes across as nasty and you come across as an arrogant cow...... thats not being nasty, I'm giving you constructive critisism - put up a profile like that and you will get numpty feckwits contacting you just to piss you off**

Swinging is meant to be fun........ so have some......... fun that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So let me get this right .....

You create a forum thread, bringing your profile into the fore - now so far as I am aware, no one forced you to do so, but now, because very few people, if any at all, agree with you, you want a mod to get rid of it ???

I think a certain 24yr old needs to grow up - quickly !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"will a mod please get rid of this thread seeing as though i am not supposed to have my own profile that sets out what i want and what i don't want. wow amazing."

Nobody is saying dont have your own profile, nobody is saying you have to word it in a certain way.

But your the one that is moaning, people here have tried to help you with advice, cruel as some of it may sound we have been honest, if you cannot take constructive criticism, don't go asking questions in the forums.

People think your profile is arrogant, your last post on here just re-affirms some peoples opinion, mine for sure.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

And the morale of the story? Don't post on a public forum if you only want people to agree with you or give you the answers you want to hear...it doesn't work like that.

I am finding it really boring the whole single male is odd/stupid/abusive etc.

We only ask for single males, and although sometimes some of them don't read our profile properly and mail us anyway, we have never had abusive mails from any of them.

Maybe in this world you only get what you give out, just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone seen my Bingo Dobber.... ff's would hate the kids to get hold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They make a mess with em you know....

Dob dob here... dob dob there.. here a dob there a dob everywhere a dob dob..

Nothing sacred...

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"And the morale of the story? Don't post on a public forum if you only want people to agree with you or give you the answers you want to hear...it doesn't work like that.

I am finding it really boring the whole single male is odd/stupid/abusive etc.

We only ask for single males, and although sometimes some of them don't read our profile properly and mail us anyway, we have never had abusive mails from any of them.

Maybe in this world you only get what you give out, just a thought.

HEAR HEAR .....i totally agree .all us single males are doing is what we are programmed to do ...and wouldnt it be crap if we were not there ...who else would people moan about ....yeah some are stupid ....yeah some are arrogant .....yeah some are so disapointed they kick off ...its easy ...hit the block button ....problem gone ...but dont hang there like a persecuted nun with a big un up her ......its a swing site !!! and a free one at that thank god .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LMAO I want to be a persecuted nun when I grow up ;0

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"LMAO I want to be a persecuted nun when I grow up ;0"

I think we are all well aware of what you want hun ...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile comes across as nasty and you come across as an arrogant cow...... thats not being nasty, I'm giving you constructive critisism "

In all honesty, I think the vast majority of people would consider calling somebody an arrogant cow is probably far nearer to being nasty than constructive criticsm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the morale of the story? Don't post on a public forum if you only want people to agree with you or give you the answers you want to hear...it doesn't work like that.

I am finding it really boring the whole single male is odd/stupid/abusive etc.

We only ask for single males, and although sometimes some of them don't read our profile properly and mail us anyway, we have never had abusive mails from any of them.

Maybe in this world you only get what you give out, just a thought.

Amen to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, you have a great profile hun, very yummy indeed. I wish i were closer

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

your profile comes across as nasty and you come across as an arrogant cow...... thats not being nasty, I'm giving you constructive critisism

In all honesty, I think the vast majority of people would consider calling somebody an arrogant cow is probably far nearer to being nasty than constructive criticsm."

And I think that those that pick up on little sections of my posts to 'have a pop' at me (and on FAB's previous forums), rather than answering back at the rest of the posts...... is akin to bullying.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

your profile comes across as nasty and you come across as an arrogant cow...... thats not being nasty, I'm giving you constructive critisism

In all honesty, I think the vast majority of people would consider calling somebody an arrogant cow is probably far nearer to being nasty than constructive criticsm.

And I think that those that pick up on little sections of my posts to 'have a pop' at me (and on FAB's previous forums), rather than answering back at the rest of the posts...... is akin to bullying."

i.e. "Arrogance... Its Sooooooo Ugly"

**EDIT button required**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets ALL respect others and not `bad mouth` anyone,..or I will start to delete posts

S&A

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Ok, whilst we're in the happy spirit of critiquing profiles/slagging onff single males, may I offer my profile as diversionary decoy?

"I haven't had a (new) meet off FabSwingers in some 18 months (if my memory or join date is right) and wondering what am doing wrong - the people I know are from other sites and I'll get verification up in a mo. PS: I try not to be rude and I always turn up."

Runs to corner and hides with crash helmet on whilst preparing for backlash.

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