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"My friend caught the herpes virus from the man she is having an affair with. No such thing as totally safe sex." It's called safer sex and oral sex comes into that category.. Incidentally quite a large portion of the sexually active population carry the herpes virus and don't even know.. | |||
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"My friend caught the herpes virus from the man she is having an affair with. No such thing as totally safe sex. It's called safer sex and oral sex comes into that category.. Incidentally quite a large portion of the sexually active population carry the herpes virus and don't even know.." Think that's rather obvious  | |||
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"My friend caught the herpes virus from the man she is having an affair with. No such thing as totally safe sex." Was this as a result of oral sex?? | |||
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"My friend caught the herpes virus from the man she is having an affair with. No such thing as totally safe sex. Was this as a result of oral sex?? " Yes it was. Him giving her oral. | |||
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"My friend caught the herpes virus from the man she is having an affair with. No such thing as totally safe sex. Was this as a result of oral sex?? Yes it was. Him giving her oral." A bit like getting cold sores from kissing? | |||
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"My friend caught the herpes virus from the man she is having an affair with. No such thing as totally safe sex. Was this as a result of oral sex?? Yes it was. Him giving her oral. A bit like getting cold sores from kissing? " Exactly | |||
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"Hi all wondering what the chances of catching a std from receiving oral off a women. Has anyone heard of this happening?" Interesting question. I've never heard of it but if she had gonnorhea in her throat would it be possible to pick it up that way? | |||
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"Only safe sex is condom for full sex and oral or no sex at all . "still not safe just safer lol. | |||
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"Only safe sex is condom for full sex and oral or no sex at all . "Sex with a condom isn't safe sex either - as the pregnancy rate with condoms demonstrate- it's just less risky than not using one The only safe sex is no sex - we're all taking a calculated risk being here - some choose to take a greater risk than others, some like to pretend they're not taking any risk to help them rationalise it but we all are | |||
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"Only safe sex is condom for full sex and oral or no sex at all .
Sex with a condom isn't safe sex either - as the pregnancy rate with condoms demonstrate- it's just less risky than not using one
Condom needs to be used at all times plus other method of birth control.condom needs to be fitted correctly and if it comes off during sex ,need to get checked .
The only safe sex is no sex - we're all taking a calculated risk being here - some choose to take a greater risk than others, some like to pretend they're not taking any risk to help them rationalise it but we all are " | |||
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"Only safe sex is condom for full sex and oral or no sex at all .
Sex with a condom isn't safe sex either - as the pregnancy rate with condoms demonstrate- it's just less risky than not using one
The only safe sex is no sex - we're all taking a calculated risk being here - some choose to take a greater risk than others, some like to pretend they're not taking any risk to help them rationalise it but we all are "this . | |||
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"That is why it is recommended that you use mouth wash before and after oral sex. Brushing teeth can bleeding gums, obviously this is an open wound and leaves you more susceptible to infection... Saliva does have a certain amount of anti bacterial properties which will help with some but not all infections..." Very sensible advice. I love cock sucking and swallowing cum yet have never had an oral infection. Always use Corsodyl mouthwash before and after a meet. | |||
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"That is why it is recommended that you use mouth wash before and after oral sex. Brushing teeth can bleeding gums, obviously this is an open wound and leaves you more susceptible to infection... Saliva does have a certain amount of anti bacterial properties which will help with some but not all infections... Very sensible advice. I love cock sucking and swallowing cum yet have never had an oral infection. Always use Corsodyl mouthwash before and after a meet. "If it worked for sexually transmitted diseases nhs would give it free with condoms | |||
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"Only prevention is no oral or use condom or dam. "yeah but not sure many would use either. I know I certainly wouldn't. The risk is low enough for me to take. But I dont often take cum in my mouth.. Cali | |||
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"Only prevention is no oral or use condom or dam. yeah but not sure many would use either. I know I certainly wouldn't.
The risk is low enough for me to take. But I dont often take cum in my mouth..
Depends who's cock you have sucked and where it has been .if he's had lots the risk is higher .Risk is always there .unless condom used for oral.
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"Only prevention is no oral or use condom or dam. yeah but not sure many would use either. I know I certainly wouldn't.
The risk is low enough for me to take. But I dont often take cum in my mouth..
Depends who's cock you have sucked and where it has been .if he's had lots the risk is higher .Risk is always there .unless condom used for oral.
Cali "id rather not use a condom for oral. It would be awful and ruin it for me. | |||
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"Only prevention is no oral or use condom or dam. yeah but not sure many would use either. I know I certainly wouldn't.
The risk is low enough for me to take. But I dont often take cum in my mouth..
Depends who's cock you have sucked and where it has been .if he's had lots the risk is higher .Risk is always there .unless condom used for oral.
Cali id rather not use a condom for oral. It would be awful and ruin it for me."This is why people don't use them.It puts me off oral .I don't suck cock because of this .unless of course married or in a relationship .wouldn't do oral with anyone on a swingers site | |||
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"Only prevention is no oral or use condom or dam. yeah but not sure many would use either. I know I certainly wouldn't.
The risk is low enough for me to take. But I dont often take cum in my mouth..
Depends who's cock you have sucked and where it has been .if he's had lots the risk is higher .Risk is always there .unless condom used for oral.
Cali id rather not use a condom for oral. It would be awful and ruin it for me.
This is why people don't use them.It puts me off oral .I don't suck cock because of this .unless of course married or in a relationship .wouldn't do oral with anyone on a swingers site "its such a small risk though. Been having multiple cocks in my mouth for almost 2 decades and not caught a thing. Its the bit I enjoy most.. so not going to ruin it by making them wear a condom. I'd rather become a nun. | |||
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"Only prevention is no oral or use condom or dam. yeah but not sure many would use either. I know I certainly wouldn't.
The risk is low enough for me to take. But I dont often take cum in my mouth..
Depends who's cock you have sucked and where it has been .if he's had lots the risk is higher .Risk is always there .unless condom used for oral.
Cali id rather not use a condom for oral. It would be awful and ruin it for me.
This is why people don't use them.It puts me off oral .I don't suck cock because of this .unless of course married or in a relationship .wouldn't do oral with anyone on a swingers site its such a small risk though. Been having multiple cocks in my mouth for almost 2 decades and not caught a thing. Its the bit I enjoy most.. so not going to ruin it by making them wear a condom. I'd rather become a nun. "Only takes one dirty penis  I over think and I'm put off sex .can't take a risk as I would be thinking is it clean .lol so I don't bother unless I'm in a relationship and he's been tested . | |||
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"Condom for oral ruins it for all parties involved. You can't catch anything particularly bad from oral except if someone has a coldsores and goes down on you then they can give you proper herpes" You can catch by oral if very active .risk is small for those not too active but increases with more oral sex you have with different partners .Only safe is with condom or no sex . | |||
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"According to the clinic. It is far easier for a woman to catch something than it is for a man in oral situations. While not totally safe a man being given oral is less likely to be infected. . There are sites with all the risk factors given. For the woman the risk increases if she takes cum in her mouth. " | |||
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" Only takes one dirty penis I over think and I'm put off sex .can't take a risk as I would be thinking is it clean .lol so I don't bother unless I'm in a relationship and he's been tested ."It does only take one but we make our own risk assessments. Some will have everything unprotected.. Some only oral.. Some every thing.. At one point it wasn't unheard of for me to do multiple gangbangs a week... always without for oral.. and I just got myself tested every 4 to 6 weeks. My greatest pleasure with other men is giving oral sex and getting covered... And so therefore it would ruin it for me. And I look at it that the risk is very small one considering my above average. Mr wouldn't go down on a lady with a dental dam either. Not would I let a guy use one on me. It's about risks we are happy to take. You have chosen to take a lesser risk.. .. | |||
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" Only takes one dirty penis I over think and I'm put off sex .can't take a risk as I would be thinking is it clean .lol so I don't bother unless I'm in a relationship and he's been tested .
It does only take one but we make our own risk assessments. Some will have everything unprotected.. Some only oral.. Some every thing..
At one point it wasn't unheard of for me to do multiple gangbangs a week... always without for oral.. and I just got myself tested every 4 to 6 weeks.
My greatest pleasure with other men is giving oral sex and getting covered... And so therefore it would ruin it for me. And I look at it that the risk is very small one considering my above average.
Mr wouldn't go down on a lady with a dental dam either. Not would I let a guy use one on me.
It's about risks we are happy to take. You have chosen to take a lesser risk.. .."It's different choices people make .Some will regret there choice but will be there choice and there problem .id rather not have a problem and take the choice of not risking any sexual problems .Some pics on fab do make me worry .But everyone of us are different and want different sex .I look boring too some but I can't help it .  | |||
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"Oral with a condom only makes it safer same as penetrative sex... if your having multiple partners the risk is still there. But We all make choices.. mine is to do what I enjoy. Which is without x I genuinely couldn't enjoy it with a condom." Might if condom covered in chocolate spread .I might try it out . | |||
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"Oral with a condom only makes it safer same as penetrative sex... if your having multiple partners the risk is still there. But We all make choices.. mine is to do what I enjoy. Which is without x I genuinely couldn't enjoy it with a condom. Might if condom covered in chocolate spread .I might try it out . " i can't remember what the vomit icon is lol
But We have got away from the op
I dont think men realise that the woman is always at more risk and how hard it is for a woman to pass anything on via oral. | |||
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"Oral with a condom only makes it safer same as penetrative sex... if your having multiple partners the risk is still there. But We all make choices.. mine is to do what I enjoy. Which is without x I genuinely couldn't enjoy it with a condom. Might if condom covered in chocolate spread .I might try it out . i can't remember what the vomit icon is lol
But We have got away from the op
I dont think men realise that the woman is always at more risk and how hard it is for a woman to pass anything on via oral. "The women can though if she has it in her throat and next man she does oral on it will be passed . | |||
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"Oral with a condom only makes it safer same as penetrative sex... if your having multiple partners the risk is still there. But We all make choices.. mine is to do what I enjoy. Which is without x I genuinely couldn't enjoy it with a condom. Might if condom covered in chocolate spread .I might try it out . i can't remember what the vomit icon is lol
But We have got away from the op
I dont think men realise that the woman is always at more risk and how hard it is for a woman to pass anything on via oral.
The women can though if she has it in her throat and next man she does oral on it will be passed ."not necessarily... according to the clinic its not guarenteed that she would pass it on. And there is lesser risk of the man catching it than if the man has something and passing it on to the woman. | |||
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"Oral with a condom only makes it safer same as penetrative sex... if your having multiple partners the risk is still there. But We all make choices.. mine is to do what I enjoy. Which is without x I genuinely couldn't enjoy it with a condom. Might if condom covered in chocolate spread .I might try it out . i can't remember what the vomit icon is lol
But We have got away from the op
I dont think men realise that the woman is always at more risk and how hard it is for a woman to pass anything on via oral.
The women can though if she has it in her throat and next man she does oral on it will be passed . not necessarily... according to the clinic its not guarenteed that she would pass it on. And there is lesser risk of the man catching it than if the man has something and passing it on to the woman.
"still risky though for ones who have alot of people they perform oral on with no protection .any clinic will tell you condom for all sex that's oral ,vaginal and anal . | |||
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" still risky though for ones who have alot of people they perform oral on with no protection .any clinic will tell you condom for all sex that's oral ,vaginal and anal ." They don't tell me for oral anymore as they know I dont/wont.... I think we definitely count as lots of people.. when we first met it wasn't uncommon for us both to have had double figures orally in a week... And for me at least id had multiple guys most weeks for a very long time. It's only since being with lee ive stopped a lot because it reflected badly on us as a couple... even though we were both doing group meets. I know the risk.. And after lots of chats with the clinic staff.. Im happy to do oral without.. And sometimes that has been lots of guys in one session. But never ever caught anything. I just get checked | |||
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"What I don't understand is why the HPV vaccine isn't available on the NHS to everyone... I heard you have to pay something like £450 to be vaccinated. I also heard that the HPV vaccine has only just been introduced and offered/compulsory/free for teenage girls at school for. However, if boys or any adults want the vaccine, they have to pay for it... The NHS system is a bit messed up by only doing half the job, instead of vaccinating everyone....... " HPV virus is also a pathogen for oral cancers - which can and do, kill. Just lost my gf to mouth cancer this year - many years of swinging before we met caught up and killed her in 6 months ?? | |||
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"Always best to be safe than sorry . "Totaly agree with all your comments above! As much as I would love to get intimately familiar with many of the gorgeous ladies and couples on here on a NSA basis, the risks arent worth it to me... so its strictly serial monogomy or polly relationships for me... and condoms until all parties tested. .. I would love to hear a woman's perspective on dental dams..... ha anyone had one used on them and what does it add, detract from the experience? | |||
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"That is why it is recommended that you use mouth wash before and after oral sex. Brushing teeth can bleeding gums, obviously this is an open wound and leaves you more susceptible to infection... Saliva does have a certain amount of anti bacterial properties which will help with some but not all infections... Very sensible advice. I love cock sucking and swallowing cum yet have never had an oral infection. Always use Corsodyl mouthwash before and after a meet.
If it worked for sexually transmitted diseases nhs would give it free with condoms "N.I.C.E. decide what the NHS gives out and oral STIs are so low risk and impact on their priority list they don't see any reason to approve it. Especially as people can get free condoms and can buy their own medicated mouthwash. This lets the NHS focus on those who drink, smoke, engage in dangerous sports and eat the wrong foods ..... because they are far more likely to need medical help than bareback cock suckers.  | |||
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"Hi all wondering what the chances of catching a std from receiving oral off a women. Has anyone heard of this happening?" its high ...........dont do it ...........save your tongues  | |||
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"That is why it is recommended that you use mouth wash before and after oral sex. Brushing teeth can bleeding gums, obviously this is an open wound and leaves you more susceptible to infection... Saliva does have a certain amount of anti bacterial properties which will help with some but not all infections... Very sensible advice. I love cock sucking and swallowing cum yet have never had an oral infection. Always use Corsodyl mouthwash before and after a meet.
If it worked for sexually transmitted diseases nhs would give it free with condoms "Would they? Oh so it does not work then? Silly me. Can i get a free crash helmet from the NHS??? It is far more dangerous to ride a motorbike than have sex.. Or perhaps they dont give them out because they don't work?? | |||
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