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"Probably best not to call them Cougars for a start. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I just wondered if and guys or girls had any tips to find women looking for a younger man?" Tidy your room and have better posture. Something to start with | |||
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"I'm looking for a naughty older lady for me to be their cub too but having absolutely no luck around co.Durham area ![]() If only you lived nearer x | |||
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"I just wondered if and guys or girls had any tips to find women looking for a younger man? Tidy your room and have better posture. Something to start with " This made me lol | |||
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"I've had quite a few social dates with older women but that was from a dating site I have no problems with that part of it but I'm on here and wanting to be a cougar and cub relationship " I dont mean social dates, i mean social nights. Nights organised by fabbers where we would all meet up in a group for a few drinks and a good night. ![]() | |||
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"I've had quite a few social dates with older women but that was from a dating site I have no problems with that part of it but I'm on here and wanting to be a cougar and cub relationship I dont mean social dates, i mean social nights. Nights organised by fabbers where we would all meet up in a group for a few drinks and a good night. ![]() Yeah that's what I mean I have no trouble having social dates it's social nights with mutual minded older women (or groups) I'm struggling with mate | |||
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"I just wondered if and guys or girls had any tips to find women looking for a younger man? Tidy your room and have better posture. Something to start with This made me lol " Thank you x | |||
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"I just wondered if and guys or girls had any tips to find women looking for a younger man? Tidy your room and have better posture. Something to start with This made me lol " Me too lol | |||
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"Its tough, but you're gonna have to keep your eye on the forums for any nights like that advertised, or possibly try and organise your own. If you can drive maybe make the extra effort to get out to socials that are a little further than usual. But again, a lot of it boios down to luck and patience. Theres a plethora of men that they can choose from, so do what you can to stand out from the crowd and make them choose you. " The closest big city to me is Darlington I can get there no worries but with me not driving I think that tends to put people off I may be wrong but sometimes from other experiences of chatting its got to that part about not driving and then they vanish lol..but I will do more looking for social events and I don't expect any woman to just drop everything for me or fulfil my fantasy as the connection and mutual feelings have to be respected but fingers crossed there are some like minded ladies out there hopefully I can catch their attention ![]() | |||
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"sit in a tree and dangle some meat on a piece of rope.... ![]() ![]() Very observant ![]() | |||
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"sit in a tree and dangle some meat on a piece of rope.... ![]() ![]() ![]() Always! ![]() | |||
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"Well I've learnt one thing from this thread 1. Don't use the term cougar ![]() Some women like it otherwise the term wouldn't be readily used. If I was you though don't call a woman one unless she calls herself one. | |||
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"The cougar (Puma concolor), also commonly known as the mountain lion, puma, panther, or catamount, is a large felid of the subfamily Felinae native to the Americas. Its range, from the Canadian Yukon to the southern Andes of South America, is the greatest of any large wild terrestrial mammal in the Western Hemisphere. [according to wiki] Try there" Was going to suggest he tries searching in the mountains! | |||
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"The cougar (Puma concolor), also commonly known as the mountain lion, puma, panther, or catamount, is a large felid of the subfamily Felinae native to the Americas. Its range, from the Canadian Yukon to the southern Andes of South America, is the greatest of any large wild terrestrial mammal in the Western Hemisphere. [according to wiki] Try there Was going to suggest he tries searching in the mountains!" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well I've learnt one thing from this thread 1. Don't use the term cougar ![]() Yeah I guess I just never really knew how many women were adverse to it! I just didn't see the negative connotations that are there | |||
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"Well I've learnt one thing from this thread 1. Don't use the term cougar ![]() Fair play, at least you do now ![]() | |||
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"Naughty older women, I think that's always a better way to put it ![]() Even though I've got cougar in my name, naughty older woman is better gives it more panache ![]() | |||
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"I have my favourite bars I like to go to, where I can pull woman from the 'cougar range' lol. Taylor your search settings to a particular age group you find attractive, you will find what your looking for. However, don't forget to send a clear face pic and articulate yourself. Woman on here are bombarded with cock shots so be different ![]() Hear, fucking hear! | |||
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"I have my favourite bars I like to go to, where I can pull woman from the 'cougar range' lol. Taylor your search settings to a particular age group you find attractive, you will find what your looking for. However, don't forget to send a clear face pic and articulate yourself. Woman on here are bombarded with cock shots so be different ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I just wondered if and guys or girls had any tips to find women looking for a younger man?" Have thought about a safari, maybe?! ![]() | |||
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"I just wondered if and guys or girls had any tips to find women looking for a younger man? Have thought about a safari, maybe?! ![]() Actually made me laugh out loud ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() Temptress ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() I can but try lol ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() . Mmmm very insatiable older woman ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() If I was ever to go to a club it would be eureka then, but only because the hostess is hot ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Looking rather hot yourself my friend ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Me too would love a cougar/cub event near me | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() Am hoping to be able to make Jaydees! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha, I wish ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Will be a great night and a cougars birthday too ! X | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I shall give you a gold star ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Fair enough, can I have two I'm greedy ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() What about admiring, drooling and playing at the same time ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ok maybe 2 gold stars for you haha | |||
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"I've been on and off this site for a fair few years now and every single woman I've been fortunate enough to encounter and have fun with, has been older than me. A good majority of them a few decades ahead. I'm attracted to and find myself constantly veering towards older women, for whatever reason. However, I never once tried to seek out a 'cougar'. I find fab very "label-intensive"; everyone's seeking out a 'BBC / cougar / milf / toyboy'. And if they are, fair enough, everyone's entitled to their own preferences. This is just my penny's worth here, but I'd say seek out someone you could actually enjoy spending time with. If, when you carry out your search, narrow it down to a certain age range, fantastic. But like people have surely mentioned above, just because someone is - taking this thread as an example - of a certain age, it doesn't necessarily mean they will fit into that same category. If you find someone who has a nice profile, you would be attracted to and you fit into their preferences, then send them a personalised message. You stand a significantly higher chance of getting a reply this way. I've worked it out the hard way. When I joined I was young, stupid, horny and too keen. Now I'm just slightly older! Haha. But in all seriousness, fab is filled with so many people, but a lot of people lose the personal touch by thinking of people as 'profiles'. I realise I've probably ranted on waaaay too much and should have stopped about 10minutes ago, but I very rarely post in the forums, so fuck it I'm going hard! Please don't take this in a patronising or negative way, I'm just here to input my opinion and experience. Hope you find a suitable match OP. " Thank you mate, tbh these were the responses I was kinda hoping for! | |||
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"Its tough, but you're gonna have to keep your eye on the forums for any nights like that advertised, or possibly try and organise your own. If you can drive maybe make the extra effort to get out to socials that are a little further than usual. But again, a lot of it boios down to luck and patience. Theres a plethora of men that they can choose from, so do what you can to stand out from the crowd and make them choose you. The closest big city to me is Darlington I can get there no worries but with me not driving I think that tends to put people off I may be wrong but sometimes from other experiences of chatting its got to that part about not driving and then they vanish lol..but I will do more looking for social events and I don't expect any woman to just drop everything for me or fulfil my fantasy as the connection and mutual feelings have to be respected but fingers crossed there are some like minded ladies out there hopefully I can catch their attention ![]() Darlington a big city? You do have problems with perception! It was a large town when I worked there. Try a local grab-a-ganny night at a local pub..... | |||
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"Its tough, but you're gonna have to keep your eye on the forums for any nights like that advertised, or possibly try and organise your own. If you can drive maybe make the extra effort to get out to socials that are a little further than usual. But again, a lot of it boios down to luck and patience. Theres a plethora of men that they can choose from, so do what you can to stand out from the crowd and make them choose you. The closest big city to me is Darlington I can get there no worries but with me not driving I think that tends to put people off I may be wrong but sometimes from other experiences of chatting its got to that part about not driving and then they vanish lol..but I will do more looking for social events and I don't expect any woman to just drop everything for me or fulfil my fantasy as the connection and mutual feelings have to be respected but fingers crossed there are some like minded ladies out there hopefully I can catch their attention ![]() Yeah true I'd say large town instead haha and if I lived in darlo I think I'd have more luck | |||
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"Naughty older women, I think that's always a better way to put it ![]() ![]() Why do you have to call me anything that relates to my age :/ I don't go round calling guys young /middle aged/ an bit wrinkly : ![]() | |||
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"In a zoo or South America in the wild ![]() Cougars live in north america but thanks for trying | |||
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"I am an accidental cougar...my first, and the majority of my younger lovers, sought me out...have only messaged a few first... never thought younger guys would ever be interested tbh...now I am hooked ![]() ![]() you joking. Why wouldnt anyone want you. You are very sexy x | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() Will you be there? ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm the host making sure everyone has a fantastic time ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() How very thoughtful of you. I couldn't resist a private message to you ![]() | |||
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"Come along to Eurekacougarsandcubs ... twice monthly at Eureka and also on tour at Jaydee's and Amours in Manchester ... lots of lovely ladies in their prime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Just seen your PM have replied to you ![]() | |||
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