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By *ymrocru OP   Man
over a year ago

penygroes

What do you two?

Do you insert and leave for hours? All day? Or just for a hour or so when having fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tends to be just a hour or 2 before and while having fun

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Just an hour or so while playing really, whether playing solo or a meet. They tend to irritate a little if I leave them in too long.

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By *n2cplCouple
over a year ago

swindon

Mr loves his plugs but needs to find a better one that stays put !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use three sizes in the build up with my fuck buddy, going from small to the largest during extended foreplay. She's then ready to take me in her bum comfortably and with ease. I also plug her with a medium one afterwards to stop the cum leaking out if we're going for a post coital drink lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes there great for building up for anal

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By *aren1956TV/TS
over a year ago

Fakenham

A couple of hours does me. Thinking of moving on to a remote control butt plug.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"A couple of hours does me. Thinking of moving on to a remote control butt plug."

I have a Lovense Hush remote control plug and can really recommend them with various options for remote control either locally or apparently over longer distances although I haven't tried the later.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

As far as how long I wear a plug for it depends on what I'm trying to achieve, I have some plugs which are only used directly during play. I do, however, have some plugs which are used for longer sessions, these tend to have broad necks and are designed for stretching.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I love my plug collection, recently wore one going through airport security. Felt very naughty!

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford

I tend to use for no more an hour, love it flicked with finger (like subunit) while in place, sends vibration through you. After an bout I tend to cum, which the intensity of which is heighten with but plug in. Alternatively I take out and get pegged or ....

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By *ymrocru OP   Man
over a year ago

penygroes

I'd love to see your collection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally just for play time. However Sienna was plugged whilst making dinner a few days ago and was soaking.

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By *ymrocru OP   Man
over a year ago

penygroes

OK so a couple of hours tops. You don't recommend I go out for the evening wearing one then. ???

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I got a vibrating one very nice but a bit too big I should have got a size smaller.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"OK so a couple of hours tops. You don't recommend I go out for the evening wearing one then. ???"

I know a lot of fetishist folk who were anal stretching rings for a lot longer than that but this is quiet often linked with incontenence play, where the goal is to use a plug with a wide neck so that the sphincter muscles get adjusted to being more open.

With narrower necked plugs this shouldn't happen and I think the main issue would be keeping it lubricated so that you can sensibly extract it afterwards.

The section below was copied from the sheppardexprees website:


"There is a general consensus among sexuality educators that wearing a plug for 10-12 hours should cause no harm, as long as the user follows the general rules of anal play: Use lubricant, go slow and pay attention to your body's signals. If you are interested in wearing a plug for hours at a time, it's best to work up to this by gradually leaving the plug in place for longer and longer periods each time you wear it—don't try to go for 10 hours on the first attempt. Also, if you are experiencing pain or discomfort, remove the plug, even if it means that you don't reach your goal.

It's always important to use lube during anal play, but this is even more important when wearing a plug for a long period of time. Water-based lubricants will eventually dry up or be absorbed by the body and should be reapplied to prevent discomfort and chafing from the plug. Silicone lubricants will stay slippery longer, but can't be used with silicone toys, and I definitely would NOT recommend anything but silicone, glass or metal for extended anal wear, since toys not made from these materials can contain toxic chemicals that could cause irritation if they're in contact with your skin for a long period of time.

The type of plug you choose will also affect your comfort and thus your ability to wear it for extended periods of time. Plugs with a base that fits comfortably between your cheeks will be easy to wear while sitting, standing or walking, and plugs with a narrower neck and thicker top will be easier for your body to keep inside. You may need to experiment with a few different types to see which one is most comfortable for you.

Finally, be prepared for unexpected interruptions. Inserting a butt plug can cause peristalsis, which is the reflexive muscle action that moves matter through the digestive tract. In other words, you may need to poop, and you may need to poop suddenly. Think ahead about bathroom access if you'll be wearing a plug while out and about. Also, even though you've been able to wear a plug for four hours on one occasion does not mean that you'll always be able to do this with comfort. Take a plastic resealable baggie with you in case you need to remove the plug while away from home, and don't worry that you've "failed" somehow—sometimes our bodies can't do everything we want them to do."

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Bit of both.

Sometimes leave them into to go shopping, sometimes leave them in for fun, sometimes as a way open myself up for fun later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask why people leave them in when they're going about their daily business? Does it feel that good?

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By *ymrocru OP   Man
over a year ago

penygroes

They feel good always.

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