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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it put you off when people message you with gushing compliments and enthusiasm to shag you , who state on thier own profile that they they only wish to meet people in the say 18 - 35 age bracket and we are 39, 40 and 50 ?

Or is it just us ?

Happy Xmas all

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I have a preference but my profile says it's not set in stone - just the law of averages. Doesn't bother me if I'm outside of someone's range but they have wanted to contact me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That doesn't happen to me but I did have people who were blocking 'all' single males contact me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It doesn't put us off. If they have similar preferences to us and fall within our age limits we will consider striking up a conversation.

It's only sex

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

louth

We have no age preferance only over 18 to 99 and still drawing breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off when people message you with gushing compliments and enthusiasm to shag you , who state on thier own profile that they they only wish to meet people in the say 18 - 35 age bracket and we are 39, 40 and 50 ?

Or is it just us ?

Happy Xmas all

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You guys have a somewhat unique profile . 2 women , one guy , and that alone will attract so many people who won't even consider the age of you all .

Maybe you could say in your profile that you aren't wanting messages from those who say they are looking for younger people ?

I am guessing you think that some just want to meet because of the two women one man thing , rather than each of you on your individual merits ?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We've played with people in clubs , they and us have had a great time. Then after looking on their profile we have been over their preffered age range.

Surely it's a compliment? We raised our preffered range after realising we had done a similar thing.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Does it put you off when people message you with gushing compliments and enthusiasm to shag you , who state on thier own profile that they they only wish to meet people in the say 18 - 35 age bracket and we are 39, 40 and 50 ?

Or is it just us ?

Happy Xmas all

"

It doesn't necessarily put me off - I guess it depends if the message seems genuinely well thought out and personal to you, or if it's more of a generic chancing their arm and anyone will do sort of thing. The former can obviously be quite complimentary if you're outside their max age preference, the latter would go in the bin before you even consider age ranges.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it put you off when people message you with gushing compliments and enthusiasm to shag you , who state on thier own profile that they they only wish to meet people in the say 18 - 35 age bracket and we are 39, 40 and 50 ?

Or is it just us ?

Happy Xmas all

You guys have a somewhat unique profile . 2 women , one guy , and that alone will attract so many people who won't even consider the age of you all .

Maybe you could say in your profile that you aren't wanting messages from those who say they are looking for younger people ?

I am guessing you think that some just want to meet because of the two women one man thing , rather than each of you on your individual merits ?

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That's a very good idea . Thanks x

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

As a rule, if someone contacted me outside my stated preferred age range it wouldn't put me off.

If, however they were much under 30, that would be too young for me..drifting far too close to daughters' age!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

A preference is just a preference- it isn't necessarily exclusive. I prefer MMMF to MMF, but wouldn't say no to an MMF!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off when people message you with gushing compliments and enthusiasm to shag you , who state on thier own profile that they they only wish to meet people in the say 18 - 35 age bracket and we are 39, 40 and 50 ?

Or is it just us ?

Happy Xmas all

"

I would just take it as a compliment. You obviously don't look your age..

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